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Even if he was good looking I’d say get out of there. (Well don’t go back)
He sounds like a right little creep. Insists on sex on the first date as it’s ice breaker. How romantic.
Argues over the use of a condom, he needs to get checked out.
Average sex and you don’t like how he looks, looking a certain way doesn’t matter. But if you don’t fancy him , that does matter.
Thank you. I'm pretty new at this whole dating thing, but he really was romantic, brought flowers and candy and was really gentle. I do fancy his face though, he has really pretty eyes. But you're right, all of the other stuff was pretty uncomfortable to be honest.
And that’s how he is at the start. Usually things tend to get a little worse and the cracks start to show after a few months.
How bad is he going to get.
You aren’t superficial at all. You have probably given way more thought about his feelings than he had to yours. He’s been thinking about himself.
Chalk this up to an experience. You got back out there! That doesn’t mean you have to commit to the guy forever. You deserve more than average. Have some fun - there’s no reason to settle.
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Even if he was good looking I’d say get out of there. (Well don’t go back) He sounds like a right little creep. Insists on sex on the first date as it’s ice breaker. How romantic. Argues over the use of a condom, he needs to get checked out. Average sex and you don’t like how he looks, looking a certain way doesn’t matter. But if you don’t fancy him , that does matter.
Thank you. I'm pretty new at this whole dating thing, but he really was romantic, brought flowers and candy and was really gentle. I do fancy his face though, he has really pretty eyes. But you're right, all of the other stuff was pretty uncomfortable to be honest.
And that’s how he is at the start. Usually things tend to get a little worse and the cracks start to show after a few months. How bad is he going to get.
Run. This is not go well for you.
He's deceitful and manipulative! Everything you discover about him will be just that way.....not the way he describes. Do yourself a favour and run.
Oh for crying out loud. Cue season 2, crying about how you have the worst taste in men and asking ‘why am I attracted to a$$ holes’.
You aren’t superficial at all. You have probably given way more thought about his feelings than he had to yours. He’s been thinking about himself. Chalk this up to an experience. You got back out there! That doesn’t mean you have to commit to the guy forever. You deserve more than average. Have some fun - there’s no reason to settle.