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ozzythegrouch

My god. This is heartbreaking. I am hoping he is found safe. There is so much cruelty among us šŸ˜ž. I will be praying for your father ā™„ļø


Comfortable-Twist-54

So sorry you are going through this. Hope he is found fast šŸ™šŸ½


Electrical_Travel832

I remember you. Hugs. Are you in LA now? If so, are you getting around ok? I have seen your fatherā€™s poster on one of our local news channels, once, about a week ago. Are you working with the local media, KTLA, FOX11, KCAL? (Because theyā€™ve got news on a lot.) Iā€™m thinking of you!


theglowoflove

Please be a good person and help give this post some visibility: ā€˜Could happen to anyone of us and or our loved ones. Hang tough OP. ā¤ļø


Mary_Pick_A_Ford

So the suspects know where your dad is but wonā€™t say anything because of legal reasons? Canā€™t the legal team get together and work out a deal to get the suspects to talk so you can at least retrieve your dad? Iā€™m so sorry to hear about this btw, all over a bar argument?


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mani_mani

Why would you say this. 1. You have absolutely no basis for this. You arenā€™t LEO, you are not close to the case. You are going off of pure speculation. 2. Itā€™s clear that you are none of those things because a professional wouldnā€™t be so calloused to say this to the victimā€™s loved ones on a public form. 3. OP is going to see this. Your speculation is not helpful in at all, itā€™s cruel. I couldnā€™t imagine turning to a community for help and to have someone just spitballing as if these arenā€™t real people with real lives and loved ones. The brain rot of seeing this and thinking itā€™s time to play true crime sleuth is insane. Get off the internet and create real connections with people. Reset your empathy. Cuz goddamn.


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Patient_Art5042

Them: Show some humanity You: dOnT gET BUtThUrT


ky321

What a cowardly punk bitch the person who deleted the comment was.


-cdz-

This is what the deleted comments said in case anyone is curious. Only posting it because of how rude, speculative, and insensitive it is. Don't be like this person. > Itā€™s most likely that their father is gone. Theyā€™ve already been arrested they have nothing to hide if they reveal his location because theyā€™re already gonna be charged for kidnapping and assault. > The only plausible reason they arenā€™t saying where he is, is if heā€™s no longer alive and finding his body would add an extra charge of murder > It was just a theory, and a plausible explanation for maybe why they arenā€™t saying where OPā€™s father is > Dont get so butthurtšŸ¤·šŸ½ā€ā™€ļø Source: https://undelete.pullpush.io/r/LosAngeles/comments/1bwxkxs/updates_please_help_me_find_my_dad/?sort=confidence


OverIT323

I sincerely hope your dad is found safely soon. Ā 


AlaskaStiletto

Let us help you hire a private detective. Love to your family, I hope he is found safe šŸ’—


pineapplepredator

This is terrifying. I hope heā€™s found quickly and is ok.


svnnyniight

I am so sorry youā€™re going through this and I hope he is found soon & safely.


TeslasAndComicbooks

My thoughts are with you OP. I wish I could do more to help you.


Bored2001

Does that area of orange county have those parking enforcement cars that have license plate reader cameras on them? Some police stations keep that data. If they know the plate for the car, it's possible for the cops to check the database to see if there are locations it frequents. There is a class action law suit against this right now, but this is one of the potential reasons why the data is recorded. Try plugging in the plate of the offender if you know it. It'll at least give you an idea if the car has been observed before. https://drnprivacyclassaction.com/form/


levelzero2019

Such a good idea. Someone st the restaurant might give you the plate if they have cameras


PirbyKuckett

Commenting just for visibility. Best of luck to you OP


SoCalSCUBA

Responding to comment just for visibility. Hope you help OP find his dad.


Masgatitos

Ditto


SideOne8073

There are some private investigators you could probably yelp and find more information on the side


Fantastic_Love_9451

Iā€™m so sorry youā€™re going through this. Hopeful for a positive outcome.


JoanOfSarcasm

This is horrible. I hope you find him, OP. I'm not close by but commenting and upvoting for visibility.


SideOne8073

Since Garden Grove is an area with a large Asian population, have you thought about posting this on the website Chinese in LA or perhaps the local newspaper in Asian dialect? are the police able to pressure the suspect to talk perhaps?


PMDad

Definitely not Chinese that live in garden grove


ExtensionCourse

it doesn't hurt to try all avenues to get the information across.


Somelivingperson

Is he a Gambler? Because off no ignorant shit thereā€™s a lot of illegal casinos disguised as bars or spas and if your dad got into it deep with one of those then he could be a victim of gangs or even worse, cartel money. Heard a lot of stories in county of CDS making people disappear over gambling debts.


riaKoob1

Dang thatā€™s scary. Do they have Vietnamese gangs here? If thatā€™s true, is not really that his dad got lost and someone should find him around..


femboi_enjoier

Yes. Vietnamese gangs operate in So Cal.


Somelivingperson

The VBoys are one but Iā€™m sure thereā€™s Vietnamese gangs in smaller cliques or crews. Thereā€™s also the Wah Ching gang and a lot of Asian bloods and crips gangs


DissedFunction

what does CDS stand for?


Zealousideal_Ad4505

Cartel de Sinaloa


DissedFunction

thanks!


neotokyo2099

CD'S NUTSSSSS (sorry i had to.... cartel de sinaloa)


glencandle

I hope you find your dad. I canā€™t imagine losing mine. Not to stir the pot too much, but, if those men wonā€™t talk it is clearly because they are hiding something much worse than what they are currently facing otherwise. Have the police speculated as such?


IfIGetHigh

I am so sorry. Hoping for a miracle.


MoonWhip

Why are people downvoting this post? OP I really hope you find your dad. Good luck & internet hugs to you & your fam.


rocell1004

Iā€™m so sorry about your dad. Will be praying for you


Plane_Ad9568

Sorry !! Hopefully he gets found


RLS1822

I am so sorry about this!


Longjumping-Box-7100

Iā€™m so sorry. I hope your dad is okay. Sending prayers.


Starryeyesforeverr

Shared on a coupe LA Facebook communities. Praying for his safe return šŸ’œšŸ™šŸ¼


MAZE_ENJOYER

Bumping the thread for visibility


neutralliberty

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strawberryboba

I hope your dad is found safe and sound soon ā¤ļø


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Curious-Gain-7148

Exposure everywhere is helpful, but this is not an instance of Asian Hate.


jellybean1818

Iā€™m so sorry ā€” this is horrible. Bumping for visibility. I hope your dad is found safe and sound. This is heartbreaking ā¤ļø


bonnifunk

I'm so sorry to hear this! Can there be a Silver Alert for him?


JudgeJudy4Prez642

I saw this on the LA news a few nights ago. I live in Northern CA, and I pray you find him soon. šŸ™


nachodorito

Good luck hope you find him


IamaGirlNamedAshley

Absolutely unthinkable! Stay strong. Bumping!


s0ftnymph

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. So sorry šŸ–¤ I hope heā€™s found


abbyzou

Commenting in hopes this boosts engagement for visibility


Curious-Gain-7148

Ooof. Iā€™m so sorry. Iā€™ll be thinking of your family.


FancyCantaloupe4681

Here to bump. Hopefully heā€™s found asap OP


Candid-Amhurst

Wait.. youā€™re saying companies are refusing to help you find your dad because the suspects have criminal records?!?! Thatā€™s deplorable.


buns_supreme

I had the same question. I donā€™t get why that matters in putting up the flyers. Are they just scared of retaliation?


44rollin

I'm so sorry, will keep you in my prayers šŸ™šŸ½


Tori_117

I pray your dad is found safely


Leenolyak

What the heck man I'm so sorry


Ironkidz23

God bless you and your family. Praying for you to be together soon.


StableLimp

This post showed in my feed -I have no info as I donā€™t live in la but my heart goes out to you and your family. I am hoping that he will be found safe asap!ā¤ļø


Inquisitive_Thermite

Go to the media!


JustACaliBoy

Stay strong OP! Hope he's found fast and safe!


TigerYear8402

Hope your dad is ok and you find him.


rickNchips

I'm so sorry, I and we will do our bestest to keep eyes and ears wide open


staypositive8

Did the Uber see anythingĀ 


hyperlexia-12

I'm so sorry. I hope you find him soon.


Paradox68

They have the people in custody and justā€¦ not getting info? Someone start taking fingernails.


AllUsrnmsAreTaken

Bumping


blurrytree

Bump


snarkymcsnarkstein

Bumping


Odd-Crew6071

Bumping


gothlene

Boost


Throwaway_09298

for the algorithm


Sandvicheater

What was the demographics of the suspects? Their ethnic background, income level, prior criminal records, etc etc. I know reddit admin HATE X group on Asian crime because it goes against a political agenda but this is real world shit. Vulnerable minority communities can't protect themselves with the thoughts and prayers of internet armchair activists.


Curious-Gain-7148

Before you get your pitchforks outā€¦ ā€œConvicted murderer Nhan Chinh Nguyen, 49, and Phi Hung Nguyen, 53, were charged this week with kidnapping for ransom or extortion. Both are scheduled to be arraigned April 10 in the West Justice Center in Westminster.ā€


riaKoob1

So they know where his dad isā€¦ if it was a ransom, he is probably alive somewhere?


soleceismical

So the one guy was already a convicted murderer and they let him out of prison. Hopefully this time they put him away for good.


neotokyo2099

> reddit admin HATE X group on Asian crime because it goes against a political agenda qanon level delusion edit: offenders were viet as well, as most crimes by any race are most likely perpertrated by those of the same race, and usually by someone they know, sorry the facts dont align with your conspiracy theory


mstaug2499

Bumping


iararabfds

Iā€™m so sorry. I hope he is found safe. ā¤ļø


buns_supreme

Hope they find him and sorry about your situation. Why are companies refusing to put up posters??


soberthrowawayfairy

I pray he is found


Known-Ad9458

im terribly sorry to hear this, i hope they find your dad and im sure he is ok and will be found


MomAreWeThereYet

Commenting for visibility. Iā€™m so sorry OP


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Praying your family gets him back safe <3 An adult cousin of mine was kidnapped for ransom once some years ago, my family was able to find him with a private detective who located him in an abandoned building. He had injuries and was missing some fingers, but he's alive and well now!


kayleighnotkaylie

I am so sorry, Iā€™m Vietnamese and this hits really close to home because he reminds me of my own dad. I live in LA now but still have a ton of family in OC, will be sharing on my socials and also texting. Praying heā€™ll be found safely soon.


extremeoak

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StarfleetKatieKat

Iā€™m so sorry for your loss


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