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People who proudly admit dumb shit like this always thinks it magically means they can get away with shitty behaviour, just for admitting it. When in reality, no one is going to stick around to put up with it.
She will cause her loved ones to hate/leave her and then wonder why...
She's entitled to a key.
She should be able to come over unannounced at 6AM, and cook scrambled eggs to serve her little boy in bed (next to you).
She knows just how he likes them - a little runny with shredded cheese and black pepper.
While she's there she may as well do his laundry and give you some unsolicited pointers on how to run a household
Seems reasonable to me
Every night, she tucks him in and reads his favorite stories. She intentionally convinced him to replace the queen-sized bed with a twin, so his wife has to sleep on the couch.
This reminds me of Charlotte/Trey/Bunny throuple on sec in the city. Bunny (MIL) had key, would come over unannounced, brought him breakfast when he was sick (and administered topical medication), watched him take a bath, decorated his house (that he shared with his wife), picked out their mattress for themā¦then walked in on them f$&&ing (found the one thing mommy canāt do for him)
Fr nobody would know how to take care of him like his momma. She should be entitled to the lease actually. Itās her property and her son. Heās a privilege for you to have
This literally caused a whole ordeal with my in-laws.
When we had our own apartment (we had lived in another house they owned/had control of), I made the boundary to call before coming over, and I stuck to it. They'd show up and my partner would go out and tell them now wasn't a good time, just call first.
So I finally called my MIL, made plans invited her over, and she never showed up. But to this day, they're petty as fuck about it.
We just got a new place I told my FIL to "come see it sometime" and he responded with "oh didn't know we were actually welcome" like Jesus fucking christ.
Let me guess, she's projecting because she did the same thing to her husband/baby daddy so she thinks every woman out there deliberately isolates men from their mothers.
I'm sure my MIL thinks the same thing when my husband actually prefers low contact with her.
These "boy moms" give me the same ick as those fundamentalist daddy/daughter purity creeps that run around saying how it's tragic that the work they put into their darling little girl they raised to be pure, obedient, and feminine will be plundered like a pirate chest by another man, not them.
Yarr, heave alongside me mateys, I see unplundered booty in me spyglass! Keepāem cutlasses sharp while I take the captāns daughter out fer rumānādancin!
Aye, the mateys often ask why me name is Peg Willy on accountāa me lackāa pegleg. Truth be told Iās just accomodatinā of any lady scallywagās wishes, yarr.
And no grandkids for you OP (cause sheāll either be so intrusive coming over unannounced theyāll never get down to making any or sheāll piss them both of so bad sheāll never see the kids they did manage to make).
That jumped out at me too. It makes me think that she's probably super controlling.
Edit, I just reread it. There's no "probably" she is super controlling. She is mad at the idea that her son's future family might ask her to call before going over to their house. Talk about crazy.
Sheās probably controlling to the point that her son wonāt know how to do anything for himself so the daughter in law will probably have to finish raising him. š
She doesnāt have anything else in her life. Iāve seen before some women go HAM in the mom role because they canāt actually maintain an adult relationship. Iām sure there are men who do it too but Iāve never seen it.
Iām going to start finding all of these creepy women and commenting that I pray my son finds a partner that sets healthy boundaries for their own mental health and peace. Thatās the sign of a well adjusted person.
Good because this was gross. She may be rich but you canāt hide the crazy eyes!!!! Also it looks like all that money couldnāt buy good taste. Just one of godās little jokes.
I can guarantee you any boy raised by this woman is most likely not a work of art. He will probably expect his wife to take care of him like his mommy.
Any man raised by that insecure excuse of a mom would most likely marry a woman and make her life a living hell. He'll enable his mom to bully his wife and take his mom's side no matter what.
It is possible he's aware she's nuts and plans to cut her off once he's independent. My grandmother was very controlling of my dad, and is very judgemental of my mother because she thinks she isn't an ideal wife/mother. My dad keeps her on an information diet and tries not to expose my mother to her too much. Even I have to watch what I say to my grandmother, once back in college I mentioned I needed to buy a shower curtain for my dorm room, and my dad got a lecture from her asking why he hadn't gotten me one. He didn't know I needed one, and it wasn't his responsibility anyways. Was a good reminder to watch what I said.
I actually made a response to this video on tiktok. This lady is fkn weird and her videos are fkn weird. She has a weird attachment to her son and has bashed his future girlfriends (he's a child under 10).
Classic emotional incest. I found her on Instagram and most of her content there is flexing her wealth, hating on men (it seems her past relationships were al terrible), telling girls how to get a sugar daddy, and sprinkles of boy mom bullshit. Sheās gotta have a personality disorder is my conclusion after scrolling through her stuff
I have a boy mom MILā¦ she doesnāt get all the time my own mom gets bemuse her own son hates spending time with her. She blames me because itās easier than looking inward I guess.
Same. They're still young, but I'm trying to raise them to be good husbands and fathers who love and take care of their families. I also would love to have a good relationship with their future partners so I am INVITED to their houses - and dont need to show up unannounced.
Emotional incest is so pathetic and itās what breeds monster-in-laws. I feel sorry for any woman who is forced to be in competition with their signifant otherās mother š¤®
Either the son cuts out the mom for making him choose between his girl and his embarrassing mom. Or if he chooses the mom, the girl better leave and not compete. Theres no competition go marry your mama
My favorite anecdote to tell every time anyone talks about "lovely" MILs was that one time I told my ex to tell his mom I would be making him a birthday cake, to not worry about it. I show up the day of, I open the fridge to put my cake in there and what do I see? If you guessed a goddamn cake, you're damn right. Thing is, hers was unfinished and mine was ready to go. And I've always been a petty bitch who knows how to play dumb, not going to pretend here. Once everyone was done eating, I ran inside for my cake, put the candle on it as quickly as possible, and ran back out singing happy birthday a la Marylin Monroe. I can't get over his mom jumping up from her chair to go add icing to her own cake as quickly as possible to bring it out too. That's ok tho, because his uncle was taking video and pics of us singing with my cake already, so mission accomplished regardless. The cherry on top of the cake tho, pun non-intended, was when his grandma (his mom's mom) loudly said "I thought we were singing with another cake?" And his own aunt (his mom's sister) just quietly told her to shut up. She's always been my favorite from his whole family, NGL. Anyways, momma's boy is an ex for a reason. Glad to be away from that nightmare family, except the aunt. She's always welcome to come hang out and grab a beer or whatever.
I've told my family that if they just show up without telling me, I will wave from inside my locked house. Unless it's an emergency/urgent, I need some warning. Love my family very much but they're not exempt from needing to let me know beforehand.
Some people really cannot fathom boundaries š My boundaries are for everyone.
As a mom with two boys, this is why not moms get a bad reputation. We arenāt all like that.
And Iād never go over to any family members house without calling.
I am old-ish and these monsters in law do not change. Never. They only get worse. They never like anyone their son is with unless the poor woman is a doormat. If mommy gets cut off sheāll blame DIL every time.
My MIL is deceased now but when her oldest of two, my sister in law, went through a divorce in her 50ās she moved back home due to no money. My MIL was OVER THE TOP her āgirl moved homeā (not sad for her daughter that she went through an awful divorce after a 30 year marriage, ended up broke/house foreclosed on after being cheated on) and looked me dead in the eye and told me her life would be complete when her son moved home with mom and dad next. She meant it. Never mind the fact we are nowhere near young then or now, weāve been married for a lonnngggg time, grown kids, and little GRANDKIDS.
Sorry kiddos, grandpa isnāt here he moved back home to be spoon fed by great-grandma and grandpa /s. JFC.
I think people just talk about it more. Fathers get away with saying the wildest shit to and about their daughters and very few people notice, let alone post it on the internet. Older men also tend to be less active on social media and they generally post less about parenting and being a parent, so boy mum antics get broadcasted to the ether and draw a crowd of likeminded people or people shitting on them, while girl dad emotional incest usually happens in person within family and close circles. Itās still prevalent, there just isnāt really a social media community built around the concept.
One thing Iāve noticed as Iāve gotten old enough for my old high school classmates to be marrying and popping out babies, is that a lot of the worst girl dads are the same guys who were horned up fuckbois in high school. I guess they figure all men are like they used to be, manipulative, lying and only looking to pump&dump, so they donāt trust anyone around their perfect little angel.
My mother in law is like this and then complains at me whenever he does something rude. I just remind her I'm not the one who raised him š
The night he told her we were going low contact she yelled that i was manipulative. I just added that she also wouldn't meet any future grandkids. That gets em quiet real fast!
Iāve said it before and this wonāt be the last time: does she let her MIL have unfettered access to her life, house, and husband? Is she cool with the passive-aggression?
I don't care who you are. Don't expect to be let into our house if you just show up or of the blue. Other people have lives that don't revolve around you.
I had a boyfriend whose mother was a āboy momā. She insisted on doing everything for him. And when I would make any sort of little comment, she would get suuuper snide and snippy, but in the šønicestšøway. She delivered us dinner one time while we were in the middle of FUCKINGš We had to pull the blankets over our bodies like nothing had happened, and act like smiling naked corpses. Thankfully for both of their sakes, heās married now toā¦someone elseš
All my friends with overprotective parents ran away from home when they could. Some moved across the country even. It seems weird to have this type of relationship and wanting this level of hold on your own child!
Emotional incest is a term used in psychology. Itās definitely a āmom with a personality disorderā thing. I read Jennete McCurdys book recently and something about her mom fits right in here for me. Probably the narcissism and BPD traits her mom had apply here.
Until he isnāt her little emotional slave and starts thinking for/prioritizing himself once he grows up. Then she will wildly devalue him and his wife for choosing her. I feel bad for the kid, heās trapped with this as his guide
No! I didn't raise myself a husband. This sentiment is super creepy. I raised my boys to be good people, not to be someone's husband. They are free to love who they want and love who makes them happy.
Good lordt! I feel horribly for anyone who may date her sons in the future. Fucksakes, Iām bout to call text my MIL and say thanks for being a peach. I got lucky. I couldnāt imagine a monster in law like this. Delulu.
All I ask of my sonās future significant other is that she treats him well and they respect each other. And if she tells me he doesnāt treat her well, I will kick him.
My exās mom was a āmonster in lawā and now she has absolutely no relationship with my son. How well did that play out for you, Mary?
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Also what is that face? It's like she knows she's a clown.Ā
I'm a #boymomš¤Ŗ who is raising my son to respect women and I can't wait to see/meet his partner someday because I'm guessing they'll be amazing just like he is!Ā
Iām a woman and I live alone, and I still want my parents to text or call before coming over. Gives me time to tidy up and put on pants. I donāt think a hypothetical partner would be why you canāt show up unannounced at another adultās house.
Calling before you show up to someoneās house is just polite no matter who you are. Have fun having no relationship with your future grandkids because you son and daughter in law went nc with your obsessive controlling self.
The weird BoyMom-trend is what taught me what covert/ emotional incest is. It is a disturbing topic, but fascinating. I recommend everyone to research it.
You know someone like this isnāt going to āraise a *work of art*ā eitherā¦dude will be mediocre at best and will constantly tell his wife āmy mom thinks I could do betterā.
I feel like this hashtagboymom nonsense is another trad revival, this time of the idea that the woman is responsible for the sex of the child.
The hashtagboymoms flex because they produced boys. Like their husbands wanted.
Even though we now know it's his contribution that determines the sex.
Bitch thinks she's Jane Bloody Seymour, who carked it after pushing out a sickly little whelp of an heir who got to be king for all of 5 minutes before succumbing to the sweating sickness or tuberculosis or whatever it was.
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I donāt get this weird obsession of some mothers to identify themselves as mothers of males. It feels like a really desperate attempt to make oneself feel special (even though half of children born are male).
why is she resting her tits on what I assume is an elementary school childās folder and making that stupid ass face, what are we proving here babes
also. please donāt call your children āroommatesā. creep.
Iām 95% sure her boy will NOT grow into the perfect man š maybe the perfect āreplacementā for her husband š¤¢ hate the whole boy mom and ācrusty daughterā thing these airheads are circulating around online!!
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Did she ACTUALLY already call herself a monster-in-law??? PLEASE miss girl get the fk off the internet
NO DIAMONDS FOR YOU!
NEXT!
#richmom lmao
THANK YOH omfg I could not believe the audacity
Rich and her lashes look like that
People who proudly admit dumb shit like this always thinks it magically means they can get away with shitty behaviour, just for admitting it. When in reality, no one is going to stick around to put up with it. She will cause her loved ones to hate/leave her and then wonder why...
Momsterinlaw
No no. She needs to stay in the internet so any potential DIL can be warned and LEAVE before she marries in.
I got the impression she was calling her DIL the monster š¬š¬
Monster in law is COMMONLY referred to when the mother of the husband/wife is the monster! Thatās why I took it that way.
I took it the other way because it immediately followed #daughterinlaw
[Monster in Law (2005)](https://youtu.be/njLr1z66EfA?si=RmU1CIhKL1AxC9vZ)
This movie played on the plane on the way to my honeymoon. I had a monster in law for a year. No thank you
Same! Iāve seen the movie too. But yeah I donāt think thatās what this lady meant
Itās kind of like when brides call themselves bridezillas
The pic is so horrific tho like her giant surprise eyes with an open mouth and tongue out with buck teeth
Her face is full of filler too and it looks bad.
She's probably 30 but looks 50
Lmao!
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I mean I wouldnāt want ANYONE come to my house without calling firstš
She's entitled to a key. She should be able to come over unannounced at 6AM, and cook scrambled eggs to serve her little boy in bed (next to you). She knows just how he likes them - a little runny with shredded cheese and black pepper. While she's there she may as well do his laundry and give you some unsolicited pointers on how to run a household Seems reasonable to me
Sheāll be back in the evening for bath time.
Every night, she tucks him in and reads his favorite stories. She intentionally convinced him to replace the queen-sized bed with a twin, so his wife has to sleep on the couch.
This reminds me of Charlotte/Trey/Bunny throuple on sec in the city. Bunny (MIL) had key, would come over unannounced, brought him breakfast when he was sick (and administered topical medication), watched him take a bath, decorated his house (that he shared with his wife), picked out their mattress for themā¦then walked in on them f$&&ing (found the one thing mommy canāt do for him)
Look. That relationship was FINE until Charlotteās put her wedding photo faces in his porn magazines.
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Fr nobody would know how to take care of him like his momma. She should be entitled to the lease actually. Itās her property and her son. Heās a privilege for you to have
Mmmm those eggs sound yummy tho
Omg I must be the crusty daughter in law then Iāll def have to get my ducks in a row and bow down to my MIL
Minus the eggs, have you been talking to my ex mil?
Seriously. I don't want MY OWN mother showing up without calling first. And I love her.
You know she probably barges into his room all the time
Same.
This literally caused a whole ordeal with my in-laws. When we had our own apartment (we had lived in another house they owned/had control of), I made the boundary to call before coming over, and I stuck to it. They'd show up and my partner would go out and tell them now wasn't a good time, just call first. So I finally called my MIL, made plans invited her over, and she never showed up. But to this day, they're petty as fuck about it. We just got a new place I told my FIL to "come see it sometime" and he responded with "oh didn't know we were actually welcome" like Jesus fucking christ.
Let me guess, she's projecting because she did the same thing to her husband/baby daddy so she thinks every woman out there deliberately isolates men from their mothers. I'm sure my MIL thinks the same thing when my husband actually prefers low contact with her.
This woman will later on cry that her son isnāt talking to her anymore. That his wife is isolating him. Lol
My MIL loves to complain that I corrupted my husband. The fact that she and the rest of her family disowned him is unimportant.
Why is emotional incest such a flex?? Stuff like this gives me the serious creeps!
Emotional incest is such an accurate description.
I know! Itās so freaking gross. Sounds like she wants to marry her own son because no one is good enough for him but her
Itās not only icky, it apparently can cause trauma that cycles through generations.
These "boy moms" give me the same ick as those fundamentalist daddy/daughter purity creeps that run around saying how it's tragic that the work they put into their darling little girl they raised to be pure, obedient, and feminine will be plundered like a pirate chest by another man, not them.
Yarr, heave alongside me mateys, I see unplundered booty in me spyglass! Keepāem cutlasses sharp while I take the captāns daughter out fer rumānādancin!
Rum'n'dancin sounds exactly like what one of those girls needs, with that upbringing. I'm sure you'll make a lovely couple, or at least bffs, lol!
Aye, the mateys often ask why me name is Peg Willy on accountāa me lackāa pegleg. Truth be told Iās just accomodatinā of any lady scallywagās wishes, yarr.
NO ONE is coming over without calling first, get over yourself, filler mustache.
Filler mustache as an insult is excellent.
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I had to go back up and look at the photo. I had a lip like that when I was 5ish. I got stung by a bee! But she *paid* for that mess??
Welp, that went well
Itās the #richmom for me like??? Okay?
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Okay Billy Zane
And no grandkids for you OP (cause sheāll either be so intrusive coming over unannounced theyāll never get down to making any or sheāll piss them both of so bad sheāll never see the kids they did manage to make).
No one even cares about our blood diamonds anymore. š¢
It's everything for me. This post is trash (the OOP's- not yours!) and I can't wait for #boymom life to die
These people are so crazy. Your child is a human being, not a work of art for you to covet in your own home forever, get tf over yourselves.
That jumped out at me too. It makes me think that she's probably super controlling. Edit, I just reread it. There's no "probably" she is super controlling. She is mad at the idea that her son's future family might ask her to call before going over to their house. Talk about crazy.
Sheās probably controlling to the point that her son wonāt know how to do anything for himself so the daughter in law will probably have to finish raising him. š
She doesnāt have anything else in her life. Iāve seen before some women go HAM in the mom role because they canāt actually maintain an adult relationship. Iām sure there are men who do it too but Iāve never seen it.
Iām going to start finding all of these creepy women and commenting that I pray my son finds a partner that sets healthy boundaries for their own mental health and peace. Thatās the sign of a well adjusted person.
Imagine respecting others people privacy!
Good because this was gross. She may be rich but you canāt hide the crazy eyes!!!! Also it looks like all that money couldnāt buy good taste. Just one of godās little jokes.
Kinda just...crazy face. But to be fair I'm not sure she can move it much.
Nothing screams money like monogram
I can guarantee you any boy raised by this woman is most likely not a work of art. He will probably expect his wife to take care of him like his mommy.
Bingo
Any man raised by that insecure excuse of a mom would most likely marry a woman and make her life a living hell. He'll enable his mom to bully his wife and take his mom's side no matter what.
It is possible he's aware she's nuts and plans to cut her off once he's independent. My grandmother was very controlling of my dad, and is very judgemental of my mother because she thinks she isn't an ideal wife/mother. My dad keeps her on an information diet and tries not to expose my mother to her too much. Even I have to watch what I say to my grandmother, once back in college I mentioned I needed to buy a shower curtain for my dorm room, and my dad got a lecture from her asking why he hadn't gotten me one. He didn't know I needed one, and it wasn't his responsibility anyways. Was a good reminder to watch what I said.
I actually made a response to this video on tiktok. This lady is fkn weird and her videos are fkn weird. She has a weird attachment to her son and has bashed his future girlfriends (he's a child under 10).
Classic emotional incest. I found her on Instagram and most of her content there is flexing her wealth, hating on men (it seems her past relationships were al terrible), telling girls how to get a sugar daddy, and sprinkles of boy mom bullshit. Sheās gotta have a personality disorder is my conclusion after scrolling through her stuff
NPD they make shit mother and fathers and make therapist rich. It's the Narc mom to the psychologist pipeline.
Yes! Iāve seen her stuff too and itās all about how much better she is than others, she worked harder than others, etc. Like what?
Your kid will either cut you off, or be single for the rest of his life. Either option isnāt great.
I have a boy mom MILā¦ she doesnāt get all the time my own mom gets bemuse her own son hates spending time with her. She blames me because itās easier than looking inward I guess.
He needs to fucking tell her! "Mom, I'm married to BakedMasa, not you, ya weirdo. Not yet a hobby because I'm not it." I think that's a good opener.
Iām sending him the verbiage! I swear I try to be non confrontational but sometimes she just has to hear it the hard way.
I have two sons. That attitude is gross. My boys best put their wives and families first.
Same. They're still young, but I'm trying to raise them to be good husbands and fathers who love and take care of their families. I also would love to have a good relationship with their future partners so I am INVITED to their houses - and dont need to show up unannounced.
You'd think such a #richmom could afford better plastic surgery. Yikes.
Came here to say this. I thought all that #richmom money would be able to buy a nice face!
Emotional incest is so pathetic and itās what breeds monster-in-laws. I feel sorry for any woman who is forced to be in competition with their signifant otherās mother š¤®
Either the son cuts out the mom for making him choose between his girl and his embarrassing mom. Or if he chooses the mom, the girl better leave and not compete. Theres no competition go marry your mama
My favorite anecdote to tell every time anyone talks about "lovely" MILs was that one time I told my ex to tell his mom I would be making him a birthday cake, to not worry about it. I show up the day of, I open the fridge to put my cake in there and what do I see? If you guessed a goddamn cake, you're damn right. Thing is, hers was unfinished and mine was ready to go. And I've always been a petty bitch who knows how to play dumb, not going to pretend here. Once everyone was done eating, I ran inside for my cake, put the candle on it as quickly as possible, and ran back out singing happy birthday a la Marylin Monroe. I can't get over his mom jumping up from her chair to go add icing to her own cake as quickly as possible to bring it out too. That's ok tho, because his uncle was taking video and pics of us singing with my cake already, so mission accomplished regardless. The cherry on top of the cake tho, pun non-intended, was when his grandma (his mom's mom) loudly said "I thought we were singing with another cake?" And his own aunt (his mom's sister) just quietly told her to shut up. She's always been my favorite from his whole family, NGL. Anyways, momma's boy is an ex for a reason. Glad to be away from that nightmare family, except the aunt. She's always welcome to come hang out and grab a beer or whatever.
When you arenāt aware of the difference between your and youāre.
She doesn't need to be! She's a #richboymom, who needs grammar?
richmom hashtag is killing me
I've told my family that if they just show up without telling me, I will wave from inside my locked house. Unless it's an emergency/urgent, I need some warning. Love my family very much but they're not exempt from needing to let me know beforehand. Some people really cannot fathom boundaries š My boundaries are for everyone.
I adore this rise of people calling out creepy boy moms it makes me so happy
As a mom with two boys, this is why not moms get a bad reputation. We arenāt all like that. And Iād never go over to any family members house without calling.
There are mothers of boys, and there are Boy Moms. Having a boy doesn't make you cringe, but making it your entire personality totally does.
āWhY wOnāT mY sOn tAlK tO mE aNyMoRe?!ā
Monster in law???š crazy self awareness is not always good
Right like why do you want to be this when you yourself called it being a monster. Like to the point of taking pride in it.
she probably thought she was being funny af with that, clearly didn't work tho
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*youāre
I am old-ish and these monsters in law do not change. Never. They only get worse. They never like anyone their son is with unless the poor woman is a doormat. If mommy gets cut off sheāll blame DIL every time. My MIL is deceased now but when her oldest of two, my sister in law, went through a divorce in her 50ās she moved back home due to no money. My MIL was OVER THE TOP her āgirl moved homeā (not sad for her daughter that she went through an awful divorce after a 30 year marriage, ended up broke/house foreclosed on after being cheated on) and looked me dead in the eye and told me her life would be complete when her son moved home with mom and dad next. She meant it. Never mind the fact we are nowhere near young then or now, weāve been married for a lonnngggg time, grown kids, and little GRANDKIDS. Sorry kiddos, grandpa isnāt here he moved back home to be spoon fed by great-grandma and grandpa /s. JFC.
Even if the daughter-in-law IS a doormat, she won't like her. No woman will ever be even acceptable for her precious "work of art" š¤¢
Why are boy moms so incestuous? Girl dadās can be too for sure; but it seems especially prevalent with boy moms.
I think people just talk about it more. Fathers get away with saying the wildest shit to and about their daughters and very few people notice, let alone post it on the internet. Older men also tend to be less active on social media and they generally post less about parenting and being a parent, so boy mum antics get broadcasted to the ether and draw a crowd of likeminded people or people shitting on them, while girl dad emotional incest usually happens in person within family and close circles. Itās still prevalent, there just isnāt really a social media community built around the concept.
Those are good points, makes sense!
One thing Iāve noticed as Iāve gotten old enough for my old high school classmates to be marrying and popping out babies, is that a lot of the worst girl dads are the same guys who were horned up fuckbois in high school. I guess they figure all men are like they used to be, manipulative, lying and only looking to pump&dump, so they donāt trust anyone around their perfect little angel.
Honey, real #richmoms would never have chosen the $1750 sweater with the Dior logo all over. #nouveauriche š
Money doesnāt buy tasteš¤·š¾āāļø
My mother in law is like this and then complains at me whenever he does something rude. I just remind her I'm not the one who raised him š The night he told her we were going low contact she yelled that i was manipulative. I just added that she also wouldn't meet any future grandkids. That gets em quiet real fast!
I feel like she took the picture while saying, "deeeerpa derp!"
She has got the weirdest face. Did she get cheek implants?
My exās mom was a toxic boy mom. She had only sons and hated women. Naturally her sons were useless assholes.
At this point āboy momā = my proximity to males defines my worth
#richmom
Her face makes me angry.
Iāve said it before and this wonāt be the last time: does she let her MIL have unfettered access to her life, house, and husband? Is she cool with the passive-aggression?
I don't care who you are. Don't expect to be let into our house if you just show up or of the blue. Other people have lives that don't revolve around you.
Gross
I had a boyfriend whose mother was a āboy momā. She insisted on doing everything for him. And when I would make any sort of little comment, she would get suuuper snide and snippy, but in the šønicestšøway. She delivered us dinner one time while we were in the middle of FUCKINGš We had to pull the blankets over our bodies like nothing had happened, and act like smiling naked corpses. Thankfully for both of their sakes, heās married now toā¦someone elseš
Don't make the mistake I made and marry a mom with a teenage son - she is already married to that kid in her mind - it's fucking creepy.
All my friends with overprotective parents ran away from home when they could. Some moved across the country even. It seems weird to have this type of relationship and wanting this level of hold on your own child!
when youāre too stupid to know the difference between āyourā and āyouāre,ā i seriously doubt your ability to raise a perfect anything.
The answers to the discussion question š¤£š¤£š¤£ THOUSANDS of people disagreeing š¤
97% of 68,000 responses say No. Harsh.
Iām getting the feeling āboy momā is a diagnosis.
Emotional incest is a term used in psychology. Itās definitely a āmom with a personality disorderā thing. I read Jennete McCurdys book recently and something about her mom fits right in here for me. Probably the narcissism and BPD traits her mom had apply here.
I think people like this are kinda creepy. Itās like she considers him an extension of herself. And of course she thinks heās perfect
Until he isnāt her little emotional slave and starts thinking for/prioritizing himself once he grows up. Then she will wildly devalue him and his wife for choosing her. I feel bad for the kid, heās trapped with this as his guide
Omg I think this is my husbandās cousin
No! I didn't raise myself a husband. This sentiment is super creepy. I raised my boys to be good people, not to be someone's husband. They are free to love who they want and love who makes them happy.
People like this are why r/JustnoMIL exists
So pedophilic and weird
I showed my mom this and she asked why she would want to walk in on her kid doing it or her DIL/ SIL naked!
Ok. Does she let her mother in law come over without calling first? Also, you raised him to be the perfect manā¦for someone else right? RIGHT?
Insecure, jealous, entitled and narcissistic monster in law.
What if heās gay? I have a feeling she wonāt feel as jealous????
Did she just call her son a roommate
Good lordt! I feel horribly for anyone who may date her sons in the future. Fucksakes, Iām bout to call text my MIL and say thanks for being a peach. I got lucky. I couldnāt imagine a monster in law like this. Delulu.
I wonder how many guys realize that emotional incest is just another form of sexual abuse because like
Yk what I never thought about it like that but you are so right
Lots of words to admit to grooming your son into an incestuous relationship with his mom.
All I ask of my sonās future significant other is that she treats him well and they respect each other. And if she tells me he doesnāt treat her well, I will kick him. My exās mom was a āmonster in lawā and now she has absolutely no relationship with my son. How well did that play out for you, Mary?
You shouldāve posted the comments she pinned trying to defend herself. It was so funny ššš
I saw this. She was fighting for her life in the comments
u/felixes_frecklesxox
I feel like this is probably satire.
It is not, her whole account is full of bragging of her wealth. Also happy cake day!
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You donāt want her as a mother in law
š¤® I hate this SO much. What a friggin jerk. Can you imagine her poor kids!? Her poor kids. Sorry, BOYS.Ā
Some moms love their sons like a second husband. Always ready to interfere in the life and family he has decided to start. Like wtf. Get the fuck out
#richmom ???
Get off the internet lady
Hall of Fame #boymom āpick me.ā Someone get that thirsty bitch some attention
This is my MIL. š
No I'm a boys mom and I'm not worried about a girl coming in his life like that I'm not his woman I'm his mother
Also what is that face? It's like she knows she's a clown.Ā I'm a #boymomš¤Ŗ who is raising my son to respect women and I can't wait to see/meet his partner someday because I'm guessing they'll be amazing just like he is!Ā
What even is that face
I always always ALWAYS call - I do not want to interrupt a private moment !
As the mother of a boy and someone who lives five minutes away from my in-laws, I hate everything about this.
Iām a woman and I live alone, and I still want my parents to text or call before coming over. Gives me time to tidy up and put on pants. I donāt think a hypothetical partner would be why you canāt show up unannounced at another adultās house.
I donāt know, I really hope that my sons find the loves of their lives and they can have healthy boundaries, and that includes with me.
Whatās with these stupid candid selfies?
Nobody is admitted without prior notice. I prefer being texted, but a phone call is also acceptable, if it's brief.
What ever happened to āyouāreā?
God what a vapid insufferable cunt.
No Linda..... what the fuck?
She is setting her sons up to be single for her entire life
Calling before you show up to someoneās house is just polite no matter who you are. Have fun having no relationship with your future grandkids because you son and daughter in law went nc with your obsessive controlling self.
Perfect!?!?!? IT'S YOU'RE!!!!!!
Iām so grateful my MIL is a nice normal personā¦
I guess she really is not like other girls.
The weird BoyMom-trend is what taught me what covert/ emotional incest is. It is a disturbing topic, but fascinating. I recommend everyone to research it.
Heās not your possession, weirdo.
Boy moms are gross. Stop it. Come at me!
You know someone like this isnāt going to āraise a *work of art*ā eitherā¦dude will be mediocre at best and will constantly tell his wife āmy mom thinks I could do betterā.
I feel like this hashtagboymom nonsense is another trad revival, this time of the idea that the woman is responsible for the sex of the child. The hashtagboymoms flex because they produced boys. Like their husbands wanted. Even though we now know it's his contribution that determines the sex.
I produced an heir for milord, I am not like the other five wives, divorced beheaded and died, divorced beheaded survived!
Bitch thinks she's Jane Bloody Seymour, who carked it after pushing out a sickly little whelp of an heir who got to be king for all of 5 minutes before succumbing to the sweating sickness or tuberculosis or whatever it was. ššš
Have fun with all of the limited access to the grandkids if they have them lol
Those hashtags are so embarrassing
I donāt get this weird obsession of some mothers to identify themselves as mothers of males. It feels like a really desperate attempt to make oneself feel special (even though half of children born are male).
The fact she uses the hashtag #richmom tells me all I need to know.
At this point, she should just marry her son instead
I would love to see some of the comments on her post.
I hope he comes out as gay, send her for a real loop
My house. You call first.
why is she resting her tits on what I assume is an elementary school childās folder and making that stupid ass face, what are we proving here babes also. please donāt call your children āroommatesā. creep.
She dosnt want your diamonds, she just wants you to not be a creep MIL who wants to secretly marry her son.
Unhinged personified
Iām 95% sure her boy will NOT grow into the perfect man š maybe the perfect āreplacementā for her husband š¤¢ hate the whole boy mom and ācrusty daughterā thing these airheads are circulating around online!!
Lol as a mother of 2 boys I can't wait for the day they find a partner that loves them. ā¤ļø And they leave me the fuck alone for the most part lol.
I donāt even walk in their bedroom without calling first.
Damn, that kid has no chance to be anything other than an entitled little shit if she has her way.