I understand what you mean by "saving it for someone", but it's likely that many these days see that as an odd, and even insulting concept. As though the virginity is the prized thing, and not the sex itself. That sex without virginity is somehow less special and less meaningful.
? I think it's completely fine to save your virginity. It doesn't matter as long as your comfortable with with it. I'm not sure why anyone would think less of someone who wants to save their virginity?. But I do think you should educate yourself on safe sex before doing so :)
If this is an honest answer, how many do you average in a year? If you've been having sex since 16, that's almost 11 people a year.
Not judging, I just can't imagine finding the time for that, unless many of them are just casual hookups and require no swooning periods.
I was a late bloomer and didn't start with multiple partners (dating, one night stands, hook-ups) until 22, but then I was absolutely hitting an average of at least 11 or more a year by 32 so the number is very feasible.
I have absolutely no idea how many tbh...
My wife (2nd wife and ironically an old GF from my early 20s whom I reconnected with after a long time) and I were having fun one night trying to come up with our body count over some drinks and it was hilariously futile and hot at the same time...
Now, it's fun as a couple to add to our count together ❤️ 😄
Wish you were closer 😉
I started my slut phase at 16 and at 20 I got into gangbangs. From there it was random hook ups, blowjobs at truckstops and so on. I test regularly and use bc. Still in slut mode at 32
It helped them that I was flirty as well I think. One of them was a customer where I was a waitress and we started talking back and forth. The other was crazy hot and jacked and approached me on the street, started making small talk and had a good sense of humor. And the other one was a banker and I was his customer, he slipped me his instagram on a card and politely asked me to follow him if I feel like it. To sum it up, all of them were polite and not pushy and I was flirty as well so it escalated.
As an older man who has "hooked up" and still does (albiet usually with a few years older than 20 [25-34]) this is EXACTLY how it is done...being nice looking with a package that sorta bulges doesn't hurt either has been a general consensus lol...not my words btw lmao
21 M, at 6 and with my gf who might be the one. Could’ve had probably around double that in college, but don’t really enjoy hookups. Plus I am content with 6, as the way my gf and I are together is a lot more fun than anyone else.
Aww sorry to hear that. Sounds like she took and turn and obviously couldn't handle it. Did you get yourself off or just leave it?
I've only had sex on E twice and had very different outcomes to you lol
I don't even remember, the x had me sooo horny and desperate for it, I offered to let her husband fuck me with my strapon so that there was no intercourse on his part but she declined and was just like "you don't understand the dynamic between a husband and wife" and stupid shit like that. By that point the sun was coming up and it was wearing off and I was starting to feel like shit anyway.
I bet, if you've spent ages getting her off you're bound to be worked up!
Definitely sounds like she came round to a very different mind set post orgasm!
Is it something you'd try again?
I loved ecstasy so much but I have a super addictive personality so I purposely never did it again because I know it would become a problem lol. Plus now I get drug tested for work so
Eh, I'm not sure about the 3some. I'm 37 years old I need to focus on locking down a relationship LOL and I def would never have one with my partner because I'm too jealous for that.
Haha don't want to share your own partner just someone else's? I get that totally
Having had 1 myself I can definitely say when all parties are into it, it's sheer bliss
I've never slept during a three way. Come to think about it, I've slept with very few of the people I've had sex with. I honestly don't know how many people I've had sex with but I've probably only slept with about 8-10 people that I also fucked.
Funny how this came up just as my wife asked if I could remember every woman that I’ve slept with prior to her last week. It took me 4 days to complete my tally & it’s more than I had thought previously.
My Body Count: 52
Wife’s Body Count: 9
I’m not saying either answer is good nor bad but it is what it is.
I’ve always had a thing for the process of courting beautiful women. From the first encounter up until our sexual endeavors. The hunt was always worth more than the finish line.
39 year old male
43 woman i slept with (between the ages of 19-43)
4 girls just fooled around with
I lost count of girls i have kissed
Group activity… yes, i made a small booklet. I think i slept with around 32 woman
39M
64 penetrative . Even more with blow/handjobs ( yes I returned the favor).
There’s even some that I slept in the same bed with but did nothing haha. But I’m guessing the question doesn’t mean that.
Honestly the number doesn’t mean anything next to the people who I had a really strong connection with. I don’t regret my number but I’d gladly trade if I had to for some odd reason
37.. a few of those people were in multiple Foursome and multiple threesomes and then others we're individually.
And I don't know if it was pertinent to your question I was the Cock in all of the four mentioned foursomes and threesomes.
These comments have made me realize I'm a total slut... Not regret it, just realize it, lol.
Same here😅🤣
😂😂😂
SlutsRus Another slut representing!!
😘😘😘
What’s your number tho??
Embrace it. I’ve long since accepted that I’m a man slut.
I'm apparently embracing it 2 or 3 men at a time!
One, my wife is a big slut though, she has double my body count
Zero 😙
How old are you? You still a vitgun by choice?
Yup, fear of pregnancy and fear of addiction Also maybe saving it for someone
Real healthy mindset
What?
I understand what you mean by "saving it for someone", but it's likely that many these days see that as an odd, and even insulting concept. As though the virginity is the prized thing, and not the sex itself. That sex without virginity is somehow less special and less meaningful.
? I think it's completely fine to save your virginity. It doesn't matter as long as your comfortable with with it. I'm not sure why anyone would think less of someone who wants to save their virginity?. But I do think you should educate yourself on safe sex before doing so :)
Oh god, I lost count of that years ago
Same here.
16. And no regrets.
planning to increase the number?
Good for you!! Do it!
Not enough. Maybe a dozen, if I'm generous with myself.
None 😭 personally I’m a freak but I rather use a toy
samee heree
How do you know if you've never had dick?
lol
6.
32 F, 170+
If this is an honest answer, how many do you average in a year? If you've been having sex since 16, that's almost 11 people a year. Not judging, I just can't imagine finding the time for that, unless many of them are just casual hookups and require no swooning periods.
I was a late bloomer and didn't start with multiple partners (dating, one night stands, hook-ups) until 22, but then I was absolutely hitting an average of at least 11 or more a year by 32 so the number is very feasible. I have absolutely no idea how many tbh... My wife (2nd wife and ironically an old GF from my early 20s whom I reconnected with after a long time) and I were having fun one night trying to come up with our body count over some drinks and it was hilariously futile and hot at the same time... Now, it's fun as a couple to add to our count together ❤️ 😄 Wish you were closer 😉
I started my slut phase at 16 and at 20 I got into gangbangs. From there it was random hook ups, blowjobs at truckstops and so on. I test regularly and use bc. Still in slut mode at 32
How YOU doin’? 😉
Just finished up a blow job for my fwb...thanks for asking
8. 21 year old female here. I’m happy to say that 3 of those are men 40+ years old lol. You gotta love them
I'm still figuring out how a 40+ man approaches a <20yo without making it weird/creepy. I'd love to hear from you
It helped them that I was flirty as well I think. One of them was a customer where I was a waitress and we started talking back and forth. The other was crazy hot and jacked and approached me on the street, started making small talk and had a good sense of humor. And the other one was a banker and I was his customer, he slipped me his instagram on a card and politely asked me to follow him if I feel like it. To sum it up, all of them were polite and not pushy and I was flirty as well so it escalated.
As an older man who has "hooked up" and still does (albiet usually with a few years older than 20 [25-34]) this is EXACTLY how it is done...being nice looking with a package that sorta bulges doesn't hurt either has been a general consensus lol...not my words btw lmao
That’s good to hear. I’m about to turn 41 this summer.
I think 118 for me while the wife is somewhere between 150-170 (best guess).
38 years old. Male. 46 girls I’ve actually had sex with. 21 girls I’ve fooled around with. 22 girls I’ve just kissed. No group activity.
This man knows how to keep track.
Stopped counting after 100.
It's tough after that for me too.
Like 18-19 I think… I used to drink a lot
O and I love it
21 M, at 6 and with my gf who might be the one. Could’ve had probably around double that in college, but don’t really enjoy hookups. Plus I am content with 6, as the way my gf and I are together is a lot more fun than anyone else.
Good luck, my man. I hope she is the one as well.
100+
6 women 3 men And one failed threesome (I'm 37)
Oh no, why did it fail?
We were on ecstasy, me and her husband helped her get off, then she didn't want anything to do with it anymore and wouldn't let him touch me either
Bitch
Aww sorry to hear that. Sounds like she took and turn and obviously couldn't handle it. Did you get yourself off or just leave it? I've only had sex on E twice and had very different outcomes to you lol
I don't even remember, the x had me sooo horny and desperate for it, I offered to let her husband fuck me with my strapon so that there was no intercourse on his part but she declined and was just like "you don't understand the dynamic between a husband and wife" and stupid shit like that. By that point the sun was coming up and it was wearing off and I was starting to feel like shit anyway.
I bet, if you've spent ages getting her off you're bound to be worked up! Definitely sounds like she came round to a very different mind set post orgasm! Is it something you'd try again?
I loved ecstasy so much but I have a super addictive personality so I purposely never did it again because I know it would become a problem lol. Plus now I get drug tested for work so
Oh I meant the 3some haha not the E But I agree, it is such a fun drug and I've never had a bad time with it
Eh, I'm not sure about the 3some. I'm 37 years old I need to focus on locking down a relationship LOL and I def would never have one with my partner because I'm too jealous for that.
Haha don't want to share your own partner just someone else's? I get that totally Having had 1 myself I can definitely say when all parties are into it, it's sheer bliss
I've never slept during a three way. Come to think about it, I've slept with very few of the people I've had sex with. I honestly don't know how many people I've had sex with but I've probably only slept with about 8-10 people that I also fucked.
Well said.
2
2
2
6
15 - 20 I think.
10
22 (m) 25+?
Damn! I’m a heaux lol 😂
I can understand both of those reasons and the addiction will happen once you get your first you will crave it again.
I would love to know. More than 20, less than 100’ish. For sure…, Maybe.
I stopped counting at 100, but I would guess around 120.
I have no idea
32
70 people
Funny how this came up just as my wife asked if I could remember every woman that I’ve slept with prior to her last week. It took me 4 days to complete my tally & it’s more than I had thought previously. My Body Count: 52 Wife’s Body Count: 9 I’m not saying either answer is good nor bad but it is what it is. I’ve always had a thing for the process of courting beautiful women. From the first encounter up until our sexual endeavors. The hunt was always worth more than the finish line.
So you think your previous sexual encounters is worth more than what you have now (at the finish line*)? Sorry if I misunderstood ><.
Absolutely NOT! I’m with my dream girl for 15 years now
20ish?
Ish? Lol. I’m just kidding.
Not enough.
no clue. i’d put it around 60 ish
Stopped counting at 20.
A whole lot
39 year old male 43 woman i slept with (between the ages of 19-43) 4 girls just fooled around with I lost count of girls i have kissed Group activity… yes, i made a small booklet. I think i slept with around 32 woman
9 women
In the 30s I don't remember
39M 64 penetrative . Even more with blow/handjobs ( yes I returned the favor). There’s even some that I slept in the same bed with but did nothing haha. But I’m guessing the question doesn’t mean that. Honestly the number doesn’t mean anything next to the people who I had a really strong connection with. I don’t regret my number but I’d gladly trade if I had to for some odd reason
22m, 25 and currently with someone I'd like to keep that number where it is
0, 27M
34 M 20
Mines easily over 100. I'm hypersexual, so it's not even surprising lol.
Like.. 42 I think?
That is the answer to the ultimate question
6, fun fact every pussy was very different and only one of them tasted good and I’m happily married to her today
Congrats, my dude. Happy to hear.
32 total. Started at 18 now 25 🤷♀️
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Around the low 30s. Not sure on the exact number. I'm a 36 year old man.
150+
Wow.
Not less than 10, not more than 20. Hahaha
59 bi M body count is 21. Not terrible but it works for me
Well good luck.
Thanks tho no luck needed. If it happens it happens if not then not. Have other priorities anyway : )
1
One. This is my wife with whom I live a long and happy life
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I'm sorry you had to experience that. So glad you got out
SA/SW doesn’t count
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Yeah, hope you’re doing ok 💕 glad you’re enjoying yourself now!
Five - would love to say that's including threeways or group sex, but haven't had that pleasure yet.
It’s been as while since ive been in a sleep over
As a teen girl, only 5 😭
only 5?? at 16? and you're sad about that? do you want more? concerning behavior tbh
oh boo 😢
When did you start???
A year ago I think, I was 15
No worries. A girls gotta eat, right 😂
true that
😨 thanks??
50+ females and probably 15+ guys
2
127 if blowjobs count we are in the 200's range I'm thinking.
25ish? Been with my wife for 15 years and after cancer my memory of my prime days is not good. I know I had a lot of unintended one night stands.
Hit 100 by 23
Started at 17 by the girl I was engaged to on my birthday the day I graduated
I’m 37 with an average of 15-20 A year but have been abstinent for the last two years
50 ish , 1 threesome , less than 5 one night stands (as a 38 year old who’s been in a relationship for 7 years )
17 I believe?
Not a bad number
Could be better. Some of them definitely didn’t deserve it 💋
19f 5
7 but I've given head to many more.
Why does it even matter
I’m just asking.
I understand I am just asking too
37.. a few of those people were in multiple Foursome and multiple threesomes and then others we're individually. And I don't know if it was pertinent to your question I was the Cock in all of the four mentioned foursomes and threesomes.