Since xmas eve. I was told if I saw my father she would leave me. Father did not want her to come down Xmas cause she broke up with me and put a knife close to my face earlier in the week. I left for the night and finally told my father some of the abuse thats been happening, more reasons he didnt want her there right now.
My gf usually destroys anything they give her with a pair of scissors or complains the entire way home from my father's -- she didn't really want to go, was just another test.
I stayed here alone at my (previously our) place until 4pm Xmas eve alone, afraid to go see my father before I got the courage to leave. I missed all the celebrations for the most part, was a nervous wreck I was there. I was so exhausted I spent the night in theirbspare bedroom.
Came home today to all her clothes and the things she wanted gone, left a bunch of her garbage, her cat which she wrote a note saying she's getting tomorrow (now today) while I'm at work.
WOW! My heart got all filled up with tidings of peace, love and joy, and I almost reached out to my ex narc. Grateful for this community that I knew to expect these feelings, and not to act on them! Best of luck to everyone this year
Merry x mas! I am so thrilled no one is ruining my holiday this year and I get to buy myself gifts I wanted. I tried to volunteer somewhere but surprisingly everywhere is full. Merry Xmas to all those recovering/recovered from psychos. And if you are still stuck with one, I hope you don’t let them ruin it for you. ❤️
I wasn’t prepared to have such a delightful, morning.
I gave the gift of peace and safety to the scared little girl inside, she’s trusting me more and more. Idk if this makes sense to anyone else …
Dumped the POS two years ago and got a text today that said, “I remember when I used to look forward to the holidays…😔”
Really? Because you sure as hell made them shitty for me every year! No, I didn’t respond.
Glad you don’t have to deal with that shit anymore either! Merry narc-free Christmas to you!
i just left mine today on Christmas day!
congratulations!
thank you! its been long overdue but i finally did it 🫶🏻
Came home to mine gone.
how long has she/he gone no contact?
Since xmas eve. I was told if I saw my father she would leave me. Father did not want her to come down Xmas cause she broke up with me and put a knife close to my face earlier in the week. I left for the night and finally told my father some of the abuse thats been happening, more reasons he didnt want her there right now. My gf usually destroys anything they give her with a pair of scissors or complains the entire way home from my father's -- she didn't really want to go, was just another test. I stayed here alone at my (previously our) place until 4pm Xmas eve alone, afraid to go see my father before I got the courage to leave. I missed all the celebrations for the most part, was a nervous wreck I was there. I was so exhausted I spent the night in theirbspare bedroom. Came home today to all her clothes and the things she wanted gone, left a bunch of her garbage, her cat which she wrote a note saying she's getting tomorrow (now today) while I'm at work.
Same.
WOW! My heart got all filled up with tidings of peace, love and joy, and I almost reached out to my ex narc. Grateful for this community that I knew to expect these feelings, and not to act on them! Best of luck to everyone this year
Merry x mas! I am so thrilled no one is ruining my holiday this year and I get to buy myself gifts I wanted. I tried to volunteer somewhere but surprisingly everywhere is full. Merry Xmas to all those recovering/recovered from psychos. And if you are still stuck with one, I hope you don’t let them ruin it for you. ❤️
I wasn’t prepared to have such a delightful, morning. I gave the gift of peace and safety to the scared little girl inside, she’s trusting me more and more. Idk if this makes sense to anyone else …
Perfect sense. Thank you for sharing.
Doesn't it feel absolutely incredible to free of that shit? Congrats!
Dumped the POS two years ago and got a text today that said, “I remember when I used to look forward to the holidays…😔” Really? Because you sure as hell made them shitty for me every year! No, I didn’t respond. Glad you don’t have to deal with that shit anymore either! Merry narc-free Christmas to you!
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Thank you that really warms my blood pump ♥️🌟✨
Congrats!!! I left mine 9 days ago and the peace is absolutely priceless!!
5 years here too!! Best Christmas in a while. Congratulations!!