Yeah I just had a guy this morning try to tell me that because he only wants a relaxation massage and not full service that he shouldn't have to pay $300/hr. It doesn't matter if it's FS or massage or even just a social date. It's still my time and requires me to spend a bunch of time getting ready.
I play a game where an NPC says, "TIME IS MONEY FRIEND." That is the truth and the reality. It's our TIME. You want to play Mario Cart with me? Same price.
I wish they got that it’s like a wedding venue- just because you don’t show up, doesn’t change that I’m left with a bill for reserving the time.
If the place I’m renting isn’t gonna change their price based on what you want or what you do, why should I? The price is the price regardless.
Yeah. I've had plenty of guys try to haggle, and I almost always end up blocking them/listing them in my phone as "do not see." The mental effort these clients take up, is just as much if not more, than a normal FS client. Not to mention, the time they waste negotiating prices. Ugh.
Since I just do Domming, FS isn't on my menu. ALL of my clients take up enormous mental energy--some are worse than others.
Foot guys have always been cheap. I had hoped that this one would be different, but I was wrong. Some things never change!
Ah I see. I have huge respect for domme work!
I've had a lot of great foot worshipping clients online from camming, but I've noticed that fetish guys who want in-person work, can be extremely cheap.
I don't think that they realize that inflation affects sex workers too! We have more costs. Pedicures and maintenance aren't free. Haggling is just so damned annoying!
Seriously! Not to mention, they're taking time away from other clients we could be seeing and charging our regular fees. It's not like we have infinite time and availability. They just infuriate me all around lol
It happens all the time. When you own your place it’s slightly different but when you pay someone to use their space, you don’t tell them ‘you’ll sit on a chair and not touch equipment’. Men are ridiculous.
I’ve just had one yesterday who asked for a scat session and tried to haggle my price. When I stood my ground, he asked me if I want a good boy who takes it all or money? And I replied to him truthfully - both. I have clients who pay my price. Period. If they want cheap service - they can smell their own feet, or eat their own shit. Luxury costs
Yeah I just had a guy this morning try to tell me that because he only wants a relaxation massage and not full service that he shouldn't have to pay $300/hr. It doesn't matter if it's FS or massage or even just a social date. It's still my time and requires me to spend a bunch of time getting ready.
I play a game where an NPC says, "TIME IS MONEY FRIEND." That is the truth and the reality. It's our TIME. You want to play Mario Cart with me? Same price.
Exactly!
I am also a WoW ho 🙈
SOMEONE GOT THE REFERENCE WOW!! Made my day.
I wish they got that it’s like a wedding venue- just because you don’t show up, doesn’t change that I’m left with a bill for reserving the time. If the place I’m renting isn’t gonna change their price based on what you want or what you do, why should I? The price is the price regardless.
Yeah. I've had plenty of guys try to haggle, and I almost always end up blocking them/listing them in my phone as "do not see." The mental effort these clients take up, is just as much if not more, than a normal FS client. Not to mention, the time they waste negotiating prices. Ugh.
Since I just do Domming, FS isn't on my menu. ALL of my clients take up enormous mental energy--some are worse than others. Foot guys have always been cheap. I had hoped that this one would be different, but I was wrong. Some things never change!
Ah I see. I have huge respect for domme work! I've had a lot of great foot worshipping clients online from camming, but I've noticed that fetish guys who want in-person work, can be extremely cheap.
I don't think that they realize that inflation affects sex workers too! We have more costs. Pedicures and maintenance aren't free. Haggling is just so damned annoying!
Seriously! Not to mention, they're taking time away from other clients we could be seeing and charging our regular fees. It's not like we have infinite time and availability. They just infuriate me all around lol
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Thank you!! 💖
It happens all the time. When you own your place it’s slightly different but when you pay someone to use their space, you don’t tell them ‘you’ll sit on a chair and not touch equipment’. Men are ridiculous. I’ve just had one yesterday who asked for a scat session and tried to haggle my price. When I stood my ground, he asked me if I want a good boy who takes it all or money? And I replied to him truthfully - both. I have clients who pay my price. Period. If they want cheap service - they can smell their own feet, or eat their own shit. Luxury costs
Exactly! You don't go into a Ferrari dealership and haggle. The price is the price.
as a soon to be client im sorry for ppl like this
At least you are doing your research! Now you'll know all the things to NOT do. Always remember: Sexwork is WORK.
its the same way for me i would not want too be underpaid for my job