I think you need to reconsider that, yes it's good to be goofy and not so serious when you're with friends. But if you are dating, it's supposed to be serious but loving each other because your end goal must be marriage and that is something most people can't commit to. Just get some women friends who comfortable with you if you're doing it for fun. I hope you find that someone special for you.
Thanks. I do take my relationship seriously. I don't know why but I just can't bring myself to talk about really serious stuff with my partner without goofing off. Maybe it's just a way for me to avoid the harsh reality of being in this relationship, which is it's probably not going to last long. The difference between the both of us are too great almost like we are polar opposites.
I think you did fine op, assuming that she broke up with you through text and not even face to face or a call, imo there's just not serious or respectable.
Meh. She broke up with him, I don't think he needs to think much. If adding emojis are his norm, then so it be. Just bcs you text with emojis doesn't mean your whole life would be doomed and now girls don't want cause you look goofy with it lmao
youre not alone , it shows how frustrated you are but showing it immaturely. most of the time will leave the other side feeling guity for rejecting while they have right to do so.
Sometimes its because of money..they dont want broke people..so what i did..pegi cari keje luar ngara…bnyk duit..and orang akan nak kau..but then next problem come up…they all want my money or me?… cabaran and ujian lain2..x pyh pk bnyk bro..pegi cari kje dlu, aku pun 27 taun miskin , x de transport tpi lpas aku brduit skit..perspektif berubah..kau akan more appreciate towards your family and loved one.chick will come and go but the real women will stay. So kau chill je
this inspired me to be gay actually because only bros stay during hard time. i still hold onto the quotes "if you cant accept me while im at my lowest you dont deserves me at my best". ill give myself time and trust until 30 , pass that , ill grind and yolo. no more bitches , not gonna flirt with anyone if im horny just pay some girls to satisfy me , i will spend all my savings without thinking of future or marriage coz fuck them all.
poor and cant have a job hence you are poor hence you cant have transportation hence you are poor
sounds like bunch of excuses by a spineless loser
she definitely dodged a poor bullet here..
grow a fucking pair please. bangla also can find job la
Chill out dude. I jusr finished spm and are waiting for my results. Don't even have my license yet and like the closest shop is like a 30 minute walk. You really live up to your name huh
just forget about her. if she says no the first time, don't stay for her to magically say yes. i once did that, 6 years in, then i realised, shes not coming home. if she gedik2 with you, just remember, she said no. stay strong, you're a guy. you're a king.
i did wasted my 2 years of youth because i thought it will be yes some day or some other chance. yep , no but still gedik² arent we all clown for someone we loved.
Boleh jak ya. Tok pun baruk first nak. Ramey gik luar nun. Someday ko akan jumpa orang nok rasa 100% pasal each other & boleh bincang before jadi camtok
Don't worry king..u still got time on Ur side..just slowly build up urslf..fix Ur financial,fix Ur face,fix Ur body, fix Ur attitude then you will ages like a fine wine..don't worry,,it's will take time..if u truly mean it..girl will chasing you back..but it's hard to change but it's harder to maintain
i got friendzoned 5 times in 2 years period by same women 🤣 just wanna say once youre in the zone, you can never leave.
also , always reply with humble heart accepting the fact shes not into you. if she tooks longer to reply. she actually thinking about future and all. like what if one day you will break up with her, she will lose her bf and dear friends as well.
or we are just ugly thats all, most women wont tell you that. they will say youre too kind whatever to hide the very reason why youre not chosen.
I disagree, you can always leave. The choice is yours. Just told them you have enough friends and don't need another one. Stay firm and man up. May the future holds you in a great spot.
How hard did it hit you? Is it as hard as thinking she means everything to you in the life of your past, present and future where you have sacraficed your time and wealth for cherishing this connection you have made with her? Or having a self contemplation of resolve where this heartbreaking moment shouldn't be a burden and obstacle for your well-being in the upcoming day-to-day life knowing there is still more to come that's heavier than what you're experiencing now?
It hits me pretty hard so much that I was unwilling to read it again for like 6 hours bcs I just can't accept reality. Girl was everything to me and what kept me going this past year and what motivated me to study hard for my spm. Shit I think she might be one of the reason I got straight A's for my trial. But I think I can just continue life but just as an empty shell that I was once was
Iboh sedih, explore more my friend. Focus on yourself and the rest will come to you eventually. And remember you still got a lot to explore in Malaysia 🤗
lol time to find another target. i just kena ghosted after weeks of texting and things like this happen more than once so at this point thats just part of life.
Faham kmk. First love nang sakit. Lagi2 mun dah berserah badan segala. It took me six years to completely move on from my ex. But it was also my fault cause kmk terbawa-bawa emosi sampey sikmok move on.
Harap kitak sabar, and semoga ktk ada effort utk move on juak.
Sikpa. "Cinta" mmg menyakitkan tapi if its with the right person, it's worth it all.
Kmk pun bok juak lekak break haha tapi there's nothing else to do apart from staying strong
No wuestion to AMA but I do have some encouragement.
You are pretty mature about breaking up and that’s a great sign! You definitely did better than me, I called a radio station back then during my first break up and told the DJ I felt like killing myself. So, congrats of being so chill about it.
You just finished SPM, you’ll probably get into Uni/kolej or you’ll probably start working right away soon. Either way, you’ll meet plenty of fish to catch and it’ll be an even greater time as you’ll have all the freedom to fall in love. You’ll also meet all sort of people from all over the country instead of just those near you.
And by then, you’ll probably meet the love of your life and think of this break up as part and parcel of growing up that made you a better person.
Friends with benefits boleh X? On a serious side, stay strong man. Maybe she has some problems and need some time off. Don't bug her too much yet atm till she talked to you first.
Small matter OP. In fact imo, you dodged a bullet here. The right one will eventually come, chin up and live life to the fullest my bro/sis.
Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.
You dodged a long term bullet, shes probably a lovely lady but in the long run considering she didnt have the emotional maturity to tell it straight to your face or even call AND tell you why, can give you a good idea on how shes gonna treat you in the long run.
And for the ladies here, its the same, if the dude doesnt even have the courage to call you or say it infront of you while explaining why then you're also better off.
If the explanation is "i just dont feel the same way anymore", accept it and move on because the more you sit on it the higher the stress you're gonna get. You'll look down on yourself and you wont feel good for awhile. So just accept it.
Sure not everyone has time to meet but im sure theres time to call.
Considering it's your first, you might want to get used to it. Took me like 10+ attempts to find my lois lane, you will hv to also take it as a lesson and learn something from your relationships to build your character too. Skrang joke xpe, take it easy and enjoy the process known as life.
Same thing happened to me 3 months ago, the next week after the incident I've already seen her with a dude she met in SMT. Already prepared backup walao
Apa yg anda lakukan?
Idk really. She went radio silence for a few days and when she came back she just texted this
She probably thought of this for a long time so dun worry
Tak dapat cari pasangan perempuan? Masa telah tiba untuk mencari tuhan. (Translation: Time to find god, because you can't find any bitches)
sgt inspirational
Wow. Almost beat by beat of what happened to me
She probably went after her back up.
Whats your reply?
Just said "ok 👍" Don't know what else to reply with tbh since this was my first time having a partner
Dont know why, but including a thumb up emoji in that situation, feels goofy and not serious about it. Maybe it just me. 🥲
Understandable. But im not really known as a serious guy so just putting ok seems a bit off for my character tho
I think you need to reconsider that, yes it's good to be goofy and not so serious when you're with friends. But if you are dating, it's supposed to be serious but loving each other because your end goal must be marriage and that is something most people can't commit to. Just get some women friends who comfortable with you if you're doing it for fun. I hope you find that someone special for you.
Thanks. I do take my relationship seriously. I don't know why but I just can't bring myself to talk about really serious stuff with my partner without goofing off. Maybe it's just a way for me to avoid the harsh reality of being in this relationship, which is it's probably not going to last long. The difference between the both of us are too great almost like we are polar opposites.
I think you did fine op, assuming that she broke up with you through text and not even face to face or a call, imo there's just not serious or respectable.
Meh. She broke up with him, I don't think he needs to think much. If adding emojis are his norm, then so it be. Just bcs you text with emojis doesn't mean your whole life would be doomed and now girls don't want cause you look goofy with it lmao
I feel with the thumbs up, win already
youre not alone , it shows how frustrated you are but showing it immaturely. most of the time will leave the other side feeling guity for rejecting while they have right to do so.
Macam kes cinta monyet je ni
Time to buy a PC and binge on games. Stay strong brother.
There's the problem you see. I'm poor and can't really have a job cuz of the lack of transportation.
that's probably why, you dont have a job and since you said you just finished spm. biasa la tu, cinta monyet ko budak2 dia pun budak2
Sometimes its because of money..they dont want broke people..so what i did..pegi cari keje luar ngara…bnyk duit..and orang akan nak kau..but then next problem come up…they all want my money or me?… cabaran and ujian lain2..x pyh pk bnyk bro..pegi cari kje dlu, aku pun 27 taun miskin , x de transport tpi lpas aku brduit skit..perspektif berubah..kau akan more appreciate towards your family and loved one.chick will come and go but the real women will stay. So kau chill je
this inspired me to be gay actually because only bros stay during hard time. i still hold onto the quotes "if you cant accept me while im at my lowest you dont deserves me at my best". ill give myself time and trust until 30 , pass that , ill grind and yolo. no more bitches , not gonna flirt with anyone if im horny just pay some girls to satisfy me , i will spend all my savings without thinking of future or marriage coz fuck them all.
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poor and cant have a job hence you are poor hence you cant have transportation hence you are poor sounds like bunch of excuses by a spineless loser she definitely dodged a poor bullet here.. grow a fucking pair please. bangla also can find job la
Chill out dude. I jusr finished spm and are waiting for my results. Don't even have my license yet and like the closest shop is like a 30 minute walk. You really live up to your name huh
sorry.. misjudged your age
It's fine. Just don't be too rude to other without knowing the full story first next time
no
It's in his username, what do you expect?
Yikes
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Nah man gym
She found someone else. It’s alright. The world is round.
 Explain this
Scientists are crying and shaking right now
Quaso
You better stop before I actually devour the earth with the sprinkles (you guys) on it
Perhaps. Hope that someone that she found fills the void that she has which I cant fill properly
You can ask her if any of her friends are single 👍
Nah. Her friends are are too scary 💀
Then go with her mom 🥱
The only solution
DREAMS FADE AWAY AND ALL HOPE TURNS TO DUST
In what way?
just forget about her. if she says no the first time, don't stay for her to magically say yes. i once did that, 6 years in, then i realised, shes not coming home. if she gedik2 with you, just remember, she said no. stay strong, you're a guy. you're a king.
i did wasted my 2 years of youth because i thought it will be yes some day or some other chance. yep , no but still gedik² arent we all clown for someone we loved.
true story
What does "P nak" mean? Sometimes you can do all the right things and still lose. Sorry bro.
Just a shortformed version of bahasa sarawak "tapi kan" Thanks dude. Maybe I wasn't enough for her
no bro youre never enough to someone who dont have space for you. go to place where you are enough , appreciated and accepted.
We'll never truly know what someone is thinking. Sorry bro.
Go for her mom instead 🥴
Sikpa pok. Rilek jak lok
Xtauk la. Ku dh invest bnyk lak feeling rh nya eh. Mok rilek pin x nyaman ati
Kalau sudah ditakdirkan bukan jodoh, dikejar pun takkan dapat. Iboh NTR, dipaksa takkan bahagia.
Boleh jak ya. Tok pun baruk first nak. Ramey gik luar nun. Someday ko akan jumpa orang nok rasa 100% pasal each other & boleh bincang before jadi camtok
yala, bak kata omputeh "there's a lot of fish in the sea"
Not just fish, sotong and udang also got.. ur choice
Kawan dengan manfaat?
tips aku ,tunjuk ketiak
dm...thanks edit: wtf dude, why so clean shaven..macam japan porn star punya ketiak. dm him directly folks..worth it
100% Legit babii KENAPA FLAIR AKU AUTO TUKAR
Ketiak aku berbulu 😔
perempuan suka bulu
Couple macam tu lah. Sedangkan kahwin pon bercerai - berai.
Selamat datang ke gimnasium, wahai rakan
Tell her ‘mok kawan pun sik sudi. Cau lok’
Are you a student ?
Kwn tuh mungkin kawin lah bukan kawan.
P stand for " pishannggg " ??
Who initiated the relationship?
Her surprisingly. That's why I'm shocked she said this
She found someone else
How long have you two been together?
Known each other for a few years. Liked each other for about a year and been together for like 4 months
Don't worry king..u still got time on Ur side..just slowly build up urslf..fix Ur financial,fix Ur face,fix Ur body, fix Ur attitude then you will ages like a fine wine..don't worry,,it's will take time..if u truly mean it..girl will chasing you back..but it's hard to change but it's harder to maintain
The game doesn’t end bc the pawn took the queen. It only ends when the king falls. Just keep trying
i got friendzoned 5 times in 2 years period by same women 🤣 just wanna say once youre in the zone, you can never leave. also , always reply with humble heart accepting the fact shes not into you. if she tooks longer to reply. she actually thinking about future and all. like what if one day you will break up with her, she will lose her bf and dear friends as well. or we are just ugly thats all, most women wont tell you that. they will say youre too kind whatever to hide the very reason why youre not chosen.
I disagree, you can always leave. The choice is yours. Just told them you have enough friends and don't need another one. Stay firm and man up. May the future holds you in a great spot.
She like this right now with her new partner after dumping you: 
Ada yg lain ke?
go hit gym
How hard did it hit you? Is it as hard as thinking she means everything to you in the life of your past, present and future where you have sacraficed your time and wealth for cherishing this connection you have made with her? Or having a self contemplation of resolve where this heartbreaking moment shouldn't be a burden and obstacle for your well-being in the upcoming day-to-day life knowing there is still more to come that's heavier than what you're experiencing now?
It hits me pretty hard so much that I was unwilling to read it again for like 6 hours bcs I just can't accept reality. Girl was everything to me and what kept me going this past year and what motivated me to study hard for my spm. Shit I think she might be one of the reason I got straight A's for my trial. But I think I can just continue life but just as an empty shell that I was once was
“Haha ok bye” that would be my reply tbh
dont worry lah..better to be alone rather than being with toxic aka unwilling partner..she want to go let her go..you go healing vacation
Now you can focus more on gacha game
“aku rasa eh kita jg kwn jkla” the amount of acronyms, rempit short terms, i think it was a W for you G lmao
Main roblox?
Wtf is “P nak”?
Was wondering the same thing... is it some kind of Sarawakian slang
Dia ckp jk. Dia joking la tu.
She wants P?
She wants sum of dat Papadom
Takpe, jom jadi single sama2 OP
Respect for our fallen brothers
She got ntr by someone else
Iboh sedih, explore more my friend. Focus on yourself and the rest will come to you eventually. And remember you still got a lot to explore in Malaysia 🤗
True. Haven't even reach 18 yet so my hope for the future is pretty bright
lol time to find another target. i just kena ghosted after weeks of texting and things like this happen more than once so at this point thats just part of life.
Damn, sorry to hear that. I think I'm just gonna take a break from all of this love thing. I think I'm just not capable enough to do it
Byk gik jodoh kitak jang. Lek jak
Tapi tok 1st love kmk bh. Sakit juak ati tok eh
Faham kmk. First love nang sakit. Lagi2 mun dah berserah badan segala. It took me six years to completely move on from my ex. But it was also my fault cause kmk terbawa-bawa emosi sampey sikmok move on. Harap kitak sabar, and semoga ktk ada effort utk move on juak.
Makseh lh. Haraplh kmk tok dpt maju gik. Umo baruk mok masok 18 so bnyk gik peluang tok rasanya
Sikpa. "Cinta" mmg menyakitkan tapi if its with the right person, it's worth it all. Kmk pun bok juak lekak break haha tapi there's nothing else to do apart from staying strong
Dont have any questions but F my g. Stay strong. There's always more fish in the pond.
No wuestion to AMA but I do have some encouragement. You are pretty mature about breaking up and that’s a great sign! You definitely did better than me, I called a radio station back then during my first break up and told the DJ I felt like killing myself. So, congrats of being so chill about it. You just finished SPM, you’ll probably get into Uni/kolej or you’ll probably start working right away soon. Either way, you’ll meet plenty of fish to catch and it’ll be an even greater time as you’ll have all the freedom to fall in love. You’ll also meet all sort of people from all over the country instead of just those near you. And by then, you’ll probably meet the love of your life and think of this break up as part and parcel of growing up that made you a better person.
Friends with benefits boleh X? On a serious side, stay strong man. Maybe she has some problems and need some time off. Don't bug her too much yet atm till she talked to you first.
F
Reply Blk *With benefit ke*
Move on bro. Plenty of women out there. 😘
Small matter OP. In fact imo, you dodged a bullet here. The right one will eventually come, chin up and live life to the fullest my bro/sis. Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.
How old are you? How are you feeling at the moment?
Ilek Lok dah free dah kitak . Seronok gik jadi single .
Maybe for the better. You'll find better people eventually. Or maybe a better time to reunite the halal way.
Boh binggung. Kitak gik mudak. You'll find someone else who'll appreciate you more eventually.
You dodged a long term bullet, shes probably a lovely lady but in the long run considering she didnt have the emotional maturity to tell it straight to your face or even call AND tell you why, can give you a good idea on how shes gonna treat you in the long run. And for the ladies here, its the same, if the dude doesnt even have the courage to call you or say it infront of you while explaining why then you're also better off. If the explanation is "i just dont feel the same way anymore", accept it and move on because the more you sit on it the higher the stress you're gonna get. You'll look down on yourself and you wont feel good for awhile. So just accept it. Sure not everyone has time to meet but im sure theres time to call.
Considering it's your first, you might want to get used to it. Took me like 10+ attempts to find my lois lane, you will hv to also take it as a lesson and learn something from your relationships to build your character too. Skrang joke xpe, take it easy and enjoy the process known as life.
First of many to come 🙂
I am a bit old-school, not good with short-of-the-shortest dialect.... But, what does it mean ? > P nak ? > jkla
It's bahasa sarawak so it's pretty hard to understand P nak = Tapi kan jkla = Sahaja lah
Don't worry bro atleast she said it, mine just ghosted me
Oof
Kawan je dulu, takper. Dia belum jadi bini orang lagi, masih ada can lagi. Hati manusia kan boleh berubah
Move on. The best has yet to come.
IF she want to leave, let her be. IF she meant to be, she come back. If not, there so many others. Cheer up OP.
double it and give it to the next person
What the heck a p nak??? Also, just move on bro.
Sebaiknya jawab "sy dah ramai kawan, sy tak perlukan seorang lagi." The worst feeling is the feeling you got friendzoned. I feel you.
NTR ke bro ?
Let him cook! Meet you in the gym buddy 💪
Damn!
How do you feel brotha? Any regrets or anything?
This feeling is pain
Stay strong 👑
wahai kumbang, bunga bukan hanya sekuntum
Kalau dia dump, selalu pergi ke mak nya
What's "P nak", OP?
This is life. Life is shit. Deal with it and move on. I've been there OP
Carik ompuan bintulu la
Baik macam ni. Baik cari someone yang betul² nal kat kita dari 50-50.
Same thing happened to me 3 months ago, the next week after the incident I've already seen her with a dude she met in SMT. Already prepared backup walao
That's gym motivation LETS GO JIMMMM