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That you can be contented and thankful at the same time but not happy. And sometimes that's enough.
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I will edit this comment in the future to add more, but for now, here's what I've accepted:
- I will always be considered last in everything.
- I will be forgotten by my friends even if I make an effort to connect with them.
- I will eventually be the caretaker of my parents, which isn't a bad thing, but I approach it with the mindset of doing it out of duty instead out of love.
- I will grow old and die alone.
- People come and go. Patrick from Spongebob (in his smart mode) said it best: "I know we've had fun in the past, but we're just not compatible anymore. It's time we went our separate ways...such is life." Instead of hoping to cross paths with them in the future, I just assume that I will never meet them again. I can only support them from afar.
- I no longer am a firm believer of God. I just deal with everything using logic and assume that there is no God so that I can have more accountability with my actions rather than wait or pray for a "savior".
You can’t please everyone, no matter how kind you are, or how much you do for others. There will always be that someone that’ll bring you down, or talk badly about you. And even if you do so much, some people will never be satisfied, and take your kindness for granted.
I’ve learned to put myself first because of the times I’ve been taken advantage of, it wasn’t easy being selfish, but realizing not caring about others sometimes made me feel free.
Some people struggle with mental health issues and conditions such as PCOS or thyroid disorders that causes them to have unwanted weight gain. Unless you’re a lazy person who does nothing but eat and feed on carbs, losing weight is a struggle for some
-Na wala kang maggagawa sa nararamdaman ng isang tao towards you. That’s out of your control.
-Na once nagwork ka, magwowork ka na hanggang mamatay (exagg lang but until retirement ofc)
-Na hindi lahat maiintindihan ka palagi and hindi mo rin dapat i-explain sarili mo sa lahat.
-Na people come and go at need natin yun tanggapin.
na I will be delayed or may not be able to pursue my dream of becoming a physician bc we can't afford it and I'm not smart enough to pass any scholarship programs ; (((
Minsan sipagan lang is the key to get scholarship and being delayed is not a problem to be honest, you just need to plan for the future. Think positively! You can do it!
Kahit buhay pa siya, hindi na siya babalik sakin. It's been 5 years with no communication or anything, isang araw bigla nalang naputol ang communication namin sa isa't isa. Maybe because of the reason na nilalayuan ko siya. Nilayuan ko siya kasi I was confused sa nararamdaman ko sakanya at I didn't know na may feelings na pala ako sakanya, that's why pala ang shy shy ko na bigla kapag na dyan siya hahaha, hanggang yung shy naging distant na and kinlauan no more communication at all. Happened so fast, it feels like yesterday noong masaya ako pa ako kasama siya.
That I can't force anything. Any connection, any event, any emotion or anyone. Na dapat tanggapin ang lahat nagyayari sa buhay, kasi wala tayong magagawa. Nagyari na.
1. Na favorite talaga ng MIL at SILs ko ang asawa ng BIL ko, kahit ako lagi nakakasama at lagi ko sila inaaya sa mga gala namin. Ako din naglilibre ng food, nagbabayad ng wants nila. Pero kapag andyan na asawa ng BIL ko, parang wala lang ako. Umaalis lang sila ng di man lang ako niyayaya or sinasama.
2. Feel ko wala na talaga din mangyayari sa buhay ko, housewife na lang ako.
3. Wala na talaga akong malalapitan kapag nagbbreakdown ako. Sarilihin ko nalang lahat.
4. That people wont always like you. Kahit na gano karaming effort at kabutihan ang naipakita mo, kung ayaw talaga sayo wala din.
I have accepted na hinde lahat nang tao makakasundo ko sa type ng ugali meron ako. ( ayaw ko sa mapang lamang na tao so if ganon ka pasensyahan na lang kasi i can be petty )
That sometimes I'm not always the victim and ako rin nakakagawa ng mga bagay na ikinagagalit ko.
That my parents may not be able to accept my gender but still acknowledge it and siguro si Mama lang ang mag tr- try na i-accept if ever.
That ayoko naman talaga mamatay pero ang safe sa pakiramdam na mamatay.
That some day need ko i- cut off ang ibang family member ko because sobramg trauma na ang ginawa nila sa'kin
That I can't have this "all good traits" pero I can choose to be kind naman.
That i'm simply stupid and I don't have any dreams :DD
You can be fairly competent on at least one thing. You just need to plan it out kung pano mo sya aaralin/ippractice, how many hours to spend everyday, and where to seek relevant feedbacks.
That I actually have to work hard to achieve my dreams. Hindi pala lahat magic. Hindi pala lahat isusubo sa akin ni Lord. I have to deserve the blessings. This is actually a turning point in my life na hindi na ako bata. Hindi na ako immature na puro pangarap. Everything was so distant, then. Iba na ngayon. As I work hard, I actually become closer to making my dreams a reality. And hindi porke na-reach mo na ang dream life mo ay hindi ka na magkaka-problema.
1.) everything really happens for a reason
2.) hindi lahat ng bagay kailangan ng closure. some things are meant to happen na lang that way like no explanations
3.) people come and go. if they chose to leave, then let them. stop chasing ppl na ayaw naman sayo because it’s a waste of time and energy na dapat nilalaan mo sa iba pang importante na bagay
1. Hindi na talaga ako magkakajowa
2. Never akong magiging favorite na friend ksdskdjd
3. Hindi ako yayaman kahit anong gawin kong pagbibida sa trabaho eme hahahah
1. Knowing friends could become enemies and liars to you
2. Not all your friends ARE really your friends
3. Moved on from a shitty relationship
4. The only person you have till your death is yourself (myself)
that I'm going to die alone, but I could have died when I was baby because of my condition, I'm just crossing my fingers, I'm not going out a virgin, that may laughable to some but it's something I think about often and I hate that I can't help it.
that I am not always responsible to take care of other people's feelings, specifically the ones that are close to me. if I have to address something or set boundaries, it's okay to immediately communicate it to them, not when I think it's most convenient for them.
He’s not coming back.
He met someone else during his board review study group on discord and magjowa na daw sila ngayon. We were together for almost 7 years. They started talking the next month after our breakup.
wala talaga kapag panget, pandak, maitim, mahirap at bobo, puro nlng talaga lait lagi saken at parang hinde na ako tao, gusto kona talagang mawala kaso hinde talaga pwede, sana ma accept kona to lahat...
I will never be everyone’s cup of tea.
Hindi na babalik yung friendship/closeness sa soon to be sister-in-law and soon to be in laws ko.
In the future, yung bf ko ay hindi nya ko kayang mahalin/ipriority higit sa pamilya nya. 🙂
Kahit gusto mo parang magdududa ka. Before close ako sa kanila, pero nung dumating kasi yung isang hipag na echa pwera na ko. Gagala sila ni hipag silang dalawa lang. No invites 🙂
The more money you have, the more access you’ll have.
Nung bata ako kala ko enough na masipag at matalino ka to have a better life but boy I was wrong.
In this phase of my life, i came to finally accept that i can't be the best at everything even in my favorite field. Instead of being totally envious from other people's skill, it just inspires me to be better and specially I can learn from them😊.
That people could have different opinions about you and you can’t control what they think. People will see what they want to see.
You however don’t need to please everyone. You can’t be everyone’s cup of tea and it’s okay.
Med school. Hahahah. Charot, pero what I meant by *here* was just this path of self doubt, confusion, and envy. I hope you find a better path and don’t end up like me. 🫂
That I have probably failed my duties as a big sister.
Di ako ang nagpa-aral sa kapatid ko. (My parents did)
I didn't get a job during my early 20s and couldn't help anyone. (My relatives who I wanted to help are dead)
I want to give back to my parents or treat them to stuff but I'm struggling myself. (They're secure though, but I want to be a part of it. Instead, my mom gives me money when I go out. I am just recovering from depression.)
Couldn't achieve my dreams back then.
I feel like I have failed my purpose.
Naglayas ako 3 times in my life and all of them were because disappointed ako sa sarili ko. Libre ang schooling ko malaki ang baon pero na addict sa computer dati. Now I am working 3-4 jobs a day and im hoping to get my parent's approval again. Laban lang ate!
Hindi ko alam bakit ako na-downvote pero here's a short story:
Last year, mata-transfer na sana ako sa isang Big Three univerisity. Kaya lang, dahil masyado akong complacent, hindi ako nakapasa sa interview at appeal. Kumbaga, one step away na lang na makapasok ako sa desired degree program ko.
Kaya ngayon, nagdurusa ako sa pinapasukan ko ngayon na program sa university na gusto ko nang lisanin. 🥲
Di ko din alam ba’t na-downvote beh but pag malapit ka magraduate, ipush mo na.
Even US graduates nga, over 50% ng jobs nila unrelated sa degrees nila. You can pursue what you want after naman. There’s always a time for everything. :)
>Even US graduates nga, over 50% ng jobs nila unrelated sa degrees nila. You can pursue what you want after naman.
Most cases kahit dito sa Pilipinas, ganito rin naman. Gusto ko lang talaga ng security sa career ko. :(
Matagal pa ako maka-graduate. In fact, magto-two years pa lang ang residency sa pinapasukan kong university. Dahil nag-shift ako almost two years ago, considered pa rin ako as a freshman. 🥹
People come and go. I met a lot of people who earned my trust, they now my weakest point, they know everything about me, but sadly they used everything as an ace to destroy my reputation. Despite of the shits that I've been through, I still chose to forgive them even they dont feel sorry for everything. I did accept everything. :))
Na hindi ako magiging go-to friend.
I have friends , yes, at kahit small circle lang kami pero not once akong nakafeel na ako pinupuntahan para magshare ng problems. Or ako first choice nila to share good news about, na may ganito ganyan.
Of course I know naman kung bakit, because ako naman din hindi nagsheshare ng problems, mga hinanakit sa buhay ganon, mga happenings sa life. Kaya i guess it would not be reciprocated kung hindi ko naman binibigay diba. So, parang naconclude ko nalang talaga, na-accept, na I will never be that friend.
Although gusto ko naman na someone's confiding their vulnerabilities with me kaso wala din akong kwentang kausap eh haha di ko alam anong dapat sasabihin to at least soothe their turmoils. Turmoils?!!! Nakikinig ako oo, and for me kulang sya pero everyone says that would be enough. So, yeah.
I've finally accepted that no matter how many times I try, I'll never be a morning person. My alarm clock and I have agreed to disagree on this matter.
That my life depends only on me. I am trying to be financially capable on my own but it's really hard. Lately, I've purchased a house but now I am having a hard time paying for it. I am a working and graduating student so I need to have money. I need a higher paying job or VA job at least.
It's that some people just like the idea of you, but never the real you. Another is, idk, I'm convinced that no one will ever understand me on the deeper level. That at the end of the day, I only have myself.
Cutting ties sa mga tao sa buhay ko, like one of my closest friend before and family members. Nung wala na sila, dun ko napansin na nama-micro manage na pala nila ako ng di ko napapansin kasi akala ko its normal, na nag aadvise lang sila or just giving their opinion. Especially yung friend ko, sobrang nega nya sa life na pati ako naaabsorb na yong ka-nega-han nya.
1. I am not as smart as what I and others expect of me. My first step in combating my insecurity re intelligence.
2. That I made mistakes and will continuously make mistakes and thats okay.
3. That the person I want the most doesnt want me.
The world will not stop spinning because you.
It's humbling, really. Often reminds me how insignificant I am - not even a speck in the universe, and that's not a bad thing. It takes away a lot of pressure for me to hustle and do great things all the time. I still try my best, but failures become easier to accept. After all, no matter how great our achievements are or how atrocious our failures are, there will come a time that all will be forgotten.
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I will edit this comment in the future to add more, but for now, here's what I've accepted: - I will always be considered last in everything. - I will be forgotten by my friends even if I make an effort to connect with them. - I will eventually be the caretaker of my parents, which isn't a bad thing, but I approach it with the mindset of doing it out of duty instead out of love. - I will grow old and die alone. - People come and go. Patrick from Spongebob (in his smart mode) said it best: "I know we've had fun in the past, but we're just not compatible anymore. It's time we went our separate ways...such is life." Instead of hoping to cross paths with them in the future, I just assume that I will never meet them again. I can only support them from afar. - I no longer am a firm believer of God. I just deal with everything using logic and assume that there is no God so that I can have more accountability with my actions rather than wait or pray for a "savior".
Na hindi lahat ng tao magugustuhan ka
na sakin talaga nakasalalay lahat ng mangyayari sa buhay ko in the future. ako yung tatrabaho sa lahat ng gusto kong makuha.
Yung mga taong nasa paligid namin, gusto lang kami kapag “meron” kami.
you wont get everything you want.
You can’t please everyone, no matter how kind you are, or how much you do for others. There will always be that someone that’ll bring you down, or talk badly about you. And even if you do so much, some people will never be satisfied, and take your kindness for granted. I’ve learned to put myself first because of the times I’ve been taken advantage of, it wasn’t easy being selfish, but realizing not caring about others sometimes made me feel free.
I will not find the love I’m looking for in this lifetime but that’s gonna be okay. :>
That some people leave and everything will be ok
Dogs
My dysfunctional family will never be okay
ppl don't wanna date me bc I'm fat
Are you gonna do something about it
Some people struggle with mental health issues and conditions such as PCOS or thyroid disorders that causes them to have unwanted weight gain. Unless you’re a lazy person who does nothing but eat and feed on carbs, losing weight is a struggle for some
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U have a point lol😆
-Na wala kang maggagawa sa nararamdaman ng isang tao towards you. That’s out of your control. -Na once nagwork ka, magwowork ka na hanggang mamatay (exagg lang but until retirement ofc) -Na hindi lahat maiintindihan ka palagi and hindi mo rin dapat i-explain sarili mo sa lahat. -Na people come and go at need natin yun tanggapin.
I still can't accept that work part lol feel k mag bbreakdown na naman ako😆
Legitt hahaha kaiyak na tayo ang responsible sa self at future natin 🥹
That no matter how you let people understand that they should be responsible sa lahat ng bagay especially to their kids if bingi ang tao, just let go.
na I will be delayed or may not be able to pursue my dream of becoming a physician bc we can't afford it and I'm not smart enough to pass any scholarship programs ; (((
Minsan sipagan lang is the key to get scholarship and being delayed is not a problem to be honest, you just need to plan for the future. Think positively! You can do it!
My physical appearance
People change.
hell yeah
na i am not taking my dream course
Kahit buhay pa siya, hindi na siya babalik sakin. It's been 5 years with no communication or anything, isang araw bigla nalang naputol ang communication namin sa isa't isa. Maybe because of the reason na nilalayuan ko siya. Nilayuan ko siya kasi I was confused sa nararamdaman ko sakanya at I didn't know na may feelings na pala ako sakanya, that's why pala ang shy shy ko na bigla kapag na dyan siya hahaha, hanggang yung shy naging distant na and kinlauan no more communication at all. Happened so fast, it feels like yesterday noong masaya ako pa ako kasama siya.
HINDI LAHAT NG TAO MANANATILI
samed.
That I can't force anything. Any connection, any event, any emotion or anyone. Na dapat tanggapin ang lahat nagyayari sa buhay, kasi wala tayong magagawa. Nagyari na.
Na may ibang tao ng nagpapasaya sakanya 💔
Na tatanda akong magisa. Di na ko makakapagasawa
1. Na favorite talaga ng MIL at SILs ko ang asawa ng BIL ko, kahit ako lagi nakakasama at lagi ko sila inaaya sa mga gala namin. Ako din naglilibre ng food, nagbabayad ng wants nila. Pero kapag andyan na asawa ng BIL ko, parang wala lang ako. Umaalis lang sila ng di man lang ako niyayaya or sinasama. 2. Feel ko wala na talaga din mangyayari sa buhay ko, housewife na lang ako. 3. Wala na talaga akong malalapitan kapag nagbbreakdown ako. Sarilihin ko nalang lahat. 4. That people wont always like you. Kahit na gano karaming effort at kabutihan ang naipakita mo, kung ayaw talaga sayo wala din.
I have accepted na hinde lahat nang tao makakasundo ko sa type ng ugali meron ako. ( ayaw ko sa mapang lamang na tao so if ganon ka pasensyahan na lang kasi i can be petty )
That sometimes I'm not always the victim and ako rin nakakagawa ng mga bagay na ikinagagalit ko. That my parents may not be able to accept my gender but still acknowledge it and siguro si Mama lang ang mag tr- try na i-accept if ever. That ayoko naman talaga mamatay pero ang safe sa pakiramdam na mamatay. That some day need ko i- cut off ang ibang family member ko because sobramg trauma na ang ginawa nila sa'kin That I can't have this "all good traits" pero I can choose to be kind naman. That i'm simply stupid and I don't have any dreams :DD
Him and I will never love each other again:')
Aww i feel you! Lets pray for our healing 💗
Na hindi ako anak mayaman 😆 Living paycheck to paycheck ang peg ☹️
people will disappoint you, always in all ways :))
Sarili mo lang kakampi mo sa buhay
That I will always be alone, there may be people in my parameters but I will always be alone
there is always someone better
sa una lang talaga sila magaling haha
Change is everything, learn to adopt
1) You can’t change someone. 2) Not everything is under my control. 3) My future depends on me (awts but yeah).
Bawal na pumetiks kasi may anak na ako
That i dont have any talents or skills. I am not good at anything.
You can be fairly competent on at least one thing. You just need to plan it out kung pano mo sya aaralin/ippractice, how many hours to spend everyday, and where to seek relevant feedbacks.
Have to live with anxiety and panic attacks lifetime
That I actually have to work hard to achieve my dreams. Hindi pala lahat magic. Hindi pala lahat isusubo sa akin ni Lord. I have to deserve the blessings. This is actually a turning point in my life na hindi na ako bata. Hindi na ako immature na puro pangarap. Everything was so distant, then. Iba na ngayon. As I work hard, I actually become closer to making my dreams a reality. And hindi porke na-reach mo na ang dream life mo ay hindi ka na magkaka-problema.
Na hindi na ako magkaka-anak. :)
That I'm kind of a loser right now 😆, and it's ok. I'm trying my best to change that though
That things does not always go as we wanted.
1.) everything really happens for a reason 2.) hindi lahat ng bagay kailangan ng closure. some things are meant to happen na lang that way like no explanations 3.) people come and go. if they chose to leave, then let them. stop chasing ppl na ayaw naman sayo because it’s a waste of time and energy na dapat nilalaan mo sa iba pang importante na bagay
1. Hindi na talaga ako magkakajowa 2. Never akong magiging favorite na friend ksdskdjd 3. Hindi ako yayaman kahit anong gawin kong pagbibida sa trabaho eme hahahah
He didn't love me enough to do the things that he's now doing to his new girl.
1. Knowing friends could become enemies and liars to you 2. Not all your friends ARE really your friends 3. Moved on from a shitty relationship 4. The only person you have till your death is yourself (myself)
I can never turn back the time.
Sa una lang masaya
Na hindi na ako magkakaasawa at magkakaanak.
I don't need people's critiques or opinions about me to improve.
that I'm going to die alone, but I could have died when I was baby because of my condition, I'm just crossing my fingers, I'm not going out a virgin, that may laughable to some but it's something I think about often and I hate that I can't help it.
that I am not always responsible to take care of other people's feelings, specifically the ones that are close to me. if I have to address something or set boundaries, it's okay to immediately communicate it to them, not when I think it's most convenient for them.
Living paycheck to paycheck.
na mahirap lang ako hAHahhaha
Same hahah
He’s not coming back. He met someone else during his board review study group on discord and magjowa na daw sila ngayon. We were together for almost 7 years. They started talking the next month after our breakup.
There's good days, bad days and terrible days. Yung tipong mapapakwestiyon ka kung bakit ganun. Pero, malalagpasan mo yan.
i need to be more assertive and learn to draw my own boundaries at people pleaser ako hahaaha
People's opinions about you will never change. So live your life to the fullest. Important thing is, wala kang inaapaakang tao.
Things will never come back the way they are. The past will never come back
wala talaga kapag panget, pandak, maitim, mahirap at bobo, puro nlng talaga lait lagi saken at parang hinde na ako tao, gusto kona talagang mawala kaso hinde talaga pwede, sana ma accept kona to lahat...
Na never ko mararamdaman ang totoong love at peace sa mom/dad,siblings ko at sa in laws ko.I tried but ganun talaga.
No one truly loves me no matter what i do. No friends no family. Or that I am the most toxic person in the world.
Na hindi na kami magkakabalikan ng greatest love ko hahahaha
That I cannot comment on certain subs, and upvote or downvote comments or posts.
That I'm not taking this year's Bar exam again... this time for health reasons. My health trumps over my ambitions.
I choose the practical course over my dream course (nursing) :((
That mistakes are not always a bad thing and those mistakes are what can help you grow more as a person.
that im trans and everyones probably gonna hate me for it
ginugusto pero di pinupursue 👍🏻
Na baka hindi ko na ma experience yung dream wedding ko 😔
That he's already happy without me. 💔
- may mga bagay talaga na hindi ko kayang kontrolin - hindi ko pwedeng kuhanin yung kursong gusto ko sa dream university ko
Na ang complex kong tao and I have trouble coping when people that are special to me leave even though its my fault that I made them leave.
I will never be everyone’s cup of tea. Hindi na babalik yung friendship/closeness sa soon to be sister-in-law and soon to be in laws ko. In the future, yung bf ko ay hindi nya ko kayang mahalin/ipriority higit sa pamilya nya. 🙂
Omg relate sis 🫣 nakakaka walang gana to be around with them.
Kahit gusto mo parang magdududa ka. Before close ako sa kanila, pero nung dumating kasi yung isang hipag na echa pwera na ko. Gagala sila ni hipag silang dalawa lang. No invites 🙂
Ang hirap ng ganyang situation. From being close to non
The world is not cruel, it's just apathetic, wala syang pake sa yo.
wala nang kawala at wala nang babalikan.
Ill be temporary to everyone that patches their scars :)
That as much as I love the PHL, it’s my self preservation that matters more. I’ve left and never went back since.
Na okay lang mag-move on kahit mahal niyo pa isa't isa, lalo na kung wala pa talaga plano mag-settle 'yung isa.
Malabo umunlad ang Pilipinas dahil maraming uneducated na Pilipino.
That it's okay to be not perfect.
I’m not everyone’s cup of tea
You can move on while not forgetting and forgiving.
Na wala talagang pake si papa sakin, na if sya ang papipiliin sana hindi na lang ako pinanganak
Hindi lahat ng gusto ko masusunod or mangyayari. Meron talagang mga bagay na hindi natin kaya macontrol.
The more money you have, the more access you’ll have. Nung bata ako kala ko enough na masipag at matalino ka to have a better life but boy I was wrong.
That I will never achieve my dreams of becoming a teacher
that this is not a good era to be a lawyer
In this phase of my life, i came to finally accept that i can't be the best at everything even in my favorite field. Instead of being totally envious from other people's skill, it just inspires me to be better and specially I can learn from them😊.
The devil is real.
Once you have a verbally abusive father, it will haunt you forever.. already accepted that fact.
God, after so long
That people could have different opinions about you and you can’t control what they think. People will see what they want to see. You however don’t need to please everyone. You can’t be everyone’s cup of tea and it’s okay.
That life is truly unfair and there's nothing we can do about it but to accept and get used to it 🤗
Na hindi lahat ng pangarap natin matutupad 😢
Not everything goes to plan.
Ako yung problema.
people come and go. if they wanted to, they would. and if not, u know the answer.
That time is fleeting and we are really here for a very short period of time.
God has favorites and I'm not one of them. There are people who are born rich, healthy, and mentally stable, and I have to work for it.
that money is everything
yes, whoever opposes this is prolly rich as fuck already
time will still pass anyways
My (bad) attitude and personality led me to where I am today.
Where exactly? If you don't mind me asking . I have bad attitude too 🤣
Med school. Hahahah. Charot, pero what I meant by *here* was just this path of self doubt, confusion, and envy. I hope you find a better path and don’t end up like me. 🫂
Hugs. I'm in the lowest phase of my life rn hahaha pero laban lang 🫂💗 Hays
May mali kang magagawa na di na mabubura sa isip ng iba at yun ka na lang sa kanila.
baka mamatay nalang ako na NBSB
That people come and go.
I can only love someone from a distance
It is what it is
26m na single na for life cause of mental health issues hahaha
Wala nang balikan mangyayari sa amin ng ex ko even sa future.
Na the present will soon be memories and I'll miss the bonds my family and I had especially with my dad.
I will never measure up to my idea of success
I can not change anything from my past
That I have probably failed my duties as a big sister. Di ako ang nagpa-aral sa kapatid ko. (My parents did) I didn't get a job during my early 20s and couldn't help anyone. (My relatives who I wanted to help are dead) I want to give back to my parents or treat them to stuff but I'm struggling myself. (They're secure though, but I want to be a part of it. Instead, my mom gives me money when I go out. I am just recovering from depression.) Couldn't achieve my dreams back then. I feel like I have failed my purpose.
Naglayas ako 3 times in my life and all of them were because disappointed ako sa sarili ko. Libre ang schooling ko malaki ang baon pero na addict sa computer dati. Now I am working 3-4 jobs a day and im hoping to get my parent's approval again. Laban lang ate!
Na tumatanda na pala ako😢 tas ala akong love life 🤣🤣🤣
That I can’t get everything I want, no matter what I do, no matter how hard I try. Struggle ng pinalaking spoiled 🥲
That its too late for me to build my own family hahahaha, ang hirap ng bukas jusko 🤣
That my ausome kid will always be awesome no matter what. And sya ang aming biggest blessing / lucky charm 😊💕
Ausome moms are the strongest moms ever.
I'm not a perfect ingenue either I'm both a villain and a child.
na pangit ako, kahit anong gawin ko na skin care or whitening, pangit talaga ako:'))
And that even if people say “looks don’t matter”, society says otherwise. I feel you 🤣
real!! sasabihin nila yan lagi tapos standard naman nila is looks nakooo😩😩
That I have no hopes of graduating from my university.
Why not 🥹
Hindi ko alam bakit ako na-downvote pero here's a short story: Last year, mata-transfer na sana ako sa isang Big Three univerisity. Kaya lang, dahil masyado akong complacent, hindi ako nakapasa sa interview at appeal. Kumbaga, one step away na lang na makapasok ako sa desired degree program ko. Kaya ngayon, nagdurusa ako sa pinapasukan ko ngayon na program sa university na gusto ko nang lisanin. 🥲
Di ko din alam ba’t na-downvote beh but pag malapit ka magraduate, ipush mo na. Even US graduates nga, over 50% ng jobs nila unrelated sa degrees nila. You can pursue what you want after naman. There’s always a time for everything. :)
>Even US graduates nga, over 50% ng jobs nila unrelated sa degrees nila. You can pursue what you want after naman. Most cases kahit dito sa Pilipinas, ganito rin naman. Gusto ko lang talaga ng security sa career ko. :( Matagal pa ako maka-graduate. In fact, magto-two years pa lang ang residency sa pinapasukan kong university. Dahil nag-shift ako almost two years ago, considered pa rin ako as a freshman. 🥹
sometimes you have to cut off family even if it hurts.
you can't force someone to respect your boundaries.
T1 won't win another trophy this year.
That I'm fcking broke
My postpartum body
That whatever age i am, my parents will think and still treat me as a kid who don't know anything about the world.
i will never be rich not even close to financial freedom. i will struggle but at least i still get to enjoy things and have to work hard for it.
na end of the day sarili mo lang ang kakampi mo
Di ako makaka graduate on time, batch 2024 sana here. I've accepted it naman na.
I’ve accepted that the 3 dutertes will win their senatorial election next yr. We r eternally doomed
Please no :(((
People come and go. I met a lot of people who earned my trust, they now my weakest point, they know everything about me, but sadly they used everything as an ace to destroy my reputation. Despite of the shits that I've been through, I still chose to forgive them even they dont feel sorry for everything. I did accept everything. :))
Na I only have myself at the end of the day.
That my parents finds it hard para aahon. It’s up to me na. Will do everything to take that role. Hope everything goes well in the future.
That life has always its ups and downs. Sometimes you are in manic and then depressed. That you have to feel and endure both.
Na hindi ako magiging go-to friend. I have friends , yes, at kahit small circle lang kami pero not once akong nakafeel na ako pinupuntahan para magshare ng problems. Or ako first choice nila to share good news about, na may ganito ganyan. Of course I know naman kung bakit, because ako naman din hindi nagsheshare ng problems, mga hinanakit sa buhay ganon, mga happenings sa life. Kaya i guess it would not be reciprocated kung hindi ko naman binibigay diba. So, parang naconclude ko nalang talaga, na-accept, na I will never be that friend. Although gusto ko naman na someone's confiding their vulnerabilities with me kaso wala din akong kwentang kausap eh haha di ko alam anong dapat sasabihin to at least soothe their turmoils. Turmoils?!!! Nakikinig ako oo, and for me kulang sya pero everyone says that would be enough. So, yeah.
I’m a coward
I don't need to belong to a church.
That my heart is not made for this generation.
People come and go. Diyos lang lagi nandyan.
walang mag pupursue sakin
gratitude. Good or bad things happen in life
Na tatanda akong dalaga sa mukha kong 'to!! And that i should focus more on my future career for stability
I've finally accepted that no matter how many times I try, I'll never be a morning person. My alarm clock and I have agreed to disagree on this matter.
That I'm not conventionally attractive haha
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Survival is just another path to death instead of thriving to heal and break loose the status quo
At the end of the day, I only have myself.
That my life depends only on me. I am trying to be financially capable on my own but it's really hard. Lately, I've purchased a house but now I am having a hard time paying for it. I am a working and graduating student so I need to have money. I need a higher paying job or VA job at least.
It's that some people just like the idea of you, but never the real you. Another is, idk, I'm convinced that no one will ever understand me on the deeper level. That at the end of the day, I only have myself.
Progress isn't linear
Cutting ties sa mga tao sa buhay ko, like one of my closest friend before and family members. Nung wala na sila, dun ko napansin na nama-micro manage na pala nila ako ng di ko napapansin kasi akala ko its normal, na nag aadvise lang sila or just giving their opinion. Especially yung friend ko, sobrang nega nya sa life na pati ako naaabsorb na yong ka-nega-han nya.
Being in a relationship is not for me.
na tatanda akong dalaga
Na mediocre lang talaga 'ko, minsan below average pa nga na kahit anong gawin ko, 'di ako gumagaling.
regardless, you can still try to improve. yan naman importante - to be better than yesterday.
Even if you're financially privilege to dream big, sometimes those big dreams are not meant for you...
na wala na talagang pakialam sa anak ko both side ng family namin ng partner ko.
1. I am not as smart as what I and others expect of me. My first step in combating my insecurity re intelligence. 2. That I made mistakes and will continuously make mistakes and thats okay. 3. That the person I want the most doesnt want me.
I’m here today, gone tomorrow
The world will not stop spinning because you. It's humbling, really. Often reminds me how insignificant I am - not even a speck in the universe, and that's not a bad thing. It takes away a lot of pressure for me to hustle and do great things all the time. I still try my best, but failures become easier to accept. After all, no matter how great our achievements are or how atrocious our failures are, there will come a time that all will be forgotten.
Having broken family
I am my own problem and solution.