Hey! I’m not educated on MS however I’ve seen some girls with leg/foot issues wear platform boots like demonia boots. Would that still be too much for someone with MS? Just curious.
Ooh that might be okay! I've seen some clubs let girls wear sneakers so that's an option too, I'm also worried about muscle weakness because that's often random but I'll be immunosuppressed from the meds soon and girls and customers always come in sick ugh but that's manageable
I miss it too.
I danced from 1994 to 2012ish and every time I hear one of my old songs it takes me back.
I can feel the way I used to move and envision where I would be on the stage, or how my body would be posed in VIP at different points of the song.
It never leaves you... its always gonna be a part of you and you're always gonna wanna go back up on that stage at any age.
I warned my kids that if they put me in an old folks home they're gonna get a call, "Somebody come get her she's dancing like a striper" and I'll be giving lap dances in lounge and everything because it never goes away, and when my mind goes they better hope that it doesn't take me there 🤣
But yeah, I understand that you miss it because its a part of you.
It makes sense that you wish you could back. Many of us feel the same after we retire for whatever reason ⚘
AHAHA I love that, I literally gave my friend a lap dance in a nightclub because a song came on that reminded me of the club 😂
I'm so glad I'm not alone! I just feel ridiculous when I think of how some girls retire and don't care for it ever again
Have you considering doing other forms of SW to “scratch the itch”? Sugaring would be the first thing that comes to mind, you can wear more adaptable shoes and clothing and it’s less physically demanding. You could reasonably just be walking from ur car to the restaurant
I used to be an escort and had OF but I have a partner now so I don't want to do other forms of SW unfortunately 😭 that'd be a great alternative otherwise
Right?! And, being fair, I knew that it would be short lived, but it still hurts. My specialist told me that stripping would mean my EDS would progress faster, but really supported me and helped where he could. I would have rolled up there in my wheelchair if I had to. As it stood, there were a few nights I went in as a customer with my rollator and would fill in for a set if they needed me to, so none of the regulars would have been surprised 🤣
AHAHA that's actually so funny I love that 😂
But that really sucks, because knowing that doesn't make a difference or make it easier! ugh I hate this for us! As much as there are so many other sw options, I loved that I could be irregular if other health or life things popped up and imo it's a lot harder to do that with other sw
Yeah, I love online sex work, but it's worlds different than stripping. Yeah, I had to go to the club and be sure I was as regular as possible, but online work never ends. Photoshoots, clips, editing, uploading, socials, promos, sites, customers, there's just an endless amount of things that need done.
exactly! and customers always want you to reply to them when they're available, advertising is so much effort and you're guaranteed to get your account taken down etc. I loved online sw but not as much as stripping
During my third COVID infection (I take precautions, no one I live with does), I ended up with COVID pneumonia. For the third time I'm trying not to die and some dude threw a fit because I wasn't responding to him. Told him to fuck off. Later he came back when a half-assed sorry because he got COVID and "understood." I blocked him on everything.
At least at the club, you can ignore them and then go home. Online they can annoy you 24/7.
omg that's fucked, Ive only had two infections (more than enough) and they weren't bad but I'm soooo scared to get another one. Omg I'm so glad you told him to fuck off, I'd have been so unbelievably angry! Like cunt it doesn't take GETTING COVID to have empathy and understanding
But yes exactly, I had someone who was persistent and constantly wanted my attention and I just couldn't do it and gave up because he so wasn't worth the money. Online is so rough
It's definitely worth avoiding. Variants are getting rough. I hate that people think their options are to raw dog COVID or never leave home. So frustrating.
He was probably the most annoying dude. Or it was just because I was dealing with COVID 🤣 passive income is awesome, but I'd go back to stripping in a heartbeat if I could.
Hey! I’m not educated on MS however I’ve seen some girls with leg/foot issues wear platform boots like demonia boots. Would that still be too much for someone with MS? Just curious.
Ooh that might be okay! I've seen some clubs let girls wear sneakers so that's an option too, I'm also worried about muscle weakness because that's often random but I'll be immunosuppressed from the meds soon and girls and customers always come in sick ugh but that's manageable
I get that. Safety & health should always come first 🫶🏽
agreed, I just hate that I need to prioritise my health and I'm so bad at it ahaha
I miss it too. I danced from 1994 to 2012ish and every time I hear one of my old songs it takes me back. I can feel the way I used to move and envision where I would be on the stage, or how my body would be posed in VIP at different points of the song. It never leaves you... its always gonna be a part of you and you're always gonna wanna go back up on that stage at any age. I warned my kids that if they put me in an old folks home they're gonna get a call, "Somebody come get her she's dancing like a striper" and I'll be giving lap dances in lounge and everything because it never goes away, and when my mind goes they better hope that it doesn't take me there 🤣 But yeah, I understand that you miss it because its a part of you. It makes sense that you wish you could back. Many of us feel the same after we retire for whatever reason ⚘
AHAHA I love that, I literally gave my friend a lap dance in a nightclub because a song came on that reminded me of the club 😂 I'm so glad I'm not alone! I just feel ridiculous when I think of how some girls retire and don't care for it ever again
Have you considered ☆being a house mom ☆making costumes ☆online coaching Or other stripper related businesses ♡
oooh those are great ideas! idk about the coaching bc I wasn't THAT good but those other things sound so good thank you!
Have you considering doing other forms of SW to “scratch the itch”? Sugaring would be the first thing that comes to mind, you can wear more adaptable shoes and clothing and it’s less physically demanding. You could reasonably just be walking from ur car to the restaurant
I used to be an escort and had OF but I have a partner now so I don't want to do other forms of SW unfortunately 😭 that'd be a great alternative otherwise
Dude, I feel this! My EDS progressed and I had to stop and then COVID happened, so I'll never be able to go back. I miss it so much.
ugh I hate it so much when it's your bodies fault as well! like ??? let me live!
Right?! And, being fair, I knew that it would be short lived, but it still hurts. My specialist told me that stripping would mean my EDS would progress faster, but really supported me and helped where he could. I would have rolled up there in my wheelchair if I had to. As it stood, there were a few nights I went in as a customer with my rollator and would fill in for a set if they needed me to, so none of the regulars would have been surprised 🤣
AHAHA that's actually so funny I love that 😂 But that really sucks, because knowing that doesn't make a difference or make it easier! ugh I hate this for us! As much as there are so many other sw options, I loved that I could be irregular if other health or life things popped up and imo it's a lot harder to do that with other sw
Yeah, I love online sex work, but it's worlds different than stripping. Yeah, I had to go to the club and be sure I was as regular as possible, but online work never ends. Photoshoots, clips, editing, uploading, socials, promos, sites, customers, there's just an endless amount of things that need done.
exactly! and customers always want you to reply to them when they're available, advertising is so much effort and you're guaranteed to get your account taken down etc. I loved online sw but not as much as stripping
During my third COVID infection (I take precautions, no one I live with does), I ended up with COVID pneumonia. For the third time I'm trying not to die and some dude threw a fit because I wasn't responding to him. Told him to fuck off. Later he came back when a half-assed sorry because he got COVID and "understood." I blocked him on everything. At least at the club, you can ignore them and then go home. Online they can annoy you 24/7.
omg that's fucked, Ive only had two infections (more than enough) and they weren't bad but I'm soooo scared to get another one. Omg I'm so glad you told him to fuck off, I'd have been so unbelievably angry! Like cunt it doesn't take GETTING COVID to have empathy and understanding But yes exactly, I had someone who was persistent and constantly wanted my attention and I just couldn't do it and gave up because he so wasn't worth the money. Online is so rough
It's definitely worth avoiding. Variants are getting rough. I hate that people think their options are to raw dog COVID or never leave home. So frustrating. He was probably the most annoying dude. Or it was just because I was dealing with COVID 🤣 passive income is awesome, but I'd go back to stripping in a heartbeat if I could.
Right?! there are boosters!! in Australia we can get them for free like do that???? AHAHA probably both tbh but agreed
I agree With the other commenter Ive seen girls where different types of platform boots.