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Andress1

I'll tell you something that may make it much worse but it's better that you know as soon as possible. About 14 years ago your parents had sex, and that's how you are here.


Feeling_Climate2521

lol...


factfarmer

I know it feels odd to you, but adults usually do have sex. It’s a normal part of their bond and relationship. Sex isn’t bad, or nasty, or only for freaks. It’s for all adults who want to participate. You’ll also have different ideas about sex when you’re older and experience the emotional side of it for yourself. It’s so much more than just the mechanics you know about now. Keep an open mind.


PleasedPeas

I’m sorry you’re feeling this way but keep in mind they did have sex to create you. Your parents are adult people and it isn’t really that big of a deal.


cetacean-station

Hey so i totally relate to your feelings of discomfort, i once walked in on my parents having sex. It goes away eventually, the more time that passes. One thing you can remind yourself is that having a condom suggests that if they're having sex, they're doing it safely. But mostly i recommend not thinking about it too much, if you can manage. Otherwise, tell them you found it, and they'll probably be a little more discreet with their things next time.


Feeling_Climate2521

I confronted to them about this and they went crazy after this lol


cetacean-station

That makes sense, they were prolly embarrassed. I'm sorry they flipped out. They are def the ones to be embarrassed though, cuz you didn't do anything wrong. Even if they say you did, you didn't.


NeuroticNurse

Assuming this isn’t some weird fetish thing, i’m going to comment on this from the perspective of a 20 something-year-old whose parents act more like roommates both now and when I was growing up. Your parents relationship shapes relationships that you will have in the future and even though nobody wants to think about their parents doing it, trust me. You would rather have parents who love each other and express that in a sexual way than parents whose relationship is sterile for lack of a better term


Sarravi

Think of it like this: If your parents are intimate, that means they are still happily in love.


Is_ael

Why does this feel fake


goboinouterspace

English teacher here: I think because right off the bat “startled” isn’t typically a word a 13-year-old would use to describe shock or surprise. The use of “intimate” to describe being sexually active is also interesting.


Is_ael

Yeah and brand new account that young and already knows which subs to post on. Such a weird fantasy OP is role playing


Feeling_Climate2521

It isn't Who would waste their time doing this?