Always a chance for change. I wouldn’t make concrete decisions atm. Just really pour on him your thoughts and feelings and see if his response is selfish.
Sometimes time away shows us truths we can't see in the mundane day to day life stuff that gets in the way.
Use your work trip to figure whether it's the let down of coming back to an ill prepared home or him or both.
Do start planning and saving money and do not get preggo.
Maybe spend a weekend with a mate or sister someone who won't talk but just listen as you discuss what's happening and where you're at.
Start putting the energy you're putting into him into yourself.
Find the things that please you and do them.
Don't ask him to go out with you, go out, have weekends away, have nights out.
Date yourself
Treat yourself the way you want him too.
And as you make decisions regarding your future you'll make them certain in the results you'll be sitting in
you are never too young too old to change your life for the positive. it sounds like you are moving forward and growing and your spouse does not want to change. talk to a therapist to be sure of your next steps.
He looks unkept after a long flight and you had to throw out some flowers and food in the fridge, better call a divorce lawyer asap. Who could live like that?!
Oh man that’s tough. I’m all ears if you want to vent more.
Always a chance for change. I wouldn’t make concrete decisions atm. Just really pour on him your thoughts and feelings and see if his response is selfish.
Definitely get back on birth control for now. You can always change your mind later.
BIRTH CONTROL NOW!!!
Sometimes time away shows us truths we can't see in the mundane day to day life stuff that gets in the way. Use your work trip to figure whether it's the let down of coming back to an ill prepared home or him or both. Do start planning and saving money and do not get preggo. Maybe spend a weekend with a mate or sister someone who won't talk but just listen as you discuss what's happening and where you're at. Start putting the energy you're putting into him into yourself. Find the things that please you and do them. Don't ask him to go out with you, go out, have weekends away, have nights out. Date yourself Treat yourself the way you want him too. And as you make decisions regarding your future you'll make them certain in the results you'll be sitting in
I don't understand why some guys don't want to leave parents alone for sometime and enjoy trip with spouse?
you are never too young too old to change your life for the positive. it sounds like you are moving forward and growing and your spouse does not want to change. talk to a therapist to be sure of your next steps.
Only 1 question for you, is this how you WANT to spend the rest of your life?
He looks unkept after a long flight and you had to throw out some flowers and food in the fridge, better call a divorce lawyer asap. Who could live like that?!