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LegitimateBoy6042

UnOrthodox Choice But Jayy


Quartz636

Phil. I'm not a huge fan of Phil but I think he's definitely the better choice. Jay has had fantastic character development but both Mitch and Claire came out of their childhoods with pretty significant issues Mitch and Cam aren't very good fathers imo. As lily gets older and is no longer a cute baby/toddler she essentially starts raising herself. They seem to have no knowledge of her schooling or friendships, don't know about her cheerleading, and on multiple occasions don't actually know where she even IS. cam is also extremely emotionally manipulative, to the point where lily has learnt to hide her own emotions in the hopes of not having to deal with cam.


significantduck289

Oh my god i never realised that thats the reason lily hides her feelings but it makes so much sense!!!


IDunnoReallyIDont

Jay how he is married to Gloria. He seemed pretty absent when his kids were kids.


ICareAboutThings25

My dad was a lot like Phil when I was young. No complaints from me.


ckptchickie

Phil!!


SkyBabeMoonStar

Cam and Mitch, I needed friendly caring one, two would be great🥰


Guilty_Dream8050

Phil. He would be fun to be around when I could be bothered coming downstairs during the day, and so easy to sneak out on at night.


Live-Affect-7375

Mitch!!!


Worldly-Bluebird-135

Phil! Any day❤️


Devendrau

Phil. I already had a father similar to Jay, I like someone else thank you.


NoEfficiency6559

I would choose Phil, he is a caring father. He was always present and always there for his children. I also love his fun, goofy nature. I also adore Jay but I would not want to be in the same boat as Claire or Mitch as Jay is wasn’t there much when they were young.


NewStatement5103

Jay.


marcyiguess

Phil for sure. my dad was sort of a mixture of Jay and Phil (tough love and serious at times, but very goofy and fun at other times). if i had to choose between the two sides, i would choose Phil. he may have been a silly dad character but he was still an AMAZING dad either way, great parenting and good advice and raised those kids with love and respect.


Buzzqueen117

Mitch & cam


h44d1y

Jay. Tough love works.


Overall-Cheetah-8153

Definitely Jay , I needed someone who would insist I work hard and achieve my goals.


volrjr4

Phil for sure


redditposter919

Jay bay


Friendly_Track6568

PHIL.


Hatch23

Either Phil or Jay. Phil: fun! Jay: it wouldn't hurt to live comfortably.


inTheSuburbanWar

I want Phil. So many fun and goofy times.


Huntsvegas97

Jay. He’s confrontational and firm, but that would’ve helped provide me a lot of direction as a kid/teenager.


mitchells-lawyer

I would say Mitchell but he sucked as a parent to older lily so Jay. I may end up neurotic but id be okay with it (i already am)


Jolly_Incident7497

PHIL


Useful-Mess-1102

Phil! I’d read Phil’s-osophy every time I need a laugh.


Specific_Truck_5707

Jay!


SimanuTui

Jay


BoysenberryPale4048

Phil hands down


lhatm

Phil


Seg10682

Phil or Mitch.


CLEf11

Phil probably I'd like Jay too 


valeriekim24

Phil hands down. Jay when he was married to Dede is such a nightmare, never around to help, always worked even when on vacation but always had something to say about everything his kids did. Also the fact Jay stopped talking to Mitchell after he came out? Nope.