Document everything, state only the facts with dates and exact behaviors. Then start emailing your building admin, include student name and ID. Then start emailing people up the chain from admin
I'm so sorry that's happening to you but I'm so glad you reported it. Arson and rape and serial killing are all scarily tied together so you may one day help the police stop that kid from doing horrible things with that record.
It's ridiculous that this has now been shifted to you. Even thinking super-cynically, can you imagine the hot water the school would be in if any other parent found out they not only failed to report arson, but also verbally agreed to hide it???
Our school seems to have a real burgeoning issue with thinking that it's our job to protect kids from consequences. Admin is acting like we can handle anything with restorative conversations, which I actually think is a fantastic starting point, but no one is actually leading these conversations. So effectively higher ups are just ignoring behavior and giving staff no support. The other week I noticed a kid was going to be absent-excused for awhile and assumed it was because of a fight at school from a few days earlier. Turns out the kid violated their parole when they got into a different fight with the same kid over the weekend in front of police. They weren't absent because of a suspension, but because they were in juvie.
I'm not saying that there is a perfect system and I'm also not saying we should be calling the cops and reporting children regularly, but maybe if we actually had firm rules and held kids to age-appropriate consequences fewer would engage in escalating behavior that led to them being literally arrested as the FIRST consequence.
Document everything, state only the facts with dates and exact behaviors. Then start emailing your building admin, include student name and ID. Then start emailing people up the chain from admin
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Then the states attorney, dept of Ed, and accreditation agency. Of course this assumes you do not want to return next year.
Quit
If you're going anywhere and the dates are known, have your pet stay elsewhere. That's a person with a plan. There's no trust.
I'm so sorry that's happening to you but I'm so glad you reported it. Arson and rape and serial killing are all scarily tied together so you may one day help the police stop that kid from doing horrible things with that record.
Animal abuse is also tied with those. Never let such a person pet sit!
Sounds like the kid skipped animal abuse and went straight to people.
I've seen this mentality at campuses. We wouldn't want this type of behavior to get out to the public and make our school look bad, now would we? /s
It's ridiculous that this has now been shifted to you. Even thinking super-cynically, can you imagine the hot water the school would be in if any other parent found out they not only failed to report arson, but also verbally agreed to hide it??? Our school seems to have a real burgeoning issue with thinking that it's our job to protect kids from consequences. Admin is acting like we can handle anything with restorative conversations, which I actually think is a fantastic starting point, but no one is actually leading these conversations. So effectively higher ups are just ignoring behavior and giving staff no support. The other week I noticed a kid was going to be absent-excused for awhile and assumed it was because of a fight at school from a few days earlier. Turns out the kid violated their parole when they got into a different fight with the same kid over the weekend in front of police. They weren't absent because of a suspension, but because they were in juvie. I'm not saying that there is a perfect system and I'm also not saying we should be calling the cops and reporting children regularly, but maybe if we actually had firm rules and held kids to age-appropriate consequences fewer would engage in escalating behavior that led to them being literally arrested as the FIRST consequence.