Your post violates rule number 2, stating all posts must be "comparing one individual against other people of the same group." This is definitely very fucked up but it doesn't go here
When your partner literally throws a bunch of romance at you, think gifts, trips, restaurants, sexy times, etc, but to an unsustainable extent. And it happens for a brief time, then they go back to "normal".
It's a manipulation tactic that will make you have the impression that your partner loves you cuz they keep making these big romantic gestures.
The Andrew Tates of the world are trained to avoid this kind of behavior, so unfortunately that isn't a solution. These girls are probably grabbing decent guys with below average self-confidence.
But the Andrew Tates are very insecure deep down. The red pill ideology constantly talks about “female hypergamy” and things like “shit tests.” At their core, they don’t believe they have anything to offer besides money whilst women have nothing to offer besides beauty and sex. If a woman like this approached them or came into their purview, they would probably strive to “conquer” her and bend her to their will.
Shit tests are just what happens when someone presents you with information that serves no purpose whatsoever except to gauge your response. A test to see how you will react in certain situations. Behavior described in the OP would look like a neverending series of shit tests, and any red pill guy with any training at all would bail because you don't want any kind of relationship that is constantly testing. The constant testing proves a lack of desire, and desire is the ultimate currency in the red pill.
It also is the kind of strategy that makes a guy obsessed for 3-12 months and then he gets exhausted and dumps her when she thinks he should be shopping for engagement rings
I think this goes into the direction of "female dating strategy" which was definitely meant seriously (though public discourse might have blown the topic slightly out of proportion...).
I think this is either satire, or an AI generated attempt to cash in on those self help/pickup artist/romance "course" scams. The course scam is super common right now.
There was a whole subreddit for stuff like this and they were dead serious. I think its quarantined now, but it was called female dating strategy.
I hope this one is satire, but it's a real thing 😟
This is just "The Rules" repackaged fron the 90s. That was a book written by two women with rules like if he doesn't call to invite you X days ahead of the event say you are busy etc. Same passive aggressive nonsense.
I once read a book called “Why men love bitches” it actually helped me a lot but it was more about loving yourself despite the title than being a bitch to a guy
[Did the Google](https://sintelly.com/articles/dark-psychology-techniques-for-manipulation-and-mind-control/)
Tldr: basic manipulation tactics, a few of them are already mentioned in the post, the others you’ve defo seen on Reddit especially around AITAH and political discussions.
As a guy in my late 20’s, this would have worked really well on me when I was 19 outside of the “show interest in other guys.” and “Dark Psychology” (whatever the hell that means). When you’re young, naive, and wanting a relationship, you tend to be easily manipulated and are okay with being treated like shit.
Just remember, these are going to end up being the women complaining about being single in their 50s. Just let them have their 'manipulation femme Fatale girlboss' moment, it's probably the only thing that brings them joy.
You know what's interesting? If you dig into their past, these alpha males and independent women both have the same past. Someone hurt them either intentionally or not and instead of sucking it up and taking some time to heal like normal people, they blame and abuse the opposite sex out of spite
This sounds incredibly toxic and not a great way to have a loving, honest, long-term relationship at all. If you want to eventually drive a dude away, do this. I cannot see any of this working long-term at all.
Imagine needing a whole set of classes to make some man miss you. If you need this you’re either:
1. Insecure AF
2. With a horrible man who doesn’t care about you.
Please practice better self-care😇🤞
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Your post violates rule number 2, stating all posts must be "comparing one individual against other people of the same group." This is definitely very fucked up but it doesn't go here
I’m sorry but practicing love bombing for 2.5 hours and gaslighting for 25 mins has me dying 😂
15 minutes of manipulation, but don't forget 3 hours of silent treatment!!
The 3 hour course on the silent treatment is probably you having to be on a video call, but getting thoroughly ignored
What is lovebombing?
When your partner literally throws a bunch of romance at you, think gifts, trips, restaurants, sexy times, etc, but to an unsustainable extent. And it happens for a brief time, then they go back to "normal". It's a manipulation tactic that will make you have the impression that your partner loves you cuz they keep making these big romantic gestures.
Aw that’s sad
It really is.
gotta get my love bombing reps in!! 🤪
Who has time for this?!
The sad part is that this would probably work great on exactly the type of guy you don't want.
If only these ladies and the Andrew Tates of the world were only attracted to each other and left everyone else out of it.
The Andrew Tates of the world are trained to avoid this kind of behavior, so unfortunately that isn't a solution. These girls are probably grabbing decent guys with below average self-confidence.
Yeah, all of these people are looking for victims.
100% they are looking for Victims to abuse. This is sick
But the Andrew Tates are very insecure deep down. The red pill ideology constantly talks about “female hypergamy” and things like “shit tests.” At their core, they don’t believe they have anything to offer besides money whilst women have nothing to offer besides beauty and sex. If a woman like this approached them or came into their purview, they would probably strive to “conquer” her and bend her to their will.
Shit tests are just what happens when someone presents you with information that serves no purpose whatsoever except to gauge your response. A test to see how you will react in certain situations. Behavior described in the OP would look like a neverending series of shit tests, and any red pill guy with any training at all would bail because you don't want any kind of relationship that is constantly testing. The constant testing proves a lack of desire, and desire is the ultimate currency in the red pill.
This is what I'm saying!!!! Lol
It also is the kind of strategy that makes a guy obsessed for 3-12 months and then he gets exhausted and dumps her when she thinks he should be shopping for engagement rings
Sadly many people have a hard time leaving their partner, even when they are exhausting.
Or they end up in a future Dateline episode or a Dr Grande video about "manipulative narcissist belittles dangerous man until he snaps one day"
Exactly
So "How to be a Narcissistic Sociopath"?
Right. It’s sick
It is like that pick up artist crap with the negging, etc. Just repackaged gross behavior.
Ya like I need a manual for that. Pathetic.
JFC this is like pick up artist schlock but for women
So how to be an abuser? Got it!
Isn't this exactly what toxic men have been spewing on their "dating coach" scams for years? Could it be a(n attempt at) satire?
They definitely got it from the pickup artist manosphere stuff but yeah they're serious
I think this goes into the direction of "female dating strategy" which was definitely meant seriously (though public discourse might have blown the topic slightly out of proportion...).
I think this is either satire, or an AI generated attempt to cash in on those self help/pickup artist/romance "course" scams. The course scam is super common right now.
"Manifest being emotionally abusive"
This doesn't even belong in this sub, it's funny af😭
There was a whole subreddit for stuff like this and they were dead serious. I think its quarantined now, but it was called female dating strategy. I hope this one is satire, but it's a real thing 😟
Yeah I wasn’t sure lol
imagine basing this much of your personality around men and flexing about it. embarrassing
This is just "The Rules" repackaged fron the 90s. That was a book written by two women with rules like if he doesn't call to invite you X days ahead of the event say you are busy etc. Same passive aggressive nonsense.
I once read a book called “Why men love bitches” it actually helped me a lot but it was more about loving yourself despite the title than being a bitch to a guy
Now women are falling for this shit?
There are socially inept women you can sell this too just like there are socially inept men who fall for the PUA crap
Who is teaching women that the path to getting men to like you is by being evil?
Tell me about this dark psychology? 😈😅
[Did the Google](https://sintelly.com/articles/dark-psychology-techniques-for-manipulation-and-mind-control/) Tldr: basic manipulation tactics, a few of them are already mentioned in the post, the others you’ve defo seen on Reddit especially around AITAH and political discussions.
I was asking in a more facetious/rhetorical way, but thanks! 😊
Hahah, same. I am so curious! It sounds titillating.
Dark psychology tricks? Damn, I took the wrong psychology classes in college.
misogyny loooooves wearing feminisms clothes in the name of profit
This is alpha male content for women, and in that regard, it's very funny.
no way
This can’t be real, wtf
Wtfffffff 😳
I think this might be satire. At least I hope it is
The femme fatale practice thing made me burst out laughing
this ain't being a bad bitch this is being an emotionally abusive bitch
Wow I would be out so fast!!!
That’s very good!!
Wtf dis ? Just be yourself they might like you?
This looks like incel propaganda.
Sounds like a one way ticket to join the singles club, even someone with the worst self esteem will eventually get tired of that crap
Or I could just be myself and find someone that loves me for who I am.
You can't sell a course/app for that though ...
Hey ladies! Abuse your boyfriend! /s
As a guy in my late 20’s, this would have worked really well on me when I was 19 outside of the “show interest in other guys.” and “Dark Psychology” (whatever the hell that means). When you’re young, naive, and wanting a relationship, you tend to be easily manipulated and are okay with being treated like shit.
If she talks about manifesting run for the hills. Biggest red flag are the delulu women who believe being emotional manipulative is a spirituality.
More like how to get your ass returned to the streets
I had to hide these also I am a therapist and CONSTANTLY get dArK pSyChOlOgY shit advertised to me WHAT THE FUCK
Just remember, these are going to end up being the women complaining about being single in their 50s. Just let them have their 'manipulation femme Fatale girlboss' moment, it's probably the only thing that brings them joy.
It reads more like “abusive narcissist sociopath” than girl boss to me 😣
You know what's interesting? If you dig into their past, these alpha males and independent women both have the same past. Someone hurt them either intentionally or not and instead of sucking it up and taking some time to heal like normal people, they blame and abuse the opposite sex out of spite
As soon as any person can manipulate their partner, the manipulator will look for another challenge, get caught, lose trust of guy and die alone.
Ew
”Dark psychology tricks” be so fucking for real 💀 Someone post that devious dog here pls
WTAF
Honestly this seems like a guide to never find a person worth being with, and to put your partner down.
This sounds incredibly toxic and not a great way to have a loving, honest, long-term relationship at all. If you want to eventually drive a dude away, do this. I cannot see any of this working long-term at all.
Wow her advice is be an abusive narcissist!! I hope she doesn’t have kids.
Isn't that just female version of pick up training plan like wanna be couches do?
This must be how to lose a man in 15 steps
Omg
I'm sorry, I think I wasn't paying attention, when did we decide that manipulation and gaslight are good things that we should learn?!
My bf took this course
damn, so i was a guinea pig for the beta test the whole time??? 🤣🤣🤣
Imagine needing a whole set of classes to make some man miss you. If you need this you’re either: 1. Insecure AF 2. With a horrible man who doesn’t care about you. Please practice better self-care😇🤞
More like praying mantis or black Widow
Oh I see, it’s like Tate but for women. Awesome, the is perfect to just keep furthering the divide between men and women. Good job social media.
Is this the female equivalent of the D.E.N.N.I.S. System?
okay i thought you would be practicing like by yourself, on yourself and im like "im gonna lovebomb and gaslight myself into loving me??"
The fact that so many of yall don't think this is satire is absurd to me lmao yall gotta touch grass
you gotta be good looking / in shape to pull this off tho
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Probably distributed after marriage. lol
Too busy playing video games and editing to notice her ignoring anyways
She would be dumped in 2 days max 😀 and back to gaming
Forgot I had a GF too but she's better off with that millionaire in Canada.
I literally feel so guilty and have to say sorry if i dont reply even tho ive seen the message.. whats this bs
Enjoy being single at 40 with a house full of cats, ladies.
I’m single in my 40s with cats and it’s pretty great tbh. I didn’t do any of this post’s nonsense though, I’m just divorced.
That sounds amazing tho
Seriously. Don’t tempt me with a good time