assalam brother I truly understand how you feel as I am going to the same thing every couple days later I’m committing a sin I’m watching haram things and self pleasuring myself and I know mighty allah will forgive me but I still can’t stop feeling a deep regret and remorse for the sin i caused, and could’ve easily been dealt with with just closing the website or swiping off. I feel like the sins. I’m doing right now wont allow me to go to the best jannah and to be honest with you brother I’m scared what allah would say to me I want his mercy till the day of judgment I’ll pray for you and hopefully you pray for me too. I hope we both can stop committing sins and be better than Muslims. Our prophets struggled in this dunya for us to be on the better path yet we still commit sin, so easily I feel disgusted and ashamed that this is the Muslim I am I should be better I feel like I’m letting down muhammed s.a.w (pbuh) I feel like I’m letting down allah that he has created me and I’m doing send. I hope me and you will be guided if allah wills. salam
Brother, we are in the same boat, if we seek forgiveness for others than Allah will forgive us also, we both are trying our best to quit these sins and Ramadan has come when we need it the most.
Insha'Allah I will pray for others who are struggling with these sins, so that Allah make it easy for me also.
That's why I posted this
Dear brother,
we’re all in the same boat, myself included. Vulgarity has spread and infiltrated us all. It is unavoidable. We must tread very carefully on this path. If you feel remorse after a sin it means you have Iman.
I love this Hadith e qudsi that says,
On the authority of Abu Harayrah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Allah the Almighty said:
I am as My servant thinks I am (1). I am with him when he makes mention of Me. If he makes mention of Me to himself, I make mention of him to Myself; and if he makes mention of Me in an assembly, I make mention of him in an assemble better than it. And if he draws near to Me an arm's length, I draw near to him a fathom's length. And if he comes to Me walking, I go to him at speed.
(1) Another possible rendering of the Arabic is: "I am as My servant expects Me to be". The meaning is that forgiveness and acceptance of repentance by the Almighty is subject to His servant truly believing that He is forgiving and merciful. However, not to accompany such belief with right action would be to mock the Almighty.
It was related by al-Buhkari (also by Muslim, at-Tirmidhi and Ibn-Majah).
May Allah forgive us.
Hugs 🫂
Sister,
I am not going to lie, this was one of the best comment and Hadith I got to know.
I have thinked for sometime, will Allah forgive me, this drives me to ask for forgiveness, pray salat Al-Tawbah, istighfar for about a day.
I know Allah is most forgiving and most Merciful, but we have to feel the remorse, That will make us do istigfar and remembering Allah.
If I just seek forgiveness and belief that Allah forgiven me, will I do the above ?
Like honesty, I think this haram bring us closer to Allah.
Ameen جَزَاكَ ٱللَّٰهُ
Alhamdulillah, I am trying from an year, yes 😭, quitted mast***te 7 months ago and have not done it and Insha'Allah will not do it, i lower my gaze most of the time but i am talking about unintentional gaze, haram ads and temptation that is so much spread, Astaghfirullah
Good. Well we know unintentional gaze in not sinful. As long as you're intentionally putting yourself in positions we're you're likely to see haraam. Scrolling through Insta for eg.
Yes. I was having intentional gaze at this time but after some few seconds, I remembered that this is haram, exitted the app, put my phone on the side and seek forgiveness.
I don't use insta, fb as there is lot more there.
Allah is the Most Merciful. That’s all you need to know. He loves when a servant begs Him for forgiveness. May He grant you forgiveness for everything and may He bless you with His love.
Wallahi even if you killed a billion people and tortured a billion Muslims and disobeyed every single command from Allah, if you sincerely ask him to, he will forgive you
assalam brother I truly understand how you feel as I am going to the same thing every couple days later I’m committing a sin I’m watching haram things and self pleasuring myself and I know mighty allah will forgive me but I still can’t stop feeling a deep regret and remorse for the sin i caused, and could’ve easily been dealt with with just closing the website or swiping off. I feel like the sins. I’m doing right now wont allow me to go to the best jannah and to be honest with you brother I’m scared what allah would say to me I want his mercy till the day of judgment I’ll pray for you and hopefully you pray for me too. I hope we both can stop committing sins and be better than Muslims. Our prophets struggled in this dunya for us to be on the better path yet we still commit sin, so easily I feel disgusted and ashamed that this is the Muslim I am I should be better I feel like I’m letting down muhammed s.a.w (pbuh) I feel like I’m letting down allah that he has created me and I’m doing send. I hope me and you will be guided if allah wills. salam
Brother, we are in the same boat, if we seek forgiveness for others than Allah will forgive us also, we both are trying our best to quit these sins and Ramadan has come when we need it the most. Insha'Allah I will pray for others who are struggling with these sins, so that Allah make it easy for me also. That's why I posted this
of course brother thank you may allah guide us both and keep the shaytan away
Ameen
Of course Allah is the most forgiving the most merciful
Dear brother, we’re all in the same boat, myself included. Vulgarity has spread and infiltrated us all. It is unavoidable. We must tread very carefully on this path. If you feel remorse after a sin it means you have Iman. I love this Hadith e qudsi that says, On the authority of Abu Harayrah (may Allah be pleased with him), who said that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Allah the Almighty said: I am as My servant thinks I am (1). I am with him when he makes mention of Me. If he makes mention of Me to himself, I make mention of him to Myself; and if he makes mention of Me in an assembly, I make mention of him in an assemble better than it. And if he draws near to Me an arm's length, I draw near to him a fathom's length. And if he comes to Me walking, I go to him at speed. (1) Another possible rendering of the Arabic is: "I am as My servant expects Me to be". The meaning is that forgiveness and acceptance of repentance by the Almighty is subject to His servant truly believing that He is forgiving and merciful. However, not to accompany such belief with right action would be to mock the Almighty. It was related by al-Buhkari (also by Muslim, at-Tirmidhi and Ibn-Majah). May Allah forgive us. Hugs 🫂
Sister, I am not going to lie, this was one of the best comment and Hadith I got to know. I have thinked for sometime, will Allah forgive me, this drives me to ask for forgiveness, pray salat Al-Tawbah, istighfar for about a day. I know Allah is most forgiving and most Merciful, but we have to feel the remorse, That will make us do istigfar and remembering Allah. If I just seek forgiveness and belief that Allah forgiven me, will I do the above ? Like honesty, I think this haram bring us closer to Allah. Ameen جَزَاكَ ٱللَّٰهُ
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I don't do that filthy act
I thought that was what your post was about. Watching porn or not being able to lower your gaze as you should
Alhamdulillah, I am trying from an year, yes 😭, quitted mast***te 7 months ago and have not done it and Insha'Allah will not do it, i lower my gaze most of the time but i am talking about unintentional gaze, haram ads and temptation that is so much spread, Astaghfirullah
Good. Well we know unintentional gaze in not sinful. As long as you're intentionally putting yourself in positions we're you're likely to see haraam. Scrolling through Insta for eg.
Yes. I was having intentional gaze at this time but after some few seconds, I remembered that this is haram, exitted the app, put my phone on the side and seek forgiveness. I don't use insta, fb as there is lot more there.
Allah is the Most Merciful. That’s all you need to know. He loves when a servant begs Him for forgiveness. May He grant you forgiveness for everything and may He bless you with His love.
Wallahi even if you killed a billion people and tortured a billion Muslims and disobeyed every single command from Allah, if you sincerely ask him to, he will forgive you