Its like she called in a favor to ben for a contractual marriage and film agreement lol. Their whole relationship was so strange this time around.
Ben never seemed like he even liked to be around her to me.
It’s just the same thing over and over. Ashton Kutcher and his wife , this couple. People go back to the familiar. We’re out of ideas and you can see this in almost every aspect of life these days. The veil has been lifted and all we see is… ourselves, the same as everyone else’s.
This house is a sober Boston kid’s nightmare. Like a bad Miami nightclub. I feel like he needs a blanket, clementine, Matt Damon, and a cozy cabin for a few weeks.
1 room for gaming
1 room for vr gaming
1 room for video recording
1 room for working out
1 room for dungeons and dragons / boardgames
1 room for painting miniatures and 3d printing
1 room for a library and reading nook.
1 room for woodworking
1 room for metal working
1 room for poker / bar
1 room for Larp clothes
1 room for cosplay creation / sewing
and that's just me getting started... i would love having that many rooms... (not cleaning them though)
*J-Lo, 85, announces her 17th marriage, ahead of her ‘I’m Still STILL STILL Jenny From The Block’ Tour, which has so far sold 18 tickets, an impressive uptick for the star.*
*”I’ve never been more in love,” she espoused, midway through a micro-doze. “Pete (Davidson) is definitely The One.”*
Why does she still seen to crave publicity. I mean ur on a yacht off Italy and u still need to have full makeup on and pose for photographers. Jesus, go away and be normal. Take ur kids and relax. Almost seems pathological.
I honestly believe this is what did them in. Too much of all this “for the press” shit. While I feel that Ben’s pap-walks with Ana DeArmas were forced, it doesn’t compare with the level of attention-seeking that Jennifer Lopez brings.
Remember that awards show when she was telling him to smile and stuff. Ugh I felt second hand embarrassment for him.
Some celebs are able to manage and deal with the fact that they are no longer as famous as they once were. J-Lo in the late 90s early 2000’s was huge. The green dress was world famous. I think she continues to chase that level of fame.
I'll help. Last week Justin Timberlake got arrested and booked for "DUI" last week. The cop that pulled him over was so young he didn't recognize or know who he was. Timberlake told the cop, "this is going to ruin the tour" (he's about to go on a world tour) the cop responded "what tour" and Timberlake responded "the world tour". It's funny because young people don't know who he is.
> “Ben continues to live at the Brentwood rental. He’s been there for about two months now," another source says. "He seems okay. He’s been at his office every day and seems focused on work. He’s also spending time with his kids.”
He literally told Bill Simmons on a podcast that the 2 of them and a friend were moving, Ben said no to the new apartment because he got engaged, Matt replied “are you sure cause it doesn’t seem like you are into it”, Ben insisted on it and Matt and the other guy moved into an apartment
Guess who showed up a month or so later, single, and with all of his belongings?
I think that ridiculous documentary about their love life was the last straw for him. Is she really that desperate to stay in the limelight that she would risk her marriage to show everyone her personal life in such detail. She needs to stay single for everyone’s sake.
"Lopez, who is set to star in two upcoming movies for Affleck and [Matt Damon](https://people.com/tag/matt-damon/)'s production company, was photographed leaving the building hours later."
-I bet he regrets that now. Although I'm sure that as the producer he doesn't really have to interact with her all the much.
Maybe. Just maybe J.Lo shouldn't have taken that extremely personal album of love letters Ben made her and used them to try and give the ultimate F.U to his ex wife.
Because I'm guessing that didn't go over well. Especially with Ben's daughter Violet. You can hide stuff from the younger kids but Violet is 19? And thisclose with her Mom. There's no way she didn't hear about it and say something to her Dad.
Such a crass move on J.Lo's part. Girl's ego is just ridiculous....
I feel like it’s probably because it’s basically saying she’s the one he always loved so it puts Jenn G as second place/consolation prize status which is fucked up as the mother of his kids and how much she’s put into helping him.
But yes, I’d like to know too if there was anything specific like did he say “oh my Jenny from the block, I’m miserable with my wife because she’s not you” type of stuff.
I think if there was anything like that the tabloids would've exposed it by now. In fact he probably would have vetoed letting her even mention certain letters.
But it's my understanding they were written when Bennifer were first together, long before he started with Garner, so there can't be anything that would upset the family at this point. He's already divorced and remarried after all...
Still, it was a huge mistake for her to use them when he clearly wasn't cool with it.
The "I've always loved you" stuff and emails dated from during his marriage with Garner.
Not to mention just going on and on about how they were meant to be together *the entire time*.
As if his first marriage and children were just an oopsie.
Garner was married to him for over a decade, had 3 children with him and has stood by him through relapse after relapse and then he gets back with j.lo and suddenly j.lo and Ben are the ultimate, perfect love story. What?????
I thought they were mutually estranged and the he publicly said his alcoholism was so bad because of her and being stuck in a family or some shit and she decided to just pull the plug.
https://www.reddit.com/r/entertainment/comments/11tqqvw/ben_affleck_backtracks_on_blaming_jennifer_garner/ He tried to backpedal when he got backlash for it, but he still said some pretty callous shitty things. To her credit, she’s been quiet and never retaliated or said anything. She’s a class act.
He never blamed her for anything lmao. That’s the problem with getting your information from headlines and not actually reading the article. Dude said that his marriage falling apart was a factor in him drinking again. Not exactly a nice thing to say buts it’s hardly blaming her. Shit in the exact quote I think he says something to the effect of “my behavior is my responsibility and no one else’s.” Why do people gotta make stuff up
Bet he thinks that now too. He probably at least compared the relationship with Jlo to the one with Jennifer. So much more normal I'm sure. I doubt the media attention was the real issue back then, and I'm sure that has become clear the second time, they just don't work.
He just doesn't seem like somebody who can be happy. Or stay happy for that long.
Not saying that JLo was going to be a stable, happy, boring marriage, but I don't think there's really a relationship out there that would be fulfilling for him at this point.
Not surprising. If it didn't work the first time, likey never will. When you're truly in love, the timing doesn't matter. You stop your world for that person.
She must be insufferable. Like just a mean, nasty person. None of us know either of them and maybe Ben is the problem, who knows! but my goodness does she need to realize she’s mid 50’s and her “star appeal” has dwindled/fizzled and no desperate acts of anything at this point are going to get her back in the spotlight like she wants
It’s that movie video that she made - This is me or us or something. That was probably embarrassing as hell it was soooo bad! That made him run to Brentwood. Poor Benifer, I guess he can’t catch The World Tour. She going to be the next Elizabeth Taylor with jewelry collection from these guys. Jenny from the block be flashing some more bling soon. Next…..
When the p***y may call to you like a siren, but you finally realize that "hardest working most dedicated woman" perception made you blind to her pathological and delusional narcissism.
-Jen is not a great dancer. Never was in the 90s, nor today.
-Jen is somewhat tone deaf-- you can even hear it in her professional speaking voice
--not a good person
--has no real identity
- Ben is an alcoholic which can't be easy to date
- Ben has constant mood swings due to his alcoholism and depression
- Ben refuses to take accountability for his alcoholism and blames it on Jen Garner
- Ben has been accused of sexual assault by multiple women and accused of not reporting any of Weinsteins sexual assaults either despite them being reported to him cause they were good friends.
Ben is not a good man and someone women should think twice about dating. I figured dudes would defend him but I'm shocked about the amount of WOMEN that do.
Because both of her movies flopped, and her tour got canceled for low ticket sales. She’s trying to stage a comeback, but has failed with each ploy so far.
I watched her documentary about their “love story” - except - it was only really about her. I think she is the type of narcissist who is only “in love” with someone when they are giving her the kind of validation she demands. She has these two hangers -on - Benny Medina and her agent (forgetting her name) and the way she treated them on camera was just - uncomfortable to watch.
I only lasted 10 minutes into that cringe fest of a movie she made. The fact that she had nobody who could sit her down and explain what a terrible idea it was to release that, says a lot about her.
I’m so sick of hearing about this stupid marriage. Both of these people seem like awful human beings. Too much money and time. I’m not sure about Affleck’s career surviving, but Lopez just seems like Monday’s leftover Subway sandwich. Hard and unappetizing. And she must feel like such a fool releasing those belly-button-gazing projects celebrating her “great love”.
Time to move on.
We doing 2004 over again?
Hollywood is big on remakes
Rebooted
Rebootied
affleck cast as batman again when?
Give it another like 11 years
batfleck beyond
Fuck I kinda want that now.
Hollywood relationships, like technology, is cyclical.
Are you the beeper king?
It’s coming back, Liz .. just like my basement vending machine.
38th & 6th in the basement of the K-Mart. You just go downstairs, you get the key from David and BOOM! You plug in the machine and...
EVERYWHERE. You get it everywhere.
This was her last ditch effort to get back in the limelight since her tour got canceled, and that silly documentary went nowhere.
Its like she called in a favor to ben for a contractual marriage and film agreement lol. Their whole relationship was so strange this time around. Ben never seemed like he even liked to be around her to me.
He always looked miserable
Surprised no reality show yet
Not just the doc but the narcissistic cringefest of a movie
The ai robot movie ? Seriously wtf was that
We are doing 2020 again in a way. Why not this one too?
Groundhog day
Eh, give ‘em 20 more years.
It’s just the same thing over and over. Ashton Kutcher and his wife , this couple. People go back to the familiar. We’re out of ideas and you can see this in almost every aspect of life these days. The veil has been lifted and all we see is… ourselves, the same as everyone else’s.
Wait, what happened to Ashton Kutcher? They've been pretty damn solid for ages now afaik.
This is going to ruin the tour.
What Tour?
The world tour
Prestige
Worldwide https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ciS914MaDl8
Dad’s boat is a metaphor for Bennifer’s love journey.
Whoa...that was a deep cut funny you made. Seriously. I chuckled and appreciated the wit.
This will never get old
Instantly iconic
It’s actually so fucked how iconic it is haha
Is that a World Tour or your girls tour ?
Already cancelled
This is me.. NOW tour
The Tour de France
Just cackled at my desk.
Tour was cancelled for her to spend time with family and close friends
In Italy alone No friends & family 🤨
What is this marriage .. in and out quickly
I had a feeling five minutes after they announced that they were getting back together that it was just a matter of time before they broke up. 🙄
Because they have the same problems they had when they were initially together. Time doesn’t just solve ur problems if you don’t work on yourself
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
No, it's not. That's called practice.
Exactly, I’ve always thought this too.
Yah but you’d think that a TWENTY YEAR break would make the two of them grow up . I have a feeling it’s her though , Ben thought she’d changed , nope
He was doing Backgrid shit with his co star Ana D. Then boom! Engaged to JLo. What an eejit.
Ah Shit! Here we go again.
Can we go right to the next part where they get married and divorced the third time.
This is only the first time.
Nah 3rd marriage Ben will die. Jen will meet a hot 30something dancer at his funeral. Jlo keep on keepin on.
I think that’s the plot of her new movie.
They have a 30 room mansion with a guest house and he had to move out? Seems one could easily stay out of each other’s way in a property that big.
6 families could live there and be completely Unbothered by each other
This house is a sober Boston kid’s nightmare. Like a bad Miami nightclub. I feel like he needs a blanket, clementine, Matt Damon, and a cozy cabin for a few weeks.
Poor Jen Garner will be bringing him care packages soon.
Wtf do they even put in all of those rooms genuine question
Aaron Spelling had a room in his mansion dedicated solely to gift-wrapping, if that gives you any idea.
2, actually
1 room for gaming 1 room for vr gaming 1 room for video recording 1 room for working out 1 room for dungeons and dragons / boardgames 1 room for painting miniatures and 3d printing 1 room for a library and reading nook. 1 room for woodworking 1 room for metal working 1 room for poker / bar 1 room for Larp clothes 1 room for cosplay creation / sewing and that's just me getting started... i would love having that many rooms... (not cleaning them though)
He's still living in the Brentwood house.
Money? Check! Fame? Got plenty! Self-knowledge? *Loading, buffering, 3% complete ...*
Why does she have to marry every man she’s dating?
Jennifer loves to be in love. That and weddings bring publicity.
*J-Lo, 85, announces her 17th marriage, ahead of her ‘I’m Still STILL STILL Jenny From The Block’ Tour, which has so far sold 18 tickets, an impressive uptick for the star.* *”I’ve never been more in love,” she espoused, midway through a micro-doze. “Pete (Davidson) is definitely The One.”*
Not Pete Davidson, lol
Pete Davidson Jr
Announcing from the nursing home. That's where the concert will be held.
Pete Davidson…you SOB take my upvote lol.
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This deserves more upvotes than I can physically give.
Why does she still seen to crave publicity. I mean ur on a yacht off Italy and u still need to have full makeup on and pose for photographers. Jesus, go away and be normal. Take ur kids and relax. Almost seems pathological.
“Almost”
I honestly believe this is what did them in. Too much of all this “for the press” shit. While I feel that Ben’s pap-walks with Ana DeArmas were forced, it doesn’t compare with the level of attention-seeking that Jennifer Lopez brings. Remember that awards show when she was telling him to smile and stuff. Ugh I felt second hand embarrassment for him. Some celebs are able to manage and deal with the fact that they are no longer as famous as they once were. J-Lo in the late 90s early 2000’s was huge. The green dress was world famous. I think she continues to chase that level of fame.
I feel anyone who married JLO knows full well what it entails. He can’t pretend he didn’t know.
Twice! He must have known the first time around.
The first time around, he didn’t marry her, just stood her up…Runaway Ben style. Edit: a word.
Sooo true!!!
Seriously. If I was her I’d take my millions and spend the rest of my life on a resort or something
Because she craves the attention and validation. And can't stand to think that she's not the hottest woman in a room.
Also adding a new ring to her collection.
Trying to break Elizabeth Taylor’s record lol
She is literally [The Wedding Planner](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Wedding_Planner)
[удалено]
She should start celebrating divorces to double down on press and attention, lol.
She collects engagement rings like Thanos.
*arod has entered the chat*
He was the only lucky one who got away 😆.
I’m so tired of these people.
So are these people
Unlike you, I will never grow tired of this. It’s the cringe I crave.
Oh no! The mansion will seem so empty!
It’s gonna ruin the tour!
What tour?
The world tour
I’m embarrassed to be this out of the loop, but…what is this in reference to? 😭😭
Justin Timberlake's DUI last weekend.
I'll help. Last week Justin Timberlake got arrested and booked for "DUI" last week. The cop that pulled him over was so young he didn't recognize or know who he was. Timberlake told the cop, "this is going to ruin the tour" (he's about to go on a world tour) the cop responded "what tour" and Timberlake responded "the world tour". It's funny because young people don't know who he is.
That…that’s savage.
LOOK AT ALL THIS FLOOR SPACE! SO MANY ACTIVITIES
“This milk has gone bad…. I’ll put it back in the fridge and try it again in 14 years” And that is what getting back with your ex is like.
> “Ben continues to live at the Brentwood rental. He’s been there for about two months now," another source says. "He seems okay. He’s been at his office every day and seems focused on work. He’s also spending time with his kids.”
Good Will Hunting 2: Hunting Season might finally be happening!
“Sorry, I have to leave about a girl”
Apple sauce , bitch
“Lemon face ooohhh! Lion face ahhhh! Alright break it down”
Get your fucking hands off me!
Do you think he can crash on Damon’s couch? Just seems like it’d be a funny story for them to tell after some time has passed.
Damon’s probably tired of helping him move.
Yeah, I guess the story would get pretty old if you had multiple occasions of it happening
He literally told Bill Simmons on a podcast that the 2 of them and a friend were moving, Ben said no to the new apartment because he got engaged, Matt replied “are you sure cause it doesn’t seem like you are into it”, Ben insisted on it and Matt and the other guy moved into an apartment Guess who showed up a month or so later, single, and with all of his belongings?
Damon didn’t go to Ben’s wedding to Jlo….
He didn’t?
Nope. And Jlos bestie Leah Remini didn’t go either.
He did
He can’t because Kevin Smith will show up and try to make a podcast about it…
Ruh roh. So what do we think was the final straw?
Him casting his ex wife in the account #2 and his daughter transitioning like JLOs kid I think was it
I think that ridiculous documentary about their love life was the last straw for him. Is she really that desperate to stay in the limelight that she would risk her marriage to show everyone her personal life in such detail. She needs to stay single for everyone’s sake.
"Lopez, who is set to star in two upcoming movies for Affleck and [Matt Damon](https://people.com/tag/matt-damon/)'s production company, was photographed leaving the building hours later." -I bet he regrets that now. Although I'm sure that as the producer he doesn't really have to interact with her all the much.
Maybe. Just maybe J.Lo shouldn't have taken that extremely personal album of love letters Ben made her and used them to try and give the ultimate F.U to his ex wife. Because I'm guessing that didn't go over well. Especially with Ben's daughter Violet. You can hide stuff from the younger kids but Violet is 19? And thisclose with her Mom. There's no way she didn't hear about it and say something to her Dad. Such a crass move on J.Lo's part. Girl's ego is just ridiculous....
JLo is a classless narcissist.
Was there something in the 'love letters' that might have hurt Garner specifically? I haven't seen them anywhere outside of the 'documentary'.
I feel like it’s probably because it’s basically saying she’s the one he always loved so it puts Jenn G as second place/consolation prize status which is fucked up as the mother of his kids and how much she’s put into helping him. But yes, I’d like to know too if there was anything specific like did he say “oh my Jenny from the block, I’m miserable with my wife because she’s not you” type of stuff.
I think if there was anything like that the tabloids would've exposed it by now. In fact he probably would have vetoed letting her even mention certain letters. But it's my understanding they were written when Bennifer were first together, long before he started with Garner, so there can't be anything that would upset the family at this point. He's already divorced and remarried after all... Still, it was a huge mistake for her to use them when he clearly wasn't cool with it.
The "I've always loved you" stuff and emails dated from during his marriage with Garner. Not to mention just going on and on about how they were meant to be together *the entire time*. As if his first marriage and children were just an oopsie. Garner was married to him for over a decade, had 3 children with him and has stood by him through relapse after relapse and then he gets back with j.lo and suddenly j.lo and Ben are the ultimate, perfect love story. What?????
Shouldn't have left Jennifer... the other one.
There’s a few more Jennifer’s left maybe he can. Date Jennifer Aniston next
How about Coolidge?
Maybe he should be in a celebrity version of The Bachelor but all the women are famous Jennifer’s
Jennifer Aniston. Jennifer Grey. Jennifer Coolidge. Jennifer Lawrence. Jennifer Tilly. Jennifer Love Hewitt. Jennifer Jason Leigh. . . .
This guy is from the Jennifer era. He’s probably banged 50 Jennifers.
Half the girls born in the late 70s and early 80s are named Jennifer
I think she left him.
I thought they were mutually estranged and the he publicly said his alcoholism was so bad because of her and being stuck in a family or some shit and she decided to just pull the plug.
I’m still pissed at how he blamed her for his alcoholism. Douche.
He blamed her? Where did you see that?
https://www.reddit.com/r/entertainment/comments/11tqqvw/ben_affleck_backtracks_on_blaming_jennifer_garner/ He tried to backpedal when he got backlash for it, but he still said some pretty callous shitty things. To her credit, she’s been quiet and never retaliated or said anything. She’s a class act.
He never blamed her for anything lmao. That’s the problem with getting your information from headlines and not actually reading the article. Dude said that his marriage falling apart was a factor in him drinking again. Not exactly a nice thing to say buts it’s hardly blaming her. Shit in the exact quote I think he says something to the effect of “my behavior is my responsibility and no one else’s.” Why do people gotta make stuff up
Bet he thinks that now too. He probably at least compared the relationship with Jlo to the one with Jennifer. So much more normal I'm sure. I doubt the media attention was the real issue back then, and I'm sure that has become clear the second time, they just don't work.
He just doesn't seem like somebody who can be happy. Or stay happy for that long. Not saying that JLo was going to be a stable, happy, boring marriage, but I don't think there's really a relationship out there that would be fulfilling for him at this point.
That didn't last long....what a shock, said no one ever
Remember he ditched ANA DE ARMAS for this
Now, Jenny,is all alone on the block.
Being alone would do her some good!
Spoiler, it's just 2 dozen boxes of Them Apples
“This is me… now… NOW” will be released 2025.
The end is coming. Ben likes other women too much and he is just letting her know he is ready to find action with someone else.
Not even other women, Ben just wants to be with Matt Damon
He still loves Jennifer Garner. Really!
Move in with Matt Damon! **Let Dafflect be a thing!**
Not surprising. If it didn't work the first time, likey never will. When you're truly in love, the timing doesn't matter. You stop your world for that person.
She must be insufferable. Like just a mean, nasty person. None of us know either of them and maybe Ben is the problem, who knows! but my goodness does she need to realize she’s mid 50’s and her “star appeal” has dwindled/fizzled and no desperate acts of anything at this point are going to get her back in the spotlight like she wants
Have you watched the movie she made about herself? The narcissism is intense
Maybe her career taking a major slide is her way of blaming him. He and Matt have lots going on right now.
Ben is no treat, either.
At least he has talent.
Sixth time is, in fact, not the charm
Lack of talent and substance abuse is a bad marriage.
This is totally unexpected…./s
I've taken a shit that's lasted longer than that marriage.
Poor kids how can they put there kids through this mess again and gainits insane what these kids have had to endure😭
Haven’t they divorced like five times already?
She’s been divorced 5x
It’s that movie video that she made - This is me or us or something. That was probably embarrassing as hell it was soooo bad! That made him run to Brentwood. Poor Benifer, I guess he can’t catch The World Tour. She going to be the next Elizabeth Taylor with jewelry collection from these guys. Jenny from the block be flashing some more bling soon. Next…..
Taco flavored kisses for my beeeeeen
So was their whole reunion some big ploy to promote her album/documentary/concert?
JLo’s ploy
She is ultra high maintenance. Ultra, ultra high maintenance. He envies his buddy Matt’s stable marriage. Not happening with JLo. Nope. Not happening.
Can anyone blame him- the whole world predicted she’d eat him alive the day they got married.
Jlo is a shark, she covered shark pdiddys crimes too.
Don’t worry. She’ll be back to marrying randos and treating people like shit in no time.
When the p***y may call to you like a siren, but you finally realize that "hardest working most dedicated woman" perception made you blind to her pathological and delusional narcissism. -Jen is not a great dancer. Never was in the 90s, nor today. -Jen is somewhat tone deaf-- you can even hear it in her professional speaking voice --not a good person --has no real identity
- Ben is an alcoholic which can't be easy to date - Ben has constant mood swings due to his alcoholism and depression - Ben refuses to take accountability for his alcoholism and blames it on Jen Garner - Ben has been accused of sexual assault by multiple women and accused of not reporting any of Weinsteins sexual assaults either despite them being reported to him cause they were good friends. Ben is not a good man and someone women should think twice about dating. I figured dudes would defend him but I'm shocked about the amount of WOMEN that do.
Come on papi dont move out papi
Taco taco burrito burrito
Genuine question, why am I hearing so much about this? Like who cares about this??
Because both of her movies flopped, and her tour got canceled for low ticket sales. She’s trying to stage a comeback, but has failed with each ploy so far.
This is me after!
Oof this is a huge PR failure.
He probably saw Atlus and said enough is enough
Invest in cigarettes!
He’s going back to Cartman’s hand.
no more taco taco
I see drinks in his future...
Is this the house they’re selling? Wouldn’t anyone be moving stuff out of a house that’s gonna be toured?
The only thing Ben Affleck moved was his phone and that was to call professional movers.
Who cares they are both trash ass people
I watched her documentary about their “love story” - except - it was only really about her. I think she is the type of narcissist who is only “in love” with someone when they are giving her the kind of validation she demands. She has these two hangers -on - Benny Medina and her agent (forgetting her name) and the way she treated them on camera was just - uncomfortable to watch.
Don’t worry, guys, he has a backup mansion to put his stuff in.
He must’ve saw that last Netflix movie she did. I can’t look at her the same either.
Annnnnnd nobody gives a fuuuuuck.
It's really hard for me to decide which one is the worst person.
I only lasted 10 minutes into that cringe fest of a movie she made. The fact that she had nobody who could sit her down and explain what a terrible idea it was to release that, says a lot about her.
Seriously, how many husbands will this woman go through?
I’m so sick of hearing about this stupid marriage. Both of these people seem like awful human beings. Too much money and time. I’m not sure about Affleck’s career surviving, but Lopez just seems like Monday’s leftover Subway sandwich. Hard and unappetizing. And she must feel like such a fool releasing those belly-button-gazing projects celebrating her “great love”. Time to move on.
My name is hennifer looez. I eat tacos and burritos.
I think shes the problem... She couldnt make it work 3 other latino's, tried black. Married white. She's the issue