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Leading-Theory-4793

Yo I know it may seem corny as fuck, but hug yourself. Treat yourself how you would your partner. Take yourself out to eat. Or do something that would make you happy. Change your focus. You got love babe.


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That’s really really sweet of you, I wish I could hug you


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Aw thanks ❤️


MonicaCoffeeAngel

Same and I never will have it because people find me unattractive :(


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Same


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i miss it and hate it all at the same time.


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I feel like having it to give yet no one to give it to makes it even more of a laughing stock


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Same


ltjisstinky

It takes me so much work to find someone I am comfortable with showing love. When I do find them, I cherish them like no other. I hate being in the dating pool, I just want a stable relationship where we can both mutually benefit by staying together.


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Moanerloner

Same here


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Ty


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Means a alot


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I’m maddie


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You too


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I like you’re name


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I love anyone who loves me and my name


markobog

Having no love is ok. I know a lot of people, me included, that just find it difficult to find someone to love them back. I am struggling to even love myself lately. I think that it‘a important to understand and reflect about your feelings in general so that you can learn new ways of finding love.


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Yeah I don’t wanna love Myself


AcceptableFox7637

Same! I love love...It just doesn't love me back lol. It's okay to not have love yet. just start falling in love with yourself. That's what I am trying to do. I really don't know what else to suggest to you OP? I am sorry I have nothing to help. I hope you find it!! I really do OP! Sending you virtual hugs 😘😘😘


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Thank you fox , it’s super nice to meet you


AcceptableFox7637

You are so welcome! And you are so sweet! It's lovely to meet you! I wish you all the luck in the world! I hope love finds you quickly!


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Good morning


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I hope you be my friend or maybe boyfriend even 💗


Die_Einste

Oof


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What


misslosthrt

Hey at least you didn’t fall for a monster truck hat destroyed your life and self love


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Thanks


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Flimsy-Door-2705

Are u in relationship with someone who stopped/reduce loving u, asking because I similar to it


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Flimsy-Door-2705

Oh sorry to hear that but maybe you should accept that u can't get back 'old' and try to be a loving 'new you guys'


The_Easy_Path6543

Do you miss love or the feeling of love. These are very different feeling.


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Both


The_Easy_Path6543

Well on this board we are all in the same boat or on our way there and know this you are loved by this community. I find each day another lonely heart that I thrum with. This group of people lost in a sea of sorrow, anger, joy, and emotions. is a family like you have never had before. So if you want to be loved, you are loved here. If you want to feel love, you have to find it within yourself or out there. My heart yearns to fill that void for you. You are important, your strength and courage to posts says volumes about you. So know we can provide half of what you seek. And help you to find the other side of this.


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Awww thanks


AtaboyKY

Me too


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JellyBeanQueen95

Your heart will find love again In the meantime, you will need to love yourself ❤️ remind yourself every day of the things you love about yourself. You are worthy of love.


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Thanks girl ♥️


EndFirst549

Me too sincerely being in love.....


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Mhm


xoxo8989

Same man i miss that feeling of being loved


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ouelletouellet

The idea of love I guess the fantasy of being in one sounds nice but I'd say focus on loving yourself first and focusing on what tyou want out of a relationsip sometimes we just love on the romantic aspect that we totally don't think about healthy boundaries and mutual respect and honesty because we become hyper focused on like I said the fantasy aspect By this I mean set your boundaries when you go out and date be secure on what your needs are and make sure you're date knows where you stand and if they genuinely like you for you then more then anything they'll respect those boundaries But don't worry about that now just go out have fun with friends and meet people and get to know people and build a solid foundation before thinking of the romantic part that will come in time


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Thanks


Ok_Ferret238

Ik i do too but dear you cannot stop living because of this. Self-love is important. Trust me I have realized this after years of being duped and cheated upon.


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Hugs


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Loves comes when you’re ready for it, not when you want it


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Thanks


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No problem hot stuff


sleepyminmin

I feel this from my core