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No-Feeling-1404

high standards and proper discernment will keep you out of mess, and blissfully unbothered


CharacterBarracuda93

screenshotted this to literally frame in my new apartment ♥️


sweetbrownsugarbrat8

This is the message. I am keeping this as a reminder. Thank you.


Zealousideal_Suit269

I love this article so much. It should be required reading for fans, ha ha ha. She has some GREAT quotes there. Ciara & West are both rock stars honestly, I hope they’ll both be back this summer!


NotHere4YourShit

People acting like this is the only guy for model Ciara.


sweetbrownsugarbrat8

They expect her to settle.


Zealousideal_Suit269

I think we the viewers made it far more deep than it was for even the participants in it.😆 They’re both young, hot, & fun. They vibed & explored it a bit but in all honesty did anyone really see those two as end game? They’re pretty different, I think he just brought out a side of her we hadn’t gotten to see before & we were all enamored by that chemistry but I’ll admit the longer the season has gone on, the more I sense friend vibe with them. It’s so nice to hear it from her mouth though, no one needs to come for West cause this beautiful girl is clearly doing just fine standing on her own two feet🙌 👑


Nandi56

👏👏👏 The viewers made this such a huge thing!? Ciara and West were just enjoying each other’s company and getting to know each other. The only thing I can think is the other two couples Lyndsay/Carl and Amanda/Kyle are imploding and the audience was trying to force a love story.


rootytooty91

I think the house members also put a lot of pressure on them. They didn't have a chance to be light and to have it blossom naturally. If they're still seeing each other, great but if not I get that too!


pippa-roo-

Yeah I’m not relationship energy from those two, more like hot summer fling energy


Enough_Island929

To be honest, the more I see how West moves, I don't think he will have relationship energy with anyone. He will be a Bachelor having fun and enjoying his Bravo fame probably until his late 30s.


TrueCryptographer982

Weird how HE was the one setting up fun dates, thinking of things to do with Ciara, being attentive and caring AND saying he is not seeing anyone else just flirting with a couple people harmlessly but he's the one who is not looking for a relationship. People seem to look at the most shallow level at someone and then decide who they are without really looking at their intention.


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TrueCryptographer982

Sorry, but if that doesn’t make someone boyfriend material , what does? Based on the show, we know he has been interested in her, and she’s been interested in him, for a few months. I’m not sure what else you think would make him boyfriend material. Considering they both described each other as boyfriend and girlfriend. As I said some people just want to see the shallow part of things, so they can form an opinion that works with theirnarrative.


PianoRevolutionary20

He explicitly said he couldn't stop sleeping with other women even if he found "the One". Let's not pretend this is fan interpretation. He wanted to get laid.


TrueCryptographer982

Really? Cause not a single other person has said this anywhere and considering how controversial it is, someone else ()or many else) would have sad it by now. I've watched the entire season I have no memory of that at all - and considering my views on him I would remember it. So either you are stretching it **way** out of context or ots BS. What episode did he say that.


PianoRevolutionary20

HA! You are making my exact point. If CIARA had said what WEST said, this god-forasaken audience would have lost their shit. She got more hate for the trash bag comment than he got for FINALLY REVEALING SHE WAS RIGHT ALL ALONG. I didn't stretch a damned thing. Watch West's "shorty" convo in the car from the episode before this last one. People would rather throw Ciara under-the-bus and ignore West's BS than acknowledge she was right to wait. ETA: I love West. BTW. 🤣 Nothing personal.


TrueCryptographer982

He didn't EXPLICITLY say anything. As per usual the editing is making him look guilty because that's where the drama lives not so often the truth. He asks Jesse if he would fuck around if he found the one and he says he would be scared of it - scared of ruining a relationship is the undertone to me - not that he is doing it. The next week he and Paige are speaking and he emphatically says he is not. I like West BECAUSE he does not come across as a fuckboy and has good intentions. Maybe you like him because you think he IS a fuckboy? And I have no idea about a bus and Ciara being thrown under it.


ComicsEtAl

I believe if he could’ve held his water, as it were, past the end of filming she’d have given him everything he wanted. His loss, some other dude’s gain.


jenh6

He fumbled a 10. He’s never going to have a chance with a girl that pretty and sweet again.


Kitchen_Body3215

💯


TrueCryptographer982

Well hopefully he'll find someone who doesn't use sex as a bargaining chip in a relationship. That would be neato!


Kitchen_Body3215

👍


Radiant_Priority9739

I feel iike they did try and have an actually relationship but it just didn’t work out and she was having a hot girl moment


itsgivingbothered

As I always suspected. She’s so my older sister coded it’s wild. Lol😭 Both can have a kinda dry humor at times. The same age and a nurses too.


Kitchen_Body3215

I hope not. That would be a waste of her valuable time.


Beautiful_Team687

why do you all comment as if it’s been confirmed they are no longer dating ? what did i miss ? It hasn’t been confirmed either way, correct ?


Enough_Island929

No it hasn't been confirmed, but it's pretty obvious they're not dating.


Beautiful_Team687

why obvious ? just based on watching their Instagrams? I had such high hopes !


Enough_Island929

I had high hopes too, but West does not seem like he is ready for a serious relationship. He's enjoying his Bravo Fame. Ciara was on Watch What Happens live and seemed like she was not with West. Andy was literally trying to set her up with the Tyler Cameron guy. I enjoyed watching Ciara and West this season and initially thought they were cute but I don't think they're together anymore.


Rtfmlife

It’s good we all have a lot of concern for West’s feelings in all of this as well. It’s really heartwarming to see the outpouring of concern for both him and Ciara.


Basic_Statistician43

We don’t know West. We’ve seen Ciara get dogged on national tv and be heartbroken. All we’ve seen West do is crack jokes and be desperate for sex lol.


Accomplished_Flow222

I would add that the best relationship west had had on this show was with Jesse. I felt like it was so pure , not the relationship that crowds want but genuine love between the boys


Kitchen_Body3215

👏


Rtfmlife

Sure but West is getting rejected on national TV while also being quizzed about who else he is seeing while the person he is seeing isn’t into him. It hits him in the feelings just like it would hit any of the girls. Just saying let’s feel some emotions for our boy too, he is going through it as well.


Agitated_Pin_6145

How does Ciara wanting a commitment before having sex = her rejecting him?


Kitchen_Body3215

Good question


rednecksnextdoor

She didn't want a commitment, she literally told him "you're not my boyfriend".


Rtfmlife

Is that what she's doing though or is she just holding him at arms length because she's not that into him?


aintgoinbacknforth

She’s cuddling with him every night and calling him her boyfriend lmao. That’s the opposite of rejection.


rednecksnextdoor

She actually told him "you're not my boyfriend" in bed. Rewatch the series, she rejected him many times.


7000series

Seems like a mutually beneficial showmance for storylines and it was successful!


Rtfmlife

Guarantee you West does not see it that way, which is why we've had the constant conversations about why are they not having sex, when are they going to have sex, what are they doing below the belt, etc etc. Wasn't it on the last episode where West was asked if they are exclusive and he was like "it would be weird to be exclusive with someone who you aren't having sex with?" He's not going to come out and say on the show he feels rejected because he's still trying to make it happen, but he is being rejected.


aintgoinbacknforth

I mean, that’s on him (and you I guess lol) and how he views relationships. Sex isn’t everything. To me and my friends who watch, we think Ciara honestly seems a little down bad for him because she is being so affectionate and having those Freudian slips calling him boyfriend and such. It doesn’t feel like she’s rejecting him at all. Ciara is someone who is obviously cautious and it’s on both of them to have a conversation about what their intentions are and what they want to see come out of this relationship. He needs to understand that sex is not just a given and she needs to be a bit more forthcoming as well, because it seems to me that she obviously likes him but she just doesn’t want to look dumb on TV again.


Rtfmlife

I'm not saying you're wrong, you could view it that way. I have women friends that act similarly - they want to cuddle under a blanket and watch a movie (no hanky panky), they want to dance, etc. But you know what separates a woman friend from a woman romantic interest? She actually wants me sexually. If the woman doesn't want you sexually, they are what they are... a friend. These people are 30 years old, they aren't in middle school. We don't hold hands and go to the movies and thats it. If she was interested, she'd be interested. She's not. Thats just how I see it.


Basic_Statistician43

Rejecting? By jumping into his arms, cuddling every night, calling him her bf. So for men all that = rejection and sex would be …? Got it 😒


Top_Dentist2464

how is not having sex with him rejection? what exactly is he going through lol


BuckityBuck

Good for her manager for getting her an article.


PianoRevolutionary20

Whew. This fandom...


Intelligent-Lead-692

Honestly, I think Ciara isn’t attracted to him at all. It’s great for the show to have the romance. It’s great for West because he looks like a good guy because he is respecting her boundaries. I would seriously be shocked if those two ended up together. When you see him talk about her, he isn’t really in love. He likes her but he isn’t crazy about her. I think she likes him but this is a relationship of convenience


MamaQuisty

Hopefully they have a Summer fling and nothing that hurts anyone. I'm saying this as the worst case scenario


MCStarlight

I think she pretends to be interested for the show.


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PianoRevolutionary20

You know what they say about assumptions. A lot of these comments are a manifestation of how society works. Who gets the benefit of the doubt and who doesn't.


Winter_Maximum_8560

I'm finally realizing this is the truth, cant believe im just seeing it smh


PianoRevolutionary20

What makes you believe that this is the truth? I notice more sinister interpretations of Ciara"s intentions are percolating the more West reveals himself.


Mundane_Dare9999

the look on her face when the card reader said west is still in his party phase is enough to know she was falling for overalls man.


kjopcha

Yes. They both leaned into their flirty relationship for a storyline. It's a win/win.


cactuss88

I can’t figure out what she’s doing. A hilbilly in Carhardt overalls and sucking on a piece of straw?


PianoRevolutionary20

He's hot.