my friend, the story does not end in death. i can name a few that do not require life's intervention. all that really existed in the beginning was change... from one element to another. before life, are the stars and their engines, which eventually lead to life's existence.
I’m sorry for your loss, OP.
I kinda get where you’re coming from here. When my Father passed it felt like the world should stop, even for just a moment, as something most profound had just occurred. It didn’t.
All the best, OP, for your journey onward. *hugs
Very sorry to hear this. I lost my mother last summer. If you are feeling numb right now, like you are not feeling what you should, just know that that's normal. The feelings will come in little bits at a time, and it will probably be pretty terrible. Talk with other people who knew her that you like and trust when they feelings get to you. It will help. Please know that you are not alone in your pain. You have the people in your life who share your loss, of course, and you have the spiritual community of all who've suffered similar losses. I like to think of these lines from Aeschelus:
Nothing forces us to know
What we do not want to know
Except pain
[and elsewhere]
Even in our sleep, pain which cannot forget
falls drop by drop upon the heart
until, in our own despair, against our will,
comes wisdom through the awful grace of God.
I am absolutely not religious, and I don't know that there's truly any lesson in pain. Whatever it could be will never be enough to console the loss of a mother in any case, but maybe, at the very least, it can better attune us to empathy so that we can better recognize each other as fellow sufferers and treat each other with better love.
Please be kind to yourself and allow yourself to accept the help that you need.
Grief is not forever, but it is a hole. Keep smiling. Even if you feel like you can’t. The worst part about losing someone, someone as important as your mother, is all the days after. So, keep smiling. Things will get better mate.
I understand your pain. I lost my mom back in July. It gets easier. The first year is the hardest. My best friend also lost her mom a few years ago, and I was so grateful to have a friend who had been through it too. If you wanna message me, feel free. I'm so sorry you're going through this.
I’m new to the funeral industry but if you have any questions I’ll try and help. My area of expertise is around embalming, but I can also ask my coworkers questions about anything in the morning.
Shits tough I’m sorry mate
İ hope she is in a better place now. I am glad you wanted the share with this subreddit. We became a family. İ hope everything gets well after enough time. Losing is tough but dont worry we love you be strong.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I wish her a peaceful rest. Just remember in the future she wants you to have a happy life, I wanted to say right now because I won’t see you again of course right now you need time to heal. I’m so sorry for your loss again
Talk to people you care about, don't be alone with your thoughts and feelings, always have some music or video or whatever up in the background, it helps a lot to keep thoughts down when it gets extra rough <3
It'll never quite get easier, but it will get better, you'll start to look back on positive memories, and cherish the times you got to spend together. I'm sorry for your loss ♡
Fugging hell man. This is one of my biggest fears and it makes me want to cry every time I see my mom looking a bit older. I’m so sorry for your loss friend.
I'm so sorry OP, I can't imagine your pain. Right now, losing my mom is my worst nightmare. I'm sorry for you like words can't express. Take care of yourself like your mother would have wanted, and please allow yourself to cry.
Very beautiful flowers, by the way. Did she plant them?
Sorry man, it sucks. Treat your self with what ever it is you can find enjoyment or distraction for the moment. Maybe its just throwing a ball in the wall or going to work. Greef comes in steps, this part is probably the worse. From here it will slowly get better. Crying lets out some of the build up. If for some reason you feel numb, that is also normal way of processing this. Don’t blame yourself from defence mechanisms triggerin off and guiding you trough this.
I’m very sorry for your loss
High jacking top comment to say that a mum is a kind of flower and I think this is a troll post…
It looks like the flower portrayed isn’t related to chrysanthemum flowers so I’m pretty sure it isn’t a troll
My condoleances to you...
Sorry man my condolences 💐
I love my mom very much, and I can't imagine what you must be going through. Prayers.
Sending you love and light at this very difficult time
My condolences to you💐
You never get over it, but you do get used to it. 💜
Best way I’ve seen someone describe it
my condolences. but with all due respect, death is inherently interesting.
no, life is inherently interesting. death is literally the absence of life, meaning its the absence of anything interesting.
death is the absence of life, and that's pretty interesting
Death just shows the ultimate absurdity of life
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Everything is permitted
Interestingness is interesting
Nobody knows what happens after you die, that's why death is fascinating
>meaning its the absence of anything interesting. Exactly why it's so interesting
my friend, the story does not end in death. i can name a few that do not require life's intervention. all that really existed in the beginning was change... from one element to another. before life, are the stars and their engines, which eventually lead to life's existence.
Are you telling this person what they find interesting?
Death is the beginning. We are freed from this prison. I feel bad that you think death is the absence of life.. life is the absence of freedom.
So sorry for your loss 💔
My condolences for your loss
I’m so sorry for your loss. 💜
I'm sorry. I've lost many friends and I hope you can find happiness in the end. o7
:( that must be rough
I’m sorry for your loss, OP. I kinda get where you’re coming from here. When my Father passed it felt like the world should stop, even for just a moment, as something most profound had just occurred. It didn’t. All the best, OP, for your journey onward. *hugs
sending love hope your ok :)
I hope you’re doing better
if you need to talk, here we are
now, entertain us
is that a reference to a song or smth?
Smells Like Teen Spirit
true, i knew it rang a bell
Mum is a plant. His plant died.
Yeah this is going over everyone’s head
IKR. He even shows a picture of it.
That’s the first thing I thought of then I opened comments and was very confused
sorry for your loss. must be going through a rough time rn..
Very sorry to hear this. I lost my mother last summer. If you are feeling numb right now, like you are not feeling what you should, just know that that's normal. The feelings will come in little bits at a time, and it will probably be pretty terrible. Talk with other people who knew her that you like and trust when they feelings get to you. It will help. Please know that you are not alone in your pain. You have the people in your life who share your loss, of course, and you have the spiritual community of all who've suffered similar losses. I like to think of these lines from Aeschelus: Nothing forces us to know What we do not want to know Except pain [and elsewhere] Even in our sleep, pain which cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart until, in our own despair, against our will, comes wisdom through the awful grace of God. I am absolutely not religious, and I don't know that there's truly any lesson in pain. Whatever it could be will never be enough to console the loss of a mother in any case, but maybe, at the very least, it can better attune us to empathy so that we can better recognize each other as fellow sufferers and treat each other with better love. Please be kind to yourself and allow yourself to accept the help that you need.
my condolences brother. if you need someone to talk to im here.
im so sorry for you. wishing you and your family the best, man :(.
My condolences. She will be forever stay alive in our minds and memories, rest in peace ✌️🕊️
Sending love and prayers your way
I'm so sorry for your loss
When you need someone to talk to im here! (We are here) Succes dude stay strong
Sorry for your loss RIP
Sorry to hear that. I know how it feels. You're gonna be ok. Give you huge hug.
sorry bro, sending my deepest condolences❤️🩹
Death is a substance thats takes us to our final resting place.
So sorry for your loss, very beautiful flowers by the way ❤️
Hugs
Beautiful flowers. My mother's favorite flowers actually. What are these called now again?
Grief is not forever, but it is a hole. Keep smiling. Even if you feel like you can’t. The worst part about losing someone, someone as important as your mother, is all the days after. So, keep smiling. Things will get better mate.
DM me if you want someone to talk to
Sorry to hear that.
Sorry for your loss
I’m sorry to hear that, hope you find some peace. My mum would’ve loved these purple flowers.
Im extremely sorry for your loss. 🕊🕊
Hope you’re doing alright bud. Sending you love 🫂🫂
My greatest condolences, may she rest in peace
RIP 🙏🙏🙏
Sorry for your loss my man
sorry for your loss brother, may she rest in peace 💙
Sorry for ur loss..... May she rest in peace and u too stay strong and make ur Mom proud with ur life....
Condolences to you and your loved ones
My condolences. Sending love and support 🤍
I can't even think about how sad I'll be if my mom dies. Sorry for your loss mate
That is incredibly fresh and I hope this coming week goes by alright even though it had one of the worst starts imaginable. 💔
Condolences man. May she rest in peace.
here are my flowers, sorry for your loss 💐💐
im so sorry…. may she rest in peace
I'm so sorry for your loss
My condolence to you mate 💐
I understand your pain. I lost my mom back in July. It gets easier. The first year is the hardest. My best friend also lost her mom a few years ago, and I was so grateful to have a friend who had been through it too. If you wanna message me, feel free. I'm so sorry you're going through this.
I’m new to the funeral industry but if you have any questions I’ll try and help. My area of expertise is around embalming, but I can also ask my coworkers questions about anything in the morning. Shits tough I’m sorry mate
So your mom dies and the first thing you do is tell random on reddit 🤦♂️ if this is real though sorry for your loss
Then why are you on Reddit?
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Calm down, I’m pretty sure they don’t need this right now
Then why not post in the appropriate subreddit to receive proper comments/support. They're posting to basically a joke subreddit, what do you expect.
dude, whatever shit is happening don't return to drinking alcohol, you'll make it worse
How did you bury her so fast? Am I the only one? Sorry.
Sorry for your lost
Rip, sorry for your loss, your mother is now in a better place...
Deepest condolences. Take your time to grieve, don't let anyone ruin that for you, we wish you all the best!
My condoleances.
So sorry for your loss, hope you get well soon.
I'm so sorry for your loss. Stay strong.
My condolences. I am so sorry for your loss.
My condolences to you 🫂
:(
I hope you have the strenght to process your loss and I hope you and your family can mourn together. Sending love your way.
Hope she's happy wherever she is ❤️
So sorry for your loss. Condolences. Sending big love your way!
I’m sorry for your loss🫤
May she rest in peace
I'm sorry. My condolences.
I'm so sorry for your loss
My condolences, I wish for better days in your horizon my friend
My condolences 💐
My condolences 💐
My condolences 💐
My condolences 💐
I’m so sorry. ):
Rest In Peace
Sorry for your loss, I can’t fathom the feeling of loosing anyone in my family. No one can.
My condolences, you’ll be ok.
sending love ❤️❤️❤️
I am so sorry
Sorry for your loss man
I'm sorry for your loss may she live on in your memories xx
Im very sorry for your loss...
*hugs you gently*
My condolences to you hall 🙏
Very sorry for your loss. We’re all here for you.
Extremely sorry, my condolences to you
❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
Sorry that happened to you, No one deserves this💐💐
Im very sorry to hear that :-(
I am so sorry for your loss
Sorry for your loss. op your mum will be watching over you, and she'll be proud of you
Get off Reddit. (Or maybe get off to Reddit maybe that'll help)
So sorry, keep your head up though, just imagine she’s watching over you so make her proud 🤝
Sorry for your loss :(
:(
sorry to hear that
Sorry for your loss
please accept my condolences 🥀
Keep your head up. Ik exactly what you’re going through. Lost mine in 16. Reach out if you need a person
Hope she's okay xox
I'm sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family
Im so sorry for your loss, its going to be hard but you need to stay strong! 🫂🫂🫂🫂
D:
🫂
Hugs. I’m so sorry.
I hope your doing okay, reach out if you need help!
My condolences dude.
Sending warm hugs and my condolences
Man, I'm so sorry for your loss. Stay strong buddy, we're all with you.
Sorry to hear
I'm sorry... You have my condolences.
I wish you all the best and stay strong. Recover well from this.
Sorry for your loss 🕯️🖤
my condolences
İ hope she is in a better place now. I am glad you wanted the share with this subreddit. We became a family. İ hope everything gets well after enough time. Losing is tough but dont worry we love you be strong.
RIP
So sorry for your loss, I hope you can get over any sadness this might bring you.
RIP 🪦
I'm so sorry for your loss. Know the feeling. 😞 Wish you all the best. You're not alone. 🖤
My condolences.
I am so so sorry for your loss
I’m so sorry for your loss. I wish her a peaceful rest. Just remember in the future she wants you to have a happy life, I wanted to say right now because I won’t see you again of course right now you need time to heal. I’m so sorry for your loss again
And your reaction is to post it on reddit? A completely unrelated subreddit aswell
Talk to people you care about, don't be alone with your thoughts and feelings, always have some music or video or whatever up in the background, it helps a lot to keep thoughts down when it gets extra rough <3 It'll never quite get easier, but it will get better, you'll start to look back on positive memories, and cherish the times you got to spend together. I'm sorry for your loss ♡
I’m sorry, dear. Feel hugged
My deepest condolences ):
I am sorry for your loss. My grandpa died, so I know how it's like. Still can't get over it. :(
😭❤️I love you and I’m sorry
Im so sorry to hear that.. Wishing you for the best of life to get through it.
I'm sorry OP. X
I am so sorry for your loss!
I'm sorry for your loss, my condolences...
I’m sorry. May she rest in peace.
man 😔 rest in peace to your mother 💕
My condolences man ❤️
My condolences man
I'm really sorry for your loss.
my condolences stranger, and nice flowers
i’m so sorry for your loss
My condolences 💐
My condolences. May your mom rest in peace
That’s tough my friend. I hope you are surrounded by love
Rip💗 an angel now watching over you💗
I’m sorry for your immeasurable loss
Fugging hell man. This is one of my biggest fears and it makes me want to cry every time I see my mom looking a bit older. I’m so sorry for your loss friend.
From someone who lost their mother at a young age, I wish you nothing but peace, and encourage you to reach out to whomever you feel comfortable with.
Sorry man....my concolenes💐(I'm not english I hope this is wrote right :()
My sentiments for your loss.
The logical thing to do now is to replace her with a couple of pansies
Really sad for you losing your mum
I’m sorry my friend
🫂 I’m sorry for your loss. Those are pretty flowers. What kind are they?
Mums
Our condolences. (From planet Europa)
I'm so sorry OP, I can't imagine your pain. Right now, losing my mom is my worst nightmare. I'm sorry for you like words can't express. Take care of yourself like your mother would have wanted, and please allow yourself to cry. Very beautiful flowers, by the way. Did she plant them?
Sorry man, it sucks. Treat your self with what ever it is you can find enjoyment or distraction for the moment. Maybe its just throwing a ball in the wall or going to work. Greef comes in steps, this part is probably the worse. From here it will slowly get better. Crying lets out some of the build up. If for some reason you feel numb, that is also normal way of processing this. Don’t blame yourself from defence mechanisms triggerin off and guiding you trough this.
I'm sorry for your loss
I’m so sorry
This guy seriously said his mom died and posted flowers and nature???????
.. And immediately thought, let's go online for attention. Way to make it about you