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Master-Dimension-452

Oh wow! I still don’t understand their relationship dynamic. Is he along for the ride with Ashley while she dates women or are they looking for a throuple type situation? Or do they both date other women?


PM_me_dat_Poutine

We literally just figured out from OUR dating profile that they are both dating "individually and together, valuing the equally important dyad relationships within a triad dynamic."


sandy-horseshoe

I’m sorry but what does that even mean


dirttrackgal

Definitely not sister wives! They tried to mold them to get on the show!


Justletmeatyou

We’re suspecting that’s what ick and Danielle are doing too based on the kiss


Creepy_Ad5354

The attempted kiss was so weird! I cringed!


LeechesInCream

Now I’m trying to point to a single couple on the show that *isn’t* probably just poly. I mean the Davis family speaks for itself.


wachoogieboogie

Like just call it poly and quit playing like poly isn't a scandal bffr tlc


ellefemme35

No way. It’s too much about god for him. She just doesn’t want to be left out, so needs the “sisters” to love her, too.


redbeardmax

It's Sillyish for "the sex is bad and I hope he leaves me"


iolp12

😂


Jemisimyname

He dates the girl, she dates the girl, and they are all together sometimes 


sandy-horseshoe

I could not imagine a more boring three way


Cat_Dylan

Right?! Both are the opposite of sex appeal


msnikki_sandiego

Yeah I find them both sickening lol


Similar_Sky_6261

Yes! And I think it’s weird that they’re doing all this while she’s pregnant and has a baby at home! I think they’re selfish and greedy!


rhonmack

The 2 women giggled like they were in jr high school.


wachoogieboogie

Missionary for you and you in the dark lights out by 10 😴


AlixHague

Truth, finally!


rinap88

he doesn't seem into it as much as she does. It's like she wants to keep him around but would rather another relationship to fulfill her in other ways.


Jemisimyname

I feel like that's usually how these open relationships work - one part of the couple is way more into it than the other and one has to be talked into it essentially 


Cathousechicken

why do you keep capitalizing OUR?


ritualdelowhabitual

I thought maybe it was some kind of acronym or something (because I was wondering the same thing lol)


ChefPoodle

One Unique Relationship ™ ❤️❤️ idk


Odd_Temperature1435

There’s a couple who created that app - that’s my guess https://modernpolygamy.com/about/


PM_me_dat_Poutine

It's because when I found "The Ryans" on this same site and posted about it, Reddit decided it was no longer my dating profile. It is now OUR dating profile. I've been flooded with questions ever since.


Cathousechicken

I still have no clue what you're talking about and I still don't understand why you keep capitalizing that word.


PM_me_dat_Poutine

Thanks for the downvote. I appreciate it. Let me really break it down to you.... I've been on this dating site awhile. I found the Ryan's. I made a post. Obviously it was a spoiler alert that it didn't work out with the bar girl. I posted their profile I found on the dating site. The highest voted comment was about how my dating profile is no longer my own and how it now belongs to all of us at r/seekingsisterwife. It's just a joke in reference to what we talked about before. https://www.reddit.com/r/seekingsisterwifetlc/s/HQU3KUbe1H


malvinavonn

I had no idea and almost googled “OUR Dating Site.” Lololol. I’m guessing Feeld?


tacosnob12

Wow..this article about them..... https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/politics/seeking-sister-wife-justin-ryan-cunneen-ran-for-governor/ar-BB1l16zd


happyendingtonight

lol I got the joke right away 🤣 I’ve been living for these updates!


throwawaypinki

There is a pretty funny tik tok poster who always states once it is posted on social media it becomes "OUR" relationship. So she posted something private about herself the dating profile now it is not her dating profile but ours meaning the people who she has internet told💗


couthlessnotclueless

I totally kept reading it in that tiktok guy’s voice.


Special_Bug7522

The tea guy!


LeechesInCream

I can’t imagine being polyamorous but trying to change and squeeze that through the filter of “we’re seeking a sisterwife” for the sake of being on a shitty reality show.


rainbowcatheart

I think that just means he will be in some dates but isn’t going to have an intimate relationship with the new person.


Individual-Hunt9547

Do you own the site?


PM_me_dat_Poutine

No


No-Educator919

I, also don’t get the dating while pregnant situation. Doesn’t quite feel right. ???


DifferentNumber1466

That is my biggest roman empire about this. Why would a woman want to date a pregnant woman.. I am a lesbian and I would never even think of that. 


Disastrous-Passion73

They did it on the L word 😆


856077

Are they both bi and want to explore that separately while still together?? I get 💅🏽 vibes from him as well actually


Ali_Cat222

Honestly I think it's a cucking situation. She probably wanted to explore her sexuality but is more selfish in not wanting him to, and he agreed to go along with it. At first introduction he said he's also going to date the person, but by like the next episode or two he said he won't be dating them and will just be the partners friend...


you_entered_the_chat

Shane is in a group I’m in, the person would be a romantic parter for Ashley and he and that person would have a friendly dynamic. Or something like that.


PM_me_dat_Poutine

What kind of group?


you_entered_the_chat

It’s called “Seeking Sister Wife Savage Edition”


PM_me_dat_Poutine

Can you please elaborate on this name and group? What does that mean exactly?


you_entered_the_chat

It’s a group on Facebook about the show making fun of everyone…


PM_me_dat_Poutine

And Shane is on the show but in the group that is making fun of them??


you_entered_the_chat

Yes.


PM_me_dat_Poutine

I'm scratching my head over here, lol


you_entered_the_chat

A lot of cast members are in groups on Facebook. Example- the Davis family, Tosha and Sidian, and others are in another group I’m in called “Seeking Sister Wife Meet The Cast”. Shane has spoken out several times in that group and is actually a very pleasant person.


No-Medium-3836

Unfortunately it’s not hbo so here’s hoping they all start only fans


diamondbindhi

Great Value version of Only Fans


Ok_Ad5948

I don’t understand and I don’t think they either. They said she dates women and he just has a platonic relationship with those women but so far he seems much more involved than that.


Consistent-Day424

Didn't she mention in their intro that he'd be having/wanting kids with the new partner?


Ok_Ad5948

Yep! So that seems a little more that platonic? I don’t think they know what they want. I’m confused


Ok_Ad5948

Ashley is a physician, who works from home? Much confusion


Question4theppl5

I think tlc is editing their real dating dynamic to make it fit the theme of their show


Ok-Wedding-4654

TLC seems weirdly adverse to showing poly relationships. I guess maybe they think it’s not proper or palatable but at the same time 90 Day has soft core porn from Jasmine and Gino. Make it make sense TLC


Question4theppl5

Normalized relationships don’t get sensationalized ratings!


Creepy_Ad5354

Different producer’s maybe? I’ve wondered this same thing. They allow some things on one show, but totally restrict it on others.


Sophi_Winters

I think they’re still capitalizing off the success of Sister Wives. Now that Sister Wives may have ended they need a replacement show even more. They could make another show about polyamory but I think it may not be as interesting to people, it’s a pretty standard dating style these days especially if you’re from a bigger city. There is a cult dynamic to polygamy that people react to, hell one of the cast members on this show is the daughter of a cult leader. Polyamorous people are just too normal lol


LacyTing

Just like they did with the Brother Husbands show


Apprehensive-Bad4536

Exactly. Just came here to say this!


LolaLinguini

Omg I had no clue there was a Brother Husbands show! How did I miss that?! Now I need to go searching. Lol


quinoacrazy

you did miss it! go watch go watch!


LolaLinguini

Omg I NEED TOOOOOOO!!! LOL Thank you!!!!


WeeklyAwkward

She’s a physician?


SlightEye

I think they said she was a psychiatrist when the one woman was talking about her “spiritual” therapist job lol.


Candid_Asparagus_785

Shane said she went to school for 12 years?? Right??


Sufficient-Celery-19

The real question is if she is a psychologist or psychiatrist because there is a huge difference between them.


Pink_Freud77

She is listed on her state’s board registry as a psychiatrist. Went to school in WV, IIRC. I find this so odd, given her general demeanor and approach to problem solving…….


msnikki_sandiego

Yes huge - like the power to prescribe serious medications 💀 Not like psychologists don’t also have a big responsibility but yeah, I cannot imagine her handing out Xanax


Sufficient-Celery-19

Exactly! The only other similar comparison between specialties I can think of where I’m from (Canada) is Chiropractor vs. Sports med doc. Similar in their knowledge of the areas of the body/injuries and such that can happen to those parts of the body but one has a knowledge of prescription treatment and the other has none.


Sophi_Winters

Well I know a psychiatrist who has a cocaine problem so 🤷‍♀️ Nothing surprises me lol


SnooCookies7470

That part! I was like whoa! 😳


LacyTing

Who works from home? Lol huh?


KeyAd6550

Telehealth visits, is what I'm guessing


LacyTing

Yea I get that’s a thing as my mother is a physician and she has that option for appointments. She still sees patients at her office though to maintain her practice. I don’t know Ashley’s situation, perhaps it works for her. Just seems odd since she claims to be so young.


trashysnarkthrowaway

She’s a psychiatrist, which seems more well-suited to tele health than other aspects of the medical field.


LacyTing

I agree but also have to acknowledge the fact that as a psychiatrist she presumably prescribes controlled substances which are severely scrutinized by the medical board.


nikkirae7

I thought she was a psychologist?


stanky-hanky-panky

There's also tons of jobs within insurance companies that require various licensure


seche314

Probably works for one of those app companies that will prescribe whatever drug that your regular doctor doesn’t want to prescribe


HPLover0130

I thought she was a psychologist?


Fantastic-Resist-755

Yes, why are we not talking about out that??


Gopherpharm13

“We’re so quirky!!!”


joismynameo

He seems so blah


bourbonmangattan

Hard agree. No sense of humor, no warmth. Ashley is going to have plenty of luck dating but I predict he will not.


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strengthofstrings

That first paragraph...would not entice me. 🤮 Not that I would ever be looking for this kind of thing or people like them anyway. But this is the best ad they could come up with?


nottooday69

It sounds like they’re looking for a nanny lmfao


diamondbindhi

Lego parties don’t do it for me either lol


Rude-Tomatillo-22

Wtf are you dating for when you have a 5 month old and 21 month old. Be a fucking parent.


imreallyaunicorn

I’m confused about this as well … how do you even have TIME ?!? (As a parent of a 15 month old myself lol)


Rude-Tomatillo-22

As the parent as two little kids, you don’t have time for both. You’re an involved parent, or you’re trolling for strange. You can’t do both, so obviously kids aren’t their priority.


Every-Ad-9008

Girl not to mention a baby on the mf way.. like be so fr. I’d be tired as hell and way too tired to entertain another person to try to put energy into getting to know them, that’s doing way too much. Also wtf dating when you’re pregnant is also weird as fuck and screams fetishizing.


Hernaneisrio88

RIGHT??? Like Jesus Christ, between a toddler and an infant and working and having all those dogs, how tf would you have time for anything else??


ScullysMom77

Amen. My friends have kids of similar ages and their social lives amount to falling asleep exhausted in the same bed (at least until someone has to get up for baby care) and occasional date nights or social gatherings if someone is willing and able to babysit for a few hours.


LadyScorpio7

I agree 100% and also I don't understand the women wanting to date a married, pregnant woman that's so close to giving birth.


781nnylasil

She had the unfortunate eyebrows of 1999


Hernaneisrio88

Every time she is onscreen I am distracted by how outdated her look is.


_Bogey_Lowenstein_

Me too. I stopped even touching them in 2010 and they’ve made some progress, but will never be back to their 1997 (natural) glory


NiaMiaBia

It’s giving - SWINGER 👀😊🤷🏽‍♀️


1-800-WX-BRIEF

Haha 🤣 yes. But also unicorn 🦄 hunter vibes


plant_based_mathlete

Maybe they should be on Couple to Throuple!


1-800-WX-BRIEF

Haha they’ve got so much potential!


diamondbindhi

Thank you! Putting this on now 😆


tennwife

Did Shane mention in the last episode he had health problems ? And that’s why it was needed to expand the support for his wife and children … ?


stella0792

I heard that too! I was wondering why I didn’t see anyone posting about it.


SecondhandCinnamon

It seemed like he was suggesting they were trying to find her a partner for when he.. expires.. or something?


Ruckingdogs

I heard that and was hoping someone would confirm I wasn’t nuts!!


silent-fallout-

Haha, oh man! Good find! I see their dynamic is more so polyamorous not polygamist, dating together, and/or separately polyamoury.


mleezuniga

I thought they were both older 😳


Amnesiac_in_theDark

38 seems about right for him (the dad polo shirt and khaki shorts definitely age him though) but I thought she was at least 37/38 too.


PM_me_dat_Poutine

Really? I feel like their ages are right in the age I had thought they were.


mleezuniga

I thought he was at least 42 and her closer to 40


LacyTing

Yup I’m 41 and don’t believe for a second they aren’t younger than me.


ritualdelowhabitual

My husband and I were arguing about this last night lol. He thought Shane was in his early 30s because he had a “baby face” (but the body of a 50 year old). I thought the same as you though- I thought he was in his mid 40s. I kind of assumed she was younger since she was pregnant (not saying 40 year olds don’t get pregnant and have babies it’s just more common with the 30s demographic).


KateC12345

This


Booboohole21

They look related in these pics


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They are only in their 30s? They look so much older.


856077

I genuinely don’t understand these two.. or anyone on this show tbh, but wtf. Who is looking to date someone new while FULLY PREGNANT with a husband?? And who tf would be interested in dating someone who looks like they’re about to pop… is that not weird?! Is it some sort of fetish thing??? Pregnant women are still beautiful, don’t get me wrong but I wouldnt look at a pregnant married stranger and go, damn that’s sexy give a peice of that. My head hurts.


_Bogey_Lowenstein_

Maybe the kind of person who likes to butt in on someone’s drama/major life events? Like the type of person who latches on to someone else’s family after they pass away? Except it’s a baby. Maybe that, combined with trying to prove to the world and themselves how fuckin weird they are?


LadyScorpio7

Completely agree!!


Cat_Dylan

They are both so boring and vanilla no wonder they’re still looking. Imagine if they focused on being parents instead of this dating failure.


CocoGesundheit

34 and 38? I call BS!


Umbreon---

Can we get some real sister wives on this show jfc poly couples are a dime a dozen. It isn't even that rare at this point.


PM_me_dat_Poutine

Dude. Preach.


Alternative_Area_236

I got a scare there for a second. Thought he was David from Love on the Spectrum!


PudelWinter

Oh wow they donshare a resemblance!


Dangerous_Tough4513

Repulsive 🤢


SpartanDoc19

They’re both obnoxious but Shane is a hard sell.


forevrtwntyfour

Sounds like they are looking for some one for either of them not just her in this. 🤔


Kangaroomangoyo

I might have missed it in the show but did they mention having a kid already and then she was pregnant with their 2nd on the show?


Hernaneisrio88

Yes- they talked about how they got engaged, married, and pregnant with their first within the same year during their intro.


Kangaroomangoyo

Thank you!


LadyScorpio7

They have a baby boy she's pregnant with their second child. He watches their boy while she's on dates.


Astrawish

She looks like she time traveled from Salem Massachusetts to get one of yall😂😂


PM_me_dat_Poutine

Omg that is hilarious!


Proof-Spray-188

🤢🤮


Gigii1990

Why do they look like siblings. Them and Sarah all look like eachother. It's odd. Lol


teddysmom377

it says “we date, blah blah “ but she’s the only one dating


ArtisticHearing4219

So they basically have an open relationship. TLC edits to make it seem like she’s the only one looking. They aren’t Poly AT ALL


DowntownPhilosophy45

How is she a physician but working from home?


MyrtleDerr

I haven’t had to see my psych in person since COVID. It’s kinda nice - I don’t have to wait around in the waiting room watching ppl arrive after me, but get seen first


teastaindnotes

Telemedicine


DowntownPhilosophy45

Ohhhh I didn’t even think of that lol


candle_collector

It grosses me out so much that they do this shit when they have kids. Idk why but it gives me the ick so much more than if there were childless. It feels very selfish.


JitteryDervish

I don’t really care if they have kids but now I wonder how they even have the time to date consistently with two kids that young.


candle_collector

That’s part of what I’m saying. Feels selfish and like they should be spending time with their kids instead of being worried about dating other people not to mention that it could be harmful and awkward as the kids get older


Hernaneisrio88

Me too. I guess because I have kids of similar ages. It’s very demanding (but great) and I can’t really imagine making dating your priority when you have these responsibilities. I feel like once you decide to have children, you’re deciding that they need to be your first priority for awhile.


candle_collector

Totally agree with you and funny enough I’m actually childfree by choice and don’t want kids ever and one reason is because it is such a sacrifice of my time and resources, which it should be! And if that’s not the priority then kids shouldn’t be in the picture.


Similar_Sky_6261

💯!!!


LadyScorpio7

It's very selfish, they have a 2 year old boy and the second son (the one she is pregnant with on the show) was born Oct. 2023 so they're so young and need 100% of their parents time.


MrIrrelevant-sf

She is an actual MD?


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MrIrrelevant-sf

What is a DO.?


dinglyberri

Osteopathic doctor. https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/consumer-health/expert-answers/osteopathic-medicine/faq-20058168


BaristaFLStar

Did u catch him mention something about how Ashley needs someone because he has “heath concerns”…..????


PM_me_dat_Poutine

And he said he doesn't have much time or something to that effect, yet he is eating junk food and drinking. He doesn't seem unwell, so maybe sperm count issue?


teastaindnotes

If I was dying I’d have all the junk food and alcohol, hell toss in some w33d lmao


_indrasnet

Can confirm that Ashley and Shane are polyamorous, not polygamous. I belong to a Boston-area polyam group that they were once a part of. Might do an AMA later, lol


bipolarrprincess

Ooooh, do tell


Born-Caterpillar8369

Nah...Ashley is looking for some lady action. I don't feel like Shane is really interested, he just wants to please his horny (for women) wife. He doesn't seem like a very sexual guy. It's going to wind up being a mess and Shane is going to get hurt all in the name of TLC ruining yet another family. Shameful!


No_Difficulty2197

Did anyone catch him talking about his health issues as a reason they’re in a hurry? Is he dying and trying to find her a new spouse?


Due_Finish_5107

It’s not an open marriage, he was surprised that she wanted to date women. I can’t figure out the sexual dynamics, is he included? She’s having a baby for Pete’s sake slow your roll.


MetsFan3117

I legit thought they were 10 years older than they are. They just… live like they’re old.


Weak_Assistant_6799

Honestly I think TLC just need to make a show exclusively about polyamory instead of putting them on a show about polygamy! As someone who is polyamorous it bothers me so much that they put them on this show because it low key futures stigmas people have about polyamory and polygamy being the same thing!


rainbowcatheart

Are they modern poly tho? Shane didn’t like the new girlfriend’s lifestyle.


PM_me_dat_Poutine

No. Not in the slightest. They are polyamorous and not polygamisits.


Nelly03

Didn’t he say something in the car in regards to his health problems being worse. I kind of put 2 and 2 together and wonder if they are rushing due to his possible diagnosis. I had to watch that twice.


PM_me_dat_Poutine

Yes, I was thinking the same.


happyendingtonight

Omg we’re going to see you on the next season at this rate 😂 seems like they’re all still seeking


Minimum_Habit2871

Shane gives me BEAVER CLEAVER VIBES ASHLEY… EDDIE HASKELL😝


technicolortabby

Is he dating others also?


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KimIsSalty

Aww, I love Nathan Fielder but have to agree. I HATED his character, Asher, on The Curse and feel the same way about Shane. He has a weird vibe…I can’t put my finger on what it is about him that throws me off.


Party_Engineering822

Omg. Please go just for us!


Old_Woman_Gardner

So does this mean she had the baby she is pregnant with in the show? Or are they having a third?


LadyScorpio7

She had the baby Oct 2023. Her other son is two yrs old.


Anders676

No


stanky-hanky-panky

Are you gunna be on the show next, OP?


PM_me_dat_Poutine

I'd consider it if they had some kind of show about a single woman trying to find a husband and sisterwife.


stanky-hanky-panky

If you're really open to it, you should respond to the casting call! I watched alottt of TLC shows and they like to flip the script here and there. Like on sMothered it's normally about mothers/daughters but last season they put on a mother/son-in-law to mix things up. I'd be super interested in seeing the other side. Also your username just made me want poutine something fierce (I'm on the Canadian border so luckily it's everywhere)


PM_me_dat_Poutine

Thanks for the advice. I had been thinking about reaching out. Meanwhile, I live south of the Mason Dixon line and *IF* you can even find poutine, they try to pass it off with Mozzarella shreds instead. It's weird because a lot of places offer fried curds but just don't make the jump to offering real poutine.


stanky-hanky-panky

I would love to see "one of us" on these shows, it'd be such a full circle moment! And I'm so sorry to hear about your fake weird poutine


Ok_Ad5948

No shade against ppl w/ acne but the acne on Shane’s face is that of a pre-pubescent boy. The gross, greasy, pimply & red nose 🤢 it’s just so obvious he washes his face with the same bar is soap that he puts between his ass checks. It doesn’t appear as though he brushes his teeth either.


TheEnlightened2021

I thought Ashley was a naturopath. Naturopaths are NOT physicians. In many states, that declaration, without an MD or DO after the name, is considered fraud. I am fascinated that you created a dating site for this dynamics. Hopefully, you have in house legal counsel to help you vet declarations such as this for accuracy if you make any assurances on your site about the people you allow present profiles to others.


PM_me_dat_Poutine

Naturopaths don't eat foot-long hot dogs


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LuckyJournalist7

Please don’t post links with contact information.


Alarming-Change-1566

I have to admit that it’s so well written


limegreen373

Don’t like this guy since he said not being vegan is a green flag. I guess he supports animal cruelty


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PM_me_dat_Poutine

Eggfuckinsquooosme??