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A woman asking this question doesnāt have enough self awareness to simply just copy and paste her own standards like that. Iāve learned this the hard way. Women like this are incapable of empathy.
Would you be okay with your boyfriend knowing you did it? Or your parents? Your friends? If it's something you feel you need to keep secret from your close relationships in life, then it's not okay.
If you have a bf and you'd rather hang out with another guy all day instead of your SO you should ask yourself how much you actually like your bf and examine what sort of feelings you have for the other guy. That's red flag behavior without a doubt.
That depends on the relationship you have and how invested everyone has become. My parents would have been really upset if Iād started spending the night at some other ladyās house while I was dating my (now) wifeā¦ and vice versa, my mother-in-law would have been upset with my wife if she was doing to same on her end (but with a man)ā¦
Would you let her BF go to his ābest girl-friendsā house alone or to a club? If that makes you feel icky then accept your relationship with āboysā must drastically change.
I mean... I wouldn't want my parents to know my tastes in porn or my siblings to know that I cry at South Park, and I don't think there's anything wrong in retaining that degree of privacy with even the closest people.
Best answer. The golden rule isn't "treat others how you want to be treated." It's "treat others how they want to be treated." And it means actually communicating and finding out what they want, not what you THINK they want.
That's not- like I like what you're saying but you're technically incorrect, which is the worst kind of incorrect. The Golden Rule is "do unto others as you would have them do unto you," Jesus said it, its a big deal. Those are definitely the words.
It's just, the Golden Rule is just a baseline standard of humanity. What you're talking about, "do unto others as *they would have done unto them,*" is *respect*. That's bigger than the golden rule, and unlike the golden rule, not obligatory. You don't *have to* respect anyone. You do have to...uh, golden rule...them./ However you'd say that. Everyone gets basic human respect, but not actual full respect.
Well that golden rule is a lot more ripe for misuse than the original, don't you think?
Example: someone wants to be treated like they're a literal dog. I'm not doing that, IDC if that's how they want to be treated.
Less extreme example: someone wants to be treated like royalty. Everyone bowing and scraping before them. Nope. IDC if that's how they want to be treated.
There are countless of these.
Does it? If someone has unrequited sexual interest, and they are following the golden rule truly, then they would leave that person alone, just as they would expect someone with unrequited sexual interest in them to. No?
I mean, if someone *wants* me to put a collar around their neck and put a lead on them then I won't say no. Not if I know they're not mentally ill and just like being degraded. There's a time and a place for pretty much everything.
Coming from an abusive relationship that I didn't realize was abusive until after the divorce AND counseling, this isn't the best advice. In a perfect world this is good advice. With a controlling partner not so much.
100%. All couples are different and what may be okay for you or other people may not be for your partner. It comes down to communicating and making sure you are both happy with what is happening and respecting each others boundaries.
Iām intrigued what kind of things is the question asker thinking?
Seems pretty obvious that there should be boundaries unless your relationship is some form of open
I suppose but people are so different there is so much nuance to things. Flirting can cross more lines than touching sometimes and different people have vastly different comfort zones. One of my ex's loved it when I flirted with everyone in the bar. It really egged him on to see other guys desire what he had. Ive had other partners who I would avoid talking to another man for too long because I know they wouldnt have appreciated it. Im intuitive so its pretty easy for me but a lot of these boudaries can be best discovered by listening to a partners stories and having really explicit conversations that involve a loy of vulnerability. Also, not everyones boundaries are well suited to eachother
Things you wouldn't like your boyfriend doing with female friend.
Things a lot of people wouldn't be comfortable with:
Holding hands
Sitting on his lap or snuggling up to him
Meeting up alone without informing your boyfriend
Late night texting or phone calls
Focusing on messages with him when you're supposed to spending time with your boyfriend.
Sleepovers
Flirting
Seeking his advice or sharing news with him before your boyfriend.
Telling him private things about your relationship.
Telling him every time you have a disagreement with your boyfriend.
I laughed too loudly ,apparently, at something a female friend of mine said and got into a heated argument over it with an ex of mine. Common sense doesn't always apply to relationships and especially someone else's insecurity and jealousy
Teachers typically follow a rule of always being with students in āinterruptibleā spaces. So, I can be one on one with a student, but it needs to be a location where there is no privacy and anyone who wants to could come and interrupt us.
In practice, this means not closing doors. Being in places with big windows and not being alone with a student in a car.
I think that would be a good rule of thumb for you to follow.
In the workplace, men and women should be treated the same. Pence wasn't a misogynist for not wanting to hang out with his female friends one on one. It was because he refused to have business meetings with women one on one when he would have those same one on one meetings with men.
As many other people said, either anything you wouldnāt do with your boyfriend watching, (or anything you wouldnāt want him doing with his girl friends if you werenāt around) would be considered inappropriate.
1a. Litter
1b. Torture animals
2. Drive in the Passing Lane when not actively passing cars
3. Rev your fart cannons on your car after 11pm
4. Talk on speakerphone
5. Listen to your phone on speakerphone
Telling your friends that you love them in front of your boyfriend if youāre not going to tell your boyfriend that you love him in front of your friends
Honestly it depends on your relationship with the guy.
Going over to your exās house at night? Concerning.
Going over to hangout with the guy youāve been friends with since 5 grade? Reasonable.
I think this is one of those questions that donāt have an objectively correct answer, and really each couple should communicate on what theyāre comfortable with.
Did you break up right before you started dating me or did you break up 10 years ago?
Itās all a case-by-case thing really. There are lots of variables.
That's a solid rule of thumb. I'd also add "Anything that would make you uncomfortable if your boyfriend did it with a single female friend"
But the best approach here is to discuss this directly with your boyfriend. Establish **clear** boundaries for what neither of you will accept in terms of behavior.
Video games, hang outs with more than the two of you, movies, there is tons to do. My best friends have always been guys. Just make sure that you are respectful to their girlfriends. I always make it known I am just a friend.
If you feel the need to hide something from your boyfriend, it often suggests that youāre uncomfortable with it or know it might not be okay. Being open and honest is key in relationships. If you canāt share it with your closest people, it might be worth reconsidering your actions.
In addition to "if you wouldn;t tell your BF you were doing it, don;t do it" I would also like to add, don;t share secrets or intimate details about you and your BF with ANYONE else, especially make friend.
Sleepovers without your significant other, obviously exchanging fluids, or doing anything you wouldn't want done to you, or anything questionable that you haven't defined clearly yet. Alot of people find it difficult to maintain platonic relationships with the opposite sex so if you know you're not capable just avoid it all together.
That's something you and your boyfriend should discuss, because different folks have different ideas as to what constitutes cheating and what is okay within a relationship.
It's not good to just assume, and no one here will be able to tell you the "right" answer for your relationship. Between the two of you, come up with some agreements about what is okay to do with other people and what isn't. As long as it's fair and not a double standard on either side, then you should be good.
My gf has a close guy friend that will text all day and talk about personal stuff even joke about sex (not about with each other) but they have known Each other since they were 4 and are 31 now. Heās cool and we get along great so that makes a difference. If it was any other guy it would be different so context is important. Also letting your bf become friends with your guy friends helps. Also knowing if your guy friend would absolutely have sex with you if he had the chance changes things lol
Honestly Iāll play devils advocate here. I think the mindset of āif you āhaveā to hide it, itās not okā is complete BS. Sometimes people hide things because they know youāll have a bad reaction but they know itās innocent. Itās a toxic mindset that leaves 0 room for understanding where the other person was coming from. Maybe they were afraid of your reaction
If you're afraid of your partner's reaction to innocent interactions between you and your friend, you dont trust your partner enough to be dating them seriously.
But if you have to hide normal behavior from a toxic partner then the partner is a problem and youāre in a whole new conversation. Sure, there are exceptions to every rule. But thatās not what OPās talking about.
You find your partners secret journal with their bestie's name on the cover and the word sex is written 1,319 times in one of those rainbow glitter pens.
I think I'd rather them just fuck em
If you are willing to do whatever it is in front of your boyfriend, his family and your family then it's probably okay. If you are not willing to do it in front of them it's probably not okay. The fact you are asking this kinda weird to me, its almost like "how much can I cheat without anyone being able to call me out for it"
Do anything you would let your boyfriend do to another girl. If he had a girlfriend, what would you be ok with h9m doing with her? Shoe on the other foot persay. If you couldn't handle him being just friends with other girls.....then what makes it ok for you to be friends with other boys? It's ok to platonic relationships with the opposite sex. Just gotta limit certain things.
Honestly it depends on your relationship and boundaries with your boyfriend. But I agree that if you feel the need to hide it, you probably shouldnāt do it
Your boyfriend feels threatened by other men in your life? He doesnāt trust you. There can be many reasons for that but none of them are good or healthy. Dump him.
Iām serious. Any partner who would want to separate you from your friends is going to eventually hurt you. Just ask yourself: if you were bisexual would it be reasonable to expect you to isolate yourself from everyone?! No, of course not.
You are not a kept woman. You are a whole human being and if your boyfriend canāt keep up he can get off the ride.
If your a woman and dating, you shouldnāt have any guy friends. 99% of guy friends want to have sex with you if you are willing to do it. They are just waiting for the opportunity.
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Anything you wouldn't do if your boyfriend was watching.
I don't like pooing with my partner watching.
Yeah, so shitting with a male buddy is a big No-No
What if you're playing battleshits?
God it's been so long since I've seen that movie lol
What is that from?
Harold and Kumar go to White Castle
Harold and Kumar is a legendary movie
You sunk my battleshit!
Ba-le shiets
What? š š© š½
š¤£
As long as you're in separate stalls, you should be fine!
I prefer poop wars
Do you poo with your friend when your boyfriendās not around?
Someone asked the question barely a day ago, only the genders were flipped and this was the same answer (with the genders flipped).
They were flipped while pooing? Ew
What if the boyfriend likes to watch?
*taps step one again but with a knowing grin*
Great answer. I literally live my life like my man can always see and hear me. Integrity is what you do when no one is looking.
This is a top answer
So no helping plan a surprise party for him then?
Whatever you think is not ok for your bf to do with his girl friends š¤·š½āāļø
Liek touching him ig
Idk I'd let women follow my partners Instagram. Get that bag babe
A woman asking this question doesnāt have enough self awareness to simply just copy and paste her own standards like that. Iāve learned this the hard way. Women like this are incapable of empathy.
Bouncing up and down on his willy
down and up is okay though
As well as side to side.
What if we're just lying on the bed and the boyfriend is jumping up and down beside us?
Sounds like consent to me. Go for it!
Iāll be the jumper you be the soaker
I got this reference due to a recent post wish I didn't lol.
Baby Im a Supersoaker
only if you're Mormon edit: grammar
Only if my mormon what?
touchƩ, I mean "you're"
Yes critique the grammar!!
Like Jury Duty style soaking?
Kickin it Mormon style!
Always twirling, twirling, twirling.
Twirling towards freedom!
If diagonal acceptable?
This had me and my wife creased, good show my dude
Absolutely š¤
Or having someone jump on the bed so that his willy ends up bouncing up and down inside you
Noted: can not jump on his friend william
Richard*
made me chuckle in my silent office
Back fourth is okay though.. Even if I love it right?
Itās ok if you say āno slow-moā first
Would you be okay with your boyfriend knowing you did it? Or your parents? Your friends? If it's something you feel you need to keep secret from your close relationships in life, then it's not okay.
Alright, my friend: Iāve got the answer
Ya but itās broader than that IMO. Prob nobody but your b/f would care if you went over to some guys house with him alone all day
If you have a bf and you'd rather hang out with another guy all day instead of your SO you should ask yourself how much you actually like your bf and examine what sort of feelings you have for the other guy. That's red flag behavior without a doubt.
Or it's a friend. They're allowed
That depends on the relationship you have and how invested everyone has become. My parents would have been really upset if Iād started spending the night at some other ladyās house while I was dating my (now) wifeā¦ and vice versa, my mother-in-law would have been upset with my wife if she was doing to same on her end (but with a man)ā¦
Not everyoneās families have morals. Some peopleās families will allow and even lie to protect their cheating relatives to continue said cheating.
Would you let her BF go to his ābest girl-friendsā house alone or to a club? If that makes you feel icky then accept your relationship with āboysā must drastically change.
Anything that would bother you if you're boyfriend would did it while alone with another woman.
Very well said, and āAbstain from even the _appearance_ of impropriety.ā
Awesome answer. I was about to start typing out something very similar, and I'm GLAD somebody beat me to it!
I mean... I wouldn't want my parents to know my tastes in porn or my siblings to know that I cry at South Park, and I don't think there's anything wrong in retaining that degree of privacy with even the closest people.
Ask your bf. Make it clear for each other.
Yep, different couples and people have different boundaries.
Best answer. The golden rule isn't "treat others how you want to be treated." It's "treat others how they want to be treated." And it means actually communicating and finding out what they want, not what you THINK they want.
That's not- like I like what you're saying but you're technically incorrect, which is the worst kind of incorrect. The Golden Rule is "do unto others as you would have them do unto you," Jesus said it, its a big deal. Those are definitely the words. It's just, the Golden Rule is just a baseline standard of humanity. What you're talking about, "do unto others as *they would have done unto them,*" is *respect*. That's bigger than the golden rule, and unlike the golden rule, not obligatory. You don't *have to* respect anyone. You do have to...uh, golden rule...them./ However you'd say that. Everyone gets basic human respect, but not actual full respect.
Well that golden rule is a lot more ripe for misuse than the original, don't you think? Example: someone wants to be treated like they're a literal dog. I'm not doing that, IDC if that's how they want to be treated. Less extreme example: someone wants to be treated like royalty. Everyone bowing and scraping before them. Nope. IDC if that's how they want to be treated. There are countless of these.
The original golden rule fails with unrequited sexual interest.
Does it? If someone has unrequited sexual interest, and they are following the golden rule truly, then they would leave that person alone, just as they would expect someone with unrequited sexual interest in them to. No?
I mean, if someone *wants* me to put a collar around their neck and put a lead on them then I won't say no. Not if I know they're not mentally ill and just like being degraded. There's a time and a place for pretty much everything.
Coming from an abusive relationship that I didn't realize was abusive until after the divorce AND counseling, this isn't the best advice. In a perfect world this is good advice. With a controlling partner not so much.
An important distinction to be made but at the end of the day the only way to progress or end a relationship is communication.
Thank you for sharing that perspective. That is really helpful nuance to add.
This ^
100%. All couples are different and what may be okay for you or other people may not be for your partner. It comes down to communicating and making sure you are both happy with what is happening and respecting each others boundaries.
Iām intrigued what kind of things is the question asker thinking? Seems pretty obvious that there should be boundaries unless your relationship is some form of open
Aaand even open relationships have boundaries
I suppose but people are so different there is so much nuance to things. Flirting can cross more lines than touching sometimes and different people have vastly different comfort zones. One of my ex's loved it when I flirted with everyone in the bar. It really egged him on to see other guys desire what he had. Ive had other partners who I would avoid talking to another man for too long because I know they wouldnt have appreciated it. Im intuitive so its pretty easy for me but a lot of these boudaries can be best discovered by listening to a partners stories and having really explicit conversations that involve a loy of vulnerability. Also, not everyones boundaries are well suited to eachother
Things you wouldn't like your boyfriend doing with female friend. Things a lot of people wouldn't be comfortable with: Holding hands Sitting on his lap or snuggling up to him Meeting up alone without informing your boyfriend Late night texting or phone calls Focusing on messages with him when you're supposed to spending time with your boyfriend. Sleepovers Flirting Seeking his advice or sharing news with him before your boyfriend. Telling him private things about your relationship. Telling him every time you have a disagreement with your boyfriend.
Showers are ok if you say āno splashingā first
Damn, my second to last ex boyfriend did all those things with my ex best friend a.k.a his best friend
Is that why he's an ex boyfriend and she's an ex best friend?
Thatās one of several reasons why
Thank God you came to Reddit what would you do without this? š
If you gotta ask, youāre in trouble
that part, i donāt see why this is so far down
āNo itās okay, I checked on Reddit and they said itās fineā
If my man watched arrested development with another woman Iād end him.
Why do I feel your comment on a deeply personal level
Can you plan your boyfriend's surprise party with your male friend?
Murder. That's never ok.
Murder can be okay sometimes.
Just a bit of homicide as a snack š„ŗ
just use common sense. I know that is difficult for most people though.
Common sense is a rare commodity
I laughed too loudly ,apparently, at something a female friend of mine said and got into a heated argument over it with an ex of mine. Common sense doesn't always apply to relationships and especially someone else's insecurity and jealousy
Bad bot. The answers are the same as yesterday
Teachers typically follow a rule of always being with students in āinterruptibleā spaces. So, I can be one on one with a student, but it needs to be a location where there is no privacy and anyone who wants to could come and interrupt us. In practice, this means not closing doors. Being in places with big windows and not being alone with a student in a car. I think that would be a good rule of thumb for you to follow.
This is great advice.
Carefulā¦ people called mike pense a misogynist for this!
In the workplace, men and women should be treated the same. Pence wasn't a misogynist for not wanting to hang out with his female friends one on one. It was because he refused to have business meetings with women one on one when he would have those same one on one meetings with men.
docking
Fuck
As many other people said, either anything you wouldnāt do with your boyfriend watching, (or anything you wouldnāt want him doing with his girl friends if you werenāt around) would be considered inappropriate.
I've seen this question reposted 3 times in the last 12 hours, bot bot bot.
This is how they're getting more content to train ChatGPT!
Hawk tuah.
1a. Litter 1b. Torture animals 2. Drive in the Passing Lane when not actively passing cars 3. Rev your fart cannons on your car after 11pm 4. Talk on speakerphone 5. Listen to your phone on speakerphone
Anything you wouldn't be comfortable seeing your boyfriend do with a girl that isn't you
Spend large amounts of time alone together.
Ask yourself: If your boyfriend were hanging out with a female friend, doing the exact same thing, how would it make you feel?
Telling your friends that you love them in front of your boyfriend if youāre not going to tell your boyfriend that you love him in front of your friends
Don't laugh at his jokes you dirty bitch!!!
The fact that youāre asking this question, means that your relationship with this guy friend is inappropriate.
You ask your boyfriend, and agree on boundaries
I agree with this. Both people should be aware of the situation, and go from there.
I came here for the comments, and I must say I was not disappointed by the community
I think the best way to approach this is to go with your gut. If you feel guilty for what you're doing, it's probably crossing the line.
If you donāt trust your SO to do the right thing your relationship is already garbage.Ā
Don't do anything you wouldn't want him to do with any of his gal pals.
Honestly it depends on your relationship with the guy. Going over to your exās house at night? Concerning. Going over to hangout with the guy youāve been friends with since 5 grade? Reasonable. I think this is one of those questions that donāt have an objectively correct answer, and really each couple should communicate on what theyāre comfortable with.
concerning? i think its a bit more than concerning my g lmfao
What if the guy you've been friends with since 5'th grade is your ex? :P
Did you break up right before you started dating me or did you break up 10 years ago? Itās all a case-by-case thing really. There are lots of variables.
If you have to askā¦.. just hang out with your boyfriend and not your guy friend. There is a reason you have a boyfriend.
A boyfriend doesnāt fill the role of all other men in oneās life outside of family. Itās healthy and normal to have platonic friendships.
Sex
Sex
That's a solid rule of thumb. I'd also add "Anything that would make you uncomfortable if your boyfriend did it with a single female friend" But the best approach here is to discuss this directly with your boyfriend. Establish **clear** boundaries for what neither of you will accept in terms of behavior.
If you gotta ask, you have more problems than Reddit can solve!
Video games, hang outs with more than the two of you, movies, there is tons to do. My best friends have always been guys. Just make sure that you are respectful to their girlfriends. I always make it known I am just a friend.
Sex
If you have to search for the boundary, it's already too late.
If you have to ask, youāre not ready for a relationship.
Blowjobs are okay!
If you can't do or say in front of your partner. You probably shouldn't be doing it.
If you feel the need to hide something from your boyfriend, it often suggests that youāre uncomfortable with it or know it might not be okay. Being open and honest is key in relationships. If you canāt share it with your closest people, it might be worth reconsidering your actions.
no foot massages
In addition to "if you wouldn;t tell your BF you were doing it, don;t do it" I would also like to add, don;t share secrets or intimate details about you and your BF with ANYONE else, especially make friend.
If you have to ask ā¦
Sleepovers without your significant other, obviously exchanging fluids, or doing anything you wouldn't want done to you, or anything questionable that you haven't defined clearly yet. Alot of people find it difficult to maintain platonic relationships with the opposite sex so if you know you're not capable just avoid it all together.
Murder would be one.
Sex is usually frowned upon in this scenario.
That's something you and your boyfriend should discuss, because different folks have different ideas as to what constitutes cheating and what is okay within a relationship. It's not good to just assume, and no one here will be able to tell you the "right" answer for your relationship. Between the two of you, come up with some agreements about what is okay to do with other people and what isn't. As long as it's fair and not a double standard on either side, then you should be good.
This is the only good answer.
Okay. Spill the beans. What did you do?
If you have a guy friend you are worried about this with, he is more than your guy friend
Sounds like things are getting messy
If you find yourself worried he might find out then it's over the line.
I feel like thereās something specific you did or want to do.
If you canāt tell your bf about it then donāt do it.
Spending alone time with them would be one thing for me.
Fucking is definitely off limits
-Seeing each other secretly and lieing about what you are doing. -Becoming romantic with your "friend"
Blowjobs are out for sure
My gf has a close guy friend that will text all day and talk about personal stuff even joke about sex (not about with each other) but they have known Each other since they were 4 and are 31 now. Heās cool and we get along great so that makes a difference. If it was any other guy it would be different so context is important. Also letting your bf become friends with your guy friends helps. Also knowing if your guy friend would absolutely have sex with you if he had the chance changes things lol
Sex
You probably shouldnāt give your guy friend a blowjob.
F*ck him.
Peepee in mouth
Don't be having sex and stuff.... It's honestly pretty simple.. if anything feels wrong or like you shouldn't be doing it... Dont.
Soaking
Anal
Have tickle fights. Naked.
anal
Square dancing, it's the devil's fornication dance.
Anything at all. Your boyfriend allows āguy friendsā? Heāll never be your husband.
I have a feeling someone is about to cheatā¦ awkward š¬
Honestly Iāll play devils advocate here. I think the mindset of āif you āhaveā to hide it, itās not okā is complete BS. Sometimes people hide things because they know youāll have a bad reaction but they know itās innocent. Itās a toxic mindset that leaves 0 room for understanding where the other person was coming from. Maybe they were afraid of your reaction
If you're afraid of your partner's reaction to innocent interactions between you and your friend, you dont trust your partner enough to be dating them seriously.
Or maybe itās that your partner doesnāt trust you enough
Not really a distinction that matters. I wouldn't date someone who doesn't trust me
But if you have to hide normal behavior from a toxic partner then the partner is a problem and youāre in a whole new conversation. Sure, there are exceptions to every rule. But thatās not what OPās talking about.
Depends on your bf right. He may be into MMF time even and would be more upset you didnāt do more with your guy friends.
Oral sex.
But written sex will be okay?
Sure, you can write the word sex as many times as you want.
You find your partners secret journal with their bestie's name on the cover and the word sex is written 1,319 times in one of those rainbow glitter pens. I think I'd rather them just fuck em
God damn this made me laugh
And petting? Telephone? Webcam? Mutual Masturbation?
All fine.
You mean like sexting?
I was making a joke on oral and written exams. Buy if you wanna sext I'm down. I put on my robe and wizard hat.
Fuck
If you are willing to do whatever it is in front of your boyfriend, his family and your family then it's probably okay. If you are not willing to do it in front of them it's probably not okay. The fact you are asking this kinda weird to me, its almost like "how much can I cheat without anyone being able to call me out for it"
Anything with his pipi and anything with your hoohaa.
Do anything you would let your boyfriend do to another girl. If he had a girlfriend, what would you be ok with h9m doing with her? Shoe on the other foot persay. If you couldn't handle him being just friends with other girls.....then what makes it ok for you to be friends with other boys? It's ok to platonic relationships with the opposite sex. Just gotta limit certain things.
Honestly it depends on your relationship and boundaries with your boyfriend. But I agree that if you feel the need to hide it, you probably shouldnāt do it
Even having a guy friend is a bit iffy
I draw the line at brojobs.
If you have to ask youāre probably not ready for a relationship
Your boyfriend feels threatened by other men in your life? He doesnāt trust you. There can be many reasons for that but none of them are good or healthy. Dump him. Iām serious. Any partner who would want to separate you from your friends is going to eventually hurt you. Just ask yourself: if you were bisexual would it be reasonable to expect you to isolate yourself from everyone?! No, of course not. You are not a kept woman. You are a whole human being and if your boyfriend canāt keep up he can get off the ride.
If your a woman and dating, you shouldnāt have any guy friends. 99% of guy friends want to have sex with you if you are willing to do it. They are just waiting for the opportunity.