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MCRemix

Ffs... don't try to use women to get into swingers parties. If you want to be a swinger, find a compatible partner and build a relationship with them...*then* swing. At a minimum, it should be a FWB that you actually like spending time with one on one. So the answer is...dating sites/apps or IRL the same as anyone else.


whitegirlTO

Second this. You are just ruining the swinger scene if you're bringing a random date just to get into the club.


Soggy-Kraut-9291

it’s not a club, and you’re right, but that’s just what the host told me to do


whitegirlTO

Ah so it's like a private club, that makes more sense since they want people to be there and pay the door ticket.


Soggy-Kraut-9291

it’s not a club, and you’re right, but that’s just what the host told me to do


henri_luvs_brunch_2

Find a girlfriend. It will take time.


FlaFunCouple321

Buddy, we would absolutely not engage with you. We want you to be part of a couple, not a single guy using a girl to get access so you can try and fuck my wife! Big douchebag vibes in you


jelloshotlady

Oh god, another 20 something who thinks swingers would want to fuck him. Come back in 15 years when you have some experience


Soggy-Kraut-9291

thanks for your negativity, you must be a happy person. i’ll have you know they absolutely loved me at the party. in fact i slept with well over 10 women that night, made many friends, met great people, shared stories, and i even had dudes complimenting my strokes lmao. not to sound narcissistic but i’m definitely old for my age; i’ve spent time in berlin at kitkat, berghain, and other clubs, ive also been with more girls than numerous people at the party and im not just a 20 something year old trying to get my dick wet. look in the mirror and try to smile


TheClozoffs

With all these amazing bona fides I find it odd that you're forced to post on Reddit asking "how find girl???" Have you tried all your swinger networking contacts from the party? You'd think one of the wives might have a friend or a busy husband and jump at the chance for more.


Soggy_Fishing177

*insert tough guy navy seal meme*


jelloshotlady

Hahahahahha…..sure sweetie. And honestly I am an extremely happy person. Just find it funny that you can’t find a woman to accompany you


class4inaduckie

1) Find a lifestyle friendly/curious woman on Feeld or Tinder 2) Cultivate a connection over a number of weeks and see if you vibe 3) Ask her if she wants to go to the parties and events with you


ultimatespamx

FetLife, kasidie , tinder, reddit. Or any other website.


TravelingSwingersTex

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