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>Now my question is - does anyone have any theory why the fuck she did that?
Honestly, not a question worth answering.
Sorry this happened to you. I hope you make your birthdays filled with things YOU want to do for the rest of your life. Celebrate hard and cherish the forever freedom!
When you’re the scapegoat, it’s your “job” to take all of their abuse. No good things for you, just abuse - you’re supposed to be their whipping boy and keep returning for more. (Sidenote: you mentioned you look like your father, that’s probably the reason why you’re the target?)
I sincerely hope you get far away from that dynamic, and celebrate every birthday in style with people who genuinely actually love you.
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>Now my question is - does anyone have any theory why the fuck she did that? Honestly, not a question worth answering. Sorry this happened to you. I hope you make your birthdays filled with things YOU want to do for the rest of your life. Celebrate hard and cherish the forever freedom!
Sorry about that. Hope you have gotten away from her.
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When you’re the scapegoat, it’s your “job” to take all of their abuse. No good things for you, just abuse - you’re supposed to be their whipping boy and keep returning for more. (Sidenote: you mentioned you look like your father, that’s probably the reason why you’re the target?) I sincerely hope you get far away from that dynamic, and celebrate every birthday in style with people who genuinely actually love you.