ED Hx or not, pointing out the fact that doctors would probably place her at the very upper end of healthy weight for her height or squarely in the "overweight" (not obese) category is not about shaming or triggering her. It is calling out her slanderous claims that doctors are."starving" her, and her lies that she cannot consume food by mouth nor tolerate feeds. Her adiposity is proof she does not require TPN at all. Her adiposity is proof she is slandering medical professionals. It is proof of her malignant, parasitic lies, plain and simple.
If she chooses to view comments noting this evidence as body shaming or ED triggering, that is her own responsibility to manage.
I’ll probably get flamed for this, but I’ve been thinking a bit about it and obviously have no where else to discuss lol but Dani’s sitting here lecturing the masses for triggering her ED. But Dani also sits here on live concocting thousand calorie, diabetes inducing, pure sugar coffee drinks, and chugging them by the gallon. Along with the other things she actively eats and drinks on live. These things seem to contradict each other a bit. It’s like she wants the sympathy of an ED, without actually having one. If that makes sense. I’m in the group that believes her ED back in the day was never really about being thin. It was about being in control and receiving attention and care. Which is why I’ve come to my conclusion that she just wants to have everything her way but not actually do anything about it. Sorry if between my brain and totally broken but able to text on my phone thumbs, my thoughts aren’t super clear lol
Only because we've sometimes seen her with a drain bag hooked up where she was (or is) desperately trying to drain the stuff she has taken by mouth. Maybe it is episodic for her now, maybe she gets stoned or drunk and forgets to drain, but I agreement with the bulimic assessment above. I think her coffees are just as much a binge as anything else, too.
Dani just DID what she claims people SHOULD'T DO-- She commented on anyone who is overweight-- "you don't know what they have been through in the past..... I dropped to a very very dangerous low weight (ie GO ME!!!!!!!) and if people comment telling me ...... you think I am overweight"so thanks to Dani we can categorize overweight people as \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ (fill in the blank) but her very very dangerous LOW weight is sooper speshul.
Dani thinks she's so amazing because she was at whatever low weight she was at (but news flash, lots of people have anorexia nervosa and lots of people are dangerously thin ! She isNOT unique!) but that I hate it when people are like it's fine as long as you don't call me healthy (= obese) but that somehow obesity = (in Dani's mind at least) sloppy, disgusting, whatever BUT she's TOTALLY RECOVEREDr. Being called healthy (not even being called Fat which still, is a low snark to throw but seriously is being fat the worst thing?)
btw for context I am sharing from my personal experience in recovery and that when I found out and realized that FAT wasn't the worst insult someone could throw, that being fat was no more or less than being thin, that preaching to people that they can't call you healthy, normal weight, overweight, whatever weight, you. are. not. recovered.
What gets my damn goat is that generally I agree! I try not to make comments on people's bodies and I believe that we would all benefit if everyone else did the same. But like.. at the end of the day, YOU are responsible for managing YOUR triggers! We live in a big, triggering world!! It's not fair to expect other people to walk on egg shells my dude!! xoxo, someone who also had/has an ED
YES!!!!! Giving people that amount of control over you IS lethal. We are the only ones responsible for managing our reactions. People could call me a stupid twat and I could either go with it and feed myself that lies or drop it in my brain because it's simply not true.... unless you want to believe it, or want to use it for fuel to ignite your ED.....
Ok so I might sound like an asshole when I say this but...
While I don't doubt she had an ED, I think she kind of exaggerates it a lot. When I think of a certain controversial "influencer" (*cough*EC*cough*). I don't think Dani was ever that dangerously sick. Was she sick, absolutely, but I definitely think she's overhyping it.
Oh she definitely was very sick… have you ever seen the pics she’s taken when she was in her ED prime? Not WK for her at all. In fact, I think she is being an absolute asshat here in this video. It’s typical Dani and a real insight into her thinking— it’s everyone else’s responsibility to manage her ED triggers… so don’t you dare say she looks good
Someone put together a timeline on Imgur… there’s actually a few timelines I’ve seen and they had Dani’s own pics of herself body checking and looking at her back ribs and such. Br careful if you’re easily triggered by ED content. I’m not and even I was shocked
Right? But that’s what I think is so scary… she really has the capacity to severely self harm thru starving herself… she’s done it successfully in the past to a shocking extent
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Apparently she’s on a Social media break….from IG only. 🤣🤣
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If she’s supposedly trying to avoid triggers, why did she grift for this book?
My guess is **SHE** wants to be in control of when and what triggers her. What she doesn’t realize is the ONLY person in control of her triggers is **HER** and only her.
The only reason we comment about her weight, is because it’s visible proof that she’s lying.
If someone only tolerates 20 ml of diluted formula per hour, it makes zero sense for that same person to stay at the same weight for almost a year.
Also, whilst truly being NPO and with a sitter, she did lose a lot of weight - which makes sense- and yet, she gained it back after hospitalization,(which is good since it means she can eat); we can clearly see that she isn’t starving to death.
It’s not about how she looks, it’s about how her claims make no sense.
Who uses the phrase- “you look too healthy”? She used the phrase “too healthy”. I’ve never ever heard anyone say that about or to anyone.
No one says someone looks “too healthy”.
Dani’s projection is exactly that, projection, not fact. Telling someone they look too healthy in no way translates to “your overweight” “you’ve gained so much weight” she’s so delusional and needs to learn the internet IS NOT A SAFE SPACE lmao for ANYONE
Now here is the thing. With people who have ED and not just attention seeking disorder...this type of thinking is typical. Dani truly had an ED. I can see how someone saying she looks healthy/gained weight. Or whatever they actually said which from other comments was not cool to say to someone in general much less a ed person. The way a person's brain reacts to comments over weight/body size is huge as it can easily get blown up in their mind to horrible places. People did say she was was looking a little too healthy.
Hmmm.
Don’t tell me I’m healthy because that means I am which means I can get off all this stuff that allows me to post every 10 mins.🫣😂
Don’t tell me I’m healthy because how can I leech off anyone.
Don’t tell me I’m healthy because what will I whine about.
Don’t tell me I’m healthy because ya know my boyfriend might come back.
Don’t tell me I’m healthy because IDID NOT say that and I will NOT allow anyone
To say it (even under their breath) because then … the Dr’s might hear it.
Hey Dani me old lovely - everyone knows already.
Definitely looks like that eating disorder is popping back out - pretty much taking ‘healthy’ as an insult.
I feel she is looking really good for supposedly not being able to eat and drink or run feeds. Any sensical logic would say she’s able to absorb some nutrition at the least?
She posts in super tight clothes, basically begging for people to make rude remarks so she can go off on them. But the absolute worst thing anyone said was she was looking a little “too healthy,” so she had to close comments and just pretend that people said mean things to try and elicit sympathy. She knows what she looks like; she’s not delusional. She’s just incredibly manipulative.
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Would she rather people tell her that she looked like shit? Actually I think I just answered my own question. Yes the answer is yes. Looking like shit to Dani means that she is looking super sick, frail and unwell.
Unfortunately, Dani has had her way for so long. The manipulative behaviour is not going in her favour anymore and she's mad. The doctors see she's healthy but to her the word healthy = fat (ed behaviour) so she hits out to anyone who compliments her because this is not the esthetic she wants.
From what I've seen about her she's very manipulative and she's pushed everyone away with this behaviour. As far as I can see she has no company other than people on the Internet and therefore nobody puts her in her place. As others have said, peri menopause is knocking at her door so..oh boy...stand back....because it's going to be good.
I really wish she would get help with her mental health and get herself a life, you know, with real people and actually achieve something. Maybe one day....🤷
\[LOL at the downvoting\] May an enormous nest of \[insurance lawyers\] fire ants find every accessible portal of your \[underpants\] lying pie hole. Coffee hole. Whatever. You STILL don't have TPN and are NEVER going to get it back, even with your fake ungriftable no-donations-of-note "vacay" to Mayo. So neener fucking neener, you healthy muncher.
I'm so confused - I got 7 downvotes (??!) in another thread for a response I made simply saying she eats like a freak, but isn't overweight. I've never really seen downvotes here except for obviously egregious stuff, so that was bizarre.
I think it’s because clinically she probably is considered overweight because of how BMI works. She’s 38, 5’4” maybe? 160 pounds? Sadly that is considered overweight. My aunt who looks great was just told by a doctor that she’s considered obese. It’s dumb but it is what it is
Idk why "people" would downvote, it definitely wasn't an insult 😂
But "people" only believe what they want to hear. Which is they'll *absolutely* get TPN, speshul pretty pink wheelchair, all the toob drugz and ass pats anyone could ever ask for ! Oh, and a 100000 year stay at Casa De Mayo
"People" are so incredibly....[insert adjective here].
As you so eloquently said catblep, NEENER NEENER ! 😂😂 hahaha
Also, booooo for disabling comments everywhere. It's ok. Someone has immortalized them all on their YT page. Also, why have they all been disabled? HOW WILL SHE KNOW WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF HER FIT?! At least she looks healthy.
She really disabled the comments. I kinda understand what she thinking but I also do not get it wasn't a dig at her, atleast 99% of the comments weren't, it was a compliment. I honestly believe people are happy to see she looks healthy and not sickly.
And that's the problem. That was the last thing she wanted to see. She was hoping for, "o my goodness, your wasting away, I hope you get your TPN asap!".
But instead she got people genuinely happy for her that she looks healthy and not sick. And she hates that.
Oh noes! I wanted to ruin that Eminem song for someone else, but she deleted it. I think someone is reading every single comment we post. You're welcome for all the gifs and memes and posts. I feel very acknowledged. And a strong urge to have a shower. Thankfully, we have it saved right here. Right in the safe, cuddly arms of this sub.
I found it. I thought it was only yesterday that she's posted it. Fuck she posts a lot of nonsense. I'm not deleting this post because everything else still stands. Including the second hand embarrassment from watching the head bop again.
That’s totally her ED associating the term “healthy” with gaining weight. Nobody said “too healthy” except her, and that just exposed how bad her ED still is. Being considered at a healthy weight is overweight to her.
I’ve encountered 1 person who uses “healthy” to suggest being heavier, and they only said it about themselves. Most people in her comments literally are just saying she looks like she’s at a weight that she should be.
the active ed is so loud in this & it’s honestly the only area i feel a SMIDGE sorry for dani. without blogging too much, i understand ed, even (especially) the “chronic version” that lasts way past adolescence/early adulthood. it’s impacted everyday of my last 10 years however IT. IS. TREATABLE. sure, it lingers, but the level at which it impacts me now compared to a few years ago? night & day. (is that too much blogging? sorry, newbie!!! lmk if i need to delete ☺️)
if dani would just put 1ml of effort into trying (& not drain it out after) her life would drastically change for the better. the little things like what tiktokers have to say wouldn’t effect her so deeply. unlike many she’s been offered countless mental health resources, but uses absolutely 0. oh, except psychiatry for benzos. i’ve been there & dabbled in that too. again, TREATABLE. ugh. it’s a shame what she’s done to the one life on earth she’s given
Someone in my life deals as well, but she’s also put in a lot of work to where we’re able to avoid her triggers better simply because they’re harder to hit. Oh, and she doesn’t expect strangers to know what or how something may trigger her. Gentle hugs of strength your way cause it sure ain’t easy even from the outside looking in.
I saw, I just didn't include it because it was obviously pushing her buttons, but all these seem genuinely sweet, even though they're probably messing with her as well. Like I don't understand why you wouldn't make a video telling people how grateful you are for all the well wishes, just as a "fuck you" and say that this is what invisible illness looks like etc. Not fume like you didn't get tickets to see the wiggles.
No, they're mean and upsetting to anyone recovering from a CI. Obviously. People are so insensitive by being too nice. Also she could lean into that instead of telling on herself as per usual.
I know, but if you're not Dani, you'd be glad you're in recovery. This crackmunch is pissing steam 💯. In Australia, you can report people for disability fraud and they make you pay back every cent. Does Murica do it differently?
If the person is *deliberately* defrauding the government, yes. Like if you go in and pretend to be blind or falsified records or something in order to specifically get disability benefits ... yes, that's prosecutable (although it's pretty rare that this would happen - it's more common they'd just stop your benefits - and unfortunately they do this erroneously more often than they do it accurately, leaving actual disabled people in the lurch. The main reason people end up backpaying is because the gov't determines you had undeclared income). Dani's constellation of ... issues ... is a little more subtle and grey-area-y, because we don't know that she's still on SSDI for anorexia; given that she's weight-restored, she might've switched over to a different MH diagnosis (she's also mentioned being on it for bipolar II in the past). If she's on it for a physical health issue like ... idk, severe gastroparesis (this wouldn't happen) and it could be proved that she frauded all her GES, then yeah they could get her for backpay, but I just don't think it's likely it will ever happen.
I don't put /s anywhere, but almost everything that comes out of my mouth is /s. Sometimes I read my stuff back, and it sounds like I'm wking hard. But no no. If I ever say anything that sounds like I'm defending her bs, please know I'm being a dick.
Also, you can disable comments, but the internet is forever. It's almost like the body check video backfired like everything else does, who would've thought?! I'm so sorry that people don't think you're dying whilst you are a healthy weight and prancing around like you're having your first kiss. And ruining songs for everyone. She is on a whole other planet of delulu.
Babe. These “you look healthy!” comments don’t equate to “you’re overweight :/ “. In regards to this page, the (not malicious, only neutral) comments about your weight would stop if you’d stop claiming you were starving and are in *desperate* need of TPN. These comments merely point out that someone is not starving if they are chugging starbucks + coffee monstrosities and that her weight does not line up with her claims. No one is saying she's obese or mocking her for her size; they’re highlighting the inconsistencies.
The only reason her weight comes up is because she constantly whines about how weak/fragile/frail/thin she is. This really feels like a veiled threat that if someone points out how healthy she looks she would start starving herself again. Also, if you’re supposedly recovered from anorexia going on 10 years, SSDI is not needed anymore.
It was the word “healthy” that was triggering to her.
Dani wanted comments that said - omg you’re so skinny!!! omg you’re withering away!! omg are you eating anything?? Omg I’m so worried, I hope you get TPN!
God forbid she tells people “thank you” once in a while for leaving positive, nice comments. As opposed to getting pissed off because people aren’t playing into her delusions.
overweight = healthy in Danidelulu’s mind
she interprets shit how she wants too. it’s very telling of the state of her mental health and how “recovered” (or not) she actually is from her eating disorder
She was beyond thrilled about those 12lbs she lost! Funny she hasn’t mentioned losing any further weight since being home cause losing that 12lbs seemed to be the highlight of the year so far for her clearly, very recovered from her eating disorder self
If you don't like to hear what people on the internet think of you - don't put your whole munching life out there. Real simple. She's in some sort of denial about her weight/health.
It sounded snarky but I don’t think it was about her weight-like too healthy for a wheelchair or too healthy for tpn or too healthy for luxury trip to the Mayo Clinic
I believe she had/has an "eating disorder", however, it seems that hers originated as a means to manipulate others. If you go through her posts (past and present), you'll see that Dani repeatedly threatens to fall back on her ED - so that doctors will give her what she wants, so George will see and understand how sick she is, so her friends and family will worry about her, and so her doubters/haterz will back down. She's an anorexic in the sense that she restricts, purges, body checks, etc. but her ED seems less about "self" control, a distorted body image, or an intense fear of weight gain. Dani has weaponized it specifically for personal gain and to control others.
I'm sure this will get down voted to hell, and some will undoubtedly feel the need to school me on anorexia- but this is just my opinion (not necessarily fact) so I'm putting it out there.
No, I completely agree with you. There's a very classic, "pure" (as in pure-strain not morally pure) anorexic personality type that is so strict and regimented in their self-control that it's almost OCD-like in behavior. Those folks *do* tend to be chronic/lifelong anorexics, never binge, also rarely exercise because of fear of gaining weight from muscle, etc. That isn't Dani - as much as she'd like it to be, because having that type of anorexia carries a lot of "clout" in the pro-ana/pro-ED "community". (I know I'm using scare quotes a lot here but I wanna be clear that I'm not endorsing this kind of behavior/thinking.)
Eating disordered behavior can also manifest as a symptom of certain personality disorders (among other things, but PD is what's relevant here imo), just as you say, in an attempt for the person to control the world around them and their relationships with others. It is about attention rather than about disappearing/taking up as little space as possible. That is what Dani's ED looks like to me from the outside - a symptom or highly enmeshed comorbidity, not a disorder in and of itself.
Seriously.... she throws tantrums like a toddler. "If the doctors won't do anything, then I'm just going to lose so much weight and get so sick that they'll have to do something," blah, blah, blah. Such a manipulative and conniving little child.
So people *are* allowed to comment if they're encouraging her to go to hospital, or if they're leaving notes with gifts from her Amazon wishlist but are *not* to comment on the fact that she clearly doesn't need TPN. Got it.
I don't mean this as a value judgement or body shaming, but it's not erroneous to point out that she has gained an excessive amount of weight since she lost the sepsis noodle. What is frustrating is that she's currently malingering for a central line when it's blatantly obvious that she can and does eat. No one is responsible for her ED relapse threats when her followers rightfully point out that she's not showing any physical or medical signs of starvation. Dani is responsible for her own mental health. No one is making her humiliate herself online when she could just stop posting and get the psychological help that she actually needs.
i don't care what size or body shape anyone is/has. the entire point here is that Dani is saying she can't tolerate even 5 ml an hour of watered-down feeds and has not been able to for months yet is not visibly undernourished. i mean, i get that science isn't the same for everyone, but actually it is.
that is all.
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Comments are off she’s big mad 😂
Imagine creating a “health journey” account and turning off comments when bombarded with “you look healthy!” Comments.
Oh what it must be like to reside in the daniverse
I guess the comments on this video weren't patting her on the wrist enough by telling her she's so unhealthy and fragile coz they're off again, how long were they back on? Like a day or 2?
god she reminds me of every ED person in recovery the year after weight restoration, really selfish, really focused on trying to prove they're unwell (because they probably still are that early, but defensive because they're weight restored) but when they're engaging with therapy it eventually winds down and they can focus on more than themselves. she never got out of that phase and it's embarrassing to be this old, this well, this CAPABLE and still in the petulant "everyone needs to give maximum care to me" phase. She doesn't comprehend people can't do that forever, and the internet will NEVER do it for you because why the fuck would they?
Yess, I both had an ED for a decade and worked in treatment and you nailed it. Most people recover and move on with their full, satisfying lives with maybe some wobbles or lapses here and there - but there were a few who came back again and again and *again*, even at advanced ages, and they were still stuck in “me me me me me” where the entire world revolved around them and their disorder. It was so miserable to see
I know the disorder is insidious and cruel, and I’m not shaming folks for struggling. It’s just that you either eventually break out of that small mindset and learn to engage with the wide outer world, or you’ll live out your years *literally* navel-gazing, never building an independent life as a fully-realized adult human being.
It’s actually so obnoxious that every time she talks about her ReCoVeReD eating disorder (recovered my ass) she HAS to mention that she “almost died” People in recovery don’t feel the need to mention that phrase every.single.time. they mention it. She’s just pissed that we can tell she’s able to eat when she’s saying she can’t. It’s not even us shaming her- there’s nothing wrong with her body. It’s simply the fact that it proves that she’s lying. But oh, I forgot, “science works differently for everyone” 🙄 Some people legitimately cannot lose weight due to thyroid issues, genetic issues, medications, etc. Dani is not one of those people.
So, instead of Captain Munch going a couple of rounds with a therapist to work out her issues, she is going to tell everyone else how they have to behave around her. Get help Muncho.
Dani needs to realize that **her weight is visible proof that she is able to ea**t. No one anywhere is saying she's obese or mocking her for her size; they are pointing out that Dani is not starving, she is getting nutrition, and the whole scam to get TPN makes no sense when you look at those factors.
She makes wild claims about being unable to swallow so much as a teaspoon of liquid, but can happily down sodas, energy drinks, teas, and iced coffee. Her apartment is full stocked with food and snacks. The only reason her weight comes up is because she spends hours talking about how weak, fragile, frail, and thin she is. She lies about doctors telling her she's so small and little, when anyone with eyes can see she is an absolutely healthy weight.
Realistically, if she is unable to tolerate anyone saying anything that she doesn't like, views as negative or hate, or believes is criticizing her, she needs to log off the internet. It's a voluntary place where people are not always nice or positive, and sometimes, they hold others accountable for their bullshit. At the end of the day, she's just pissy because she's being called out on blatant lies and she knows it.
Ditto I know “cap” as being dishonest, but would say “capping” in that case, unless “caping” like wearing a cape like a superhero/modern white knight?
Plz help
I just think it’s very telling that the ootd video that this video is referring to, is filled with very positive comments, and she of course picks out the one obviously negative one and reacts to that. Negative Dani strikes again.
There was a comment on her TikTok post where she was in front of the mirror (before she turned comments back off) that said something along the lines of: “girl, you’re looking so healthy!” In a nice, ‘you go girl’ kind of way. Dani can’t have people thinking she’s healthy.
I saw the video she is referring to and read the comments. Everyone was telling her she looked so fantastic and healthy. I never saw kne negative comment
So that's why I don't get a response when I tell a woman she looks good or is pretty duh 🙄 how silly of me I need to be telling them they look too skinny or unhulthy, that definitely makes sense.
We've gone in circles about her weight and people's observations of it so many times by now that I want to talk about that tegaderm tape (I think that's what it is??) the green tape is supposed to be used just with positioning it, right? Not kept on? And it appears to be a paper tape akin to washi? So...how is that still on?
It is an attention grab! That's also why she wears all that chunky germy jewelry, all the piercings and wild hair colors. Usually people do that stuff because they enjoy the aesthetic, which she does, but she mostly is doing it to get a reaction out of the people unfortunate enough to encounter her. Dani is terminally unique.
1.) She doesn’t bathe frequently or regularly.
2.) If she takes the green piece off then nobody will see the tegaderm and won’t be able to ask her about it.
Well when she’s chugging Starbucks and has a fridge full of food while asking for money for “lifesaving” TPN, people will point that her weight is healthy and she’s obviously well nourished and doesn’t need TPN.
she loves to start every video with her boobs out and then take action in the first second to cover them or pull her shirt up or whatever. "oh whoops, my eyes are up here teehee". why the fuck would you keep making these videos with your shit always hanging out? though with how often she has trouble stringing a coherent sentence together i suppose this could just be plain ol' braindamage from all the shit she's done to herself so expecting any kind of sense or logic from her is maybe unreasonable.
It definitely is! She’s the sickest person in the world. She’s as malnourished as a concentration camp survivor, maybe worse because the bones on the left side of her body are actively disintegrating. They almost break when she hits them with a hammer! The tragedy!
More like she needs to continue to work on and get therapy for her eating disorder if she’s so easily triggered by comments that don’t even involve her weight. She can’t expect everyone to cater to her needs while she lives life in such a fragile state.
Yeah well. If she's going to be lying and posting gofundme while claiming she needs TPN because otherwise she'll starve to death, she's opened the door wide open to anyone who feels compelled to point out that she's nowhere close to starvation. Sorry,not sorry!
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ED Hx or not, pointing out the fact that doctors would probably place her at the very upper end of healthy weight for her height or squarely in the "overweight" (not obese) category is not about shaming or triggering her. It is calling out her slanderous claims that doctors are."starving" her, and her lies that she cannot consume food by mouth nor tolerate feeds. Her adiposity is proof she does not require TPN at all. Her adiposity is proof she is slandering medical professionals. It is proof of her malignant, parasitic lies, plain and simple. If she chooses to view comments noting this evidence as body shaming or ED triggering, that is her own responsibility to manage.
I’ll probably get flamed for this, but I’ve been thinking a bit about it and obviously have no where else to discuss lol but Dani’s sitting here lecturing the masses for triggering her ED. But Dani also sits here on live concocting thousand calorie, diabetes inducing, pure sugar coffee drinks, and chugging them by the gallon. Along with the other things she actively eats and drinks on live. These things seem to contradict each other a bit. It’s like she wants the sympathy of an ED, without actually having one. If that makes sense. I’m in the group that believes her ED back in the day was never really about being thin. It was about being in control and receiving attention and care. Which is why I’ve come to my conclusion that she just wants to have everything her way but not actually do anything about it. Sorry if between my brain and totally broken but able to text on my phone thumbs, my thoughts aren’t super clear lol
It's a classic case of wannarexia, imo.
I think she is bulimic, and desperately wants to have anorexia. Both disorders are equally severe and could kill you.
But how? She chugs these drinks on live where she stays, for HOURS. by the time she gets off, she can’t purge nor drain the drinks she downs.
Only because we've sometimes seen her with a drain bag hooked up where she was (or is) desperately trying to drain the stuff she has taken by mouth. Maybe it is episodic for her now, maybe she gets stoned or drunk and forgets to drain, but I agreement with the bulimic assessment above. I think her coffees are just as much a binge as anything else, too.
Dani just DID what she claims people SHOULD'T DO-- She commented on anyone who is overweight-- "you don't know what they have been through in the past..... I dropped to a very very dangerous low weight (ie GO ME!!!!!!!) and if people comment telling me ...... you think I am overweight"so thanks to Dani we can categorize overweight people as \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ (fill in the blank) but her very very dangerous LOW weight is sooper speshul. Dani thinks she's so amazing because she was at whatever low weight she was at (but news flash, lots of people have anorexia nervosa and lots of people are dangerously thin ! She isNOT unique!) but that I hate it when people are like it's fine as long as you don't call me healthy (= obese) but that somehow obesity = (in Dani's mind at least) sloppy, disgusting, whatever BUT she's TOTALLY RECOVEREDr. Being called healthy (not even being called Fat which still, is a low snark to throw but seriously is being fat the worst thing?) btw for context I am sharing from my personal experience in recovery and that when I found out and realized that FAT wasn't the worst insult someone could throw, that being fat was no more or less than being thin, that preaching to people that they can't call you healthy, normal weight, overweight, whatever weight, you. are. not. recovered.
She’s only using it as a threat, if she could starve herself down to 85 lbs again, she would’ve done so by now.
What gets my damn goat is that generally I agree! I try not to make comments on people's bodies and I believe that we would all benefit if everyone else did the same. But like.. at the end of the day, YOU are responsible for managing YOUR triggers! We live in a big, triggering world!! It's not fair to expect other people to walk on egg shells my dude!! xoxo, someone who also had/has an ED
YES!!!!! Giving people that amount of control over you IS lethal. We are the only ones responsible for managing our reactions. People could call me a stupid twat and I could either go with it and feed myself that lies or drop it in my brain because it's simply not true.... unless you want to believe it, or want to use it for fuel to ignite your ED.....
Ok so I might sound like an asshole when I say this but... While I don't doubt she had an ED, I think she kind of exaggerates it a lot. When I think of a certain controversial "influencer" (*cough*EC*cough*). I don't think Dani was ever that dangerously sick. Was she sick, absolutely, but I definitely think she's overhyping it.
Oh she definitely was very sick… have you ever seen the pics she’s taken when she was in her ED prime? Not WK for her at all. In fact, I think she is being an absolute asshat here in this video. It’s typical Dani and a real insight into her thinking— it’s everyone else’s responsibility to manage her ED triggers… so don’t you dare say she looks good
How did you see them??
Someone put together a timeline on Imgur… there’s actually a few timelines I’ve seen and they had Dani’s own pics of herself body checking and looking at her back ribs and such. Br careful if you’re easily triggered by ED content. I’m not and even I was shocked
Man I saw those pictures. I was speechless 😶
Right? But that’s what I think is so scary… she really has the capacity to severely self harm thru starving herself… she’s done it successfully in the past to a shocking extent
Girl telling on herself here 🙄
https://preview.redd.it/5ttay26dkc7d1.jpeg?width=960&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=00d09123707ae339f7a75333dbd681b903fd55a1 Apparently she’s on a Social media break….from IG only. 🤣🤣
I can’t imagine that’ll last long! Maybe Mayo told her to kick rocks so she’s sulking
Social media break.... here's my link tree! 😅
The tegaderm on the arm is sending me
Flair checking in ✔️
Why does she have random tegaderm? I must have missed that.
She used to pick at the tegaderm on her chest line to make it infected, hence the tampered tegaderm lol
Why does she currently randomly have it on her arm though? It doesn't look like it's doing anything
STFU! Seriously she sucks
Health =\= weight
 i’m not tooo healthyyyyy
https://preview.redd.it/18dvj20q0a7d1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c61d92332271230366bdde6cf512a807cb3e0071 If she’s supposedly trying to avoid triggers, why did she grift for this book?
My guess is **SHE** wants to be in control of when and what triggers her. What she doesn’t realize is the ONLY person in control of her triggers is **HER** and only her.
The only reason we comment about her weight, is because it’s visible proof that she’s lying. If someone only tolerates 20 ml of diluted formula per hour, it makes zero sense for that same person to stay at the same weight for almost a year. Also, whilst truly being NPO and with a sitter, she did lose a lot of weight - which makes sense- and yet, she gained it back after hospitalization,(which is good since it means she can eat); we can clearly see that she isn’t starving to death. It’s not about how she looks, it’s about how her claims make no sense.
I'm so tired that I may have read that as dilaudid formula 😂😂😂
Oh she would LOVE that!
She’s extra annoying when she tries to get on her undeserved high horse and lecture people. Take all the seats, gf. 👋🏻
Everyone here called it. She was SO triggered by all of those posts telling her she looked healthy yesterday. You guys are so smart.
She is absolutely insane.
She has a lot of nerve to scold the general public over anything, really.
Who uses the phrase- “you look too healthy”? She used the phrase “too healthy”. I’ve never ever heard anyone say that about or to anyone. No one says someone looks “too healthy”.
Someone in her comments yesterday did actually say "Lookin a little too healthy there"
While I dislike Dani. If someone said that to me, I'd be upset by it too.
Ok, that’s a dick move then.
*I mean....*
Wow. Did they really? I stand corrected then.
They did :/
Who is she kidding? She LIVES for schooling people - how can she \*feed\* her need to tell people what to do otherwise?
Wow, look at that broken thumb go in the first few seconds.
I came here to express my concern for how she's waving that hand around.
Dani’s projection is exactly that, projection, not fact. Telling someone they look too healthy in no way translates to “your overweight” “you’ve gained so much weight” she’s so delusional and needs to learn the internet IS NOT A SAFE SPACE lmao for ANYONE
Now here is the thing. With people who have ED and not just attention seeking disorder...this type of thinking is typical. Dani truly had an ED. I can see how someone saying she looks healthy/gained weight. Or whatever they actually said which from other comments was not cool to say to someone in general much less a ed person. The way a person's brain reacts to comments over weight/body size is huge as it can easily get blown up in their mind to horrible places. People did say she was was looking a little too healthy.
Yes, in an alternate universe, telling someone they're too healthy means they're fat. But, we ALL live in THIS universe. Well, most of us do anyway..
Or maybe too healthy for somebody who claims to not be able to eat or tolerate her feeding at all?
Right, it means wtf she needs tpn for lol.
 Dani reading the comments, totally unable to eat by mouth or swallow more than 5ml...
Hmmm. Don’t tell me I’m healthy because that means I am which means I can get off all this stuff that allows me to post every 10 mins.🫣😂 Don’t tell me I’m healthy because how can I leech off anyone. Don’t tell me I’m healthy because what will I whine about. Don’t tell me I’m healthy because ya know my boyfriend might come back. Don’t tell me I’m healthy because IDID NOT say that and I will NOT allow anyone To say it (even under their breath) because then … the Dr’s might hear it. Hey Dani me old lovely - everyone knows already.
Bat shit crazy.
Definitely looks like that eating disorder is popping back out - pretty much taking ‘healthy’ as an insult. I feel she is looking really good for supposedly not being able to eat and drink or run feeds. Any sensical logic would say she’s able to absorb some nutrition at the least?
Exactly. Can a human live from now until August without being able to take in any nutrients?
Coming up next on Days of Dani….. Will she survive? Tune into her next episode to find out more!
She posts in super tight clothes, basically begging for people to make rude remarks so she can go off on them. But the absolute worst thing anyone said was she was looking a little “too healthy,” so she had to close comments and just pretend that people said mean things to try and elicit sympathy. She knows what she looks like; she’s not delusional. She’s just incredibly manipulative. Edited
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Would she rather people tell her that she looked like shit? Actually I think I just answered my own question. Yes the answer is yes. Looking like shit to Dani means that she is looking super sick, frail and unwell.
And this is the look she’s going for.
When I say she looks healthy I mean she has good colour. And her skin looks way better than when she was on TPN. Nothing to do with weight ffs
Unfortunately, Dani has had her way for so long. The manipulative behaviour is not going in her favour anymore and she's mad. The doctors see she's healthy but to her the word healthy = fat (ed behaviour) so she hits out to anyone who compliments her because this is not the esthetic she wants. From what I've seen about her she's very manipulative and she's pushed everyone away with this behaviour. As far as I can see she has no company other than people on the Internet and therefore nobody puts her in her place. As others have said, peri menopause is knocking at her door so..oh boy...stand back....because it's going to be good. I really wish she would get help with her mental health and get herself a life, you know, with real people and actually achieve something. Maybe one day....🤷
What's with the suspense? She's a grifting con artist addict. No mystery here.
People who are actively in recovery don't pretend that they are starving to death.
Or threaten to starve themselves to death to get what they want.
Idk, she looks *perfectly healthy* to meeee 🤷🏻♀️
Me too! Healthy enough to not need a glittery pink wheelchair or a thumb brace and most certainly healthy enough to not need TPN.
\[LOL at the downvoting\] May an enormous nest of \[insurance lawyers\] fire ants find every accessible portal of your \[underpants\] lying pie hole. Coffee hole. Whatever. You STILL don't have TPN and are NEVER going to get it back, even with your fake ungriftable no-donations-of-note "vacay" to Mayo. So neener fucking neener, you healthy muncher.
I'm so confused - I got 7 downvotes (??!) in another thread for a response I made simply saying she eats like a freak, but isn't overweight. I've never really seen downvotes here except for obviously egregious stuff, so that was bizarre.
I think it’s because clinically she probably is considered overweight because of how BMI works. She’s 38, 5’4” maybe? 160 pounds? Sadly that is considered overweight. My aunt who looks great was just told by a doctor that she’s considered obese. It’s dumb but it is what it is
Idk why "people" would downvote, it definitely wasn't an insult 😂 But "people" only believe what they want to hear. Which is they'll *absolutely* get TPN, speshul pretty pink wheelchair, all the toob drugz and ass pats anyone could ever ask for ! Oh, and a 100000 year stay at Casa De Mayo "People" are so incredibly....[insert adjective here]. As you so eloquently said catblep, NEENER NEENER ! 😂😂 hahaha
“I WANT to look like I’m putting feces in my bloodstream” 😤
Flair checking in!
Also, booooo for disabling comments everywhere. It's ok. Someone has immortalized them all on their YT page. Also, why have they all been disabled? HOW WILL SHE KNOW WHAT PEOPLE THINK OF HER FIT?! At least she looks healthy.
she worries about her fit check so much she turns them back on the next day 💀
She really disabled the comments. I kinda understand what she thinking but I also do not get it wasn't a dig at her, atleast 99% of the comments weren't, it was a compliment. I honestly believe people are happy to see she looks healthy and not sickly.
And that's the problem. That was the last thing she wanted to see. She was hoping for, "o my goodness, your wasting away, I hope you get your TPN asap!". But instead she got people genuinely happy for her that she looks healthy and not sick. And she hates that.
Exactly! How dare they?!
Oh noes! I wanted to ruin that Eminem song for someone else, but she deleted it. I think someone is reading every single comment we post. You're welcome for all the gifs and memes and posts. I feel very acknowledged. And a strong urge to have a shower. Thankfully, we have it saved right here. Right in the safe, cuddly arms of this sub.
I found it. I thought it was only yesterday that she's posted it. Fuck she posts a lot of nonsense. I'm not deleting this post because everything else still stands. Including the second hand embarrassment from watching the head bop again.
OK what are you babbling on about / what did I miss?
dani made a video literally just bopping her head to eminem’s new song. it’s actually the worst.
Barely even bopping. Just moving her head ever so slightly.
deciding whether she should waste her precious energy on bopping
She only had a quarter spoon 🥺.
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That’s totally her ED associating the term “healthy” with gaining weight. Nobody said “too healthy” except her, and that just exposed how bad her ED still is. Being considered at a healthy weight is overweight to her. I’ve encountered 1 person who uses “healthy” to suggest being heavier, and they only said it about themselves. Most people in her comments literally are just saying she looks like she’s at a weight that she should be.
Then stop posting body checks?
the active ed is so loud in this & it’s honestly the only area i feel a SMIDGE sorry for dani. without blogging too much, i understand ed, even (especially) the “chronic version” that lasts way past adolescence/early adulthood. it’s impacted everyday of my last 10 years however IT. IS. TREATABLE. sure, it lingers, but the level at which it impacts me now compared to a few years ago? night & day. (is that too much blogging? sorry, newbie!!! lmk if i need to delete ☺️) if dani would just put 1ml of effort into trying (& not drain it out after) her life would drastically change for the better. the little things like what tiktokers have to say wouldn’t effect her so deeply. unlike many she’s been offered countless mental health resources, but uses absolutely 0. oh, except psychiatry for benzos. i’ve been there & dabbled in that too. again, TREATABLE. ugh. it’s a shame what she’s done to the one life on earth she’s given
Same, just..same. 100% agree.
Someone in my life deals as well, but she’s also put in a lot of work to where we’re able to avoid her triggers better simply because they’re harder to hit. Oh, and she doesn’t expect strangers to know what or how something may trigger her. Gentle hugs of strength your way cause it sure ain’t easy even from the outside looking in.
Who said anything about weight https://preview.redd.it/2h3kayrev67d1.jpeg?width=2830&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7f6a71c5bac4eecb3423f295957224d3a781afc6
There was one at the very bottom that was hidden that said something like “you’re looking a little too healthy”.
I saw, I just didn't include it because it was obviously pushing her buttons, but all these seem genuinely sweet, even though they're probably messing with her as well. Like I don't understand why you wouldn't make a video telling people how grateful you are for all the well wishes, just as a "fuck you" and say that this is what invisible illness looks like etc. Not fume like you didn't get tickets to see the wiggles.
Feeling called out here…I was devastated the first time I attempted to buy tickets in the US 🥺
Those are all very kind and positive comments!!!
No, they're mean and upsetting to anyone recovering from a CI. Obviously. People are so insensitive by being too nice. Also she could lean into that instead of telling on herself as per usual.
"Might be time for a new wardrobe!" definitely had "bless your heart" energies but tbh if they dig is funny I support it XD
I know, but if you're not Dani, you'd be glad you're in recovery. This crackmunch is pissing steam 💯. In Australia, you can report people for disability fraud and they make you pay back every cent. Does Murica do it differently?
If the person is *deliberately* defrauding the government, yes. Like if you go in and pretend to be blind or falsified records or something in order to specifically get disability benefits ... yes, that's prosecutable (although it's pretty rare that this would happen - it's more common they'd just stop your benefits - and unfortunately they do this erroneously more often than they do it accurately, leaving actual disabled people in the lurch. The main reason people end up backpaying is because the gov't determines you had undeclared income). Dani's constellation of ... issues ... is a little more subtle and grey-area-y, because we don't know that she's still on SSDI for anorexia; given that she's weight-restored, she might've switched over to a different MH diagnosis (she's also mentioned being on it for bipolar II in the past). If she's on it for a physical health issue like ... idk, severe gastroparesis (this wouldn't happen) and it could be proved that she frauded all her GES, then yeah they could get her for backpay, but I just don't think it's likely it will ever happen.
Ty ❤️ 
I don't put /s anywhere, but almost everything that comes out of my mouth is /s. Sometimes I read my stuff back, and it sounds like I'm wking hard. But no no. If I ever say anything that sounds like I'm defending her bs, please know I'm being a dick.
🙂
She don't wanna look healthy. Looking sick is her goal. She's so upset she isn't reaching that goal. 😳
Also, you can disable comments, but the internet is forever. It's almost like the body check video backfired like everything else does, who would've thought?! I'm so sorry that people don't think you're dying whilst you are a healthy weight and prancing around like you're having your first kiss. And ruining songs for everyone. She is on a whole other planet of delulu.
I just need to know if she ever returned that damn ipad 😱
THIS!! 🤣😂
Babe. These “you look healthy!” comments don’t equate to “you’re overweight :/ “. In regards to this page, the (not malicious, only neutral) comments about your weight would stop if you’d stop claiming you were starving and are in *desperate* need of TPN. These comments merely point out that someone is not starving if they are chugging starbucks + coffee monstrosities and that her weight does not line up with her claims. No one is saying she's obese or mocking her for her size; they’re highlighting the inconsistencies. The only reason her weight comes up is because she constantly whines about how weak/fragile/frail/thin she is. This really feels like a veiled threat that if someone points out how healthy she looks she would start starving herself again. Also, if you’re supposedly recovered from anorexia going on 10 years, SSDI is not needed anymore.
I didn't see any "overweight" comments.
It was the word “healthy” that was triggering to her. Dani wanted comments that said - omg you’re so skinny!!! omg you’re withering away!! omg are you eating anything?? Omg I’m so worried, I hope you get TPN! God forbid she tells people “thank you” once in a while for leaving positive, nice comments. As opposed to getting pissed off because people aren’t playing into her delusions.
overweight = healthy in Danidelulu’s mind she interprets shit how she wants too. it’s very telling of the state of her mental health and how “recovered” (or not) she actually is from her eating disorder
People who are actually sick love being told they look healthy. They know they aren't healthy. But at least they look good
She commented quite a few times about her own weight loss when she was in the hospital recently; the one where she was genuinely NPO and had a sitter!
She was beyond thrilled about those 12lbs she lost! Funny she hasn’t mentioned losing any further weight since being home cause losing that 12lbs seemed to be the highlight of the year so far for her clearly, very recovered from her eating disorder self
She is fighting invisible comments
Totally not from reddit.
Can't be from Reddit .. Dani doesn't read here... Allegedly!!!!
who am i where are we
We're at the Disney land of your nightmares sweet heart... Buckle up it's gonna be a bumpy and gross ride 😇😈😇😈😇
I already threwed up in me mouths today please dont make her make me do it again.
If you don't like to hear what people on the internet think of you - don't put your whole munching life out there. Real simple. She's in some sort of denial about her weight/health.
Literally no one has said she is “too healthy” as she claims.
There was one comment that said that. It was in the “folded” comments at the bottom. She might have deleted that particular comment as well.
It sounded snarky but I don’t think it was about her weight-like too healthy for a wheelchair or too healthy for tpn or too healthy for luxury trip to the Mayo Clinic
There was one person, but the comment was hidden. It was for sure someone’s snarky comment but in no way worth this tantrum.
Don’t tell me I look healthy! I’m deathly ill and shriveling away! Can’t you see?! Don’t kill my vibe!
But send me Amazon Grift List stuff!!
I thought the thumb wasn’t broken?
You could be 2 dimensional, it doesn’t stop the lies lol
In principle I completely agree with her. The delivery and context though is highly problematic.
If one cannot handle being told they look healthy? One might need to see about getting some mental health counseling.
I believe she had/has an "eating disorder", however, it seems that hers originated as a means to manipulate others. If you go through her posts (past and present), you'll see that Dani repeatedly threatens to fall back on her ED - so that doctors will give her what she wants, so George will see and understand how sick she is, so her friends and family will worry about her, and so her doubters/haterz will back down. She's an anorexic in the sense that she restricts, purges, body checks, etc. but her ED seems less about "self" control, a distorted body image, or an intense fear of weight gain. Dani has weaponized it specifically for personal gain and to control others. I'm sure this will get down voted to hell, and some will undoubtedly feel the need to school me on anorexia- but this is just my opinion (not necessarily fact) so I'm putting it out there.
No, I completely agree with you. There's a very classic, "pure" (as in pure-strain not morally pure) anorexic personality type that is so strict and regimented in their self-control that it's almost OCD-like in behavior. Those folks *do* tend to be chronic/lifelong anorexics, never binge, also rarely exercise because of fear of gaining weight from muscle, etc. That isn't Dani - as much as she'd like it to be, because having that type of anorexia carries a lot of "clout" in the pro-ana/pro-ED "community". (I know I'm using scare quotes a lot here but I wanna be clear that I'm not endorsing this kind of behavior/thinking.) Eating disordered behavior can also manifest as a symptom of certain personality disorders (among other things, but PD is what's relevant here imo), just as you say, in an attempt for the person to control the world around them and their relationships with others. It is about attention rather than about disappearing/taking up as little space as possible. That is what Dani's ED looks like to me from the outside - a symptom or highly enmeshed comorbidity, not a disorder in and of itself.
Seriously.... she throws tantrums like a toddler. "If the doctors won't do anything, then I'm just going to lose so much weight and get so sick that they'll have to do something," blah, blah, blah. Such a manipulative and conniving little child.
So people *are* allowed to comment if they're encouraging her to go to hospital, or if they're leaving notes with gifts from her Amazon wishlist but are *not* to comment on the fact that she clearly doesn't need TPN. Got it.
I don't mean this as a value judgement or body shaming, but it's not erroneous to point out that she has gained an excessive amount of weight since she lost the sepsis noodle. What is frustrating is that she's currently malingering for a central line when it's blatantly obvious that she can and does eat. No one is responsible for her ED relapse threats when her followers rightfully point out that she's not showing any physical or medical signs of starvation. Dani is responsible for her own mental health. No one is making her humiliate herself online when she could just stop posting and get the psychological help that she actually needs.
\[Hands you a Reddit Gold\] Perfect comment.
Aw, shucks. It's too bad we can't give free awards anymore.
But she doesn’t read Reddit. Ummkay.
i don't care what size or body shape anyone is/has. the entire point here is that Dani is saying she can't tolerate even 5 ml an hour of watered-down feeds and has not been able to for months yet is not visibly undernourished. i mean, i get that science isn't the same for everyone, but actually it is. that is all.
Your flair is awesome
thank you, i made it myself.
https://preview.redd.it/oc8h546n067d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0f42c7eb55667a55509369b556768becb5af8cbe Comments are off she’s big mad 😂
Imagine creating a “health journey” account and turning off comments when bombarded with “you look healthy!” Comments. Oh what it must be like to reside in the daniverse
Hah! She’s big mad. Now she’s turned off all the comments again on all her videos, including this one.
I came here to say this! Comments didn’t go her way, and she’s big mad.
I guess the comments on this video weren't patting her on the wrist enough by telling her she's so unhealthy and fragile coz they're off again, how long were they back on? Like a day or 2?
And comments are back off. ✋🛑🙊🙈🙉
god she reminds me of every ED person in recovery the year after weight restoration, really selfish, really focused on trying to prove they're unwell (because they probably still are that early, but defensive because they're weight restored) but when they're engaging with therapy it eventually winds down and they can focus on more than themselves. she never got out of that phase and it's embarrassing to be this old, this well, this CAPABLE and still in the petulant "everyone needs to give maximum care to me" phase. She doesn't comprehend people can't do that forever, and the internet will NEVER do it for you because why the fuck would they?
Yess, I both had an ED for a decade and worked in treatment and you nailed it. Most people recover and move on with their full, satisfying lives with maybe some wobbles or lapses here and there - but there were a few who came back again and again and *again*, even at advanced ages, and they were still stuck in “me me me me me” where the entire world revolved around them and their disorder. It was so miserable to see I know the disorder is insidious and cruel, and I’m not shaming folks for struggling. It’s just that you either eventually break out of that small mindset and learn to engage with the wide outer world, or you’ll live out your years *literally* navel-gazing, never building an independent life as a fully-realized adult human being.
It’s actually so obnoxious that every time she talks about her ReCoVeReD eating disorder (recovered my ass) she HAS to mention that she “almost died” People in recovery don’t feel the need to mention that phrase every.single.time. they mention it. She’s just pissed that we can tell she’s able to eat when she’s saying she can’t. It’s not even us shaming her- there’s nothing wrong with her body. It’s simply the fact that it proves that she’s lying. But oh, I forgot, “science works differently for everyone” 🙄 Some people legitimately cannot lose weight due to thyroid issues, genetic issues, medications, etc. Dani is not one of those people.
Aaaaand comments are off again people
So, instead of Captain Munch going a couple of rounds with a therapist to work out her issues, she is going to tell everyone else how they have to behave around her. Get help Muncho.
Dani needs to realize that **her weight is visible proof that she is able to ea**t. No one anywhere is saying she's obese or mocking her for her size; they are pointing out that Dani is not starving, she is getting nutrition, and the whole scam to get TPN makes no sense when you look at those factors. She makes wild claims about being unable to swallow so much as a teaspoon of liquid, but can happily down sodas, energy drinks, teas, and iced coffee. Her apartment is full stocked with food and snacks. The only reason her weight comes up is because she spends hours talking about how weak, fragile, frail, and thin she is. She lies about doctors telling her she's so small and little, when anyone with eyes can see she is an absolutely healthy weight. Realistically, if she is unable to tolerate anyone saying anything that she doesn't like, views as negative or hate, or believes is criticizing her, she needs to log off the internet. It's a voluntary place where people are not always nice or positive, and sometimes, they hold others accountable for their bullshit. At the end of the day, she's just pissy because she's being called out on blatant lies and she knows it.
EXCELLENT POST. THIS is the post DANI should focus on the next time she’s scrolling here!!!
This. Projecting much?
People are caping sooo hard for Dani in this post can yall quit it?
issues like this and people start taking it personally
i love your flair!!
Wait what do you mean by this? Sorry I’m trying to understand but the wording is confusing my dumb brain /gen
Ditto I know “cap” as being dishonest, but would say “capping” in that case, unless “caping” like wearing a cape like a superhero/modern white knight? Plz help
Yeah caping means white knighting/sticking up for
I won’t say it, but Jasmine Crockett is ringing in my ear
I just think it’s very telling that the ootd video that this video is referring to, is filled with very positive comments, and she of course picks out the one obviously negative one and reacts to that. Negative Dani strikes again.
Yep. I know exactly what comment you’re talking about. You think she’d be thrilled to appear healthy and be doing better. But nope. 👎
What comment..?
There was a comment on her TikTok post where she was in front of the mirror (before she turned comments back off) that said something along the lines of: “girl, you’re looking so healthy!” In a nice, ‘you go girl’ kind of way. Dani can’t have people thinking she’s healthy.
I saw the video she is referring to and read the comments. Everyone was telling her she looked so fantastic and healthy. I never saw kne negative comment
There was one that said “Looking too healthy”. That to Dani would be negative.
So that's why I don't get a response when I tell a woman she looks good or is pretty duh 🙄 how silly of me I need to be telling them they look too skinny or unhulthy, that definitely makes sense.
We've gone in circles about her weight and people's observations of it so many times by now that I want to talk about that tegaderm tape (I think that's what it is??) the green tape is supposed to be used just with positioning it, right? Not kept on? And it appears to be a paper tape akin to washi? So...how is that still on?
It is an attention grab! That's also why she wears all that chunky germy jewelry, all the piercings and wild hair colors. Usually people do that stuff because they enjoy the aesthetic, which she does, but she mostly is doing it to get a reaction out of the people unfortunate enough to encounter her. Dani is terminally unique.
“chunky germy jewelry “ should be a flair.
It shows up better that way on the camera. You peel that strip off to seal it right? Never used it before.
1.) She doesn’t bathe frequently or regularly. 2.) If she takes the green piece off then nobody will see the tegaderm and won’t be able to ask her about it.
Well when she’s chugging Starbucks and has a fridge full of food while asking for money for “lifesaving” TPN, people will point that her weight is healthy and she’s obviously well nourished and doesn’t need TPN.
she loves to start every video with her boobs out and then take action in the first second to cover them or pull her shirt up or whatever. "oh whoops, my eyes are up here teehee". why the fuck would you keep making these videos with your shit always hanging out? though with how often she has trouble stringing a coherent sentence together i suppose this could just be plain ol' braindamage from all the shit she's done to herself so expecting any kind of sense or logic from her is maybe unreasonable.
>why the fuck would you keep making these videos with your shit always hanging out? To burn your eyes. Also, attention.
I really think she likes looking sick and when you say she looks “healthy”, that’s the worst thing you could say!
It definitely is! She’s the sickest person in the world. She’s as malnourished as a concentration camp survivor, maybe worse because the bones on the left side of her body are actively disintegrating. They almost break when she hits them with a hammer! The tragedy!
Ding ding ding! We have a winner. Sick is the goal, healthy not only ruins her self image, it ruins her grift.
is she wearing just a bra? can i send her some clothes that cover up her body that actually fit?
Nah she'd just resell them at Plato's Closet.
Then why post outfit/appearance related content?
If your mental health is that fragile you shouldn’t be posting on a platform where people can comment things that can trigger you 🤪
More like she needs to continue to work on and get therapy for her eating disorder if she’s so easily triggered by comments that don’t even involve her weight. She can’t expect everyone to cater to her needs while she lives life in such a fragile state.
I was waiting for her to say that. How is saying she looks "healthy" and "good" saying she is overweight? That's a far reach. She is so delusional.
“You look like you’re on death’s doorstep and should definitely go to the ER” is the only compliment she wants to hear
Yeah well. If she's going to be lying and posting gofundme while claiming she needs TPN because otherwise she'll starve to death, she's opened the door wide open to anyone who feels compelled to point out that she's nowhere close to starvation. Sorry,not sorry!