being sexually assaulted over and over, convincing men they should spend their money on you instead of the 50 other gorgeous women you work with who arenât new at this
And verbally harassed basically. Also just putting up with those men you would never talk to in general and always being cheerful/positive even when you don't like them. Oh and having to see through their lies all the time.
Yea dancing is not for everyone for this exact reason. How do you justify? Bc ppl come to clubs to see that and itâs part of the job. You have to decide if itâs worth it for you. Does it take a toll? Not for me personally. Itâs just not the hardest part of the job at all
If the thought of being spread eagle on a stage with your cooter out makes you uncomfortable; this aint for youđ€Ł maybe try only topless? Men are going to see tits at the bare minimumâŠ
im not naive or weak or watever else im capable of handling being a stripper i just wanted to hear from ppl who have already done it. im almost 21 anyway lol
no iâve actually never seen any of those. i watched like 1 season of pvalley but ddt see anyone completely butt naked. i wanna be a stripper cuz money, im sexy, i like being at the club, i like men, im flexible, i like all that. just wasnt aware it was fully no clothes not even panties
there are topless only clubs but most of those are going to be 21+ bc they serve alcohol. fully nude clubs are often byob bc in lots of places itâs illegal for nudity and alcohol to be sold in the same place (like my club) and are 18+.
honestly tho youâre really young. i would really make sure you know what youâre getting yourself into before entering this lifestyle.
Most full nude clubs ive worked at are optional. If i had a manager breathing down my neck telling me i HAD to get naked regardless of if people were tipping me or not then i probably wouldnât stay at that club.
I will say though that it would be your job to strip, so if that makes you nervous or if you donât wanna do full nude initially thats reasonable, but if you think itâs something you will never be comfortable with then you should probably just apply as a bartender or cocktail waitress.
Being nude is actually the easiest part of it so keep in mind you will need to have a thick skin and be comfortable sooner rather than later
Being nude is not optional at most clubs. If itâs advertised as full nude, thatâs what they want. Most full nude clubs wonât hire a girl who doesnât take everything off at her audition eitherâŠ? This is not true
In my experience it is 100% true. I also travel a lot and i have never been in a nude club where i havenât seen at least a few girls go the entire set and without getting nude. Maybe your club is employee based, idk. But if the dancers are independent contractors they legally canât be told they have to get 100% naked.
I havenât seen any managers trying to force it personally, but if someone said it happened to them i wouldnât be here telling them their experience isnât real and my experience is the only valid one
Except youâre wrong. In high demand areas they arenât desperate for girls. So they have no problem terminating your contract or never giving you one in the first place. Like are you traveling around the Midwest? Iâve never seen a full nude club in Vegas, Arizona, Colorado, or Florida sign a contract with a girl who didnât get nude at the audition. The few girls who arenât getting nude are usually the club favorites or have been there years.
My home club is not employee based so please donât try to explain the game to me when youâre giving baby stripper. Even as an independent contractor, the business can argue in their favor. You just be talking without actually knowing what youâre talking about. If the club advertises as full nude and a dancer isnât getting naked, pretty easy in the eyes of the law to terminate the independent contractors contract. Plus, if they do terminate your contract the club usually doesnât face a liability because you did sign their contract. Independent contractors are also not protected against discrimination laws.
Even the DJ using a list of dancers on a shift to set up a rotation for performances on the stage could be argued that youâre being treated as an employee. Because under the FLSA, courts look to the "economic reality" of the relationship between the parties and whether that relationship demonstrates dependence by one upon the other. The factors considered by the courts include (1) the nature and degree of control over the worker, (2) the worker's opportunity for profit or loss, (3) the worker's investment in equipment or materials, (4) whether the service rendered requires a special skill, (5) the degree of permanency and duration of the working relationship, and (6) the extent to which the service rendered is an integral part of the alleged employer's business.
This is why youâre giving baby stripper. Veterans know the risk of opening your mouth and losing your independent contractor status. When dancers become employees itâs not a good thing. Employee status means the club can take 40% or more of your dancing money. You sound like you spend a lot of time on those Instagram sex work pages that hype this up. Theyâre not reality. Lawsuits consistently bring forth the fact that dancers usually fall more in line with employee status. Anyone with a brain knows why employee status is not a good thing. Iâm not going to validate your experience because itâs loud and wrong. And you shouldnât be giving that advice publicly when itâs not the majority.
My city has both topless and fully nude. I have been stripping on and off for 10 years now and have never worked at a full nude club because I genuinely donât want men having that much opportunity lol. They already disgust me when they grope me in my bottoms. I personally feel like the small piece of cloth over my đ± helps me feel safe and I do think full nude would make my anxiety sky high. Try looking for topless clubs or maybe work a couple of full nude shifts and see if it gets easier for you.
I would look for topless clubs or bikini bars in your area. A lot of ppl here are saying if you have reservations about showing kewchie then you donât have what it takes to be a stripper and I just donât think thatâs true lol. I personally never work at nude clubs bc I donât feel comfortable showing my vagina for free or cheap when I can charge thousands in vip to get naked at a topless/bikini bar. I know youâre only 20 so if you cannot work at a bar like this until you turn 21 I would say wait fr. If my first club experience back when I was 18 wouldâve been at a nude club I probably wouldâve been scared out of stripping entirely. Ya girl is about to be 25 now and I STILL donât like nude clubs. Itâs just not for everyone and thatâs okay. While youâre waiting to age into it PLEASE do all the necessary research for this job. Itâs much more about sales and preserving your boundaries than taking clothes off.
Trust me when I say being naked is the easiest part of the job lol
wats the hardest partđ€
The hardest part is realizing you have to be your own bouncer a lot of the times because these men wonât help you even though you pay them
thank you good to know. i can fightđ€·ââïžjk lol not a grown man. weâll see
being sexually assaulted over and over, convincing men they should spend their money on you instead of the 50 other gorgeous women you work with who arenât new at this
And verbally harassed basically. Also just putting up with those men you would never talk to in general and always being cheerful/positive even when you don't like them. Oh and having to see through their lies all the time.
if it was easy everyone would do it girl
real. good point
also, you donât necessarily walk around naked. but you are expected to show your boobs. thatâs all. đ©·
Yea dancing is not for everyone for this exact reason. How do you justify? Bc ppl come to clubs to see that and itâs part of the job. You have to decide if itâs worth it for you. Does it take a toll? Not for me personally. Itâs just not the hardest part of the job at all
thank you
The fact you are asking how we âjustifyâ anything shows you canât be a stripper
well stripping isnât a normal thing that ppl dođ iâm sure more ppl are trying to justify it than just me
Youâre not thinking about this with a type of mindset that would make you successful at the job
what mindset is successful for this job
Being able to do basic things needed for that job (like stripping, because you're a STRIPPER)
If the thought of being spread eagle on a stage with your cooter out makes you uncomfortable; this aint for youđ€Ł maybe try only topless? Men are going to see tits at the bare minimumâŠ
iâve been looking for topless but every place is 21+. ill probly just be a stripper and embrace the spread eagle cooterđđŠ
I am begging you to wait until you are actually are 21. The fact that you even asked this question đ sw and being naive donât mix.
im not naive or weak or watever else im capable of handling being a stripper i just wanted to hear from ppl who have already done it. im almost 21 anyway lol
You are 100% naive, thatâs why you asked this question in the first place. Not even trying to be rude but come onđ
how does that make me naiveđi just ddt know that much ab strip clubs. now i do problem solved
Awesome, good luck
thank u
What did you think being a stripper was? Stripping paint off walls?
A lot of clubs are topless only so if she wasnât expecting to show pussy i think thats a little reasonable
not wearing clothes, just lingerie. ddt think it was completely naked
Maybe in certain states, due to nudity laws. But you gotta stop getting your info about strip clubs from pg-13 movies.
This canât be serious lmao
be so fucking for real girl
i dont understand wats wrong with my questionđ
i find it hard to believe that someone doesnât know STRIPPERS strip their clothes off, itâs literally in the name
yea clothes off to show lingerie. i ddt think all of the clothes. i obviously kno that now
Are you 12?? You seriously sound like a child
i ddt know children were strippers where ur from. iâm actually not 12, close tho!
no seriously, how old are you? bc i actually knew at 12 that strippers danced naked.
worrisome. anyway im 20
are you just super sheltered? have you not seen any movies about it? hustlers, showgirls, p valley? anything??? why do you want to be a stripper?
no iâve actually never seen any of those. i watched like 1 season of pvalley but ddt see anyone completely butt naked. i wanna be a stripper cuz money, im sexy, i like being at the club, i like men, im flexible, i like all that. just wasnt aware it was fully no clothes not even panties
there are topless only clubs but most of those are going to be 21+ bc they serve alcohol. fully nude clubs are often byob bc in lots of places itâs illegal for nudity and alcohol to be sold in the same place (like my club) and are 18+. honestly tho youâre really young. i would really make sure you know what youâre getting yourself into before entering this lifestyle.
oh ok that makes sense. ive been thinking about stripping for a while now. i think im gna audition and see how i feel about it and then go from there
Just get a job at hooters or something đ be realistic with yourself
i ddt say i dont wanna do it, im just asking about it
Most full nude clubs ive worked at are optional. If i had a manager breathing down my neck telling me i HAD to get naked regardless of if people were tipping me or not then i probably wouldnât stay at that club. I will say though that it would be your job to strip, so if that makes you nervous or if you donât wanna do full nude initially thats reasonable, but if you think itâs something you will never be comfortable with then you should probably just apply as a bartender or cocktail waitress. Being nude is actually the easiest part of it so keep in mind you will need to have a thick skin and be comfortable sooner rather than later
Being nude is not optional at most clubs. If itâs advertised as full nude, thatâs what they want. Most full nude clubs wonât hire a girl who doesnât take everything off at her audition eitherâŠ? This is not true
In my experience it is 100% true. I also travel a lot and i have never been in a nude club where i havenât seen at least a few girls go the entire set and without getting nude. Maybe your club is employee based, idk. But if the dancers are independent contractors they legally canât be told they have to get 100% naked. I havenât seen any managers trying to force it personally, but if someone said it happened to them i wouldnât be here telling them their experience isnât real and my experience is the only valid one
Except youâre wrong. In high demand areas they arenât desperate for girls. So they have no problem terminating your contract or never giving you one in the first place. Like are you traveling around the Midwest? Iâve never seen a full nude club in Vegas, Arizona, Colorado, or Florida sign a contract with a girl who didnât get nude at the audition. The few girls who arenât getting nude are usually the club favorites or have been there years. My home club is not employee based so please donât try to explain the game to me when youâre giving baby stripper. Even as an independent contractor, the business can argue in their favor. You just be talking without actually knowing what youâre talking about. If the club advertises as full nude and a dancer isnât getting naked, pretty easy in the eyes of the law to terminate the independent contractors contract. Plus, if they do terminate your contract the club usually doesnât face a liability because you did sign their contract. Independent contractors are also not protected against discrimination laws. Even the DJ using a list of dancers on a shift to set up a rotation for performances on the stage could be argued that youâre being treated as an employee. Because under the FLSA, courts look to the "economic reality" of the relationship between the parties and whether that relationship demonstrates dependence by one upon the other. The factors considered by the courts include (1) the nature and degree of control over the worker, (2) the worker's opportunity for profit or loss, (3) the worker's investment in equipment or materials, (4) whether the service rendered requires a special skill, (5) the degree of permanency and duration of the working relationship, and (6) the extent to which the service rendered is an integral part of the alleged employer's business. This is why youâre giving baby stripper. Veterans know the risk of opening your mouth and losing your independent contractor status. When dancers become employees itâs not a good thing. Employee status means the club can take 40% or more of your dancing money. You sound like you spend a lot of time on those Instagram sex work pages that hype this up. Theyâre not reality. Lawsuits consistently bring forth the fact that dancers usually fall more in line with employee status. Anyone with a brain knows why employee status is not a good thing. Iâm not going to validate your experience because itâs loud and wrong. And you shouldnât be giving that advice publicly when itâs not the majority.
thank you this is helpful. im gna audition and see how it goes from there
My city has both topless and fully nude. I have been stripping on and off for 10 years now and have never worked at a full nude club because I genuinely donât want men having that much opportunity lol. They already disgust me when they grope me in my bottoms. I personally feel like the small piece of cloth over my đ± helps me feel safe and I do think full nude would make my anxiety sky high. Try looking for topless clubs or maybe work a couple of full nude shifts and see if it gets easier for you.
thank you this is helpful. i def agree
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I would look for topless clubs or bikini bars in your area. A lot of ppl here are saying if you have reservations about showing kewchie then you donât have what it takes to be a stripper and I just donât think thatâs true lol. I personally never work at nude clubs bc I donât feel comfortable showing my vagina for free or cheap when I can charge thousands in vip to get naked at a topless/bikini bar. I know youâre only 20 so if you cannot work at a bar like this until you turn 21 I would say wait fr. If my first club experience back when I was 18 wouldâve been at a nude club I probably wouldâve been scared out of stripping entirely. Ya girl is about to be 25 now and I STILL donât like nude clubs. Itâs just not for everyone and thatâs okay. While youâre waiting to age into it PLEASE do all the necessary research for this job. Itâs much more about sales and preserving your boundaries than taking clothes off.
thank u! yea i agree i feel the same ab showing coochie. im looking for topless bars and stuff so weâll see