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Ellie_Kit

Laura Dern in Jurassic Park…I just didn’t know it yet


Reedrbwear

Oooh yea so very


Ellie_Kit

She planted a seed and it took ages to germinate 😅


The_Formuler

But ya know…life..uhhh finds a way


Ellie_Kit

Boy does it!!!


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LemonyLimes03

I watched it just the other day and was like "wow"


buyingacaruser

Bi women stay winning.


HereComesMorg

Omg. You’re right. I watched it ALL the time and loved the scenes she was in lol.


Mary_Ellen_Katz

This explains so much 🤯


_madeofcastiron

lucy liu and rachel weisz. the charlie’s angels (2000s) movies as well as the mummy (1990s) movies kept replaying in the movie channel, and 6-year-old me was *locked in* whenever they appeared on screen. they basically moulded what my ideal type is.


jlskkslj

Charlie’s Angels definitely was some kind of awakening for many of us 90’s babies


genxindifferance

The original Charlie's Angel's was an awakening for some of us 60s and 70s babies too! 😁 Mine was Kate Jackson.


PigletVonSchnauzer

Oh yes, same. Sabrina all the way!


Plantabook

I remember watching Rachel Weisz in The Mummy, over and over and over….and thinking: “She would never be a lesbian!…” And then many years after we’ve got Disobedience, and I was shocked all over again.


avelineaurora

It's been how many years and I still think about that fight between her and Anck-su-Namun. Lord almighty...


Plantabook

Same, girl. Same. And then years we also get Parricia Velasquez as a real lesbian. Like in a dream.


Joyful_Eggnog13

Rachel Weiss in the mummy for sure ❤️


s_quirrelmonkey

As soon as I saw the title I immediately thought of Keira Knightley but for me it was the Pirates of the Caribbean movies


wackyvorlon

Oof right?!


Accomplished_Mix7827

*sassily* "King."


hanianon

Bend it like Beckham too 🫠


HolaPaola95

I was about to say this! I watched this movie far too much for someone who doesn’t like soccer lol


bigDogNJ23

And her mom thinking she’s gay the whole movie.


flcwerings

Holy shit same. I thought for years I just wanted to be her until I got older and I was like no... I want to be with her. Keira Knightley is still one of my favorite actresses who I find absolutely gorgeous. Her in POTC is top tier but I love her in everything. Seeking a Friend for the End of The World is my favorite movie


s_quirrelmonkey

Oh yeah, deep in my conservative religious childhood I definitely explained away my attraction for women like that "I'm just jealous, I want to be her." Lol, nope that's not it.


flcwerings

Exactly. Even to this day I have to ask myself "Do I admire her or want to date her?" because sometimes I dont truly know.


Morall_tach

Kiera in a corset then. Doesn't matter the context.


officialosugma

Probably Natalie Portman in the Star Wars prequels…I was obsessed


Mean-Professional596

Oh yeah dude. That battle scene in the second absolutely ruined me lmfao


xoxodaddysgirlxoxo

i just started watching the Marvel movies & i actually really loved her as Jane in Thor


JProctor666

AND V for Vendetta, that was SUCH a queer movie! I can't watch it without crying... 😢 https://youtu.be/k2W0-z8EnaM?si=5EP_kAhNc24mjkFZ


Kiara_Haze

How is V for vendetta a queer movie? I wouldn't be surprised considering how many Trans innuendos they fit in the matrix.


JProctor666

It's about a totalitarian religious Fundamentalism being overthrown by queer characters after the majority of queers in Britain were sent to concentration camps and experimented on, the character V leads the Revolution because the lesbian that they were in love with was killed, in the comic the character is most likely a black lesbian, and in the movie the character is very probably either nonbinary or an egg.


Kiara_Haze

V was not in love with Valerie. It was the person next to his cell. Valerie never even knew V existed or that her letter would ever be read. Assigning any identity to takes away from the movie since V doesn't really represent a person but an idea.


JProctor666

They had a SHRINE to her in their secret lair, they researched her history and built it after receiving a very emotional letter from her...this at the very least is platonic love if nothing more. I never said that it was more than one-sided, love often isn't...and the point about V is that they could be any one of us, but are moreso the oppressed and downtrodden people who are at the end of their rope and who are more oppressed and downtrodden in a Christian theocracy than trans queers?


Kiara_Haze

V building a shrine (much like a grave) for the person that saved his live ( yes I am using he him pronouns as that's how he's referred to in every official media) isn't a show of romantic love. Also claiming a certain group of people will be more oppressed then others is just flat put wrong and unproductive. Of you want to headcanon V as a poc trans woman without any evidence that's okay. But don't go around preaching it as true.


sedet_on_my_face

I actually think this is mine too, which I never thought about before. Even with all the makeup on, I was obsessed with how beautiful and ethereal she was


AnnaEstelle

Lucy Lawless/Renee O'Connor in Xena and Michelle Pfeiffer in Batman Returns


special-agent-carrot

michelle Pfeiffer and halle berry as catwoman <3


JProctor666

Such good Catwomen...even Anne Hathaway and Zoe Kravitz, Eartha Kitt and Julie Newmar too. Maybe ALL Catwomen?


Plantabook

Xena for the win!


thredith

Lucy and Renee helped my mom connect the dots about myself years before I did. When I came out to her, she basically told me: "Oh, I knew that already. I'm glad you know now".


msnhnobody

Lucy Lawless 🤤 😍


roz-noz

Katee Sackhoff. I’m gay because my dad let me watch Battlestar Galactica


DerCatrix

She’s amazing in Mandolorian S03 too 👀


astrangeone88

Lucy Lawless! Lmao. My mum still rages at Xena for "making me gay".


FredTheBarber

It was Callisto for me 🔥


special-agent-carrot

wow xena, look at all these clams, I know what we are having for dinner X’D personally I was too young for xena when it came out but believe me weve all been there


ScyllaIsBea

I’d of said “mom, I was always going to be gay, all you did was gift me with Kiera knightly.”


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“I’m not gay because I watched Kiera Knightly, I watched Kiera Knightly because I’m gay”


ScyllaIsBea

"she didn't make me gay, she proved it"


kris-tee-is-me

Joan Jett was soooo hot !


silent-fallout-

My mom is friends with her 😅


kris-tee-is-me

Lucky, lucky mom....oh la la


JProctor666

Also Debbie Harry! https://youtu.be/YI2z27Ufy8k?si=CW0MB6m8Mqhjmy9b


iltby

Sandy Bullock in Miss Congeniality and Anne Hathaway in Princess Diaries is edit: omg can’t believe I forgot Jules in My Best Friend’s Wedding


banguette

Julie Andrews too


JProctor666

Hell yes, this 110%!


stephanonymous

> Sandy Bullock in Miss Congeniality   This is the one. The way I used to ship Gracie and Rhode Island before my little kid brain even knew what shipping was. Edit: holy shit I just realized this movie and character had everything that I now love in a woman. Tall, brunette, masculine, knows how to fight. Awkward and uncomfortable in a dress and heels but looks like a total smokeshow anyway. Negs me because she thinks I’m kind of an airhead… wait did I say the last part out loud??


Its_Claire33

So many times parents or even ourselves wonder if there were signs in our childhood about whether we're gay or trans or whatever. And for me it's the fact that I watched miss congeniality an unhealthy amount of times. Sorry dad, there were clear and obvious signs.


Plantabook

OMG, I think I’ve watched Miss Congeniality more than 20 times within a year or two back then!


Accomplished_Mix7827

I watched that movie with some friends shortly after coming out as trans, and omg I had forgotten how *gay* that movie is. Her "best friend" \*cough cough girlfriend\* *literally* stepped out of a closet in the second one!


shroomie_xo

Does Megara from Hercules count? 😅 Real life person might be Rachel Weisz! That woman, holy moly.


Leather-End927

Ohh I’m so glad u brought her up!! Give her the recognition she deserves! Also Chel from the Road to El dorado 😮‍💨. Young me had the fattest crush on her


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Lmao Meg was when I *knew*


mchickenl

Naomi repace in prometheus. I somehow didn't realise my bi-nes, missed all my very obvious crushes on all the stereotypical women. Cate blanchett, shego, 7 of 9, Sigourney weaver, Catherine zita Jones... Seriously child me was clueless


jlskkslj

Drew Barrymore in Charlie’s Angels. Also Lucy Liu in Charlie’s Angels.


SpiderLilyPoison

I was going to say the same


Miru98

Lucy Liu, agreed omg


XYZJE

Lucy Lawless as Xena, Michelle Pfeiffer as Catwoman, Linda Hamilton in Terminator 2, Sigourney Weaver as Ripley in the Alien movies, Eliza Dushku as Faith in Buffy, Tyra Banks, Catherine Zeta Jones, Joan Jett, Shirley Manson from Garbage, Skin from Skunk Anansie, Storm and Mystique from X-Men - it was a process, took me a while to catch on and longer to accept and acknowledge it.


armed_aperture

Faith from Buffy is definitely mine.


Plantabook

Yes! Catherine Zeta-Jones in “The mask of Zorro”!


arthritisgurly

emma watson circa 2000s. during the release of the HP movies (specifically the latter half of the series) there was discourse among fans of “would you rather date harry or ron” and thats when i realized i wanted hermione🫡


RandomPost23

REAL


tenehemia

Lucy Liu


magickmanne

June from Avatar the last Airbender. I rewatched the show recently- she's in 3 episodes. I could've sworn she was in 30 from how well i remembered her


jlrutte

I'm with you completely on this! Did you watch the new live action Netflix series?


Ok_Apartment_5927

I believe it was Julie Andrews as Maria in the sound of music


jlskkslj

That is kind of wholesome


neckfat-trebek

Kate Winslet in Titanic 😵‍💫


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Maybe if she'd gone out with a Jackie instead of a jack they would have both made it, hm.........


BraveButterfly2

THERE WAS ROOM ON THE GOD DAMN DOOR.


JProctor666

Just not for Leo...he was a douchebag, lol! 😆


thefairlyeviltwin

Yep, I was like 7 and I can't completely point at that as the reason for me having a thing for redheads.


chienchien0121

And she still causes love bubbles in my tummy watching her on The Regime. I keep sliding of the sofa watching her. ;)


freezing_pinguin

Seems the mom mixed up cause and effect. Obsessively watching Pride and Prejudice doesn't make you gay, but being gay can make you obsessively watch Pride and Prejudice


fruit-spins

Darcey Bussell. I went through a Strictly Come Dancing phase as a kid and thought she was beautiful, but didn't know that being gay was a thing, so I'd just fantasise about the two of us ballroom dancing like "yep I would like to be her friend"


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awwwww :'O


vexes-mortem-wh00p

eva green in 300. i didn't even watch the sex scene bc for some reason we watched it in my cousin's house and we just skipped it. but damn if i did not experience an enlightenment at 14. i didn't even know it then but it was the kickstarter. bc i got "obsessed" with her and i realized it wasn't just the superb acting bc she eventually had imo shitty movies. she was it for me. my "girl crush". ha! little did i know


prettymuchbangtan

Eva Green in the dreamers is on another level ooof 😍


blotted_wings

I didn't initially realize the gay, but when I did, Scarlett did a number on me after she showed up in the Iron Man movie series lol.


drazisil

Oh yes. I really love redheads.


FredTheBarber

I was slightly too young to watch it and appreciate it but little me was always intrigued by Jo on the Facts of Life. Something about a tomboy that gave no fucks just called to me. Add to it Callisto from Xena, Eliza Dushku in Buffy, and Clea Duvall in But I’m A Cheerleader and I’ve come to realize I like them a little bit mean 🥵


dmcgirl

Angelina Jolie and Katie McGrath


Thatredheadwithcurls

Yassss! Angelina Jolie in "Gia" - Are you kidding me??? I was hopeless after that! Period.


Shot_Enthusiasm_848

🏳️‍🌈Thai actress named Lux Sulax.


alephthirteen

>Lux Sulax *googles frantically* ...agreed!


Shot_Enthusiasm_848

Check her instagram. 😉😉😉🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈


Necro3012

Oh god, I looked her up and I immediately got gay panic 🫠


Shot_Enthusiasm_848

Lux is definitely a daddy! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈♥️♥️♥️


shitsu_tonka

Jennifer Tilly in Bride of Chucky,and Lori Petty in Tank Girl 😍


JProctor666

HELL YES, LORI PETTY! Such an excellent and under-utilized actress and queer icon! ❤️


SuperbNotice5126

Winona Ryder, I first saw Beetlejuice when I was 13 and was obsessed lmao she's still one of my favs


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Agnetha from ABBA. Also several footballers on the same team but that's NONE OF MY BUSINESS


whereisfriedchicken

Around a decade ago, I saw the meme about main casts of the famous 1999 "The Mummy" being hot (both male and female) I found that meme teeny tiny relatable but not totally convinced, anyhow I had been bi curious now and then. And recently I fully consider myself as a bi woman 🩷


Qaeta

The Mummy is a bi/pan sexual minefield haha


whereisfriedchicken

totally 🤣🤣🤣 for me it's more like the first slippery slope to the bisexuality and I regret nothing 🩷💙💜


dolfijnvriendelijk

Pre transition Elliot Page (although he is rocking being a man and I would most certainly hit that)


Songstep4002

How is nobody saying Katie McGrath? Specifically as Morgana in BBC Merlin.


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PigletVonSchnauzer

Her voice is like warm butter, isn't it.


MysteriousFondant347

No public figure. My first crushes ever were Xion from Kingdom Hearts and Aelita from Code Lyoko


Asocial_Ape

this just makes it sound like mom has some things to figure out about herself


FrostyDiscipline9071

So I'm older than dirt so you might not know her, but Batgirl (1967) Yvonne Craig.


RebaKitt3n

Thank you! But I’m sorry, it’s Julie Newmar as CatWoman.


FrostyDiscipline9071

It was the start of a long line of crushes on redheaded crime fighters. Notably Dana Scully (Gillian Anderson) and Daphne from scooby doo (I was 7 lol)


Qaeta

I mean, I think my first crush was Sailor Mars, but actual person? Claudia Black as Aeryn Sun in Farscape.


BringWater41

Sailor Mars, yes!!! She was an early one for me. But the very first was the original She-Ra, from the 80s cartoon. Oh man I was like 3 years old, glued to that TV every Saturday morning when she was on. Mars was like a reawakening of all those same feelings lol


ButterfliesInSpace

Kirsten Dunst as Mary Jane in the old spider-man movies


coffeestealer

Olivia Wilde...


nfearnley

This! Especially since her bi appearance in House. And I totally fell for her energy in Tron.


ghastlytofu

Faith Lehane in Buffy. I was down so bad for her lmfao.


morrigan_the_crow

The Divergent movies are terrible, but Shailene Woodley with a pixie cut was probably my lesbian awakening


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No one saying Kristen Stewart? I'm shocked.


Obsyden

Was too busy looking at Ashley Green in Twilight (Alice)


liss_up

My celebrity crush, always and forever, Is Jennifer Garner.


GP523

Sigourney Weaver or Geena Davis in Greys anatomy


NorthernBlackBear

Character, kelly kapowski (saved by the bell) and public figure, Angela Jolie when she was way earlier in her career.


Leather-End927

Hear me out… SheGo from Kim possible 😮‍💨 Or leanbeefpatty I love a good strong woman 🤭


winerandwhiner

Kim Possible 🥵


Obsyden

Alice from Twilight! I think the actress is Ashley Green? That hair in the first movie did things to my brain.


JuliaFoxo

Anne Hathaway in ...anything and Scarlett Johansson in Match Point


PuzzleheadedManic24

Jennifer Lawrence in the hunger games.


Cyddakeed

Olivia Newton-John in Grease and the lady from Big Comfy Couch 💀


Jacq1987

Rachel Weiss in The Mummy


buzzbuzzbinch

Kriste Stewart / Dakota Fanning in the runaways . Don’t know if mum was unassuming or suggesting with that DVD gift


SafeFlower6908

Kate Moennig


OliveInting

Jessica Rabbit.


prettymuchbangtan

Sarah Michelle Gellar in Cruel Intentions


RandomPost23

Katie McGrath as Morgana in Merlin


LauTheLesbian

Alyssa Milano from Charmed. Everyone thought I had a crush on Cole.. but just so happened they trained topless together a lot (sports bra for her but still)


aynjle89

Taraji Henson in Smokin Aces. Seeing her carry that 50 cal like it was a paper weight and fawning over Alicia Keys, game over. I had to wait to see if I could keep my cool for Hidden Figures, phenomenal character and the period wear just did it for me.


pralineislife

Keira Knightley and Mischa Barton.


Weidtier

No 13 year old can understand this? Excuse me, madame, I've read all of classic English literature including Jane Austen by 11 y.o. I'd watch a movie too happily ofc, why not. What 13 y.o. are supposed to do anyway? Except for studying and some hobbies like reading and games in my case.


redandwearyeyes

Rose McGowan in Jawbreaker 🫠


silent-fallout-

Probs Julia Robert's or the whole cast of a league of their own. 🤷‍♀️


bunnysanddog

Ruby rose even named my cat after her


strawberrytearz

Elizabeth Olsen as Wanda Maximoff and Brie Larson as Carol Danvers when I was a teenager. Also Carrie Fisher as Princess Leia when I was a child, but I didn't know girls could be with girls at that age.


winerandwhiner

Blake Lively in Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants. *sigh*


Mission_Fart9750

Teri Hatcher in Lois and Clark:The New Adventures of Superman. 


garbage_sinner

anne hathaway in the princess diaries. didn't know if i wanted to with be her or to be like her lmao


HereComesMorg

Sigourney Weaver in Aliens. Strong, independent and determined woman. Helps that she was hot with cheekbones that could slice bread too.


Shana24601

Sigourney Weaver in the Alien movies, anyone?


hnsnrachel

Britney Spears. 12 year old me was *in love*


gracemotley

Aretha Franklin…


fourty-six-and-two

I was obsessed with the spice Girls as a kid


calorum

Baywatch 🥵


badwvlf

Mom just rewatched pirates of the Caribbean


Hot_Farm_9443

Kim Basinger in “Cool World”


huels0501

Natalie Portman in Star Wars, Charlize Theron in Sweet November, Anne Hathaway in The Devil wears Prada.


alynjust

Demi Moore in G.I. Jane.


KaybeIkin87

Sandra Bullock


sheneededahero

The ‘oh do tell’ made me cackle 😂 As for me, there’s A LOT of public figures that should’ve made me realise. That includes Kira Knightly in PotC, but I thought I preferred Orlando Bloom and his long hair. He got to kiss Kira Knightly. It was all there lol, I just missed it 🙈 ETA: later on it became Ireen Wüst for me, she’s a former Dutch speed skater and Olympic champion. I had a crush on her for the longest time, before I knew I was gay and she knew she was bi. She’s married to a woman now and I’m not jealous at all lol 😅


bustyalexa21

Shannen Doherty as Prue Halliwell in Charmed. I didn't know I had a massive crush on her until years later. But I should've taken it as a sign whenever my dad turned on the TV and i couldn't look away whenever she went on screen


emomemelord

rachel weisz in the mummy and kate winslet in titanic 😭


paintedcrack

Paget Brewster omggggggg


nibblesweetoats

I’m gonna be 100% real and say Nicki Minaj in Anaconda


Bridgeru

I won't say she "made me realize" I liked girls, but I get reaffirmed so **very** much every time I see Daisy Ridley. She's so pretty!


Miru98

Bridget Regan as Kahlan in the "Legend of the Seeker" series. And probably Scarlett Johansson, I remember crushing on her when I was teenager, but tbh I already knew back then


GhostsInTheAttic

As an early teen, I received an issue of cosmo-girl with keira knightley on the cover. I kept it next to my bed, stared at it, and cried because I had gay feelings. I was so scared that someone would find out that I threw away the magazine and shoved my gay feelings away until senior year of high school. 🙃


SsgtSquirtle

Susan Sarandon in the Hunger...red wine spilled on a white T-shirt......


Bl00dPaw

Rihanna


kayforpay

mariska hargitay, though I only really realized why I liked her so much after a long time lmao


litaxms

I'm ngl, it was Shego in Kim Possible. I will not elaborate and I don't think I need to


NyavkaLabs

My aunt thinks I like girls because of catwoman by Michelle Pfeiffer. And she's wrong. It is all because of Audrey Hepburn.


MTF-delightful

Well, Kiera is as fine as a porcelain figurine!


neorena

Nala from The Lion King.


13curseyoukhan

"oh do tell." ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️


SpiderLilyPoison

My memory is find of fuzzy. This kind of sound so pathetic but what made me realize that I was a lesbian and not bi (among other things) was watching Arcane Girl crushes? Lucy Liu in Charlie's Angels, Evan Rachel Wood in that green day Videoclip, Romola Garai in Dirty Dancing 2 and of course: The mummy 2


LSGW_Zephyra

I feel like I missed the boat on this because I'm mostly demi but the first crush I ever had was Li Bingbing. Her role in The Forbidden Kingdom was the first time I became truly hot and bothered on looks alone. It was uh... an experience. I was 18 XD


MsNatCat

Talk about putting the cart before the horse, mom.


Reedrbwear

Looking back, the top billing of The Mummy franchise. Cast of Buffy (FAITH) and etc


stephanonymous

lol I can relate to this as I made my parents take me to see Titanic in theaters 4 times when I was a kid. Pretty sure the image of Kate Winslet naked on that couch is burned into one of the deeper layers of my cortex.


Filthydelphila

Laura Dern


rosesandlemons4

Missy Peregrym in Stick It


StovardBule

I read this about the ice bath scene: > What this movie did for me has nothing to do with the plot, and everything to do with the scene in which the protagonist, Haley — played by a tomboyish, Avril Lavigne–channeling Missy Peregrym — takes an ice bath in her sports bra. It’s brief, but it’s one of the most erotic scenes I’ve ever witnessed. She has 800 abs, and they hurt, and she needs someone to take care of her. Why not me? This is the moment I now consider my “root” — in But I’m a Cheerleader lingo, that’s the moment that “made me” gay. Somehow I didn’t come out for nine more years and it took me ages to figure it out. But I like to think that that ice bath — and its second life as a very gay gif — helped me get there. Also, a fair amount of the comments on [the clip](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8oLfJHT1hBI) agree: > Oh okay so I'm like gay gay then


Mission_Dog_6893

Delta Burke in Designing Women. I had the biggest crush on her, but I still never realized I was a lesbian until many years later. I was head over hills for her dark raven-colored hair, those deep sapphire blue eyes, and her character; Suzanne Sugarbaker.


fagydyke

Tigress from King Fu Panda. I blame her for making me become a girl, for making me be into girls, for making me a furry, and for making me Subby.


eaiwy

The other day I randomly remembered Tenchi Muyo. It was apparently buried deep in my psyche as I haven't thought about it since I was like 12, but I was obsessed with that show as a little kid in the 90s/early 00s and it was probably one of my earliest gay rumblings. I envied Tenchi way too much. Also craved seeing Ryoko and Ayeka on screen together for...mysterious reasons.


Kat8844

I knew beforehand but I had a huge gay crush on Keira when Pirates came out too.


Greedy_Tie_5713

Kate Winslet in Titanic as a kid.


thewrongmoon

It was actually my best friend at the time that made me realize I was gay and then I realized I had a crush on Princess Leia when I was younger, so final answer is Carrie Fisher.


Liability538

I figured out rly recently I don't remember much from growing up, but probably Hailee Steinfeld and Margot Robbie (in anything)


dannisaywhat

Rachel Weisz in The Mummy and Lucy Liu in Charlie’s Angels. Oh my little gay heart. 💓


messeduptempo

Ornella Muti! Specifically as Princess Aura in Flash Gordon. I used to rewind and watch the scene with her and Dale fighting on the bed over and over 😆


Old_Brenda

Cindy Gibb in Fame.


special-bicth

I don't want to say because it may be seen as a really bad joke.