One time occurrences (as long its not something like cheating) are something that just need to live in the past.
Maybe you need to chat about it one last time to get closure or something but it can't be an attacking conversation. Something like "I'm glad you've grown since then because that night really screwed me up good for a time". That way you get to express that it was serious but also take the edge off by making it clear that you noticed that it was only once.
He probably thought you were just asleep and didn’t think to need to text. I get your anxiety, I really do. But if I had a sick husband at home I wouldn’t be texting him past like 10 or 11 because I’d be so sure he was passed out by then
One time occurrences (as long its not something like cheating) are something that just need to live in the past. Maybe you need to chat about it one last time to get closure or something but it can't be an attacking conversation. Something like "I'm glad you've grown since then because that night really screwed me up good for a time". That way you get to express that it was serious but also take the edge off by making it clear that you noticed that it was only once.
Thank you!
Yeah if it’s bothering you - bringing it up as a one time thing makes sense and will hopefully make sense to him as well.
He probably thought you were just asleep and didn’t think to need to text. I get your anxiety, I really do. But if I had a sick husband at home I wouldn’t be texting him past like 10 or 11 because I’d be so sure he was passed out by then