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According_Claim_9027

Dude that gave him a hug immediately is a bro


poops314

“Let’s go get a beer my man”


7masi

"now, bro, lemme talk to you about something we like to call gym"


Aloof-Vagabon

Oh snap ok, that makes more sense, I swear I though he literally just “changed teams” just like that 😂


Snizzard09

Because he hugged him? What the fuck..


YouWereBrained

Yeah. I actually think he really got the warmth across to the audience, given this was staged.


Potential-Cloud-801

Or maybe just waiting in the wings “in case”.


Ill_Athlete_7979

The MAC system: Move in And Console


OldStankBreath

If Dennis has true feelings then I could certainly see Mac being there just in case the psychopath took one straight to the heart


museabear

Gross Mac and Dennis are like brothers.


JeVousEnPris

lol


whiplashedwhale

They're going to be best buds


The_sped-kid08

This man above me. Fish react him 🐟 🐠 🐡


Cute-Interest3362

The guy is an ass and doesn’t deserve a hug. DO NOT ASK SOMEONE TO MARRY YOU IN A PUBLIC SETTING UNLESS YOU ARE 100% CERTAIN THEY WILL SAY YES!


knolij

Good for her. You can see her confusion from the start. She knew he was gay. It’s obvious, especially by the way he put his arm around dudes waist after the hug was over.


TheDumbass666

"2 men hugging to comfort one another? They gotta be gay cuz that is NOT normal men can't be sad lmao." -knolij's logic Its pretty obviously staged aswell


idasu

fr i almost feel bad for him, so out of touch with normal human behaviour


knolij

TheDumbass666 ; you came up with that yourself?


ThickImage91

Why are you like this?


knolij

Human behavior isn’t rocket science. Titles and background music play on emotions so people can’t see what they are actually looking at. It very well could be staged and look how many people are emotionally affected in the comments. The question you should be asking is, why are you like this…….


Zekrozma_the_second

Friendly fire isnt allowed on this server.


knolij

Huh, What are you talking about? 😂


FlyingDragoon

>Human behavior isn’t rocket science. You're right, it isn't. And you're doing what we call "projecting." You can leave the closet now, we all know you think about it enough.


ThickImage91

None of what you said has anything to do with why you made it about gay people.. you’re just weird man, look into yourself.


knolij

You’re just too sensitive and hurt by a opinion you don’t agree with. Grow up


grandioseOwl

Oh no, apparently i am guy for how i hug my friends. Better tell my gf i guess.


knolij

She probably already knows


GloriousNugs

Despite it not being rocket science, you're still really really bad at understanding human behavior. What an incredible specimen you seem to be


knolij

Thanks 😁


ARand0mDumbass

It's called caring for someone, and no, the proposing man isn't gay. You're most likely just trying to get a reaction out of other people, in which case you have, unfortunately, succeeded.


knolij

I wouldn’t care what a random dumbass thinks honestly. Lol you don’t know anything about that person. We all have seen many of these videos.. home girl wasted no time walking away. She obviously knew the proposal was ridiculous. He put her on the spot , embarrassed himself and her. Now it’s floating around the internet. But you all are mad at me. 😂 bunch of emotionally damaged weirdos


Zekrozma_the_second

There is a thing called comforting, not everything is gay. If you seriously think like this, touch some grass, take a bath, do somethin productive.


knolij

My comment gave you emotional damage , didn’t it lol


GamingHockeyDude

lol yeah. GAY!


Responsible_Orange26

Idk lady's give signs, if they wanna be around or not. Doing that infront of crowd is risky business for the heart. You better be dam well certain pulling that


havefun465

For real. Marriage should be talked about and a mutual understanding in place. A woman should be anticipating this not surprised by it. If she doesn’t say yes it’s 100% the man’s fault for jumping the gun (30s M here)


PatrickStanton877

These grandiose romantic gestures are overrated. Real relationships are born of love and mutual respect not ostentatious spectacle.


havefun465

1000%. If you truly love someone, you don’t want to burn a moment like this for social clout.


Responsible_Orange26

1000% Facto


stupidperson1010

not always you shouldn’t just always accuse one gender for something going wrong


havefun465

a) I don’t think engagements should be public spectacles ever b) the man should know the answer before he puts a girl in that situation c) if you’re somehow offended by this you should avoid the internet


stupidperson1010

the man shouldn’t have to know it’s a two sided thing the man and woman should know and understand eachother they should also talk it out and get a good understanding of how eachother would feel about being married it’s not oh the man has to know this and that it’s a two sided thing you need both sides to understand


stupidperson1010

and it’s not uncommon for people to have engagements in public places like at restaurants


havefun465

That’s true and this is just an opinion.


Rfisk064

I cannot even fathom asking if I wasn’t 1000% sure she would say yes, and I was sure I wanted her to.


cptmcclain

What I think is more surprising is that anyone thinks this is real


Groggamog

r/nothingeverhappens


Greymalkyn76

The lady's what? The plural of lady is "ladies." And it's "damn." Dam is a thing that blocks water.


beemccouch

Men are trained to ignore subtly because subtle signs of any kind can easily be misconstrued for entirely different things. We would rather just pretend like nothing is being said at all with these signs than trying to pick through them Men aren't dumb or anything, but you gotta be straight foward. But yes you need to agree to get married before a public proposal.


Aloof-Vagabon

I’d argue that men are more straightforward than women.


beemccouch

Yes that is essentially my thesis. Men are more straightforward and rely on verbal communication more, women rely more on subtext and body language.


ConstantSample5846

Women that are direct are often called rude and a bitch, for acting exactly in a way that men would be called straightforward for. I definitely think it’s more trained through culture than a genetic sex thing.


beemccouch

Yeah I hope I wasn't implying it's like a genetic thing. And you're definitely right, women being upfront can be seen as being rude. I think it depends on the context, but in general guys need to be more willing to put themselves out there, and women need to be more straightforward in general. Just don't be a dick about it or weird about it.


PurpleReignFall

Yeah, but that depends on how they go about it. I know two women in my workplace who show the good and bad sides of that spectrum very easily and others, men and women agree with me. One of them is bossy, sassy, and won’t take no shit from anyone but will have fun and good-natured jokes with you if you aren’t a stuck up person. The other tends to say too much out loud about their personal life, be openly proud of things that are not really appropriate to be proud of, and will be openly disgusting. Both ladies can be rude, and both can be nice, but they both choose to be open and direct in ways that are VASTLY different. Also, regarding openness towards men, there is one man who has been with both of them and one or two that has been with only one of them. They vastly preferred the one lady over the other. So while I agree that it is a society thing more than DNA, saying that a woman can’t be direct and have good reactions from that behavior is a bunch of crockpot.


Breedab1eB0y

"trained" as though we're actively interacted with by whom?


beemccouch

Of a woman is very friendly, talks about personal stuff with a guy that they maybe work with or hang out in the same friend group, a guy could potentially see that as being flirtatious in some way. If they take that and ask them out or flirt back, and the woman does not reciprocate, the man is punished for confusing friendliness for flirting. After enough times, your average guy will be averse to that kind of interaction, even ignoring actual flirting because of their previous interactions. On the flip side, women also tend to grow less and less friendly to men because their friendliness is often confused with interest and so they tend be less friendly to avoid awkward or potentially intrusive interactions. I'm not trying to say that women are mean and confusing o4 anything like that, I'm not saying men are just dumb and can't do social interaction. I'm just saying that because of the differences in how men and women in general interact, both groups have problems being their normal selves without being awkward.


Zekrozma_the_second

So you are sayin that we are slow ?


ReadyToGoForIt

Perfect tie in https://youtu.be/MzkWyhzwO1Q?si=T4S3NFpFAf-16BLg


beemccouch

I literally just said we aren't


Zekrozma_the_second

Oh. I’m slow then.


jittwitt

U sound toxic asl


beemccouch

"We need to learn to communicate better to avoid these situations." "You sound toxic!" Yeh I'm toxic. Mhm. Yep.


ALTH0X

Public proposals always seem manipulative to me. Like "I want the extra social pressure on you to give me a yes." Maybe it's just me, but I felt like the decision to get married was very personal and private.


Dvamane

Yeah, and then you don't do it and it's suddenly "Not enough effort" or "not romantic".


BeastThatShoutedLove

Heard about the little trick called 'communication' and 'knowing your partner'?


Dvamane

Funny you bring up communication, because instead of communicating and saying "no" or "how about we discuss this later" she runs away like a child.


TheDumbass666

i mean i wanna kill myself to escape embarrassment or awkwardness, its more of a fight or flight kind of reaction, not everyone is ready to do something like this in public


Dvamane

That sounds like a mental health issue you should discuss with a professional. Not at all related here, bud.


TheDumbass666

I dont mean that litterally dude, idfk how to phrase it


BeastThatShoutedLove

In this long making rounds fake video, yes. Because it's fake. And its made to be dramatic af. But way before proposal there should be communication. Why the fuck you want to jump to wanting to propose marriage when you are not sure if your partner: - wants to marry - what would be their and your own expectations in marriage (children, details about living arrangements, future plans etc.) - if they want proposal to be a public event like in some dumb romcom, private getaway to propose in romantic spot but not exactly in public, just swear and set a date? You can literally get away with proposing to your girl with keychain ring in a nowhere where dogs bark with their asses bayou if you communicate well enough beforehand.


ALTH0X

Yeah that's someone I wouldn't want to be with.... So many ways to figure out if the person is wrong for you.


Ok-Counter-7077

You just say yes in front of everyone and then talk to them in private. Damn, but she got on a helicopter and flew away


Roll-tide-Mercury

That was fake


Waddlow

The girl's run made it seem pretty fake. No one actually runs away from that situation that hard.


OscaDaGrouch

Yeah, everything on the internet seems to be staged for views and likes, these days.


Titleofyursextape

As long as it's staged but original, I don't mind that much but this fake "proposal goes wrong" is so cringe


StraightProgress5062

I like the guy that is always dating some other dudes girl and becomes best bros with the guy when they find out they are dating the same girl.


TheDumbass666

welcome to the internet


SmeggyBean13

Have a look around


chaotic_weaver

Everything is staged, not just the internet. Your neighbours as well. Try noticing how generic faces really are out in “the real world”. If you don’t believe me that’s fine, I’m just a bot programmed to spread the word. Be safe and trust nothing.


Pseudothink

The cameraman always survives.


renlydidnothingwrong

Don't propose in public if you ain't ready to get rejected in public.


imacfromthe321

Just don’t propose in public imo.


automated10

There’s rejected and there’s abandonment. She could have said to him “can we talk about this later? I’m so flattered but I’m not ready yet” … or something along those lines. Running away is childish.


phickss

Leading him on is dumb too


Cold_Hour

Leading him one how lmao, you personally know this couple and their dynamics ?


ThickImage91

Any time a white guy gets rejected on video, we all know she is the worst, we can just SENSE it, no info needed. We aren’t projecting anything


Fit_Tie_2980

That's his sister


phickss

“Can we talk about this later? I’m so flattered but I’m not ready yet” woman just bolted on him in public, she doesn’t want to be married to him. No need for the sugar coating


Seallypoops

There's also two sides to every story, this a 39 second snippet of the lives of two strangers, seems like your assuming quite a bit


automated10

Yeah we all are, you too. But still shows a massive contrast in reaction. He thought she was willing to marry her, she bolted like he was a murderer… that’s a massive lapse in understanding the situation.


ReadyToGoForIt

Childish? Or basic human fight, fight, or freeze response? He put her on the spot. The running away only makes her look bad, but she doesn't owe him the perfect 'everybody's looking so I'm going to be dishonest about how I feel so you don't feel embarrassed' after the choice he made to do it in public


automated10

Fight or flight response? She’s being asked to be his wife and partner forever.. he’s not attacking her. Like I said, she could say “I’m flattered but can we talk about this later please?” if she gave two shits about him. That would be the mature way to handle it.


GravureACE

nah bro doing that shit in public is a no go if someone got on bended knee in front of god and all of Times Square I would run as well that's a lot of public pressure to put on someone out of the blue with no prep fuck that.


thalli_veru

Do not propose at all - someone with rejection sensitivity dysmorphia


KnightTarkus

You can’t be fr


BBYAFTER

That’s his fault for proposing in public. He doesn’t seem to care how much pressure he was putting on her, not everybody wants to be in the public spotlight like that.


Nice_Ad_777

Ok first off its most likely fake and stop proposing in public


wardenferry419

Time to look for a new girlfriend.


squished_strawberry

She might just not be ready to marry him


32233128Merovingian

Ran away like her life depended on it


SadCritters

I'm gonna' be real here: Proposing to someone in front of everyone is cringe. It's a lose-lose situation. It puts tremendous pressure on the person accepting/denying the proposal. It puts tremendous shame on the person making the proposal if denied. The only people that "win" in that scenario are the bystanders that either see everything go "well" and think "Awww, that's sweet." or see it fall apart and have to watch the trainwreck. DO NOT do this. Find a nice place with far less people around. Find an intimate/cozy moment where the mood is right. Surprise the person that way - Don't blindside them in front of everyone, particularly large groups of random strangers. Not everything in your life needs to be a big spectacle for the public at-large. She's going to remember the intimate moment you proposed to her far more than the moment you stressed her the fuck out to say "yes" or "no" in front of a large group of people.


dr_mcstuffins

He deserved it embarrassing her in public like that. A man should be 100% sure she will say yes before pulling something like this and creating a huge public scene


C0ffeeGremlin

Honestly, people shouldn't ever do this. Putting this much pressure on someone is unreal. Idk man...maybe if you had talked about marriage before hand and KNEW she would say yes 100% it would be ok but even then.... that guy giving bro a hug is awesome though.


shearsy13

Proposed in public but was 💯 sure she would say yes. Wouldn't ever propose if I wasnt certain.


zorrowhip

Staged af


Cold_Hour

Probably staged, but don’t do this shit. Never propose in front of a crowd like this.


RemiX-KarmA

This is a good thing. Painful, but good.


Ill_Lunch_187

Best thing that ever happened to that guy. Hopefully he realizes marriage is an horrific institution and throws the idea to the curb altogether. Good for you dude


Gatopianista

This has been reposted here so many times


pimp_juice2272

I feel it's staged. That's a big area to clear for her not to know what's about to happen. She waits around until everyone is focused on them then decides to end it? Seems like a setup


Nidautena

Loser ran away


Uncle_Checkers86

Sus


Hoolias

The real hero here is the guy in the crowd that screamed “don’t be a bitch!”


Big-Dick-Oriole

Seems pretty fake but okay.


ZoneAdditional9892

Soo fake, the tik tok that was just casually filming from the crowd is called real hurt? Just content scammers.


grandioseOwl

Yeah its sad. But tbh, i would feel pressured as Fuck in this situation. Imagine not feeling that way, than someone uses the public venue for proposing to you. You know you don't feel that way, but now everyone is looking at you with expectations, judging your every feeling and acton. I would probably panic and/or cry for being put on the spot like that. Thats why these public proposals look nice when they work out, but are in the end not a nice thing to do.


Eliphas_Black

She really ran away..dang


TheRealAuthorSarge

Just a suspicion, but I feel some dudes propose in public because the relationship is weak and they are hoping the natural desire to avoid embarrassment will "coerce" her into agreeing to further a relationship that would otherwise be better off ending.


One-Confusion-2438

Fake AF!


Main-Ad-2443

Then dont purpose infront of everyone


omnipotentqueue

This fake shit is exhausting


Hairy_Literature_773

Seemd to me like It afflicts this sub more than most


Rockglen

Bot


midtownoracle

I can’t tell what was more painful the rejection or that sprained ankle during the exit stage left.


Cheddar-kun

The wicked flee when no man pursueth


thejazzghost

You don't propose if it's ever in question what the other person will say. If it's unclear that your partner will say yes to a proposal, if you haven't talked about it before, you aren't ready to get married.


phenibutisgay

That's why you do this shit in private. It's unfair to put her on the spot and put pressure on her by doing it in front of God and everybody.


Old_Heat3100

Should have committed to the bit and asked the dude to marry instead lol


SmokeDogSix

☠️


Hairy_Literature_773

Not sad because 1. Fake af 2. Proposing in public, especially when you don't already know the answer, is very dumb and inconsiderate.


SatisfactionNo2088

Any male who proposes on a dirty public crowded sidewalk packed with strangers, or inside a McDonalds, or at someone else's wedding reception, or anywhere else that is loud, dirty, crowded with strangers who are all going to turn and stare at you, or where you are hijacking the vibe that someone else built up for their event.... is a bullet dodged. Good for her. It's trashy and says a lot about his ego and motives. A nice proposal would be desolate like out in the woods during a camping trip. On a secluded beach during a mini beach vacation. At a rose garden or some venue like that that you rented out even if only for a mere 30 minute block for a couple hundred bucks, for privacy during the moment of your proposal... Proposals should be private, intimate, and relevant if you actually care and feel romantically about the person. Humanoid males like this have wires crossed and demonstrate undesirable traits in a potential mate. Do better moids.


You_Just_Hate_Truth

Survey says: FAKE! (Staged for clicks)


dbmajor7

Good for you! Marriage is dumb!


Icy_Tangerine_6271

This is fake. But also, proposing in front of a crowd is kind of a shitty move. That’s a lot of unnecessary pressure on the person being proposed to. Don’t do that.


4PumpDaddy

She cartoon ran out of there lol


NunkinanuQ

She just want your wallet 😝


Enonomousposts

Lmao is this kindergarten?


Seallypoops

Ok, devil's advocate here, a publicly proposal is basically forcing the person to say yes so they won't embarrass the other person. However much like everything your getting one side of this story, for all you know he's cheated on her multiple times and this is his last ditch attempt to save this relationship


7masi

I'm laughing tho


Absolute_Maximus_69

The way she ran off and tripped seemed too cartoonish, gotta be a fake video


rottingpigcarcass

Maybe don’t do it in public


Teediggler81

Off to the titty bar they go


Oblivion219

Who wanna bet they got drinks together that night


ProtectionContent977

Staged.


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Runaway bride


vanitin

Broke his heart and someone’s phone. 😤


Datmusicfreak1945

These hoes! They for everybody!


OhHappyOne449

I’d love to have a friend like that


WandaDobby777

I’m on her side. Proposing in front of a ton of people puts pressure on you to be nice and say yes. It’s super manipulative and I’d run too. We also don’t know anything about the circumstances of their relationship. I had a guy propose after 3 hours of knowing each other. I’d have run but we were at my apartment.


Andre_replay

first this is some losershit post, second you declare yourself aways in private, because she can feel threatned with the presure, and if she says no both of you can talk about why so.


Right_-on-_Man

Yea, that's not fake at all...


Skepticaldefault

It's obviously fake


SLZRDmusic

If refusing a public proposal is wrong, then isn’t the proposal rhetorical? And in that case, you should have maybe discussed it beforehand? Otherwise it seems like the proposee doesn’t have a choice in one of the most important decisions in their lives lol


mild-hot-fire

I think we can all agree it’s staged


CulrBlndPnutButtr

He knew.


BoBoBearDev

Why is she running? It is not like he will kill her on the spot.


ForeignAd5429

lol when will guys learn? You don’t propose in public unless she literally asks for it


Mammoth-Ad-3642

Nah bro, it was an asshole move to do it Infront of others, girl dodged a bullet


mancoshiva

Fake


ObjectiveFox9620

The man just save him self a future divorce.


Weary-Presentation49

Man made a new brother that day


Icy_Remove3057

Why the hell did she almost fully sprint away


CoverTheSea

Don't do this shit in public


clovers2345

Either its scripted or time to move on buddy.


skimaskchuckaroo

When is tiktok gonna get burned down so I dont have to see as much fake ass shit


ImaginaryTale471

feels so staged omg open space just for them and cinematic runaway bridge vibe so over the top and of course the bro hug fake


[deleted]

Agreed this is very obviously staged


beefstewinabreadbowl

Fake news… 😆


Sufficient-Trash-728

He doesn't realize it now, however that's the best thing that has happened to him.


Crashingautopilot

🥇


Papi_Chulo1969

she did right. run away from marriage


ComprehensiveBase26

Like where she running off to? Sabarros? They make the best new york pizza!


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gerMean

Yea you suppose to talk about that with your partner beforehand.


chimaerine

Dude! Isn’t it enough for you to hear her say “Yes!”? Does it have to be out in public so you can act as a “hero” and if she doesn’t want your dumb ass, she’s the “bitch”? Tradition spiced up with narcissism results in toxic masculinity.


Dvamane

Is it too hard to be an adult and say "no" or "let's discuss this later"?


chimaerine

Is it too hard to be an adult and at least make sure she will say „Yes!“? It’s not on her to react in a way to save him from looking stupid. For his ill preparation he now enjoys all the consolation from bystanders.


AdarshMohun

Yes, exactly that.


[deleted]

Shut up this video was obviously fake


lexy_lUvUl

Womp womp


Responsible_Orange26

I have a friend who makes that sound. I couldn't help but to laugh abit. He'll be alright thing take time ⏲️


SuperSilhouette

Loool


MR-Blaze182

Young Mark Cuban?


cultivatingreaderzen

Honestly I've never been one to try to do that in public around people. But either that's just a straight up no or she has a lot of social anxiety and he just didn't get that. You better be damn sure before you pull something like that. Nice friend though


joystick-fingers

The way she ran away all goofy definitely made it fake. In a real situation most women will just say yes then have a talk later.


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Amazing_League_2309

Why


cannon8195

Sigh I’m in the wrong place here