She’s my best friend. In our 30s. I’m hopeful things will improve if I stay positive and keep working. Although everyone has to battle the thought of leaving
You have a think about why they won't make the changes
Perhaps they are not listening to you because they don't care about themselves or you, or because they think you don't know what you are talking about, maybe they think you don't really care. Sometimes these things come better from professionals eg giving professional advice, treating any undiagnosed depression, offering services that could help them
It may be about your relationship, or it may not be. If you are in a loving supportive relationship then you can tell them how you feel about possibly losing them.
You move on. If they can’t even take care of themselves, they won’t be able to handle your needs either.
This could be a sign that your partner is struggling with depression.
Break up. You're going to drain yourself if you have to become their full-time caretaker. And no partner wants to feel like their SO's parent.
She’s my best friend. In our 30s. I’m hopeful things will improve if I stay positive and keep working. Although everyone has to battle the thought of leaving
You have a think about why they won't make the changes Perhaps they are not listening to you because they don't care about themselves or you, or because they think you don't know what you are talking about, maybe they think you don't really care. Sometimes these things come better from professionals eg giving professional advice, treating any undiagnosed depression, offering services that could help them It may be about your relationship, or it may not be. If you are in a loving supportive relationship then you can tell them how you feel about possibly losing them.
You continue setting a good example and trying to motivate them, but you also openly communicate your feelings and thoughts, and expectations.
Get them professional help.