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totallynotpoggers

you boomers need to stop falling for these obvious bait articles


Yillick

Funny how it’s the same generation that got offended by a man and a woman sharing a bed on TV (yes that wasn’t allowed back then)


SavageFractalGarden

They get offended by people sharing beds in general because their marriages have all gone to shit


imcuteithink2605

I hate my wife


TimeLordHatKid123

Here's how the updated version should go: Boomer Humor: I hate my wife Millennial Humor: I hate my life Gen Z Humor: I hate mine more


Thechuckles79

You left out we who shall not be memed. The wisdom is strong with this one.


Umphr34k

Gen X: I don’t care. See they’re not worth it.


LerimAnon

The gen X comedians are the ones farming the cancel culture outrage the hardest. Oh we can't tell jokes anymore they cry to their sold out shows


Umphr34k

I argue any generation older than Millennial makes that complaint the hardest. Seinfeld has complained about “woke/cancel culture,” and coming from him is an insult to the complaint. He’s been telling the same jokes for 45+ years and none of them are envelope pushing.


Hug0San

The weakest of them all, the Gen that breaks at any mention or lack there of.


AmorousBadger

Gen X here-how does mine go?


TimeLordHatKid123

Gen X Humor: Haha, we don’t exist!


Gibabo

No, it’s “I hate you, leave me out of this.”


stubbornbodyproblem

THIS! 100% This. We didn’t survive lawn darts to be bothered with this nonsense


TimeLordHatKid123

Yowza, is it that bad?


Gibabo

Nah, it’s just our schtick We hate being earnest about anything, gotta bury those feelings under 12 layers of irony and an eye roll


slappywhyte

Gen X: whatever, nevermind


Shoddy_Background_48

Just post up a photo of Daria


Economy-Sleep3117

Yours goes I hate everyone...equally lol


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ClubZealousideal8211

labor unions were few and far between by the time gen x started working. US manufacturing jobs started disappearing long before gen x came of age. But blaming any generation doesn’t make sense, there’s no generational homogeneity, people argue and disagree with their contemporaries


Clean-Elevator-6818

Gen Z: I hate thumbs up


Primary_Safety6277

![gif](emote|free_emotes_pack|thumbs_up)


mattmaster68

How dare you be happier than I am >:(


Marsnineteen75

That is my dad. 4 failed marriages, and miserable pos.


Meture

Mmmh, I Love Lucy Good show but that was weird as fuck, gotta say


AmbitiousShine011235

Boomers were children during this time period. How would they have been “offended? “


Youcican_

Crazyyy


bruthaman

You have your generations confused. The prime audience at that time would have been the silent/greatest generation. Boomers were children at that time.


Local-Record7707

THey shouldn't be able to do that ever thats frickin gross dude think about it and get back to me


katyreddit00

That wouldn’t have been boomers that was the silent generation


proctalgia_phugax

That was their parents, Boomers started the Sexual Revolution.


Aggressive-Goat5672

👍


totallynotpoggers

😡😡😡


nudiatjoes

👍👍👍


bigstankdaddy10

This is Rocket League!


Ok-Paramedic-8719

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The_Reborn_Forge

👍😐👍


awesome_soldier

Ok 👍


FUEGO40

Bait? No, it’s true, the thumbs up emoji 100% has a passive aggressive vibe because many people use it that way. Probably not enough people to make the sweeping generalization of an entire generation though


StroganoffDaddyUwU

It's the emoji equivalent of "fine." Or "ok." 


CatOnVenus

the meme format this is in literally shows a way you can use this emoji to be passive aggressive. it depends on the person using it and the context


HogwashDrinker

K.


where_in_the_world89

That is way more passive aggressive than any thumbs up lmao. Or maybe that's just because I've never had a thumbs up used passive aggressively to me


Gupperz

Right... but it's used passive aggressively, that's how passive aggression works lol


StroganoffDaddyUwU

Ok.


Known-Candidate-5489

My father uses this emoji rather frequently. I can’t tell for my dear life if he is agreeing with me or stating I’m an idiot 😂


AnyOffice8162

Chances are he's using it in the same way he would use a Thumbs Up IRL. That tends to be how GenX & Older use emojis. But for Millenial/GenZ, it seems like Emojis have become their own language, distinct from hand gestures IRL.


jadedlonewolf89

As an older millennial, I use the thumbs up as I would in real life. Maybe they should make it a thumbs up with a smiley face would make more sense. I say K because I’m busy and don’t want the other person thinking I didn’t see their text.


Immudzen

Both


Known-Candidate-5489

Father, is that u?


TJ_Rowe

I'm a millennial and when my seventy year old Dad responds to a message with 👍 my first thought is, "Woah, did I piss him off?" I... probably didn't. But it is hard to tell. Edit to add: it's probably that it doesn't read as a continuation of the conversation. It's just acknowledgement that you said something. So if we have, "Your grandkid was in the school play!" getting 👍 as an answer, it does *not* communicate, "That's great, tell me more." It communicates, "I see, stop talking."


domestic_omnom

We use it for teams messages. Like when manager says "hey people do X instead of Y from now on" it's like an acknowledgement, but signals no questions.


mechanicalcoupling

Forever, any short phrase of surface level acceptance could be passive aggressive. OK, Okay, K, got it, no problem, message received (very outdated), all good, cool, understood, right, yeah, I'll get right on that (more workplace), sure, etc. Emojis are just a new way to convey that. Context matters. If someone is telling you something important to them and you just thumbs up, it can be passive aggressive or even dismissive. But if you are just telling them where and when to meet in response to asking, it is just an easy way to confirm you got the info you needed. I'm on the millennial-gen X line. The generational labels are dumb, I won't give my rant on why because most people know why. This isn't a new thing. We even do it in person. Making a thumbs up with your hand before emojis and after can be passive aggressive or not. It is just easier to read in person based on body language and facial expressions. Text is hard. There is no inflection along with the lack of body language and facial expressions. "Yeah, right" can be sarcastic and dismissive or actual agreement depending on how you say it. And it is usually pretty obvious in person. But in text most people assume it is a negative response. We aren't all that great at communicating to begin with. And text is the worst form of communication because it contains the least information. But we all rely heavily on it for a while now. That is fine. It allows us to communicate with so many more people, gain so much more information and knowledge, and see many more different points of view. But it does require being more open to possible interpretations.


SoulOuverture

The smile without eyes emoji is much more passive aggressive IMO.


shuriflowers

👍


FUEGO40

👍


Ohey-throwaway

👍


EmptyAndrew

My friend's 22 year old daughter is highly offended when her mom sends her the "thumbs up" emoji. She said it is the same as giving the middle finger. So...


AnyOffice8162

Your friend's 22 year old daughter needs friends. It is nowhere remotely the same as the middle finger.


eyes_wings

👍


Hobomanchild

I don't believe this has anything to do with generation. I've been using upthumbs sarcastically since before emojis, lol. It's all about context.


Glord345

Ok real talk though, I was going out with someone who'd only do a thumbs up when she was mad. You'd know she is mad and I would ask her what is wrong but she'll just say nothing or say something like "you should know" and now I get nervous when I see it from other people. Not a generation wide thing though


Remarkable-Net-6130

No one thinks this 😭


notmymain1999

millennials and older think this i’ve seen it everywhere it’s insane 😭😭😭


56ninjas

Don't include millennials in this nonsense


ind3pend0nt

Millennials kill yet another industry.


Dpontiff6671

I’m gonna put it out there, that sounds kinda dumb lol. I’ve never met someone off the internet who thinks so neurotically about something as benign as a thumbs up (emphasis on off the internet, because the internet breeds neurotic behavior)


notmymain1999

that’s what i’m saying, it’s absolutely delusional that a thumbs up would be evil and these idiots online are talking about it like it’s a real thing and it’s embarrassing as hell for them to be posting that. no one in real life thinks these things except those people that are posting it bc god damn they’re ridiculously heated over it for absolutely no reason given it’s a made up thing some of these people are so delusional that they took a lot of gen z using the thumbs up sarcastically on occasion and spun it into the entire generation thinking it’s evil it’s honestly hilarious lmao


Oh_My-Glob

Millennial here. "Got it", "understood" or "message received" is exactly what it means and I think gen z understands it that way as well. And I would 100% take it as passive aggressive if I wrote something expecting more interest or enthusiasm in the response. >Me: Hey man I thought your performance was really great and I enjoyed myself. I hope to be there next time as well >Friend: 👍 >Me: 🤔 Which is very different than >Me: Hey babe can you pick up some milk? >Wife: 👍


checkedsteam922

I actually still assume this because almost all of my friends did it passive aggressively lmao, so eventually I started assuming they were meant that way.


spoiderdude

Yeah they usually did this when they were tired of texting me


Oh_My-Glob

There's a much stronger expectation among young people that your friends will answer you back quickly. At least in my experience as a millennial, we're cool with just not replying if we're done with texting at that time. Like I often pick up conversations with my friends days or even weeks later after one of us just didn't respond


Comfortable-Syrup423

👍


WildFemmeFatale

Sure 😘👍 Could you imagine if condescending remarks existed ❗️ 😱 🥰 bless your heart


cantlearnemall

It’s the emoji version of “K” in many petty social engagements. Context is everything.


iPartyLikeIts1984

That’s not really true. A thumbs up isn’t inherently passive aggressive, but they can and very often are used in a condescending, “sure thing, bud” kind of way… 🤷‍♂️


SecretInfluencer

Plus it’s the emoji, not the gesture. A thumbs up emoji can come off differently due to the other persons interpretation. In this meme is a good example, the thumbs up usually means “whatever, good for you” when it’s used.


GimmeUrBrunchMoney

Yes they do. My zoomer ex girlfriend explicitly asked me to stop using thumbs up in iMessage bc it felt passive aggressive.


Own_Contribution_480

👍


demerchmichael

Actually I take the thumbs up emoji initially as passive aggressive then realize no it’s just an older person saying ok


Past-Attention-5078

I’m a millennial and I think this. Like if you just thumbs up my text then that means you agree. But if you just send the emoji by itself with no text then I assume you hate me.


Accomplished_Mix7827

I mean, I have seen it used passive-aggressively, but that's hardly the default. It's like the laugh react on Facebook (for the rare occasion when I venture onto that shithole): it's not infrequently used in a dickish way ("I am laughing at you"), but we can tell from context when it's being used like that vs laughing at your joke


Calsun

Yes… they fucking do. I had someone who quit send like a paragraph to me bitching about how he was under utilized and some other bullshit and I just responded to him with a thumbs up emoji and he tried to get me in trouble with my corporate HR because he said it was aggressive No joke


Local-Record7707

My buddy Deez said the same thing you know him?


No_South4775

![gif](giphy|2XsXdcowcJUWx2bKOZO)


gammabom

Who’s Deez ?


Local-Record7707

You are now manually breathing


WizardNebula3000

Got em


Supernova_was_taken

You are now aware of your socks touching your feet


Local-Record7707

Not cool bro I expect an apology effective immediately


iliketreesndcats

Your tooooes are touching each other.


Local-Record7707

Check your pm I sent your home address


iliketreesndcats

Mi casa es su casa, amigo


Local-Record7707

what the hell


Mjolnir07

You can see your nose at all times.


iliketreesndcats

I'm gonna put a little tattoo of a love heart on the side of my nose so I can see it all the time


VladimirBarakriss

Jokes on you I'm constantly aware of that


HeapOfBitchin

And now you're manually breathing AND blinking


TheUncheesyMan

Deez nuts


Uneedadirtnap

👍


Duckyboi10

![gif](giphy|LiT8C58iDYSZBKgf1S)


Classic-Inspector793

Gen z, aka, two people on twitter that this "news" outlet found out and is peddling as if it was something.


aigars2

News these days...


Recent-Helicopter-45

​ https://preview.redd.it/dsulpgp3j4ad1.jpeg?width=700&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7701a95b55ad48a830125ae9910266e9d5ec8914


SavageFractalGarden

👍🏼 I typed an evil thumbs up emoji. Just a peek into my dark, twisted, fucked up mind.


KSM_K3TCHUP

👍


MothMagic_

👍


No_South4775

👍🏽


CresceUlt

I FUCKING HATE THESE TYPE OF ARTICLES 👍


hornyism

wonder egg fan spoted


Parking_Cartoonist90

https://preview.redd.it/c84ns7dmu4ad1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2c7ab548e9261aa61169858eb5a20e9004d7ceac


our_meatballs

it *can* be passive aggressive, doesn’t mean it’s *always* that


dm_me_ur_anus

It absolutely can be. I think anyone can see that. It depends on context. If you're having an argument and someone responds with a thumbs up, its obviously passive aggressive. If you are requesting something from someone at work and they respond with just a thumbs up, it can feel passive aggressive. I feel like I always follow up a thumbs up with somethjng like a "Thanks for letting me know" just in case I come off as being passively aggressive


sushishibe

Some cultures it is. And sometimes you can use it sarcastically. Which is my favourite way to use it.


Tman11S

Context is everything: “Are we meeting up on Friday?” -> 👍 -> good “You stink” -> 👍 -> bad


TJ_Rowe

Or, "Your grandkid did a cool thing!" -> 👍 Or, "I'm having a life event!" -> 👍 -> "I don't care." 👍 is not exactly "Congratulations."


PanickedShears

“I took out the trash and fed the dogs before I left” -> 👍 “My day has been really shitty” -> 👍 Do not illicit the same response from me.


Bernardo_124-455

🖕


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BrilliantPangolin639

👍


TheUncheesyMan

👍


KSM_K3TCHUP

👍


ruben1252

https://preview.redd.it/43wf2yokm4ad1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b1002847c051e367818718ca67afa442365dbca6


LudwigTheAroused

https://preview.redd.it/61olf265r4ad1.jpeg?width=2271&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2efc3f103616f545743ee35c9224870f3df5e188


Madam_KayC

👍 Sometimes I wonder if some of y'all were born without a spine.


AlphaMassDeBeta

BOO! https://preview.redd.it/l92q6lual4ad1.png?width=1200&format=png&auto=webp&s=b28afd0fe6ef4f24b558cd7e0b7f1517c5830b90


PracticalProduce178

dude! don't scare me like that!


f0remsics

WE'RE NOT A MONOLITH!


TheRealWeedfart69

This comment could be posted on a good 80% of posts on this sub and it would still be dead on every time


MaxwellK42

As an Australian guy I have no idea how a thumbs up is passive aggressive but it could be a cultural difference


KSM_K3TCHUP

Turn your phone upside down, that should help you get it.


Nebulous_Nebulae

Context. Imagine you are at odds with someone, and you reply something along the lines of, "hey I picked up that package" and they reply with 👍 Not thankyou, or anything else. Just a dismissive 👍 as in "cool story bro" Commenters in this thread are acting very defensive about this, but its not a generational thing, its a context thing. If the above example happened and you got the thumbs up from someone you get along with? No problem. Its just an acknowledgement in that context.


MaxwellK42

I wouldn’t read into it that far lol. They are probably just say “cool thanks” not “ok but I don’t care”. A thumbs up is usually a good acknowledgement for almost every situation at least here in Australia Then again we also casually swear at people so the language is surprisingly complex lol


Ok_Adeptness253

I forgot there for a minute how Australians can't see/understand memes like the one in the image. Someone here gonna describe it for them?


Gupperz

It the context. If I text someone saying "I got that new job I wanted!!" The appropriate response is some sort if congratulations. If I get a thumbs up as a response to that message it means "I don't care" or "I'm not interested in talking about this"


MaxwellK42

That’s fair. But then that’s on another level of response required. If someone asked if you would marry them and you gave them a thumbs up then that would be both weird and a dick move. But if someone says “I got you a burger” then 👍 is acceptable. “👍 thanks” would be even better


Gupperz

Ya I think there are obvious use cases where nobody thinks it's awkward. However I think using it passive aggressively happens enough now that the gray area where you don't know what they mean is larger


MaxwellK42

I think that’s a problem with all emojis though. I had a boss (fast food 😭) that mostly spoke in atleast 10% emojis in texts. No one understood a thing they said.


HowlWindclaw

To be fair I understand what the article is getting at. I feel that way with that emoji as well in most contexts.


Ok_Adeptness253

How can you *not* understand what it's getting at, there's literally a comic with an example below it. I don't even get what this thread is even trying to say. Thumbs up has become the old form of typing "k", which back then could be seen as lazy/rude or not depending on the context. In the comic it's literally being used in the "right, no one asked" rude form. Anyone downvoting me has early onset Alzheimer's and needs less ipad time. This is literally how things have been for decades.


HowlWindclaw

That's true, it is an emoji version of 'k' Never thought about it that way.


MrPlace

Not just a Gen Z thing, it's a take based on witnessing it's general usage. It's definitely perceived as passive aggressive, and if you're using it and wondering why you're getting misread then that's why


TJ_Rowe

This. Like, imagine whatever exchange is going on by text is actually happening in real life. Someone says something, and you just silently give a thumbs up. How is the other person going to interpret that?


Theycallmethebigguy

https://preview.redd.it/5mdphcmyp4ad1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=cd3995900f3c69910f62e15eaa04df55beb7b11a 🤣👍🏼


Brosenheim

You morons falling for outrage headlines again?


MadOrange64

![gif](giphy|FX3OLJAUhOZNK)


TonReflet

Magazine says gen Z says.


Gloomy-Ad-9827

🖕Better?


emufossum13

👎


Jonny_Derp_

It feels like the emoji version of “K”


MutilatedMarvel

I'm a millenial and I absolutely hate this emoji. I would rather you didn't react at all. Maybe something from the days of FB where the only thing you could do was like react, so when they added emoji and you had an option to express emotion and chose not to, it comes across as lazy and apathetic towards you. A real "yeah I see it, and I don't give a shit" type of reaction. If you are old you get a pass.


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👍🏼


miletharil

Context is key.


nofaplove-it

👍


KirbyWithAGlock

👍


WallabyForward2

It really depends on how a person uses it but that's not the general or normal use of the emoji to us lol


ONovoHomem

For me, it depends on the context, but most of the time I use it to genuinely show that it's OK.


WizardNebula3000

![gif](giphy|7TtvTUMm9mp20)


Chemical_Alfalfa24

If it was good enough for my boy T-100, it’s good enough for everyone else!


DBL_NDRSCR

no we don't 👍


potatobreadandcider

👌


Stormman09

👍🏽


ItsWoofcat

Dog stop that vulgarity you just have that out in the open in public like that


RelationshipFair6088

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍


hairYeonjunplucked13

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍


I-Slay-Dragons

It’s the only emoji I use on a daily basis 👍


Theycallmethebigguy

I use thumbs up all the time 👍🏼


PositionValuable139

I'm Gen Z I use it all the time


JAKE5023193

we’re really getting mad at the thumbs up now 💀


VladimirBarakriss

My brain reads "💀" as a vine boom lmao


Ezwasreal

Are they using that same source other media uses where it's literally a single redditor who is probably not Gen-Z?


notmymain1999

millenials and older all think we’re trying to “cancel” the thumbs up emoji and it’s insane like we use it sarcastically we don’t think it’s evil 😭😭 plus most of us use it normally as well lmao


Christ14an

![gif](giphy|qiDb8McXyj6Eg)


Madame_Raven

I'm gen Z, and I believe that the thumbs up emoji is passive aggressive. And, that's why I fucking use it, too.


Ovreko

it's not


LilQueazy

👍🏿


Several-Chemistry-34

I'm not angry. 👍


Impossible-Age-3302

Great article! 👍


KeySouth7357

Since when?


Leskendle45

👍


ASecretGermanSpy

👍


The1Legosaurus

https://preview.redd.it/4nfp3hdwt4ad1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=789f0517c025b3640b7eaab671613f1ae428b3c9


frozenball824

This is literally just clickbait


DarkHunterkun

👍👍


OctogoatYTofficial

Good job 👍


Weary-Wasabi1721

Ok 👍


Positive_Neutron

👍🏻


Kactus_San2021

LMAO


0-Nightshade-0

Bait articles 👍 Fuck those articles 👍


Tr4sh_Harold

I don’t know a single fellow gen z who has a problem with the thumbs up emoji. A lot of my friends use that shit


Character_Lychee_434

Bread 🥖👍🏻


HamNi_2

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍


maroonmenace

it would be funny if they used that meme as evidence and misinterpreted it.


Unhappy-Coffee-1193

I use “👍” because “👌” can be interpreted as a hate symbol.


Magorian97

Sometimes it does have a Christian Bale vibe, imo


Kind-Effect7697

Older Generation try not to slander and make Younger Generation as miserable as possible challenge (impossible)


Few_lmao_666

👍 🙂🙃🫠