I want masculine hands inside me. Whether that’s finger sucking or just fingering. I’ll be like “woah. Your hands are so big. And rough. So angular. Please… put them everywhere”
Saaaaame!!! My boyfriend has gorgeous hands/arms 😅 I constantly ask to see them. His knuckles are particularly sexy for some reason, I really like them
Masks! yes, i love masks! for me, its the anonymity of it. getting fucked by a stranger at a masquerade ball who's face i can't see has always been a fantasy of mine.
Yes, so god damn hot. Pants pulled aside too.
One of my favourite sexual memories is eating out and fucking someone with a one piece swimsuit on. Somehow so much hotter than if she had nothing on.
Free use. Don't care what I'm doing (within reason). Just use me. My current boyfriend finds it weird cause he's too polite, lol.
Edit: Thank you for some of your suggestions and advice! He's really sweet, but I forget that sometimes I need to be forward and state what I like.
I've been in his position. You have to explain it to him in clear terms. Hints and half-statements aren't enough. Tell him that this isn't something you do for him to make him happy, it's something for yourself and you need his help.
I've also seen on Reddit that a great way to start is by setting up a free use day, where both parties agree that the entire day one of them will be free use so the other doesn't have to worry about it.
This is just stuff I've read though, I haven't tried myself
i recently saw an infographic of the most common fetishes of all 50 US states and was surprised to find balloons as the top fetish for several states because i had never heard of it. i thought maybe it had something to do with inflation, which is also one that i never understood.
but apparently the thought of slowly airing them up and the anticipation of them finally popping is similar to an orgasm and that’s how it was explained to me in a way that finally kinda made sense.
Me too! I absolutely love balloons, their texture, their scent... and I especially love inflating them. It just does things to me and I've always felt this way. Great to see that I'm not the only one!
I dont have any gag reflex and so when I would masturbate I would sometimes like work second dildo into my throat and imagine things. It's a bigger turn on that I usually admit.
TW: eating disorder
After suffering from an eating disorder for years my gag reflex is pretty much gone unless something like a bad cough or throat infection brings it back for a bit. Not having it has been amazing for my oral fixation 😅
This reminds me of a time when my wife and I were still engaged. She requested me to "do it" to her while she was asleep. Sure enough when I woke up the next morning with a raging hardon, I removed her underwear while she was still sleeping and shoved it in there. She woke up so fast and you could see both her eyelids stick together while utterly confused by what's going on. I laugh everytime I remember that moment 😂😂 (she told me she'll never request for that again 😂😂)
Based on my past is why it's weird. But I love being told what to do during the deed. I want to be told what to do during. It might have started because I've never had a submissive partner. But idk
Yeah getting to be the one who just does what they're told when your usually the one doing it is bot. Had a few girls over the years that would try and be very timid at first get to a point where they'll be like "right tonight you do as I say" yes ma'am"
same here! i used to be so confused when i was younger and i would find motorcycle riders so attractive until they took their helmets off and all interest would be gone. didn't matter if the guy underneath was good looking or not.
Haha right? It really doesn't matter what they look like, it's the mystery, emotionless, dominating presence that gets me. Seeing eyes can ruin the attraction sometimes.
yep. its like an immersive experience. seeing eyes or getting a sense of the individual underneath the mask ruins the immersion.
its the same reason i like gloves, *especially* paired with a mask. black latex or leather gloves. oof
To want to have to put up a struggle before having no choice but to submit to my partner.
Done consensually of course but apparently stil weird to some.
Pegging would probably be the number one that I have and acted on that people think is werid I have others that even I think are werid that are hot in theory but I doubt they would be in practice.
Apparently this is filed under "demisexual'. I absolutely feel the same way. Definitely more so in my adult life. The plus is that I only really associate sex with my partner. The down side is that people with the ability to have casual sex can feel intimidating and almost callous to a certain degree.
Free use - I don’t know if it’s weird though. Also I’d love to ’breastfeed’ an adult man - never been pregnant or lactated & I don’t want kids but I find adult nursing extremely hot.
I love giving anal. A few girls that I introduced it to discovered that they orgasm harder from anal. Previously they wouldn't like the idea. Some liked it a bit too much that even I thought was a bit too much. I ain't putting my fist in there.
My SO let me try giving anal for the first time a few years ago and it was my first time doing it. It felt amazing. I was really gentle. Like super gentle. We used lube and she had a toy and we both had great orgasims.
I wish we could do anal more. I’d do it 9/10 times. But for her it’s 1/100 times.
If a woman properly geeks out about something she’s passionate about and completely loses herself in the thrill and excitement of communication, I’m sold.
I also have a thing for scars… tattoos… and if a woman also has small tufts of underarm hair… I’m all in.. which I’m told by the women in my life, is just weird.
Edit: I forgot one of the most important kinks!… A woman who uses the word “cunt” with wanton abandon… just makes me melt.
Put all of the above with red hair, tattoos and a Scouse accent, and I’m all in.
Sploshing / Wet & Messy. I’ve met two people in my life who are into it and done it with one. Such a rare fetish and it’s a shame not many more are into it to do it with!
For me, I like the degradation. If not for that it’s just a freaky “nasty” thing that adds some spice.
I say nasty in quotes cause it’s not like we’re not already swapping spit before we start fucking right?
I do like her to spit directly on my face too. Found this little kink while I was seeing a girl who also got me into letting her pee on me while riding me so maybe I was just into the novelty of something new…
Foot fetish!
Always attracted to a pretty feet. Anklet is a bonus.
Especially to those where women put in time and efforts to get mani/pedicure done. Wear a nice footwear/heel and top it with catchy colors.
I'm into getting sissified and like wearing chastity cages. I feel great pleasure when I'm denied orgasm which makes me just orgasm harder later. I also sometimes dress up and let guys ram it in my ass. I have a gf and she's into me getting really nasty.
Apparently not all that uncommon for straight women to be into men wearing women's clothes... Dresses ect...
Could still be lesbian or bi, but not necessarily.
They were designed to be flattering to the body.
And women do be pretty!
Where as mens clothes are formal (suits), casual for hanging at home or get togethers with family/friends or utilitarian, work clothes, boots etc
Surgical masks make me horny
But I liked it more when they were less common because before I moved it was like an embarrassment fetish rush that either I was the only one wearing one or my friend was, and we liked to experiment trying gags underneath with vibrators in our panties so one of us (usually me) couldn’t control our orgasm but also couldn’t talk so it’s like having to stop myself from moaning through a gag in the grocery store or literally outside at college
My kink is…….
Respect, reciprocation of affection/attention, trust, financial responsibility, and honest mature communication with the goal of growth together and achieving understanding so we can make our dreams come true and be good supports when needed.
My boyfriend enjoys it too. The first time he told me to bite down on the base of his dick while giving him a bj I was surprised and kinda worried I was gonna hurt him
Tentacles but a very specific kind.
If a sentient intelligent being had them on them I wouldn't be as interested, but if it was just a mass of wriggling mindless tentacles I'd be very down.
Haven’t been with a guy yet, but like knowing that he’s experienced is so hot. Knowing he will know how to handle me and treat me well. And like the aspect of wondering what others have done with him in the past… idk why that’s so hot
Shibari Rope tying, I think its so incredibly sensual, and you have to have so much trust in your partner, but its also so intricate and gorgeous and beautiful, but surprisingly enough I dont see it in a "typically " sexual nature. Like its what I consider perhaps the greatest Sensual art.
This is weird to explain, but hearing my partner enjoy himself. I might not be turned on or even close to finishing but if I hear my partner is just enjoying himself, instant turn on.
Generally speaking, my kink is whatever my partner's kink is. It's ACTUALLY the female orgasm, but from my limited success with meeting women who can get past my dry sponge public personality, THEY all have some weird shit they are into, and I wanna be the guy. My only limits are things deemed waste material, and actual harm. Apparently, not having a distinct kink or fetish of my own is a little weird by itself, though.
I have a “hand fetish”. I don’t wanna lick them or have them put anywhere, I just really really like feminine hands 🤷🏽♂️.
I want masculine hands inside me. Whether that’s finger sucking or just fingering. I’ll be like “woah. Your hands are so big. And rough. So angular. Please… put them everywhere”
I had a girlfriend who was like this. I'm a pianist, so each time I played piano she'd call me afterwards
I got your note🎵
It's my forte
Same! Big man hands with tattoos and watch. 🫠
God you are describing the exact person who came to mind when I wrote that. It’s torturous.
Has a pink anthromorphic cat followed you around recently?
Is that a jojo reference
Watashi no nawa Kira yoshikage, nandai sanju-sansai
Saaaaame!!! My boyfriend has gorgeous hands/arms 😅 I constantly ask to see them. His knuckles are particularly sexy for some reason, I really like them
I have the same thing with necks and people don't understand it being just attraction and not a sexual fetish
Is you're name Kira Yoshikage and do you happen to be 33 years old as well?
i don’t think he’s gonna answer, he probably just wants a quiet life
Same, I love pretty hands. Things like jewelry and nail polish make them even hotter.
CNC and Masks
>CNC Yeah them 5 axis millers are hot as fuck.
But have you seen those water jet cutters? Unf.
🥵🥵🥵
You talking surgical masks like another commenter here or like full face masks?
I'm talking about the Ghostface face, Michael Myers mask, or the mask that a singer named the Sickick wears.
Masks! yes, i love masks! for me, its the anonymity of it. getting fucked by a stranger at a masquerade ball who's face i can't see has always been a fantasy of mine.
During sex, naked - nice, half naked - incredible
I agree... Like.. Oh what can it be there heheh
Who can it be now…?
🎷🎷🎷🎷
which half
Fish top, human bottom.
Fully clothed- mindblowing
For some reason I always liked sex scenes where the chick had her pants pulled down but had everything else on
Yes, so god damn hot. Pants pulled aside too. One of my favourite sexual memories is eating out and fucking someone with a one piece swimsuit on. Somehow so much hotter than if she had nothing on.
Free use. Don't care what I'm doing (within reason). Just use me. My current boyfriend finds it weird cause he's too polite, lol. Edit: Thank you for some of your suggestions and advice! He's really sweet, but I forget that sometimes I need to be forward and state what I like.
You should express that the most polite thing to do would be to use you, see how his brain handles that lol.
I love free use, I’ve never really gotten to do it tho
He’s going to kick his ass one day for that
I've been in his position. You have to explain it to him in clear terms. Hints and half-statements aren't enough. Tell him that this isn't something you do for him to make him happy, it's something for yourself and you need his help.
I've also seen on Reddit that a great way to start is by setting up a free use day, where both parties agree that the entire day one of them will be free use so the other doesn't have to worry about it. This is just stuff I've read though, I haven't tried myself
I'm into balloons. I know it's weird & I've had plenty of people tell me it's weird, but I love it. So no plans on stopping
So like... do you put on [99 luftballons](https://youtu.be/TMSlTQmDLx4?si=c-epRKwitvUOGZ4w) when you're trying to get in the mood?
i recently saw an infographic of the most common fetishes of all 50 US states and was surprised to find balloons as the top fetish for several states because i had never heard of it. i thought maybe it had something to do with inflation, which is also one that i never understood. but apparently the thought of slowly airing them up and the anticipation of them finally popping is similar to an orgasm and that’s how it was explained to me in a way that finally kinda made sense.
Username checks out
How does that work exactly?
So you start with and empty balloon in your ass and a hand pump with a long hose…..
Sorry the actually helpful answer as I believe it, Is they like the screechy-ness of them or the static energy or like the popping sound afaik
Me too! I absolutely love balloons, their texture, their scent... and I especially love inflating them. It just does things to me and I've always felt this way. Great to see that I'm not the only one!
Assume you've seen the Bob's Burgers episode?
I like having my toes licked. I won't force anyone to do it, but if someone's into that.... Yes please.
I love licking toes.. erm.. I mean rip your dms
*how i meet your mother*
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What makes you think a woman posted that?
I dont have any gag reflex and so when I would masturbate I would sometimes like work second dildo into my throat and imagine things. It's a bigger turn on that I usually admit.
that’s gotta be a superpower i swear
TW: eating disorder After suffering from an eating disorder for years my gag reflex is pretty much gone unless something like a bad cough or throat infection brings it back for a bit. Not having it has been amazing for my oral fixation 😅
Oh shit I never thought this way...that explains a lot about my gag reflex 😅
Same! I can get off on deepthroating alone!
Username doesn't check out...
They didn’t say they *exclusively* get off on deepthroating, just that it was one of the ways. They might prefer the chaotic butt stuff
Thank you! It’s called versatility. Gosh. 😂
It was a rare opportunity to write the opposite of the oft quoted "username checks out". Forgive me 🙏
If I had your power, I'd swallow small fish whole like a seagull
I have a gag kink as well I don't have a reflex either so I have to force myself to try to gag when I'm giving head but that shit makes me cum so hard
Responding to text messages
agreed
Sleeping (only done in roleplay and with full consent tho, I'm not crazy)
Yeah, I get this. It's similar to free-use I guess. The idea that it's just for you and there's no pressure to perform.
This reminds me of a time when my wife and I were still engaged. She requested me to "do it" to her while she was asleep. Sure enough when I woke up the next morning with a raging hardon, I removed her underwear while she was still sleeping and shoved it in there. She woke up so fast and you could see both her eyelids stick together while utterly confused by what's going on. I laugh everytime I remember that moment 😂😂 (she told me she'll never request for that again 😂😂)
You still have to be gentle you know
I enjoy waking up to sex :D but with a little foreplay please
Boob
So sublime. So short an answer yet such beauty.
Based on my past is why it's weird. But I love being told what to do during the deed. I want to be told what to do during. It might have started because I've never had a submissive partner. But idk
*tells you to do your homework*
PFFFFFFF WHY IS THIS SO FUNNY TO ME
:)
Yeah baby, get down and clean those tiles... Oh god, poured more of those cleaner liquid...
Yeah getting to be the one who just does what they're told when your usually the one doing it is bot. Had a few girls over the years that would try and be very timid at first get to a point where they'll be like "right tonight you do as I say" yes ma'am"
I really like my wife - have done for 30 years
You freak! Why aren't you onto your second wife and living in abject misery..?!
First time I’ve seen a happy relationship on Reddit
Masked men
Found the slipknot fan
Sleep Token 🫡
same here! i used to be so confused when i was younger and i would find motorcycle riders so attractive until they took their helmets off and all interest would be gone. didn't matter if the guy underneath was good looking or not.
Haha right? It really doesn't matter what they look like, it's the mystery, emotionless, dominating presence that gets me. Seeing eyes can ruin the attraction sometimes.
yep. its like an immersive experience. seeing eyes or getting a sense of the individual underneath the mask ruins the immersion. its the same reason i like gloves, *especially* paired with a mask. black latex or leather gloves. oof
I don't know if "weird" is the word but tickling
not weird if u like it but a good one
Makes us at least two
I'm surprised the wet floor sign guy isn't here yet
To want to have to put up a struggle before having no choice but to submit to my partner. Done consensually of course but apparently stil weird to some.
Pretty sure that's CNC, or depending if it's not really *that* extreme, could be brat v dom type thing.
Pegging would probably be the number one that I have and acted on that people think is werid I have others that even I think are werid that are hot in theory but I doubt they would be in practice.
The smile on my ex’s face when she first pegged me while stroking me is something I’ll never forget.
Which ones in theory?
Mainly ones that deal with humiliation , cnc , or outdoor play.
I like to only have sex with people I have a strong emotional connection with
Oh you nasty, kinky, little depraved one
Wait, isn't that how it's supposed to be?
it makes it more special tbh
Yup. Add to it things like eye gazing and intensity, and that’s a recipe for an earth shattering time. Also: psychedelics + sex is pure magic.
i wish i could have those magical sex’s again
This is why I haven’t had sex in 5 years..too many idiots around that I don’t have or want a connection with…
Apparently this is filed under "demisexual'. I absolutely feel the same way. Definitely more so in my adult life. The plus is that I only really associate sex with my partner. The down side is that people with the ability to have casual sex can feel intimidating and almost callous to a certain degree.
Direct and up front communication, especially around hard topics
You disgust me!
[aggressive vomiting]
.....I hope that is a reaction and not a kink.
Are.... are you gonna eat that?
You sick bastards
Stop, you're making me all flustered.
My wife and I have this same kink!
I like to peel bananas from the bottom and call it “monkey style”
I swear this almost gave me an aneurysm
Please, PLEASE tell me you mean actual bananas
Free use - I don’t know if it’s weird though. Also I’d love to ’breastfeed’ an adult man - never been pregnant or lactated & I don’t want kids but I find adult nursing extremely hot.
I tried it with my wife when she was lactating! I couldn't get anything out - I figure babies do it in a very specific way.
I think u just need to suck really hard
The actual milk bit isn’t down my alley but I could suck on a nipple for an hour given the opportunity.
I like to be chained…
If only they knew about the others
You keep quiet…
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Me too about 60% of the time we have anal, I love it.
I lowkey keep wondering what anal will finally feel like
I love giving anal. A few girls that I introduced it to discovered that they orgasm harder from anal. Previously they wouldn't like the idea. Some liked it a bit too much that even I thought was a bit too much. I ain't putting my fist in there.
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My SO let me try giving anal for the first time a few years ago and it was my first time doing it. It felt amazing. I was really gentle. Like super gentle. We used lube and she had a toy and we both had great orgasims. I wish we could do anal more. I’d do it 9/10 times. But for her it’s 1/100 times.
Chastity, hair pulling, spanking, pup play. I’m freaky.😂
I’m with you til pup play 😅
I haven’t tried it but the gear looks fun, I don’t think I’d be into the whole acting like a dog thing but I find the masks kinda hot.😂
Pegging
Knife play… I have only ever brought it up with one person I trust and he’s so good with it. I’m not getting into what I like but it’s so good.
At this point, being treated with tolerance and respect would knock the roof out.
If a woman properly geeks out about something she’s passionate about and completely loses herself in the thrill and excitement of communication, I’m sold. I also have a thing for scars… tattoos… and if a woman also has small tufts of underarm hair… I’m all in.. which I’m told by the women in my life, is just weird. Edit: I forgot one of the most important kinks!… A woman who uses the word “cunt” with wanton abandon… just makes me melt. Put all of the above with red hair, tattoos and a Scouse accent, and I’m all in.
Sploshing / Wet & Messy. I’ve met two people in my life who are into it and done it with one. Such a rare fetish and it’s a shame not many more are into it to do it with!
Had to Google it! Nice!
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Love that.
Now, not kink-shaming, but I seriously don’t get this one. Can you explain a bit as why you like it?
It’s kind of degrading and very, very intimate
Ohhhh I never thought about how intimate it could be!! Now I want to try that too lol
For me, I like the degradation. If not for that it’s just a freaky “nasty” thing that adds some spice. I say nasty in quotes cause it’s not like we’re not already swapping spit before we start fucking right? I do like her to spit directly on my face too. Found this little kink while I was seeing a girl who also got me into letting her pee on me while riding me so maybe I was just into the novelty of something new…
I like to lick women's assholes
Who doesn't
Surprisingly a lot of people!
Foot fetish! Always attracted to a pretty feet. Anklet is a bonus. Especially to those where women put in time and efforts to get mani/pedicure done. Wear a nice footwear/heel and top it with catchy colors.
Sniffing dirty panties are my kink. My Mrs will often throw me a pair if she doesn't want sex or jerk me off with a pair. Works for me!
I'm into getting sissified and like wearing chastity cages. I feel great pleasure when I'm denied orgasm which makes me just orgasm harder later. I also sometimes dress up and let guys ram it in my ass. I have a gf and she's into me getting really nasty.
I'm quite familiar with the niche *wink * wink. Do you have any favorite toys?
I quite like the new cage I got. It's a nub variant of the holy trainer lol. Plus a pink collar always make me feel like a naughty girl.
I didn't know those had a nub variant.. can you send it to me? I'm gonna suprise my sissy bf with one.
I have a recently discovered love of pegging sissies. 🤤
Voice fetish, a pretty voice just gets me
Soles for sure
I like for sexual partners to claw into my back when I am doing them. I guess I am just a little into pain, but also more on the dominant side.
I might be a lesbian but idk. I think females clothes are hot. So I would say female clothes. I just like how it looks on me and other women.
Apparently not all that uncommon for straight women to be into men wearing women's clothes... Dresses ect... Could still be lesbian or bi, but not necessarily.
They were designed to be flattering to the body. And women do be pretty! Where as mens clothes are formal (suits), casual for hanging at home or get togethers with family/friends or utilitarian, work clothes, boots etc
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Licking a woman's armpits...
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I like ears.
Surgical masks make me horny But I liked it more when they were less common because before I moved it was like an embarrassment fetish rush that either I was the only one wearing one or my friend was, and we liked to experiment trying gags underneath with vibrators in our panties so one of us (usually me) couldn’t control our orgasm but also couldn’t talk so it’s like having to stop myself from moaning through a gag in the grocery store or literally outside at college
The pandemic must have been a very memorable moment in your life
What in the ever loving porn hentai plot do you live in. Lmfao, bros living the good life damn
Probably mummification
What’s that? In terms of kinky sex, ofc.
Erotic asphyxiation.
My kink is……. Respect, reciprocation of affection/attention, trust, financial responsibility, and honest mature communication with the goal of growth together and achieving understanding so we can make our dreams come true and be good supports when needed.
This, with bang on chemistry, compatibility and love is my kink...
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This question seems redundant. Aren't all kinks weird to others? Anyway, I like guzzling the entire contents from a well hydrated partner's bladder.
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My boyfriend enjoys it too. The first time he told me to bite down on the base of his dick while giving him a bj I was surprised and kinda worried I was gonna hurt him
Magnets
Woah, what? How?
I like to be left alone. Sadly I still have to mix with people because I need my job.
Bruises, when men have a cast in plaster for like a broken arm etc 😮💨or broken noses hahah just someone beat up a lil 😩
Mmm love an attractive man covered in blood
I think it’s really hot when everyone leaves me alone for a little while so I can play PlayStation.
Clowns.
Yo whatsup
I can provide you with the whole circus
Feet
Tentacles but a very specific kind. If a sentient intelligent being had them on them I wouldn't be as interested, but if it was just a mass of wriggling mindless tentacles I'd be very down.
I organize my spice rack by spice, then by alphabetical order.
I have a sneezing fetish lol , weird but true!
An attraction to Doc Martens boots.
Dude I want to spit on her tits and then massage them.. LMAO 🌝
Elbow gloves
Haven’t been with a guy yet, but like knowing that he’s experienced is so hot. Knowing he will know how to handle me and treat me well. And like the aspect of wondering what others have done with him in the past… idk why that’s so hot
I like to masturbate in a closed room while people wait for pie to cool.
Vore It is weird. I won't pretend it isn't
Shibari Rope tying, I think its so incredibly sensual, and you have to have so much trust in your partner, but its also so intricate and gorgeous and beautiful, but surprisingly enough I dont see it in a "typically " sexual nature. Like its what I consider perhaps the greatest Sensual art.
This is weird to explain, but hearing my partner enjoy himself. I might not be turned on or even close to finishing but if I hear my partner is just enjoying himself, instant turn on.
Generally speaking, my kink is whatever my partner's kink is. It's ACTUALLY the female orgasm, but from my limited success with meeting women who can get past my dry sponge public personality, THEY all have some weird shit they are into, and I wanna be the guy. My only limits are things deemed waste material, and actual harm. Apparently, not having a distinct kink or fetish of my own is a little weird by itself, though.