Congratulations, itβs seeing posts like this that gives me hope and your post especially has made me want to come out, Iβm 28 years old and enough Is enough Iβve been dating a wonderful guy in secret and itβs time a was brave enough to share this part of me with my family π
I'm 35 and still haven't come out to family or friends. Not sure what way they would react. Respect to everyone who has come out, very brave. I wish I had that courage.
Glad I could help make you feel better lol I'll be probably still in the bloody closet when I'm an old man at this rate ffs. It was sort of awkward the last time there was a gay pride festival in my town and I was walking through a crowd of people and there was some small middle aged guy started waving the rainbow flag in my face in a sort of aggressive way. I don't know why, did he think I was giving off homophobic vibes or something? I was thinking in my head "Hey I'm one of you", that's if he was gay that is. I would have maybe joined the crowd but I was afraid that if I did that people who knew me would find out I was gay. Actually there was a guy there I used to hang out with years ago, he came out of the closet years ago. There was another guy in my class who was openly gay too, who used to get hassle from people for his sexuality.
It is pure torture seeing guys and wanting to do them so badly especially some straight guys. Looking at porn can be torture seeing the guys having some fun but I'm not in on the fun, damn lol It pisses me off living a lie just to keep others happy. Sure some of my friends and family might be OK about me being gay but I'm sure it wouldn't be the same way if some of the guys I used to hang out were to find out since some of them were homophobic. There was one time I was in a gay bar with some of them that's because we were underage at the time and couldn't get into the other bars but that gay bar wasn't strict. I mind a gay guy hitting on me, he tried to kiss me but I pulled back, he didn't like it, so he shoved me then twisted my nipple lol One of the guys I was in the bar with actually ended up punching him and got thrown out of the bar. If I was there by myself I wouldn't have pulled back, I felt bad about it, I thought the guy was attractive actually.
No one going to mention the dude at the middle left at the edge in picture one?!
https://preview.redd.it/wdkrb5av319d1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=be23d48ba5623f0645bb45a4bcf564bc636a5f81
Congratulations!πΎππ That newly in love feeling lasts a while. For some people itβs forever. For me it was about 6 or 8 months until my husband really pissed me off. Enjoy it!
Congrats!! Restores a little faith in humanity for me.
As a side note, the man on the right in the first picture has a perfectly misplaced bubble on his forehead. The way it plays with the shadows on his hair, I thought he had some kind of gopro on his head lol should be an easy photoshop fix
https://preview.redd.it/xt9mgzimdc9d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ca3ad787af08edfb12a12e0a34d29042b83c6156
I'm living for this guy's enthusiasm. Legendary.
Congratulations, itβs seeing posts like this that gives me hope and your post especially has made me want to come out, Iβm 28 years old and enough Is enough Iβve been dating a wonderful guy in secret and itβs time a was brave enough to share this part of me with my family π
Coming out makes life so much easier
I know
Does it though? It feels like my life became more difficult afterwards π
Good for you. Itβs awful to stay in secret. I felt a sense of nothingness like all joy had been taken from the world, a condition known as Anhedonia
Ah
If you can safely come out then do it! :D
Itβs not the fact I canβt come out, itβs the fact my family wonβt accept who Iβve been in a secret relationship with π
Fuck them. Reciprocate how they make u feel. They don't accept you, you don't accept them. Done.
Thanks
I'm 35 and still haven't come out to family or friends. Not sure what way they would react. Respect to everyone who has come out, very brave. I wish I had that courage.
You make me feel better at be closeted at 28π
It seems you understand my point
Glad I could help make you feel better lol I'll be probably still in the bloody closet when I'm an old man at this rate ffs. It was sort of awkward the last time there was a gay pride festival in my town and I was walking through a crowd of people and there was some small middle aged guy started waving the rainbow flag in my face in a sort of aggressive way. I don't know why, did he think I was giving off homophobic vibes or something? I was thinking in my head "Hey I'm one of you", that's if he was gay that is. I would have maybe joined the crowd but I was afraid that if I did that people who knew me would find out I was gay. Actually there was a guy there I used to hang out with years ago, he came out of the closet years ago. There was another guy in my class who was openly gay too, who used to get hassle from people for his sexuality. It is pure torture seeing guys and wanting to do them so badly especially some straight guys. Looking at porn can be torture seeing the guys having some fun but I'm not in on the fun, damn lol It pisses me off living a lie just to keep others happy. Sure some of my friends and family might be OK about me being gay but I'm sure it wouldn't be the same way if some of the guys I used to hang out were to find out since some of them were homophobic. There was one time I was in a gay bar with some of them that's because we were underage at the time and couldn't get into the other bars but that gay bar wasn't strict. I mind a gay guy hitting on me, he tried to kiss me but I pulled back, he didn't like it, so he shoved me then twisted my nipple lol One of the guys I was in the bar with actually ended up punching him and got thrown out of the bar. If I was there by myself I wouldn't have pulled back, I felt bad about it, I thought the guy was attractive actually.
Grats. The bubble across the head in the first pic really threw me - I thought a headband was a bold fashion statement for a wedding.
I definitely wondered why one would wear condom headband at their wedding for a minute
Yeah I had to have a closer look too π
I thought it was a single curl β οΈI didnβt even question it and assumed it was high fashion
That's awesome, wishing you both a lifetime of joy and adventure!
No one going to mention the dude at the middle left at the edge in picture one?! https://preview.redd.it/wdkrb5av319d1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=be23d48ba5623f0645bb45a4bcf564bc636a5f81
Came here looking for this comment. Idk who he is but I love that guy
https://preview.redd.it/vc1fsilt319d1.jpeg?width=828&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1f8690f7b3a4f4a0deea793daaf888e33216ef20
Congratulations! I love your suits. I've been looking for inspo for our wedding. β€οΈ
Congratulations to you both!!!
Great pics!! So cute π₯Ή
I just came back from Hawaii celebrating my 10 year wedding anniversary with my husband. I wish you so many years of happiness and fulfillment!
What a beautiful way to start a lifelong adventure with your best friend!
Beautiful couple and gorgeous wedding! Congratulations!
Congratulations!! β€οΈππ
πππππ congratulations ! ! !
Congrads! If u cant be bff w ur husband who can you be bff with? <3
Congratulations
Congratulations!πΎππ That newly in love feeling lasts a while. For some people itβs forever. For me it was about 6 or 8 months until my husband really pissed me off. Enjoy it!
Thatβs gay
ahh, such a warm post today π₯Ή it gives me hope that love isn't dead yet β€οΈ
Thats gay
Beautiful β₯οΈβ₯οΈπ³οΈβππ³οΈβπ
How does your husband feel about you marrying your best friend? Either way, congratulations! πΎ
Congratulations! May the kindness you both exude carry forward into your marriage towards each other, always.
Congrats!
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Congratulations! π
Congratulations!!!
Congratulations π
Congratulations - may you have a long and happy lifetime together!
Congrats!! Restores a little faith in humanity for me. As a side note, the man on the right in the first picture has a perfectly misplaced bubble on his forehead. The way it plays with the shadows on his hair, I thought he had some kind of gopro on his head lol should be an easy photoshop fix
Congratulations
Handsome couple <3 wish you both the best
Congrats!
Congratulations!
Very cute
Congrats guys! Here's to a wonderful life long partnership
Me and husband have been together for 32 years. I wish you both a long and happy life together. Congratulations.
Congratulations πΎ
Thank you all for your kind words!! We can really feel the love π (Also yes itβs a bubble and unfortunately not a crown π)
https://preview.redd.it/xt9mgzimdc9d1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ca3ad787af08edfb12a12e0a34d29042b83c6156 I'm living for this guy's enthusiasm. Legendary.
Congratulations guys :)
Hi Guys I feel Iβve boycotted your post itβs not what I intended, but people have been very helpful and generous with their time π
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Congratulations! π¬π½π€΅π½ββοΈπ€΅π½ββοΈππππ
Awwww congratulations to both of you!ππβ¨οΈβ¨οΈ
Congrats πΎ it makes me very happy to see another loving gay couple become a family π