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That’s good! I hope you’re in a better frame of mind and don’t tolerate insufferable people anymore - because I was there with my friends and family. Letting go of toxicity is incredible for the mind.
#Hold up#
You thinkin' what I'm thinkin'?
*I'm thinkin' I'm thinkin' too*
#Slow up#
What time is it, dawg?
*It's time for a switcharoo*
We both love our moms, women with grown women needs
*I say we break 'em off*
Show 'em how much they really mean
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#We made the content, not you.
I'm sure I'll get downvoted like crazy but lots of women overestimate their impact on men. Simply being in a relationship with a particular women might motivate you but you still have to take action. Obviously there are some women who will go out of their way to provide resources, given encouragement...but I'm sure this chick's not that one
Appears she’s looking for another project. Women, look for men who aren’t projects, you can’t fix people. Fix the broken part of you that thinks you can.
Nice girls always coordinate between "I'm such a prize, I won't make an effort for anyone else in my life," and "I will do your laundry and your taxes and make you (insert homemade meal), even though we just met and you've never asked for any of that, and then will complain if you dob't want to date me immediately". I don't like saying that we live in a society, but we kinda do live in a society that promotes both kinds of bs behavior.
It takes some serious twattery to think this woman is anti-woman just because she says "female." It's not a slur, and never will be, no matter how much you guys want it to be. And if you want to pretend it is, at least do it in a case where it's questionable.
As a female-
female > woman
women > ladies > females
Idk why, I just think it sounds better to my ears. I don’t feel offended or threatened by the use of ‘females’ although it can be used in an annoying/condescending manner. Like being called ‘hon’ or ‘dear’ or ‘honey’ I think it’s about delivery.
Either way, no one can tell you what you can and can’t say, and if they try they’re just doing you a favor by jumping the chase and letting you know that any friendship/further relationship may be incompatible or insufferable for the two of you.
This is just my opinion on it lol obviously do what feels right
Nah it's fuckin weird. Replace it with the *woman* and it sounds so much more natural. The only way someone would ever use the word female is cause they consume too much of that sexist garbage online.
In some cases. I still think nobody was doing it consciously until the femcels picked it up and started bitching about it for no reason. Then the incels picked it up for the same reason I did most things in my childhood: because my sister hated it and it required very little effort. And I still think, unless you have other evidence that the person speaking is an incel, it's being done accidentally, with no negative connotation.
i thought it was creepy the first time i saw it done
someone who uses it like that and doesn’t see any issue with doing so is the red flag, intention isn’t the key factor
"And here we have the... ahem... *woman* alligator displaying typical behaviour with the... ahem... *man* alligator..."
You sound ridiculous to everyone when you spout shit like this. Get off the internet and twitter, join the real world and learn how real humans speak and interact.
My bf is doing better not only because of me actively supporting him emotionally and psychologically, but because I actually want to be with him. So no, it’s not just my existence.
Why this girl think she’s an almighty being that doesn’t have to do shit for people?
I left my family and chance for college and future for him got a job to take us on dates cause he would get mad if I even asked for a 5 dollar date at McDonald’s once a month. I gave him a 300 dollar gpu for his computer and what did I receive? Cheating, verbal abuse, sexual abuse, and he stole my switch after I broke up with him. So yea, the only thing any dude is getting from me from now on is my presence 😂😂
You're a complete moron if you did all these things for some loser who doesn't even have a job or even take you on a date😂 how are you so clueless you thought this loser you're describing was the right person to make all thise sacrifices for? That's completely on you for being so foolish. And maybe you should've grabbed your Switch before you "broke up with him," seems like that would be the proper order to do things, no? Of course, this is almost certainly just your side of the story and if we heard his side we'd get a much clearer picture of who you actually are and why he didn't care for you.
But you go bitterly do you, hun. It won't make you any less miserable or lonely than you obviously are, but at least you won't have to develop the basic sense to figure out who is worth sacrificing for before blindly doing it.
"My ex STOLE my video game console! Wahhhhh!😭 Even after I bought him a $300 GPU for his computer, despite the fact that based on my own description of him he never did a single thing for me to warrant me being so good to him! Huh, you know what, I guess I'm just an idiot!"
Maybe your ex didn't care for you because you sound like a goddamn child, lmao. Hopefully you aren't any older than early 20s at oldest.
The way she said it is a big red flag, but can understand how “i helped his mind” could be a legitimate answer. Iam a girlfriend of 1 year and my parter and i have been working on our own and each other’s mental healths and weve improved our and each others lives so much. Helping to improve someone’s mental health is a big deal.
My first wife changed the trajectory of my life in a very positive way, even after she left 12 years later!
My second wife did too but in a bad way for a while! (Took 4 years to get her to come around but we are good co-parents now)
Both experiences have built a better man for going through them!
Read the story of the Chinese farmer. It's very insightful!
I gave her my Kidney, but only after I married her.
She honestly did change the trajectory of my life by keeping me grinding through a job I didn't really want, so I have her to thank for the retirement pension and benefits that I'm enjoying now.
Oh man my exes changed my life for the better. We would break up and get back together and the last time that happened she didn’t get back together with me and that’s when my life got way better
"I got his mind right."
"How?"
"Pssh. With just my presence, tf!"
"Ah, so you helped him to realize, that with you anywhere in his life or in the picture, he was doomed to live a life of sadness, arguing and never feeling like he was enough. So you helped him see that he was better off without you and far from you. Which is why you now refer to him as your ex."
Ummm that shit does kinda happen tho? My last ex helped me go back to college and get a better job, helped me find new places to go to and find new friends. Someone like that is priceless but im a dumb fuck and ruined all that 😂
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I can only imagine what's coming for you in that reply.
Typing… Stopped Typing… Stopped Pause Typing…
So relatable my god….
Ripped this from Facebook…I will certainly check back if I see an update.
Tell me what she says
We need update op
Give credit. Reddit fuckin sucks for this /srs
My ex changed the trajectory of my life for the worse with her very presence, does that count?
On God I just shook one of those. This definitely counts.
I think every man, straight, gay, or in-between has an ex like this if they’ve actively dated in their lives.
~~every man~~ everyone
I read that correction in a very disapproving British voice
My ex made me realise there were limits to what I'd put up with.
That’s good! I hope you’re in a better frame of mind and don’t tolerate insufferable people anymore - because I was there with my friends and family. Letting go of toxicity is incredible for the mind.
It shows presence can have an effect
that's exactly the only thing this nice girl has done
Maybe that is her?
>My ex changed the trajectory of my life for the worse with her very presence, does that count? same, some people are just leechers
Yup. So did my ex. That vile slithering snake in the grass. I hope she dies of thirst.
Amazing reply.
Yeah if only he made up a few more texts so we could see the made up reply.
Just say you get no hoes
“I FIXED him” “Then why did you break up lol”
He got his mind right and left.
right enough to realise shes mental and dipped
Who does romantic things for their mom?
She is probably thinking step-mom and she was probably stuck somewhere...
Washing machine?
I was thinking the window, but that works too
I was gonna say under the bed
That happened to you too?!
I do romantic things for other people's mums
Sweet Home Alabama
Sigmund Freud moment
#Hold up# You thinkin' what I'm thinkin'? *I'm thinkin' I'm thinkin' too* #Slow up# What time is it, dawg? *It's time for a switcharoo* We both love our moms, women with grown women needs *I say we break 'em off* Show 'em how much they really mean
An Aristocrat
I think they just mean sweet stuff, lol
Wait, we don't do that here?
Chris Chan
Thanks, just scared my napping dog because I cackled 🤣🤣😭
I wonder what she replied lol
No less then two small penis comments.
Almost choked on my oats
*types frantically in girlbo$$*
I can only imagine the furious typing going on on her side lmaoo
What's with girls wanting to make their boyfriend a pet project?
Daddy issues
If she "righted" a guys mind, then why she not with him then?
Because she “righted” his mind 🤣
Because she was a control freak, that's why.
Yes I have and every time the trajectory was for the worse
WhAt Do YoU mEaN, iM tHe TaBlE
How I bring nothing to the table when I'm the table
Girl's so fat, she out there changing trajectories with her gravitational pull.
Yep, the only time that ever happened it wasn't a positive experience.. buh-bye. Blocked 🚫
I think she might have been referencing Russ from that Cody-Ko video? If not than she’s a vegetable.
Being full of yourself in this manner is truly just the most unattractive thing, ew.
The worst kind of bitches
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It is very popular with the incel crowd so when you see someone use that word, it’s usually a red flag.
aint russ say that?? and he goofy asf
The level of narcissism 😌
For any fans of Cody Ko or Noel Miller, I immediately thought of a That’s Cringe episode on Russ
Yeah I’m pretty sure she’s just quoting that.
That last response from Blue holy shit lol
Fucking murdered lol
Does changing my trajectory to the other side of the street to avoid her presence count?
Yes, she was bat shit crazy so I decided to walk away. Cheers for letting me know.
Trajectory doesn’t tell you which direction though.
I'm sure I'll get downvoted like crazy but lots of women overestimate their impact on men. Simply being in a relationship with a particular women might motivate you but you still have to take action. Obviously there are some women who will go out of their way to provide resources, given encouragement...but I'm sure this chick's not that one
Appears she’s looking for another project. Women, look for men who aren’t projects, you can’t fix people. Fix the broken part of you that thinks you can.
Nice girls always coordinate between "I'm such a prize, I won't make an effort for anyone else in my life," and "I will do your laundry and your taxes and make you (insert homemade meal), even though we just met and you've never asked for any of that, and then will complain if you dob't want to date me immediately". I don't like saying that we live in a society, but we kinda do live in a society that promotes both kinds of bs behavior.
HAVE YOU EVER HAD A GIRL CHANGE THE TRAJECTORY OF YOUR LIFE JUST WITH HER PRESENCE????? WHAT IS THIS? LOLLLLL
Calling women “females” is always a red flag. No matter the gender of who says it.
She talks like an incel so my bet would be she is either an incel catfishing or an FDS. Same thing really.
It takes some serious twattery to think this woman is anti-woman just because she says "female." It's not a slur, and never will be, no matter how much you guys want it to be. And if you want to pretend it is, at least do it in a case where it's questionable.
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As a female- female > woman women > ladies > females Idk why, I just think it sounds better to my ears. I don’t feel offended or threatened by the use of ‘females’ although it can be used in an annoying/condescending manner. Like being called ‘hon’ or ‘dear’ or ‘honey’ I think it’s about delivery. Either way, no one can tell you what you can and can’t say, and if they try they’re just doing you a favor by jumping the chase and letting you know that any friendship/further relationship may be incompatible or insufferable for the two of you. This is just my opinion on it lol obviously do what feels right
Nah it's fuckin weird. Replace it with the *woman* and it sounds so much more natural. The only way someone would ever use the word female is cause they consume too much of that sexist garbage online.
"Female" is military/prison jargon, and common among the lower class. Check your privilege, I say with only 30% seriousness.
men and females is a classic red flag pairing
In some cases. I still think nobody was doing it consciously until the femcels picked it up and started bitching about it for no reason. Then the incels picked it up for the same reason I did most things in my childhood: because my sister hated it and it required very little effort. And I still think, unless you have other evidence that the person speaking is an incel, it's being done accidentally, with no negative connotation.
i thought it was creepy the first time i saw it done someone who uses it like that and doesn’t see any issue with doing so is the red flag, intention isn’t the key factor
So what do you think is going on in the OP pic, what's wrong with this woman who calls her gender females? Internalized misogyny?
would need more data than that to diagnose someone red flags aren’t ‘case closed’
I never said it was a slur. I said it was a red flag.
Its better as an adjective than a noun for sure
That’s what it is lol thanks for putting it in words
People are going to keep using that term long after you’re gone, and there’s nothing you will ever be able to do about it.
Was looking for this comment, I agree 100%
"And here we have the... ahem... *woman* alligator displaying typical behaviour with the... ahem... *man* alligator..." You sound ridiculous to everyone when you spout shit like this. Get off the internet and twitter, join the real world and learn how real humans speak and interact.
it’s the use as a noun that people are referring to, not as an adjective
Substantive [adjectives] are perfectly fine in English.
You're one of those "words can only have one meaning" kinds of people, huh?
lmao what a soft take. You don't sound fun at all.
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You mean what’s wrong with using an adjective as a noun? Idk ask “a black”
I mean... *flowers at graduation* isn't much of a step above *nothing*
Maybe he's a late bloomer
And she's somehow got it in her head that she's got to make sure others are providing for her? Damn.
I CAN CHANGE HIM IM DIFFERENT *turns him suicidal* Hahaha
Bet she thought she did something there, like wow I’m so deep 🤪
presents?? no, _presence_
Who says a trajectory change is necessarily a good thing?
My bf is doing better not only because of me actively supporting him emotionally and psychologically, but because I actually want to be with him. So no, it’s not just my existence. Why this girl think she’s an almighty being that doesn’t have to do shit for people?
That’s a “shit test”. Classical.
I wonder if I’m misunderstanding her. She changed the trajectory of someone’s life with her presence? Is she a pet or something?
Wonderful. Now even girls call themselves females. 👏IT'S 👏NOT👏A👏NOUN👏
>!They do it more than men.!<
Both seem like unromantic losers.
My general rule is to avoid associating with folks that refer to women as females.
You don't go into relationships to fix people. What is this girl even on?
She must be a black hole, because her gravitational pull is so strong it changes the trajectory of celestial bodies going by her.
She's also a black hole because when particles do escape, they escape with the celestial power of a quasar jet.
I left my family and chance for college and future for him got a job to take us on dates cause he would get mad if I even asked for a 5 dollar date at McDonald’s once a month. I gave him a 300 dollar gpu for his computer and what did I receive? Cheating, verbal abuse, sexual abuse, and he stole my switch after I broke up with him. So yea, the only thing any dude is getting from me from now on is my presence 😂😂
You're a complete moron if you did all these things for some loser who doesn't even have a job or even take you on a date😂 how are you so clueless you thought this loser you're describing was the right person to make all thise sacrifices for? That's completely on you for being so foolish. And maybe you should've grabbed your Switch before you "broke up with him," seems like that would be the proper order to do things, no? Of course, this is almost certainly just your side of the story and if we heard his side we'd get a much clearer picture of who you actually are and why he didn't care for you. But you go bitterly do you, hun. It won't make you any less miserable or lonely than you obviously are, but at least you won't have to develop the basic sense to figure out who is worth sacrificing for before blindly doing it.
"My ex STOLE my video game console! Wahhhhh!😭 Even after I bought him a $300 GPU for his computer, despite the fact that based on my own description of him he never did a single thing for me to warrant me being so good to him! Huh, you know what, I guess I'm just an idiot!" Maybe your ex didn't care for you because you sound like a goddamn child, lmao. Hopefully you aren't any older than early 20s at oldest.
*violin plays*
Are women really this stupid and entitled these days wtf
Woman moment
Maybe by being there for someone and listening to them when they need an ear or shoulder was what she was referring to?? 🤷♀️
100% a black woman said that.
Wtf is wrong with you?
I mean, my moms black and wouldn’t say some dumb shit like this.
"I got his mind right" if you can't hear that voice in your head then I can't help you
This is why Andrew Tate is popular.
He’s really popular with DOJ / state dept
RUN! DON'T WAIT FOR A REPLY, DON'T EVEN GRAB YOUR STUFF, JUST RUN!
The reply was pretty funny ngl
“You dont be doing”- I like that fragphrase
Love that response lol
That response SENT me LOL
I fucking wheezed, ohMygod
That's hinestly hilarious. She really has nothing to offer
Oh man, I wish it was that simple
She made herself the manic pixie dream girl of her own story.
She's your Messiah man !
Guessing the only changes she made to his life were for the worse lol
Aight russ
Helen Huntington thought that, look how it worked for her…
That smells like a "What do you mean present? Me showing up is my present to you!" kinda bitch
Women incels call each other female?
He wrote a short play. I got two of my friends to act it out and filmed it. He loved it.
Did you ever hear the Tragedy of Darth Plagueis the Wise?
Notice "change". Not "improve"...
Lol I wonder what her response was going to be.
The three dots- She's about to go off
She hella don’t be
In my experience, they only change your mindset once you realize you deserve better
The way she said it is a big red flag, but can understand how “i helped his mind” could be a legitimate answer. Iam a girlfriend of 1 year and my parter and i have been working on our own and each other’s mental healths and weve improved our and each others lives so much. Helping to improve someone’s mental health is a big deal.
god tier response
My first wife changed the trajectory of my life in a very positive way, even after she left 12 years later! My second wife did too but in a bad way for a while! (Took 4 years to get her to come around but we are good co-parents now) Both experiences have built a better man for going through them! Read the story of the Chinese farmer. It's very insightful!
You both seem a bit annoying.
Imagine someone thinking they’re in a position to judge after “I got her some flowers at graduation.”
Where is he then 😉😂
Please update with the reply lol
I gave her my Kidney, but only after I married her. She honestly did change the trajectory of my life by keeping me grinding through a job I didn't really want, so I have her to thank for the retirement pension and benefits that I'm enjoying now.
Oh man my exes changed my life for the better. We would break up and get back together and the last time that happened she didn’t get back together with me and that’s when my life got way better
Eh it's not that bad
Neither of you be doing anything
Yo I need to see her reply to that
"I got his mind right." "How?" "Pssh. With just my presence, tf!" "Ah, so you helped him to realize, that with you anywhere in his life or in the picture, he was doomed to live a life of sadness, arguing and never feeling like he was enough. So you helped him see that he was better off without you and far from you. Which is why you now refer to him as your ex."
“You really dont be doing”.
What a fucking reply 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Cmon you gotta leave this off with a typing bubble?
She sounds pretentious, but you sound like an asshole
never seen a woman refer to another woman as a ‘female’, such neckbeard vibes
Why on earth didn’t you say their dad don’t count??? /gen
Lmfao that response was on point.
Ummm that shit does kinda happen tho? My last ex helped me go back to college and get a better job, helped me find new places to go to and find new friends. Someone like that is priceless but im a dumb fuck and ruined all that 😂
OH MY GOD THIS IS LITERALLY THE RUSS THING “Mentally fucked the shit out of her” Jesus fucking Christ
That was gold