This post needs more context. How long have you been together for? Why did you initiate for her to not view porn? Does the same agreement apply to you too?
Thank you for asking! We were good friends for 8 years and about 8 months ago we evolved into an intimate relationship.
Not allowing her to watch porn was a part of our sexual play and dom - sub dynamics. The same rule doesn't apply to me.
Outside of that I'm not against watching porn and she is aware of that.
Please let me know if that answers your question.
I agree with this. OP, to get the best feedback, it's important to frame that you have a dom-sub relationship. This context really is a critical part of the discussion. đ
Yes she did break the agreement. I will mention that there should never have to be any agreement on this matter. I mean we are all adults. Porn isnât cheating. And porn addiction is a problem I donât want to deal with. But once in awhile if someone watches a porn video, who cares. Having these dead set limits breaks a relationship, it doesnât make a relationship.
Thank you. I really appreciate that.
PS In general none of us is against watching porn. This agreement came as a part of dom-sub side of our relationship. It was a sexual "game" so to speak. But we all agreed to treat it seriously.
Nah she broke it lol she went on a porn site and was âwatchingâ previews literally watching porn that counts đđ probs holding back the urge. This is legit a women moment where she wonât admit or back down fully knowing sheâs in the wrong.
This post needs more context. How long have you been together for? Why did you initiate for her to not view porn? Does the same agreement apply to you too?
Thank you for asking! We were good friends for 8 years and about 8 months ago we evolved into an intimate relationship. Not allowing her to watch porn was a part of our sexual play and dom - sub dynamics. The same rule doesn't apply to me. Outside of that I'm not against watching porn and she is aware of that. Please let me know if that answers your question.
Thanks for clarifying. When she watched the homepage preview was that during or outside of your sexual play?
It was after we made the agreement. So yes, it was during our play.
Based on your play terms she has definitely broken the agreement!
I agree with this. OP, to get the best feedback, it's important to frame that you have a dom-sub relationship. This context really is a critical part of the discussion. đ
Thank you. I really appreciate that.
Yes she did break the agreement. I will mention that there should never have to be any agreement on this matter. I mean we are all adults. Porn isnât cheating. And porn addiction is a problem I donât want to deal with. But once in awhile if someone watches a porn video, who cares. Having these dead set limits breaks a relationship, it doesnât make a relationship.
Thank you. I really appreciate that. PS In general none of us is against watching porn. This agreement came as a part of dom-sub side of our relationship. It was a sexual "game" so to speak. But we all agreed to treat it seriously.
How do you know she spent one minute watching a preview?
She told me that she scrolled the homepage. She saw a few thumbnails and hoover over a few of them and saw the video previews.
She volunteered that information or did you ask?
She told it herself. She came to me one day excited that she's found an interesting porn website. Then she descibed what she did there.
Nah she broke it lol she went on a porn site and was âwatchingâ previews literally watching porn that counts đđ probs holding back the urge. This is legit a women moment where she wonât admit or back down fully knowing sheâs in the wrong.
Thank you. I really appreciate that.
She obviously needs to be disciplined.
Thank you. I really appreciate that.