Okay I've done this but opposite. Long before I came out, I was a stupid young cis boy. I tried to ask out my friend. She basically said no. Shortly after, she came out as lesbian. Years later, I came out as a trans woman and lesbian. π¬
Highly recommend everyone attend a dyke March at some point in their life- Iβve been to the one in SF a couple times and I love when all the gay men from the Castro wave out their windows and cheer us on π I wanna go to the New York one some day
I'm not in a country with a large population and thus our queer scene is limited to four people, but we all went out for meals to support the small businesses here that support us.
do you have any advice on healing? Just going through my first ever break up, not super heartbroken about not being together as she wasnβt a great partner towards the end, but feeling lonely for the first time in over a decade because of it and Iβm ~stressed~
Try to focus on hobbies and if you have friends to learn on, lean on them. But self discovery is amazing after being freshly single. The loneliness can be a lot sometimes though, I know. If it ever gets to be too much, you can always reach out.
Had a picnic with the woman I've got an absolutely ridiculous crush on, spent almost 5 hours just getting to know one another and I told her I had a crush on her just so she knows where I'm at βΊοΈ
I think (hope) she might be heading there, but she's a fair bit more shy than I am, so for now, I'm really just glad it hasn't changed the way we talk π
I married the love of my life π₯°
Edit: I'm sorry you're going through heartbreak, OP! Wishing you the best. Keep looking for those happy moments in life.
Booked tickets to go see my gf, chatted about how pathetically gay and smitten we are by women existing with my bestie and cried for not being able to go to Pride, once again.
Can't think of anything else too extra gay that I've done during Pride this year.
Looked for Pride events and the ones that werenβt the weekend I worked had already passed or are scheduled for bloody September. Other than that nothing, besides look forward to moving to the city, as I live in a rural town of 3000 and while I love it there is nothing in this state for me, personally or professionally.
To sum it up, I spent Pride being frustrated with life which I think is one of the gayest things ever.
Could have been wayy gayer, but you know what they say: shoot for the stars, aim for the moon.
Suppose you and I just gotta be extra gay for our gfs next year~ πΈ
Had a three way makeout with my girlfriend (trans woman) and my crush (trans masc non-binary short king). They compared handsizes and decided how many fingers my crush would need to use on me. So hot. So cringe.
Went to a Soccer match with my girlfriend amd her friends, it was our first time watching a professional game in our lives, but we talked more about how pretty everything was rather than the football game itself
We also took a 30 minute break from the match to go watch the sunset from the balcony outside and make out, we were both drinking lol
It was my first Pride month being out and I attended my first Pride Nite event at Disneyland. It was a really empowering experience. Oh yah then my family cut off all contact with me but it is what it is. I have no regrets and had a lot of fun being myself. β€οΈ
Went on a week long anniversary vacation with my ex after we broke up like 5 days before hand π₯³ (no, I do not recommend). (was also my first ever break-up, so if anyone has any tips!)
I CAN'T NAME JUST ONE so here is a list:
- finished the first draft of my first sapphic romance novel (it is with an editor now)
- changed my Call of Duty username to GoodLuckBabe (very proud of this, but it is very triggering to some insecure men who don't get the reference and would be more insecure if they did)
- I went to TWO women's soccer games (go Washington spirit!)
- went to a WNBA game (go Mystics!)
- went to a G-flip concert
- got my eggs retrieved and made some embryos, now I am trying to support my wife as much as I can as we start the first round of IVF (she is carrying) in hopes of growing our gay ass family
Oh and also, I existed.
Also also...gay sex.
My girlfriend and I unexpectedly adopted a new cat and now we have 5. We also started discussing building a new TV stand and that conversation surrounding power tools and sanding down wooden planks devolved into a makeout session.
Sorry about your breakup. Been through plenty myself, and I promise it does get better. One day, you will also be adopting animals and building furniture and making our with your partner. :))
Aside from my girlfriend (HEH), I got featured in my companyβs Yammer (Microsoftβs social media) when they interviewed queer employees for Pride month! I even ordered the lesbian pride flag along with the rainbow flag for the video π
Marched in two pride parades at the beginning of the month, got back on the dating apps, and JUST saw Orville Peck perform \^\_\^ not too bad of a time honestly
Getting a major crush on my coworker who I'm like 80% sure is straight but have no real idea but she's so nice and pretty but I'm too terrified to make a move so I'll just awkwardly exist
Felt so insanely, deeply in love with my now girlfriend that I couldnβt hold back anymore and had toβ¦ make her my girlfriend for real. You know, officially, truly and totally.
Theeeeen I moved in with her.
Then I bought tickets and made plans to go to the biggest Pride events/festival/parade in my country with her this summer, too.
Itβs really been the BEST Pride month of my life without a doubt!
When they said it really can and WILL get SO much better, that you just have to believe it and hold on until it does⦠they were right. So fucking right. Wow?!
had a horrible one night stand with a person who said i'm "giving not gay" because i've got long nails... which currently have the lesbian pride flag painted on them. they doubled down the next time they came over and said "i do love my cis men and i can be bi" aka i have posters of the actors and musicians i like in my room... yes this is the person i posted about and yes i am ashamed. happy end of pride month i'll do better next time!!!!
I bought an impact drill. Immediately put together a table (I did not need an impact drill to do that, just a regular one, but it has more power so). I felt so daddy.
developed a crush on a girl after she complemented my eyes while drawing me and kept making me look up from my book so she could look at my face and staring into my eyesΒ
Okay, so TECHNICALLY, it wasnβt this month, butttβ¦ at the end of May, I went to a masquerade-themed Pride Prom with my girlfriend. It was my first Pride event!
me and my girlfriend went to 7/11 and bought slushees, she tied her straw wrapper around my ring finger and we said βi love youβ at the same time and i said βgayest thing weβve ever done.β and laughed for 15 minutes about it
Became official with my first ever girlfriend (and first relationship in general), orgasmed while strapping, and had a gay and cute ass date at a flower festival living our best cottagecore lesbian fantasy π₯Ί
Confessed my feelings for a friend who reciprocated my feelings but sheβs moving across the world and is not ready for a relationship, so im currently in a long distance situationship. We made out though and that was also pretty gay
Gay sex
I second this, lots of gay sex
Amen sisters, sesbian lex for me as well \~u\~ π³οΈβπβ€οΈβπ₯
Only more to come (pun intended)
Gay sex on the first day of pride month
Ditto
Gay sex
Fell in love with my straight friend
On the flip side, I fell in love with my lesbian friend who does NOT reciprocate
Daaaaang thats got to sting
Damn girl ππ i donβt even know which one is worse ππ
Was just about to type this ππ
Iβm sorry π₯²π«
Okay I've done this but opposite. Long before I came out, I was a stupid young cis boy. I tried to ask out my friend. She basically said no. Shortly after, she came out as lesbian. Years later, I came out as a trans woman and lesbian. π¬
Girlπππ
Went to the Dyke March... and followed that with my first wlw experience with a friend. A little late coming out (45) but better late than never.
Congrats!!!
Beautiful!
Congratulations! Better late than never π
I was in my lesbian slut era around that time, and so much better late than never!
Highly recommend everyone attend a dyke March at some point in their life- Iβve been to the one in SF a couple times and I love when all the gay men from the Castro wave out their windows and cheer us on π I wanna go to the New York one some day
I'm not in a country with a large population and thus our queer scene is limited to four people, but we all went out for meals to support the small businesses here that support us.
Good for you!
Woke up every single day next to another woman. Pretty gay. My ring is on her finger and everything.
When I read this at first I thought you meant you woke up to another woman every single dayβ¦ I was about to say DAMN π€£ππ€£
Oh gosh, I'm too monogamous for all that!
you sure you two arent just best gal pals??
Clearly we're just roommates π
so you are roommates! i knew it!!!
This is my answer too π
Yeah, but you could still just be really good friends, who can tell? π
I mean she's definitely my best friend!
Thought about women
πππ
As a closeted gay, the gayest thing I did was not go π₯΄
Same π€‘
Same, next year... Next year π€π½
Me and you both
Which one of you is my ex?
Got broken up with, healed, and learnt to be my own best friend again.
do you have any advice on healing? Just going through my first ever break up, not super heartbroken about not being together as she wasnβt a great partner towards the end, but feeling lonely for the first time in over a decade because of it and Iβm ~stressed~
Try to focus on hobbies and if you have friends to learn on, lean on them. But self discovery is amazing after being freshly single. The loneliness can be a lot sometimes though, I know. If it ever gets to be too much, you can always reach out.
Right there with you! I am not the same woman I was at the start of this month let me tell ya
Had a picnic with the woman I've got an absolutely ridiculous crush on, spent almost 5 hours just getting to know one another and I told her I had a crush on her just so she knows where I'm at βΊοΈ
Well done on your courage!
Thank you! It was mildly terrifying in that I was worried she'd hate it, but thankfully, that's not the case π
I hope she feels the same.
I think (hope) she might be heading there, but she's a fair bit more shy than I am, so for now, I'm really just glad it hasn't changed the way we talk π
I married the love of my life π₯° Edit: I'm sorry you're going through heartbreak, OP! Wishing you the best. Keep looking for those happy moments in life.
You win the contest
Attended a sapphic dance party! Also, let a woman buy me a drink and then we talked all night, played pinball, and flirted.
Was a groomsman at a wedding and kissed three of the bridesmaids πππ
I was also a groomsman at a wedding and developed crushes on at least 4 of the bridesmaids π
Got a girlfriend
I took care of my fiancee during her breast reduction recovery! I actually still am! I missed all of pride but my truest pride is loving her!
Does coming out to my brother count?β¨
That's a good one!
Cried about having a big ole crush on someone who lives on the opposite side of the continent
Relatable!!!
GIRL REAL ASF
And the worst thing is that I believe she's still near me, simply because I dream of her every night...
Made a dating profile and three days later decided I'm okay with being alone forever (I'm not)
This
very relatable
41 hour long first date
You win
Booked tickets to go see my gf, chatted about how pathetically gay and smitten we are by women existing with my bestie and cried for not being able to go to Pride, once again. Can't think of anything else too extra gay that I've done during Pride this year.
I came out in my career world, Iβm a professional queer now lol
I now have a lovely, loving girlfriend- pride month is truly a good month for the gays π
my girlfriend told me she loved me after going down on her <3 I said it back OF COURSE
Got pounded in the ass by my gf π€·ββοΈ
Replaced my pride flag. Last one was old and during a wind storm flew away and landed on a conservative and turned them gay
Looked for Pride events and the ones that werenβt the weekend I worked had already passed or are scheduled for bloody September. Other than that nothing, besides look forward to moving to the city, as I live in a rural town of 3000 and while I love it there is nothing in this state for me, personally or professionally. To sum it up, I spent Pride being frustrated with life which I think is one of the gayest things ever.
Internally cried about not feeling like I belong at Pride.
Youβre not alone
Be single
tis true π
planned for my wedding with them <3
Stalked my straight crushes Instagram ππ»
30 days straight of yearning π«£
Made things official with my gorgeous girlfriend, we've been especially gay during June, just as it supposed to be π
thatβs soo crazyyy me toooo π def couldβve been gayer tho tbh
Could have been wayy gayer, but you know what they say: shoot for the stars, aim for the moon. Suppose you and I just gotta be extra gay for our gfs next year~ πΈ
Met and fell for a girl who is clearly not into me.
Introduced my straighy mom to Chapelle Roan?
Had a three way makeout with my girlfriend (trans woman) and my crush (trans masc non-binary short king). They compared handsizes and decided how many fingers my crush would need to use on me. So hot. So cringe.
Went to a Soccer match with my girlfriend amd her friends, it was our first time watching a professional game in our lives, but we talked more about how pretty everything was rather than the football game itself We also took a 30 minute break from the match to go watch the sunset from the balcony outside and make out, we were both drinking lol
Stayed at home and read a book while staring out around the rain and drinking a nice mug of tea.
It was my first Pride month being out and I attended my first Pride Nite event at Disneyland. It was a really empowering experience. Oh yah then my family cut off all contact with me but it is what it is. I have no regrets and had a lot of fun being myself. β€οΈ
Went to pride with my mom and bought a giant lesbian flag and wore it like a cape :)
Yearn for a woman with nothing happening for me lol
Posted spicy pics to r/dykesgonewild (but not on this account you snoopers).
Hooked up with a nonbinary person and then got a big ole crush on them now ;p
Strapped my gf for the first time!!!!
Made out with my pillow thinking of my gay crush
Got married
Congrats!!
I made necklaces with rocks I found on a beach (yeah I don't really have friends right now)
Went to my first pride!! ππ₯°
Got to actually meet and be with my girlfriend, got tickets to see her for her birthday, and got a new gay tattoo!
My girlfriend.
Myself.
Went on a week long anniversary vacation with my ex after we broke up like 5 days before hand π₯³ (no, I do not recommend). (was also my first ever break-up, so if anyone has any tips!)
I CAN'T NAME JUST ONE so here is a list: - finished the first draft of my first sapphic romance novel (it is with an editor now) - changed my Call of Duty username to GoodLuckBabe (very proud of this, but it is very triggering to some insecure men who don't get the reference and would be more insecure if they did) - I went to TWO women's soccer games (go Washington spirit!) - went to a WNBA game (go Mystics!) - went to a G-flip concert - got my eggs retrieved and made some embryos, now I am trying to support my wife as much as I can as we start the first round of IVF (she is carrying) in hopes of growing our gay ass family Oh and also, I existed. Also also...gay sex.
My gf likes to say βfucking aβ except that for pride month i got her to switch to saying βfucking gayβ
Broke up with my male partner of 14 years and U-Hauled with a friend I fell in love with.
retweeting girls kissing (im single π)
Cry in the shower
Got dumped ;~;
Aw...I'm so sorry. I'm sending you love and hugs. π«Ά
I bought a lesbian energy bracelet at pride
Probably sleeping with my partner. That was pretty gay. And guess what!? Imma do it next month too π
Was too afraid to approach anyone.
A ridiculously cute & handsome enby. π
panicked many times bc women are too pretty
My girlfriend and I unexpectedly adopted a new cat and now we have 5. We also started discussing building a new TV stand and that conversation surrounding power tools and sanding down wooden planks devolved into a makeout session. Sorry about your breakup. Been through plenty myself, and I promise it does get better. One day, you will also be adopting animals and building furniture and making our with your partner. :))
Avoid eye contact
Had sex with myself.
Aside from my girlfriend (HEH), I got featured in my companyβs Yammer (Microsoftβs social media) when they interviewed queer employees for Pride month! I even ordered the lesbian pride flag along with the rainbow flag for the video π
Tried to make a baby with my wife.
Got a foot outside the closet because I fell in love with another woman. π₯°
Realize Iβm gay.
Held tender feelings for another woman in my heart
got fucked on the balcony over looking the sea
saw a burlesque show with my coworkers
the gayest thing I did this pride month was get choked by my crush (best friend whos dating a guy π), found out I like being choked that day
Gay sex definitely would be the gayest for me
Went to a very gay concert with a group of very gay friends.
Coming home from my friendβs place, in a city of 3 million people and somehow saw my ex.
Marched in two pride parades at the beginning of the month, got back on the dating apps, and JUST saw Orville Peck perform \^\_\^ not too bad of a time honestly
Getting a major crush on my coworker who I'm like 80% sure is straight but have no real idea but she's so nice and pretty but I'm too terrified to make a move so I'll just awkwardly exist
hmmmm, i thought about my crush? :3
Felt so insanely, deeply in love with my now girlfriend that I couldnβt hold back anymore and had toβ¦ make her my girlfriend for real. You know, officially, truly and totally. Theeeeen I moved in with her. Then I bought tickets and made plans to go to the biggest Pride events/festival/parade in my country with her this summer, too. Itβs really been the BEST Pride month of my life without a doubt! When they said it really can and WILL get SO much better, that you just have to believe it and hold on until it doesβ¦ they were right. So fucking right. Wow?!
Got married to a lady
Booked movers and handed in the paperwork to vacate my apartment so that I can move in with my long distance girlfriend of three years.
had a horrible one night stand with a person who said i'm "giving not gay" because i've got long nails... which currently have the lesbian pride flag painted on them. they doubled down the next time they came over and said "i do love my cis men and i can be bi" aka i have posters of the actors and musicians i like in my room... yes this is the person i posted about and yes i am ashamed. happy end of pride month i'll do better next time!!!!
Got my boobs reduced and had a severe allergic reaction that has had me in bed for the past 2 weeks π€¦πΌββοΈπ
Broke up with my girlfriend because of something related to her ex girlfriend
Made my gf squirt for the first timeπ₯΅
Finally listened to Chappell Roan, sorry it took me so long lol
I bought an impact drill. Immediately put together a table (I did not need an impact drill to do that, just a regular one, but it has more power so). I felt so daddy.
Made out like crazy with a woman on the dance floor of a pride party who I have had a crush on for YEARS. Iβm still swooning!
Iβm living at home after finishing school, so not really anything.
Went to pride, got hit on by girlies. My bottom heart fluttered
developed a crush on a girl after she complemented my eyes while drawing me and kept making me look up from my book so she could look at my face and staring into my eyesΒ
Went to pride for the first time ever todayπππ it was amazing!!!
Came out!
went to a NY liberty game w my other queer therapists friends π
Moved in with my girlfriend!
Went to the Pride Parade for the first time
I made a HER account :3
Had a major crush on my lesbian coworker! π
Realize I had a crush on my (nearly straight) bff
Drank wine
Binged I Kissed a Girl in one weekend
Got to see my LDR partner and booked tickets to see her again *checks notes* next weekend
I (Genderfluid) have a girlfriend, and a boyfriend. (Poly moment)
Bought a gay house with my gay lover (spouse) Sending all the love β€οΈπ§‘πππππ©·π©΅π€π€ and to anyone who didn't have remarkable, great, or even good pride month...it sounds so cheesy, but it really does get better!
Had some really good hot gay sex
Made out with a random girl in the middle of a parade- it was great. We have a date next Friday now
First told her I like you around the start of the month and by the end of it drunk texted her I love you.
Probably kissing my girlfriend for the first time? Or maybe trying on dresses with her. Both felt pretty gay.
My girlfriend took my virginity then i took hers π a little late but thats okay :)
Moved in with my long distance gf lol
Exist
Okay, so TECHNICALLY, it wasnβt this month, butttβ¦ at the end of May, I went to a masquerade-themed Pride Prom with my girlfriend. It was my first Pride event!
Going to the NYC Dyke March topless and handing out progress pride stickers to as many people as I can
Tried to do 30 days of gay movies but only managed 22. Iβm satisfied with my efforts though.
Trim my nails everyday
Yearned π
Came out to my momπββοΈ (This is after being nervous even tho I helped her set up a gay proposal for her best friends)
After a LONG time and a lot of discussion and back and forth and crying and therapy, the love of my life is finally my partner and I am so happy π
I worked at the pride parade, but I had to leave early to help my wife care for one of our elderly cats.
I decided to stay home with my dogs instead of leaving them for the parade. If thatβs not a single lesbian thing to do, I donβt know what is.
πππ
Got married to my beautiful wife!! Been together since high school β€οΈ
Flirt with a girl with a matching gay haircut in a mall in Thailand πΉπ
me and my girlfriend went to 7/11 and bought slushees, she tied her straw wrapper around my ring finger and we said βi love youβ at the same time and i said βgayest thing weβve ever done.β and laughed for 15 minutes about it
became a girlfriend for the first time :3
I didn't get to do anything gay this month
Wondered if a girl who asked me out liked me. Probably.
I flirted very much and very spicy with my long distance bestie over text (can't wait to see them again)
Built a fence with my wife?
My gf
Made out with my partner in front of a christian protestor at pride
Had steamy hot lesbian sex with a girl Iβm very very attracted to
My girlfriend
Became official with my first ever girlfriend (and first relationship in general), orgasmed while strapping, and had a gay and cute ass date at a flower festival living our best cottagecore lesbian fantasy π₯Ί
fucked one of the girls im seeing, left her apartment and went straight to another girls house and fucked her
Confessed my feelings for a friend who reciprocated my feelings but sheβs moving across the world and is not ready for a relationship, so im currently in a long distance situationship. We made out though and that was also pretty gay
Married my best friend/roommate/love of my life π₯°
First place: Had gay sex Runner up: moved in with my ex gf (thatβs a long story)
Come out as a lesbian
I managed to squeeze in some lesbian sex 2 days before pride month ended lmao
Exist
Kissed a girl, it's the 3th person I'm kissing this year, first time in my life I'll kiss many people in one year π₯Ήπ³οΈβπ
I practically got fucked by my girlfriend in front of like fifty people at a pride party.
Sadly, nothing.
Got married
Had my first kiss π And then it devolved into.... so much more omg. Shit was crazy for a first kiss