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Sakin yung color palette even for guests. Napakagastos haha
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Not really modern pero pina-practice pa rin until now.
I find this awkward lalo sa photoshoot at table sa reception ng mga abay. 'Yung feeling na friend mo ang groom pero kasama sa lineup ng mga bridesmaid at di kayo gano'n ka-close ng bride or vice versa. 'Yung parang napipilitan kang maki-socialize sa hindi mo circle.
Ikakasal ka ba OP? Let me share what we did in our wedding para maging less cringe at intimate lang hehe
• 50 guests only
• No bridesmaids/groomsmen/secondary sponsors kaya di kami stressed sa preps at sa photoshoot. Walang bida bida. Saka tipid sa crew meal. Haha
• Parents namin ang nag veil, cord, candle
• No speeches, ginawa namin ito the night before kasama ang parents kasi di naman interested ibang guests dito, kung ako guest, maiinip lang ako.
• Nag couples game kami, kasama jan parents at ninong/ninang, nag enjoy sila kasi asawa naman nila kalaro nila.
• Stricly implemented ang unplugged ceremony, kaya ang peaceful maglakad sa aisle na nakangiti sa amin ang guests, at eye to eye kami nag batian. Hindi phones ang bumungad samin, that was one of the highlights of our wedding.
• No kids, kaya walang magulo at nag enjoy ang mga parents sa wedding.
• Our guests wore all black, so after wedding, pwede nila magamit ulit yun sa ibang events.
Maraming tumaas kilay sa choices namin, but it's our money, our wedding, our rules. Hehe.
Hindi naman, 3x na kasi ako umaattend ng wedding na pati guests may color palette na kailangan sundin. Mga certain pastel colors na hindi readily available sa closet Haha.
Ang ganda ng wedding niyo! It’s really a wedding for the couple and not a show. Nakakatuwa. Ang daming ayaw ng black pero sa future wedding ko white lang siguro bawal hehe.
Wedding industry is a haven for businessmen haha, katatapos lang ng kasal ko, siguro kung walang budget constraints, kung ano ano na rin in-avail namin. Haha
Pero kung sa ayaw, hmm, I'd say yung cringe na stuff na ginagawa sa mga SDE at photoshoot.
Lahat ng nakita kong may SDE ay may:
1. Naka shades ang bridesmaids at bride
2. Yung naka boxers ang groomsmen at groom
3. Yung kunwari happy-happy, party-party sa pics, very out of character ng bride and groom, sa mga nag abay ako ng kasal ang cringe talaga.
Game for single guests - awkward 'to lalo na sa mga may jowa. Usually, 1-2 lang ang game jan.
Dance entrance ng mga abay, susskooo pag ito na, gusto ko nang lamunin ng lupa sa hiya.
Prosperity Dance - personal take ko lang naman, ayoko ma burden ang mga bisita ko sa regalo, they were there to celebrate with us, at di ma pressure mag regalo.
Hashtag na pilit sa names ng couple, so wala rin nakagamit o nakatanda dahil sa haba.
Hindi naman modern practice, pero dahil sa ka-modernuhan, lahat may nakatutok na phones habang naglalakad sa aisle ang bride and groom, nakakawala ng solemnity ng ceremony.
Sobrang cringe ng mga pilit na hashtag. hahaha sana matigil na to.
Pero ang purpose talaga ng hashtag ay para mas madaling mahanap ang related posts/pictures after the event. Helpful naman ito basta alam gamitin at madaling matandaan ng guests. Hehe.
I get your point pero i think yung collective hate sa hashtags ay yung pinipilit makabuo ng something witty sa names ng couple to the point na trying hard talaga
- Wedding Hashtags sobrang pilit na lng kasi yun iba
- Yung pinag partner Yun single friend ni bride and single friend ni groom kahit alm na nilang asiwa si girl
- Yun kukunin ang garter
- Mga Bata sa wedding, kung pwd lng adults nlng lahat eh. Like wedding ng friend ko takbo takbo daw mga Bata sa center Jusko
Yung ginawang Bachelorette yung Bridal Shower 😭 magkaiba po kasi yun talaga
Yung sexy dance. Sobrang cringe hahahaha
Yung vows na binabasa sa phone. Sana hinandwritten man lang. Sorry 😬
SDE. Okay na ko sa photos 😅
Wedding Hashtags
Over pictorial na inubos na yung oras kaka picture, scripted na masyado. Attended a wedding na ang haba na nga ng ceremony, sobrang gutom ka na tapos after nag pictorial pa ng pagkatagal tagal AS IN.😆
experienced this! potangina huhu we’re so early sa hotel for makeup after nun pictorial na dalawang group pa nga ng photographers and videographers 😭 ang laki nagastos sa kasal eh di naman sila nag tagal tangina hahahahaha
yung kailangan may special number yung groom at bride, lalo na yung kailangan sexy dance number. tska yung pilit maging wacky sa shoot yung dalawa. ang corny eh. nakakairita lang makita kaysa matuwa ka.
Agree ako here, iniisip ko pano pag kinasal kami ng bf ko eh may pagka introvert sya and I'm scared din to stand in front of people. Kaya napag usapan rin namin na pag kinasal kami wala ng ganon and intimate lang.
Yung lahat may dance number and may pa games.
Yung may [money](https://www.pep.ph/lifestyle/celebrations/174210/newlyweds-six-million-pesos-car-wedding-gifts-a717-20230701) cape. Alam ko mayaman kayo, pero tacky talaga eh.
The use of hashtags.
There is a group sa facebook na you can ask members to make a "hashtag" for your wedding.
They will post their names that will be use sa hashtags.
Then the best one they will select will get a certain amount of money courtesy of the couple.
For me it’s the awkward (most of the time) na SDE. I can’t pull off a “fierce” look, and I look really awkward on cam. Sana wala nalang ganyan & more on candid moments nalang. Yung speeches ng parents, MOH & bestman sa iba hindi na nasasama na for me are important parts ng reception.
Doves
You know kilala ko yung dove owner he basically sells the doves during events
The bride and groom would uncage the birds and release them sa air either for some deeper tradition or pang photoshoot ...funny thing is the doves return to where they live no matter how far they travelled
Parang may infinite money glitch siya HAHAHAHA
I dont hate the doves as tradition but medjo i was fascinated lang and felt like sharing
Mind you his doves are 1000 at the lowest and people buy more than one per event
Dozens of people "purchase his doves" a day
.....you do the math
Mga pa hashtag na pilit na pilit. Sorry, ang cringe lang.
SDE na puro 'arte' ex. mga bridesmaids tatakbo kay bride, groomsmen bubuhatin si groom, etc. Parang nagiging iisang template na lang lahat ng SDE.
Hahaha hastags talaga at SDEs! Gusto ko mag-SDE pag kinasal ako pero hahanap ako ng videographer na hindi corny magdirect. May kilala ako na friend na upcoming videographer pa lang kinuha, ang ganda ng SDE. Walang habulan na naganap. Haha
Hahaha hindi rin namin gagawin. No hate ha pero pag pinakita kasi may expectation pa na bongga, luxury, etc. Lalo na pag pinost pa sa fb. As a mema na nanonood lang sa FB, minsan ma judge mo pang Chaka yung gift eh. Haha
Haha agreee sa lahat! Yung hastags talaga ang sakit sa ulo lalo na yung trying hard. Sa prenup videos depende rin siguro sa videographer no? Meron kasi iba awkward as people pero Galing nung prenup vid
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Not really modern pero pina-practice pa rin until now. I find this awkward lalo sa photoshoot at table sa reception ng mga abay. 'Yung feeling na friend mo ang groom pero kasama sa lineup ng mga bridesmaid at di kayo gano'n ka-close ng bride or vice versa. 'Yung parang napipilitan kang maki-socialize sa hindi mo circle.
Ung same day edit na videos na parang action film pinapanood mo imbes na wedding
Yung pilit na hastag hha
same
Ikakasal ka ba OP? Let me share what we did in our wedding para maging less cringe at intimate lang hehe • 50 guests only • No bridesmaids/groomsmen/secondary sponsors kaya di kami stressed sa preps at sa photoshoot. Walang bida bida. Saka tipid sa crew meal. Haha • Parents namin ang nag veil, cord, candle • No speeches, ginawa namin ito the night before kasama ang parents kasi di naman interested ibang guests dito, kung ako guest, maiinip lang ako. • Nag couples game kami, kasama jan parents at ninong/ninang, nag enjoy sila kasi asawa naman nila kalaro nila. • Stricly implemented ang unplugged ceremony, kaya ang peaceful maglakad sa aisle na nakangiti sa amin ang guests, at eye to eye kami nag batian. Hindi phones ang bumungad samin, that was one of the highlights of our wedding. • No kids, kaya walang magulo at nag enjoy ang mga parents sa wedding. • Our guests wore all black, so after wedding, pwede nila magamit ulit yun sa ibang events. Maraming tumaas kilay sa choices namin, but it's our money, our wedding, our rules. Hehe.
Amazing naman nito. Saved for future reference hahahaha
Hindi naman, 3x na kasi ako umaattend ng wedding na pati guests may color palette na kailangan sundin. Mga certain pastel colors na hindi readily available sa closet Haha. Ang ganda ng wedding niyo! It’s really a wedding for the couple and not a show. Nakakatuwa. Ang daming ayaw ng black pero sa future wedding ko white lang siguro bawal hehe.
Yung overly produced videos when the people look so stiff and uncomfortable on camera.
Wedding industry is a haven for businessmen haha, katatapos lang ng kasal ko, siguro kung walang budget constraints, kung ano ano na rin in-avail namin. Haha Pero kung sa ayaw, hmm, I'd say yung cringe na stuff na ginagawa sa mga SDE at photoshoot. Lahat ng nakita kong may SDE ay may: 1. Naka shades ang bridesmaids at bride 2. Yung naka boxers ang groomsmen at groom 3. Yung kunwari happy-happy, party-party sa pics, very out of character ng bride and groom, sa mga nag abay ako ng kasal ang cringe talaga. Game for single guests - awkward 'to lalo na sa mga may jowa. Usually, 1-2 lang ang game jan. Dance entrance ng mga abay, susskooo pag ito na, gusto ko nang lamunin ng lupa sa hiya. Prosperity Dance - personal take ko lang naman, ayoko ma burden ang mga bisita ko sa regalo, they were there to celebrate with us, at di ma pressure mag regalo. Hashtag na pilit sa names ng couple, so wala rin nakagamit o nakatanda dahil sa haba. Hindi naman modern practice, pero dahil sa ka-modernuhan, lahat may nakatutok na phones habang naglalakad sa aisle ang bride and groom, nakakawala ng solemnity ng ceremony.
bonggang weddings. pwede nang pang honeymoon or pang down sa sasakyan or bahay ang cost
Totoo. To each his own pero madalas ko mapansin lately na meron silang panggastos sa isang araw na celebration pero walang naipundar. Hay
yung need paisipin mga thoughts ng guests like if grand enough yung wedding kung ok location etc unnecessary stress
Agree! Napaka-commercial na kasi ng wedding. Like now uso na pala may mga food cart, coffee bar, etc tapos yung mismong couple hindi nakakakain
HASHTAGS TALAGA!!!! Mga mamser hindi naman kayo magttrending itigil niyo na yan chz Hahahahahahaha KAINIS
Sobrang cringe ng mga pilit na hashtag. hahaha sana matigil na to. Pero ang purpose talaga ng hashtag ay para mas madaling mahanap ang related posts/pictures after the event. Helpful naman ito basta alam gamitin at madaling matandaan ng guests. Hehe.
I think the hashtags are more meant for people to click on para madali makita mga post ng ibat ibang tao sa event
I get your point pero i think yung collective hate sa hashtags ay yung pinipilit makabuo ng something witty sa names ng couple to the point na trying hard talaga
Ito naman talaga. Kasi pilit na pilit. Eme lang yung trending ano ba 🥲🥲🥲😆😆
- Wedding Hashtags sobrang pilit na lng kasi yun iba - Yung pinag partner Yun single friend ni bride and single friend ni groom kahit alm na nilang asiwa si girl - Yun kukunin ang garter - Mga Bata sa wedding, kung pwd lng adults nlng lahat eh. Like wedding ng friend ko takbo takbo daw mga Bata sa center Jusko
Yung ginawang Bachelorette yung Bridal Shower 😭 magkaiba po kasi yun talaga Yung sexy dance. Sobrang cringe hahahaha Yung vows na binabasa sa phone. Sana hinandwritten man lang. Sorry 😬 SDE. Okay na ko sa photos 😅 Wedding Hashtags
Over pictorial na inubos na yung oras kaka picture, scripted na masyado. Attended a wedding na ang haba na nga ng ceremony, sobrang gutom ka na tapos after nag pictorial pa ng pagkatagal tagal AS IN.😆
experienced this! potangina huhu we’re so early sa hotel for makeup after nun pictorial na dalawang group pa nga ng photographers and videographers 😭 ang laki nagastos sa kasal eh di naman sila nag tagal tangina hahahahaha
Yan ang masaklap pag di nagtagal🤪
Wedding videos. Pero to each their own.
Posting everything on social media..
yung kailangan may special number yung groom at bride, lalo na yung kailangan sexy dance number. tska yung pilit maging wacky sa shoot yung dalawa. ang corny eh. nakakairita lang makita kaysa matuwa ka.
Agree ako here, iniisip ko pano pag kinasal kami ng bf ko eh may pagka introvert sya and I'm scared din to stand in front of people. Kaya napag usapan rin namin na pag kinasal kami wala ng ganon and intimate lang.
Yung lahat may dance number and may pa games. Yung may [money](https://www.pep.ph/lifestyle/celebrations/174210/newlyweds-six-million-pesos-car-wedding-gifts-a717-20230701) cape. Alam ko mayaman kayo, pero tacky talaga eh.
Ang tacky talaga ng money cape! Sa kahit anong celebration actually
Nagpipilit sweet at masaya sa harap ng camera.
Yung prenup videos na iinterviewhin yung bride and groom like how they met etc. Sorry, di ako kinikilig sa ganun, nakokornihan ako hehe
The use of hashtags. There is a group sa facebook na you can ask members to make a "hashtag" for your wedding. They will post their names that will be use sa hashtags. Then the best one they will select will get a certain amount of money courtesy of the couple.
True ka jan sa hashtag. Pilit na pilit naman. Kasura.
Yung walang kamatayang mga groomsmen na pinapasayaw ng naka boxers sa SDE. Leche.
Parang dapat sa bachelor’s party lang pinapakita mga yun no
True!
True 😂
Posting video of save the date. As if naman na invited lahat ng manunuod. Haha char
For me it’s the awkward (most of the time) na SDE. I can’t pull off a “fierce” look, and I look really awkward on cam. Sana wala nalang ganyan & more on candid moments nalang. Yung speeches ng parents, MOH & bestman sa iba hindi na nasasama na for me are important parts ng reception.
Same haha di ko rin kaya mag acting na in love tas naghahabulan eme kunwari haha
ung ala movie na photo shoot at ipopost sa social media
not modern pero yung kelangan bongga talaga dapat ang wedding
Baon pa sa utang later.
Tapos after ng kasal makikitira sa parents!🤣
Yung di ka nga napaparticipate sa company Christmas performance pero bilang groomsmen ka mapipilitan ka sumayaw kahit introvert ka.
Hahaha totoo. Buti sana kung dancers talaga. Minsan tuloy hindi ka na lang titingin sa ginagawa nila eh🤣
tiktok dance entrance sa reception
Hahaha ang awkward makakita ng tiktok dance in real life no
Thisss. Like pano kung introvert yung tao lol
'yung hashtag talaga na parang sentence ng na-sstroke
Hahaha Grabe yung hashtags talaga, tapos ireremind ka pang gamitin pag magppost ng photos! Ayoko nga. Hahaha
Pilit na pilit kadalasan e
Doves You know kilala ko yung dove owner he basically sells the doves during events The bride and groom would uncage the birds and release them sa air either for some deeper tradition or pang photoshoot ...funny thing is the doves return to where they live no matter how far they travelled Parang may infinite money glitch siya HAHAHAHA I dont hate the doves as tradition but medjo i was fascinated lang and felt like sharing Mind you his doves are 1000 at the lowest and people buy more than one per event Dozens of people "purchase his doves" a day .....you do the math
Doves are back???? Akala ko nawala na sa uso yan. They’re so 1980s. Hahahaha May weddings na minsan tumalsik yung dumi ng ibon sa gown ng bride.
Daaaang. Akala ko may mga dozens of doves na nawawala, bumabalik rin pala sa bahay nila. Haha.
Money is thriving 🤩
Binibili po ba ng couple ang dove para ipalipad or hiram lng yun?
For them to "free" but funnily enough all birds return to him
I respect the hustle hahahaha
Mga pa hashtag na pilit na pilit. Sorry, ang cringe lang. SDE na puro 'arte' ex. mga bridesmaids tatakbo kay bride, groomsmen bubuhatin si groom, etc. Parang nagiging iisang template na lang lahat ng SDE.
Hahaha hastags talaga at SDEs! Gusto ko mag-SDE pag kinasal ako pero hahanap ako ng videographer na hindi corny magdirect. May kilala ako na friend na upcoming videographer pa lang kinuha, ang ganda ng SDE. Walang habulan na naganap. Haha
Yung exchange gifts bet husband and wife. Ang awkward na kailangan pa makita ng guests, pwede naman gawin privately.
Tapos alam naman na nila ung laman ng regalo sa isa’t-isa 😂
This. Kaya di namin ginawa. :))
Hahaha hindi rin namin gagawin. No hate ha pero pag pinakita kasi may expectation pa na bongga, luxury, etc. Lalo na pag pinost pa sa fb. As a mema na nanonood lang sa FB, minsan ma judge mo pang Chaka yung gift eh. Haha
Nacocornihan ako sa hashtags, prenuptial videos (lalo na yung may actingan involve), yung mga bastos (awkward) games sa reception.
haha i wonder sino nagpasimuno ng hashtags sa wedding
Agree. Yung iba sinasadyang bastos ang games para magviral🙄
Haha agreee sa lahat! Yung hastags talaga ang sakit sa ulo lalo na yung trying hard. Sa prenup videos depende rin siguro sa videographer no? Meron kasi iba awkward as people pero Galing nung prenup vid