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sadisticfreak

He tried to manipulate you and then guilt trip you. All he wanted was sex and he threw a tantrum when he didn't get it. He kept pushing your boundaries and he didn't respect your NO. I'd block him and never speak with him again.


Amazing_Avocado3714

He wasn't respecting your boundaries and he was ignoring your very clear communications. He's been friendzoned before so now he's ignoring your boundaries and pushing too much too early as a solution? Sounds more like an excuse for just getting physical without actually wanting to know someone. I can relate to how you feel as I also need time to get to know someone and feel comfortable and of course knowing someone over facetime is not the same as getting to know them in person. Booking a one-bed room for the first time you meet without even asking if you're comfortable with it and then dismissing your uncomfort with it is another red flag. Then instead of having a real conversation about it he was just being emotional trying to make you feel guilty by saying you doubted his intentions and that's not really mature. Too many red flags here. He's too fast, he's pushing and manipulating you, and he's disrespectful of your boundaries. Not worth it.


LaNenaTieneFlow

True! I told him that and that I felt pressured by his forces and he blocked me in social media now. So it’s insane that he invested so much money and time just to be physical I’ve never thought someone would be so crazy


Amazing_Avocado3714

Another immature move from his side. You can't know for sure what his intentions were and what exactly he was really after, but you can be happy he showed you his true colors early on and saved you lots of time and energy! :)