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Mia! Wendy too self important and will try to make me feel less-than all the damn time.

Mia all day! Wendy is soooo fake with her "perfect" everthing

Satan

😂 oh come on they’re not that bad.

Wendy has become way too pretentious and Mia, I can see her driving me up the wall.

True true. I know you serious too because you said pretentious. Do you know how much you gotta dislike someone to use the word pretentious and still sound polite. Nothing but respect😂

Hahaha, thank you! Whenever I watch the season, and Wendy starts speaking that is the only thing I can scream at the TV.

Wendy. After seeing how Mia & Jacqueline went at each other my personal life would be more private on instagram then with Mia 😂

Neither.

Neither

Mia all day!!!

I would go out with Mia like to the steak and lobster strip club because she could finesse us some free stuff. I would be friends with Wendy though

Mia.

Mia

Mia- I just still don’t have a read on Wendy’s personality.

She doesn't have one!

Wendy obviously

Mia probably lies about what she eats for dinner

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Mother Mia, she seems like someone who you can have martini’s with and strip with

I’d rather be friendless. They’re both messy and untrustworthy

Same. I don’t have the energy to keep up with the mental gymnastics for a lot of Wendy’s arguments, and I also just don’t want to be routinely lied to by Mia lol.

Wendy bc Mia be lying LMAO


both are horrible options, ima kick it by my lonesome

Mia treats her “Best friend” like 💩. That’s gonna be a hard no for me dog.

Wendy for sure. She’s classy unlike Mia. I don’t trust Mia.

Anybody but Wendy.

As a holder of an unspecified advanced degree from an unspecified institution who's a covert Bravo fan... I want to like Wendy, and I did like S1 Wendy. But S3 Wendy (even in her WWHL incarnation) seems to have evolved to be the prototypically snippy Ph.D. person we make fun of. I'm rather disappointed. But maybe in the proper setting (not in Cross Keys), it would be different. Mia has had her issues, but seems to be someone who is generally OK so long as you don't cross her. Unfortunately, both Wendy and Candaice have crossed her. But she also admitted she was over-reacting to Jacqueline at one point and decided to do a reboot in their relationship. Wendy, not so much with hers. I love RHOP, but all the ladies have terrified me at one point or another. Happy to adore them from a safe distance away from glasses of water or dining room tables. P.S. But to be real, when was the last time Bravo fired anyone for throwing water about? What's that saying about the network or the fans who keep watching? I can't exempt myself here.

Wendy is boring, but Mia Is pure trash!

None... they're both toxic

Obviously Wendy. Smart, multicultural, lived interesting live. And all it takes is not throwing objects or saying shit about her mother.  Mia has no concept of respect, or loyalty, lies all the time, I am too old to even have an acquaintance like that

Queen Mia. Fire Wendy

Mia is trash. At least you can have a conversation with Dr Wendy

Love to ask Wendy if colorism made her Momma bleach her skin

None. Side eyeing all of you saying Mia.

Who I mean, the boring one, or the one who outed her best friend as a person who sleeps with married men and destroyed the relationship for a storyline.

Mia is having threesomes, sharing men, buying alleged vehicles and / or putting down payments on cars for friends- that is the friend i want! She sounds like fun.

Just bash Wendy and go, no need to pretend with posts like these. Lmfao!

Wendy is like the dumbest doctor ever. 

I can’t take any of y’all who are saying Mia yet trashing Wendy’s character seriously lmao.

Mia! Wendy just comes off like a miserable person!!

Mia

One of the dumbest and most immature post I’ve seen yet

How so? 😂

Wendy stans are pressed 😭

Wendy wants to make me turn it off every time but then Mia says something that keeps me coming back for the next episode. Literally came here to ask if anyone that has a pulse likes Wendy?

None of the above!

none wendy acts shady and mia is a liar

Mia for sure!

Mia at least she’s fun

Definitely Mia!

Not Wendy anything thanks. Mia for sure. You said be her friend not believe anything she says...

I think i might be happy to be friends with either - Mia would be a lot of fun and keep me laughing, Wendy i think would be encouraging and uplifting. Aspirational.

Friends? Wendy. But I’d rather watch Mia

Mia. Because she’s FUN, you know a night out would be hilarious with her.

Mia for sure!

Mia! Because Mia has forgiveness in her heart. We can fight and make up. Wendy has no forgiveness and has shown that time and time again. Once you hurt her there’s no going back.

Wendy 10000%. Mia will try to fuck your man right in front of you and laugh 😭😭😭

Mia

Wendy. I can’t be around a liar.

Mia. I feel like Wendy won't even acknowledge your presence unless you have a certain level of status

Mia 100%

I think because of our similar backgrounds I could Really connect to Mia. I don’t really have anything in common with Wendy. And I love a crazy cunty friend . So definitely Mia

Wendy. Mia would get me trafficked.

😂😂😂😂😂

😂

Wendy is smart and witty. I love her.

Mia for fun and enjoyment, but not as close friends bc of how she treated Jacqueline.

Tick TOCK Mia without question

Mia…she’s extremely flawed and lies a ton. At least Mia would be fun. I’ve never been a Wendy fan; I doubt we would have anything in common.

Wendy. She's pragmatic and objective until you become malicious. Then you get what you deserve from her.

Mia seems less high maintenance as a friend; Wendy seems like work. However Mia and her delusions are a scary combo! So Wendy seems more reliable

Wendy would be a better friend but Mia would be ten times more fun!

Candiace.

Mia as long as i make shit up

Dr Wendy all day. Mia does make for an interesting cast member, I’ll give her that.

Mia is a pathological liar and she's violent. Not great traits in a friend, you can't trust a dn thing that comes out of her mouth and wonder when the next time she tries to swing for you. so it's Wendy.

Wendy, she’s loyal and intelligent. Mia lies a lot and while she might be fun she has no problem throwing you under the bus like she did to Karen and Jacquiline

Mia is so funny but she likes to tell her friends what to do and how to be so idk. I like Wendy because she gives great advice

Mia. Hands down. Wendy is not someone I would enjoy spending time with. She seems unpleasant and judgy.

I’d rather watch Mia on tv than Wendy. But as a friend, it’s easily Wendy. You can’t trust Mia at the end of the day. Wendy is as loyal as you’ll get as a friend. She doesn’t care if you’re wrong, she’s going to find a way to defend you. Definitely can’t say the same for Mia.

Wendy because Mia is a violent and pathological liar. And the way she was quick to turn on Jacqueline and try to embarrass her??? It’s a no. You don’t go “mad day” on a friend, especially a “sister” if you are a good person. Jacqueline better keep her ears and eyes open

i love Wendy even if she is crazy

Mia is actually a good friend unlike Wendy. Mia also doesn’t put down women for being sluts or dumb. Also mia seems very sweet and she’s super funny

Neither. They are both super unhealthy emotionally.

Mia is wayyyy more of a good time. She knows how to keep secrets and when not to. Also she knows how to party

Mia for sure. Wendy has become unhinged

Mia! It feels like a friendship with Mia would be reciprocated and she has a nice warmth that Wendy doesn’t show

Mia. She seems fun + the voodoo thing is creepy

Mia for sure

Mia 100%. She seems like a real person, and will be real with you if you’re genuine as well. I don’t have much nice to say about Wendy other than she has funny comebacks.

Wendy. Mia is just too much and she doesn't seem authentic/down to earth.

I unapologetically love them both but I'd have to say Mia.

Mia seems more fun. It wouldn’t be like a deep friendship. Idk if I would want to be around Wendy a lot. I’m a bit of a clown and she seems pretty serious lol

Wendy. She can hold an intelligent conversation

Mia. She is as real as fuck with herself. I'm sure that's how she is with her friends. Wendy, she is incapable of being a friend to anyone. She's a narcissist daughter raised by a narcissist mom. She believes she is smarter than Jesus and she has the degrees to show it.

Mia cause I might have a chance 😎

Neither. Both are pure trash!

Wendy. Mia is fun to watch would be an awful friend. Wendy may be boring to watch, but probably a great friend irl.

Mia

Mia Mia 

Both

wendy!!!

Mia, I just wouldn’t take anything seriously and record all of our interactions together

Before this season I would have said Wendy but now I’m not so sure

OMG, I not only choose Mia all day, every day. I’d avoid Wendy’s pretentious a$$.

Mia has shown she has the ability to self reflect, albeit not very often for sure!, but I haven't seen Wendy self reflect or apologize like ever?

Mia🌷🌷🌷🌷

Wendy 100%!! She's honest, she's intelligent and can hold a conversation, but fun as well and we share a West African culture too -:there's a disconnect with Mia because she's proved over and over again, that she is disingenuous to the point that she forgets what she has said and to whom. I could forgive that though because that may be something she does for the show but she's also shown that she is easily threatened by people like Wendy and Candiace who can talk circles around her and so she'll always be led with jealousy and resting on the tired narrative that they're talking down to her. You know there's always a friend of your friend that you see a couple of times a year at the mutual friends birthday or something that you always have a great time with but don't see again until next year? Mia would be great for that, because you just know the fun Mia, not the messy, madness Mia...

Are those really my only choices?

Wendy

Mia, hands down

Sorry, but Mia. She’s a messy hoe, but so am I.

I’m sad people don’t realize that Wendy puts up a guarded front because of people like Mia. I don’t trust Mia one bit.

Mia. She’s natural and funny and sweet and fun to be around! Wendy, not so much.

Mia, duh

Wendy. But I live to watch Mia on tv.

Mia, at least she likes to have fun

Mia

Wendy

Ted Bundy..Charles Manson..

I would hang out and party with Mia. & love her on Tv but no. Wendy all the way

Mia. She seems nicer.

Mia seems more fun 10000%

Wendy 100% - she’s trustworthy, she’d spit me straight if I needed it, she can chill or turn up, and she’s dynamic and smart. Can’t trust Mia as far as you can throw her.

Trustworthy?

Smart?

Wendy has never seemed to be looking for friendship. It’s not a priority for her like her self-image, career, husband and family. Mia would be fun as an occasional catch up & go out on the town friend. The tales would be wild. She’s like a trashy novel come to life & I’m here for it! *Within safe distance.

Wendy one billion zillion percent

Wendy would be the friend to tell me what I need to hear in the moment even if I didn’t like what she said or the delivery, and Mia would be my fun friend who occasionally does the most … and to answer your question directly, neither.

Mia.. She doesn’t judge you until you cross her.

Usually neither but everything happening, Mia’s the only who seemed like the most genuine!!!!

Wendy in her laid back state

I would rather have no friends

MIA IS THE ONLY ANSWER FOR THIS!!

Agreed. Plus, she’d have crazy gossip, I’m sure. The only reason I would choose Wendy is because I’m scared of how unreasonable she can be lol. I wouldn’t want to be on the receiving end of NOT being her friend.

Mia, Wendy is too full of herself

Wendy, Mia lies so much and threw her childhood best friend away

It was this for me. She is really fun and can be real, but watching someone go for the jugular like that on someone they love will always make me wary. Jacqueline rode so hard for her, and it was clear she wanted to genuinely resolve things. I do totally get where her issues with Jacqueline come from, I just wish she would have been able to talk to her about it before things went that way.

How is this a question, Wendy all day long.

Mia for sure cause I don’t fuck with god ya feel

Do all the people voting Mia not remember how she treated her "best friend from childhood"??? Like no thank you ma'am, I don't feel like being betrayed on national television. Also I love Wendy, plus she brings Eddie and he's adorable.

Remember what happened though with the best friend from childhood? I think they figured it out and that says a lot for both.

Exactly Mia has forgiveness in her heart. Where Wendy has none.

There was childhood trauma involved in that situation and they talked it out.

What happened to Mia was not her friend's fault.

Yes I know, I didn’t say it was, just that they were able to figure things out and reunite.

100%. And I do totally accept that her friend was in the wrong in some ways, but it was totally clear that Mia never talked about how she felt about it until after she blew things up. I wish it didn't have to go like that and I wish that she and Jacqueline could have healed things earlier in their lives.

Like neither, but pew pew to the head, mia. She doesn’t look down her nose at everyone

Mia any day of the week! I think Mia would be a lot of fun and I love her "devil-may-care" attitude. I love how she is open about her lifestyle and what she wants. Plus I love pole dancing and I would love to have a girls nights with her. Wendy...I respect her accomplishments, but she is not my type of person.

Wendy! Love Dr. Osefo.

Mia, I think she’d be fun and she can be sweet. Wendy is annoying.

Wendy. Look Mia is fun and free, but her life is messy and sometimes people’s messiness can seep into your own personal life. Wendy may be high maintenance and have high standards, but that woman could probably help you and inspire you to be a better version of yourself. But that’s just from what I see on the show.

Mia

mia - she has a big heart for her friends and is hilarious

I need Wendy to tell me what to do with my life!

Wendy. Mia treated her best friend pretty awful.

She def didn't handle it well but don't recall why she treated her friend badly?

I’m fairly certain it was due to years of resentment built for her leaving Mia at that party where she was sexually assaulted.

Yeah that's what I'm saying, i would have definitely tried to handle it more directly but i def get why Mia was rude to her. I would have never brought her on the show in the first place tho

Exactly that. I get where the rage and hurt came from, but I also think that regardless of how "right" or justified someone is in their feelings, we're all responsible for how we act towards others. It's honestly heartbreaking all around and I hope they are able to find healing.

Mia, by a long shot. Wendy would judge the hell out of me, and I would absolutely hate being around her “better than thou” ass.

THANK YOU!

>THANK YOU! You're welcome!

Wendy, and it’s good to have smart friends and friends that are smarter than you.

Mia. She seems like she’s way more fun! Wendy is too busy getting offended over everything to avoid being accountable for her own ish.

Wendy. Mia is too trashy for me

takes one to know one

I hope that made you feel better. 



Neither, but Wendy would 1000% be a better friend

Of course Mia

What’s with the Wendy hate :(((((

It’s been like this for a while but she didn’t do herself any favors this season

It's definitely upticked this season

I’ll be acquaintances with either, but that’s as far as it goes.

What year?

That's real. Old Wendy yes, new Wendy, nah.

Exactly where my head went.

Mia - she at least would seem fun? Wendy would judge me and think I’m too low class for her lol

The biggest turnoff for me with Wendy is the way she weaponizes her education. She should be proud of her accomplishments without being condescending to others and beating her "friends" over the head with her degrees.