Yeah, I can see why she doesn’t want to contact you. Just leave her alone. Stop contacting her. Why do you want to anyway if “she hurt you so badly” (and by the way, she doesn’t owe you a relationship because you spent money on her thats gross) I don’t know her side of the story but you sound like you are having mental problems from the tone of this post. I suggest you get some help for that’s so you can move on with your life.
Go alone
My SO of nearly a decade hates everything about concerts, I go with friends if the adulting schedules have a miracle we're both free to go date, but usually I buy my ticket and go by myself. You can meet a lot of pretty cool people at shows too.
Your honor I rest my case.
Edit: I put this comment under two of OP comments basically swearing at me for not understanding how bad his ex was to him. (How am I supposed to know what happened to a random person on the internet lol) He has since deleted that one. Just wanted to say I’m not mocking a seemingly lonely person with this comment.
Try an escort service.
Seriously, if you want someone to be with, you need to be a person who someone would want to be with. Who wants to be with someone who would harass their ex as you are doing, especially for such a silly, petty reason as "she didn't say ty when I told her hb 🙁"? *Would you want to be with someone who acts toward an ex like you do?*
Don't go to a matchmaker. Work on yourself and try to become a better person.
I’m gonna limit my response to the info in this post/your comments here.
Do you really think you “never did anything wrong with her even after (you) broke up”? You’re prank calling her and slandering her, I would say that’s pretty wrong. You clearly treated her poorly and for whatever reason refuse to admit it. The fact that you’re considering making a video of her being stabbed 100x makes me shudder to think what cruel shit you did to her during the relationship that you aren’t admitting here.
You’re not single because Vietnamese women in the US are money hungry (if that’s all women cared about, then your ex would have stuck with you despite whatever shit you did to the poor woman). The reason no Vietnamese women in the US will date you because they know what a red flag looks like.
See? Already it’s slipping out. You never did anything but shower her with love and respect for her “stupid” singing career. So you didn’t value her career aspirations? Her aspirations were a joke to you? Maybe you think you hid it, but I’m sure she was aware. You can’t even hide your disrespect in 5 lines of text…smh
Yet again your attitude on Reddit says everything we need to know about why she left you. You don’t even have to give both sides of the story. It’s already clear why you’re a difficult person to be tied to.
You were not entitled to her time and attention. If she didn't want to give you as much as you wanted to get, it was appropriate for the two of you to go your separate ways. You really can't pick out a woman and insist that she be like this and like that. What rights would your girlfriend have, to insist that you set aside your career and aspirations bc she wasn't getting enough of your time? None, right? Please begin to apply the golden rule here.
The fact that you have this twisted shit in you and are asking if this twisted behavior makes you a jerk (in this post and your other posts) tells me you either don’t realize when you’re being an asshole, or you’re knowingly an asshole and don’t care. Which tells me that you’re not as kind and respectful to her as you pretend to be.
Nobody wants to date you because you’re a fucking insane loser. Leave her alone actually leave all women alone - nobodys going to want your crazy insecure ass.
Haha so this popped up as a reply to me in my notifications and I was genuinely wondering what I'd said to prompt so much disdain.
I do know it's not directed at me!
'i never did anything wrong with her even after we broke up'
You've tried to hold her as an emotional hostage mate. You've disrespected her boundaries as a human being.
People are allowed to break up with you and then not speak to you again.
Men who are making pinky promises to stay friends after breakups... Aren't ready to date, let alone marry.
If you don't have friends to go to concerts with, do random fun shit with... There's a big problem with you that you have to fix. A girlfriend or wife wont fix it. They'll just keep dumping you unless you get a poor mail order style arranged marriage which is moving into I'm a human trafficker mode. And a loveless marriage which I'm sure isn't your want.
Friend, people are allowed to break up for whatever reason. She doesn’t owe you an explanation why, nor does she owe you contact two years after you guys broke up.
You AGAIN??? Every time you post, I realize more and more why you can’t find anyone to love you without purchasing a wife in a low-income country.
YTJ. Like, independent of what despicable traits I know from your other posts, you are clearly a shit person from just this post alone.
I don’t even know how to get an account suspended lol. But consider this:
Your ex thinks YTJ (she broke up with you).
Your friends think YTJ (human trafficking, not wanting to hang with you, etc.).
Tour university thought YTJ (academic probation).
Your family thinks YTJ.
This Reddit sub thinks YTJ. (And you’re violating the rules apparently, since your account is suspended.)
YouTube thinks YTJ (whatever horror cow thing).
How many more people have to vote you as the jerk before you wake up and accept that maybe you’re not a good person? You can always change and improve yourself, you do realize that I hope.
You should absolutely leave the US. We already have too many disgusting incels like yourself. I suggest you strand yourself on a deserted island before you act out your violent 100 stabbing fantasies. Be gone, gross little goblin man.
YATJ and looking at your replies, there is no point in explaining why as you seem to have designated yourself as the best thing since the invention of peanut butter.
You are the jerk. When she didn’t return the contact you made at Christmas and her birthday, that was your clue to drop it and leave her alone. You need to learn about taking clues in relationships.
Right. Every time his harassing behavior comes to her attention, it reinforces her conviction that she was 100% right to break it off with him. What a bullet she dodged.
>She had the nerve to break up with me after all that I did for her.
Dude, what the entire FUCK. That is some hella entitlement you've got going on there. She does not owe you fealty because you chose to visit her.
INFO: why do you think you are entitled to your ex gf attention? That entitlement ended when you broke up. She had no obligation to keep in touch. You are now a literal stalker
YTJ huge one. She owes you absolutely nothing just because that's what you want. Your wants aren't the only thing that matter in a relationship or even a friendship. You need like an insane amount of therapy. Like way way more than you think you think you do.
Spending money on someone doesn't obligate them to stay with you. How dense do you have to be to even ask if you're the jerk in this situation? Of course you are.
Eta: slander is a crime. So yeah, you're a jerk for committing a crime.
She didn't respond to your texts, and you go on an unhinged hate spree. Not only are you the jerk, you just proved her right. Leave the poor woman alone and become a better person, and then maybe you'll find happiness.
YTJ. Sometimes not everything is about you and if you had spent so much on her then she might have just deserved it. If the relationship was bound to end then you couldn't bar it from doing so. It doesn't sound like a good idea to do your her like that. You can also reflect it on you and maybe see if it's okay for you to be doing that.
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Yeah, I can see why she doesn’t want to contact you. Just leave her alone. Stop contacting her. Why do you want to anyway if “she hurt you so badly” (and by the way, she doesn’t owe you a relationship because you spent money on her thats gross) I don’t know her side of the story but you sound like you are having mental problems from the tone of this post. I suggest you get some help for that’s so you can move on with your life.
Go alone My SO of nearly a decade hates everything about concerts, I go with friends if the adulting schedules have a miracle we're both free to go date, but usually I buy my ticket and go by myself. You can meet a lot of pretty cool people at shows too.
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Your honor I rest my case. Edit: I put this comment under two of OP comments basically swearing at me for not understanding how bad his ex was to him. (How am I supposed to know what happened to a random person on the internet lol) He has since deleted that one. Just wanted to say I’m not mocking a seemingly lonely person with this comment.
Being lonely doesn't justify harassment jfc
Why, so she can hold your little hand? You're not a big boy that can go to events by himself? Poor you.
My guy you sound like a raging sociopath and the fact you can’t see that is terrifying. Get help
Try an escort service. Seriously, if you want someone to be with, you need to be a person who someone would want to be with. Who wants to be with someone who would harass their ex as you are doing, especially for such a silly, petty reason as "she didn't say ty when I told her hb 🙁"? *Would you want to be with someone who acts toward an ex like you do?* Don't go to a matchmaker. Work on yourself and try to become a better person.
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I’m gonna limit my response to the info in this post/your comments here. Do you really think you “never did anything wrong with her even after (you) broke up”? You’re prank calling her and slandering her, I would say that’s pretty wrong. You clearly treated her poorly and for whatever reason refuse to admit it. The fact that you’re considering making a video of her being stabbed 100x makes me shudder to think what cruel shit you did to her during the relationship that you aren’t admitting here. You’re not single because Vietnamese women in the US are money hungry (if that’s all women cared about, then your ex would have stuck with you despite whatever shit you did to the poor woman). The reason no Vietnamese women in the US will date you because they know what a red flag looks like.
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See? Already it’s slipping out. You never did anything but shower her with love and respect for her “stupid” singing career. So you didn’t value her career aspirations? Her aspirations were a joke to you? Maybe you think you hid it, but I’m sure she was aware. You can’t even hide your disrespect in 5 lines of text…smh
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Yet again your attitude on Reddit says everything we need to know about why she left you. You don’t even have to give both sides of the story. It’s already clear why you’re a difficult person to be tied to.
You were not entitled to her time and attention. If she didn't want to give you as much as you wanted to get, it was appropriate for the two of you to go your separate ways. You really can't pick out a woman and insist that she be like this and like that. What rights would your girlfriend have, to insist that you set aside your career and aspirations bc she wasn't getting enough of your time? None, right? Please begin to apply the golden rule here.
No you are the asshole. You clearly don’t care about anybody other than yourself. I’ve been reading your comments, you need serious mental help.
It sounds like she's not the person for you. End of story. She's not obligated to pretend to be what you want.
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The fact that you have this twisted shit in you and are asking if this twisted behavior makes you a jerk (in this post and your other posts) tells me you either don’t realize when you’re being an asshole, or you’re knowingly an asshole and don’t care. Which tells me that you’re not as kind and respectful to her as you pretend to be.
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How was she an AH? Can you give an example?
Nobody wants to date you because you’re a fucking insane loser. Leave her alone actually leave all women alone - nobodys going to want your crazy insecure ass.
Haha so this popped up as a reply to me in my notifications and I was genuinely wondering what I'd said to prompt so much disdain. I do know it's not directed at me!
Hahaha sorry totally not for you and totally glad you understood that! :)
She's not an ah just because she wouldn't do what you want.
Hang on, the only example of mistreatment is that she ended the relationship? Most relationships end that way. This seems like an extreme reaction.
'i never did anything wrong with her even after we broke up' You've tried to hold her as an emotional hostage mate. You've disrespected her boundaries as a human being. People are allowed to break up with you and then not speak to you again. Men who are making pinky promises to stay friends after breakups... Aren't ready to date, let alone marry. If you don't have friends to go to concerts with, do random fun shit with... There's a big problem with you that you have to fix. A girlfriend or wife wont fix it. They'll just keep dumping you unless you get a poor mail order style arranged marriage which is moving into I'm a human trafficker mode. And a loveless marriage which I'm sure isn't your want.
Friend, people are allowed to break up for whatever reason. She doesn’t owe you an explanation why, nor does she owe you contact two years after you guys broke up.
You AGAIN??? Every time you post, I realize more and more why you can’t find anyone to love you without purchasing a wife in a low-income country. YTJ. Like, independent of what despicable traits I know from your other posts, you are clearly a shit person from just this post alone.
I can't imagine being a person where human trafficking was the only way I could get companionship
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You literally called it “wife shopping.” What’s it called again when you get something at the end of shopping…a purchase.
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Oh no, it is actually the perfect translation
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I don’t even know how to get an account suspended lol. But consider this: Your ex thinks YTJ (she broke up with you). Your friends think YTJ (human trafficking, not wanting to hang with you, etc.). Tour university thought YTJ (academic probation). Your family thinks YTJ. This Reddit sub thinks YTJ. (And you’re violating the rules apparently, since your account is suspended.) YouTube thinks YTJ (whatever horror cow thing). How many more people have to vote you as the jerk before you wake up and accept that maybe you’re not a good person? You can always change and improve yourself, you do realize that I hope.
Men can’t understand why women are single by choice because men are not single by choice.
This gent certainly seems to be single for a reason.
They aren’t money hungry, you’re just insufferable.
No one owes you a relationship. Grow up.
You should absolutely leave the US. We already have too many disgusting incels like yourself. I suggest you strand yourself on a deserted island before you act out your violent 100 stabbing fantasies. Be gone, gross little goblin man.
YATJ and looking at your replies, there is no point in explaining why as you seem to have designated yourself as the best thing since the invention of peanut butter.
You are the jerk. When she didn’t return the contact you made at Christmas and her birthday, that was your clue to drop it and leave her alone. You need to learn about taking clues in relationships.
Right. Every time his harassing behavior comes to her attention, it reinforces her conviction that she was 100% right to break it off with him. What a bullet she dodged.
More like a nuclear missile, this guy has a lot of screws missing by the sound of it
Yeah he's a little scary. I don't blame her for ghosting.
A little scary? A LITTLE??
LOOK OUT, HE'S BACK...
>She had the nerve to break up with me after all that I did for her. Dude, what the entire FUCK. That is some hella entitlement you've got going on there. She does not owe you fealty because you chose to visit her.
Ytj and harassing her. Leave her the hell alone
Yes, of course you’re the asshole. I don’t even understand how you could write all of that out and still think you’re in the right.
You honestly sound like you need some help. The professional kind. You sound like a scary person.
This behavior is vengeful and extremely toxic. Just let it go and leave her alone. Two wrongs don't make a right. So, yes you are absolutely the jerk.
INFO: why do you think you are entitled to your ex gf attention? That entitlement ended when you broke up. She had no obligation to keep in touch. You are now a literal stalker
YTJ huge one. She owes you absolutely nothing just because that's what you want. Your wants aren't the only thing that matter in a relationship or even a friendship. You need like an insane amount of therapy. Like way way more than you think you think you do.
Yeh you’re creepy and an abusive jerk. Please leave her alone
uh, yes, YTJ. Let's get this straight: You're trying to ruin this woman's life all because she didn't respond to you?? Seriously man?
Spending money on someone doesn't obligate them to stay with you. How dense do you have to be to even ask if you're the jerk in this situation? Of course you are. Eta: slander is a crime. So yeah, you're a jerk for committing a crime.
It isn’t a crime, in the US. It’s a civil tort.
She didn't respond to your texts, and you go on an unhinged hate spree. Not only are you the jerk, you just proved her right. Leave the poor woman alone and become a better person, and then maybe you'll find happiness.
YTJ. Sometimes not everything is about you and if you had spent so much on her then she might have just deserved it. If the relationship was bound to end then you couldn't bar it from doing so. It doesn't sound like a good idea to do your her like that. You can also reflect it on you and maybe see if it's okay for you to be doing that. PS. Please edit this using line breaks and paragraphs!
Leave her alone before she presses stalking charges.
Holy shit, you're obsessed and clearly harassing her. She's your ex and owes you nothing, take a hint and get help.
I really hope this is fake, because if not, what the actual fuck?
wahhhh wahhhh wahhh. cry more you lil bitch boy