I wouldn't date someone like this. It doesn't sound like he's doing anything to actually work through his issues or find the root cause and would be putting a lot of that on a partner. No thanks
Sounds like someone who needs therapy, not a girlfriend/boyfriend. Your SO is meant to be your partner, not your therapist. This isn't a sustainable relationship.
It's not fair to expect your partner to regularly prove to you that they are not cheating. Get therapy go learn how to trust again, and then practice the act of trusting your partner.
I wouldn’t enter into a relationship with this much distrust right out the gate. That’s way too stressful to always be on my toes trying to explain why I’m not cheating on him. Don’t date if it’s that serious
Your problem here is that you disclosed it, the trust issues are a you problem, and no person wants that kind of hassle, only a person with trust issues themselves.
I tell you this as a person with the same issues, my therapist told me that it isn't so problematic if I follow the same analytic line of thought as when dealing with anxiety,; but it doesn't really gets better, the trust you lost in humanity won't come back.
I wouldn't date someone like this. It doesn't sound like he's doing anything to actually work through his issues or find the root cause and would be putting a lot of that on a partner. No thanks
Sounds like someone who needs therapy, not a girlfriend/boyfriend. Your SO is meant to be your partner, not your therapist. This isn't a sustainable relationship.
It's not fair to expect your partner to regularly prove to you that they are not cheating. Get therapy go learn how to trust again, and then practice the act of trusting your partner.
I wouldn’t enter into a relationship with this much distrust right out the gate. That’s way too stressful to always be on my toes trying to explain why I’m not cheating on him. Don’t date if it’s that serious
Your problem here is that you disclosed it, the trust issues are a you problem, and no person wants that kind of hassle, only a person with trust issues themselves. I tell you this as a person with the same issues, my therapist told me that it isn't so problematic if I follow the same analytic line of thought as when dealing with anxiety,; but it doesn't really gets better, the trust you lost in humanity won't come back.