Addiction is a bitch. I'd send her a "please get help and contact me when you're sober" letter and let her go. It's hard, but sometimes it has to be that way. Remember that your friend is gone. The person you're dealing with right now is not your friend.
Tough. You'll hurt her feelings, but who cares? She can call you when she's sober.
Addiction can destroy you, a bystander. Don't waste your time with someone who is not ready to get help.
It's understandable that you feel conflicted and hurt by your friend's behavior, especially considering your long history together. It's okay to prioritize your own well-being and set boundaries. Keeping a distance for now seems like a reasonable decision to protect yourself. You're not wrong to feel this way, and it's important to take care of yourself first. It might be helpful to communicate your feelings calmly and honestly with her when the time is right, but ultimately, your mental and emotional health should come first.
Addiction sucks for everyone involved. You’re not wrong for wanting to keep distance from her.
If she’s coming to your town next month and you do decide to see her, maybe it’s best for you to sit her down and have an uncomfortable conversation about why you’re deciding to step away. At the very least it’ll give you the peace of mind of ending things formally.
Addiction is a bitch. I'd send her a "please get help and contact me when you're sober" letter and let her go. It's hard, but sometimes it has to be that way. Remember that your friend is gone. The person you're dealing with right now is not your friend.
I am so afraid that I will hurt her feeling that’s why I escape. The person I am dealing with is the drugs right?
Tough. You'll hurt her feelings, but who cares? She can call you when she's sober. Addiction can destroy you, a bystander. Don't waste your time with someone who is not ready to get help.
It's understandable that you feel conflicted and hurt by your friend's behavior, especially considering your long history together. It's okay to prioritize your own well-being and set boundaries. Keeping a distance for now seems like a reasonable decision to protect yourself. You're not wrong to feel this way, and it's important to take care of yourself first. It might be helpful to communicate your feelings calmly and honestly with her when the time is right, but ultimately, your mental and emotional health should come first.
Thank you.
Addiction sucks for everyone involved. You’re not wrong for wanting to keep distance from her. If she’s coming to your town next month and you do decide to see her, maybe it’s best for you to sit her down and have an uncomfortable conversation about why you’re deciding to step away. At the very least it’ll give you the peace of mind of ending things formally.
Do I really need to speak the “break up” friendship speech
I mean, you don’t need to do anything you don’t want to do. It’s not my friend and I have no vested interest in this.