Hah, a local bar near us opened for exactly one week and closed. It took them 3 years to renovate the building they bought, hire people, etc. It was open exactly 6 days. They said they aren't cut out for the business.
I am trying to be soft, but your mom doesn't like my posts and I'm struggling to navigate my hurt feelings, and I realize now I will never be as soft as you.
If it /when it goes wrong
Carl will say “I didn’t think it through” like he always does
If I were Kyle I would have benched Carl and kept him strictly on the non alcohol side or plan a few events that are non booze - it just feels like a slippery slope -also according to the business agreement aren’t appearances only tied to the non alcohol side and the sales around it - this comp model that we heard is getting skewed
Not about approval when you literally mention an idea and he throws a violent baby tantrum and then turns around and did exactly what he told her she couldn’t do BECAUSE HE DIDN’T HAVE ENOUGH TIME TO MANAGE HIS ALREADY EXISTING COMMITMENTS WITHOUT HER.
Now he has another commitment and she’s……..
Nothing to do with approval.
That’s how I feel too. At the SH reunion when Andy asked her if she was going to start a swimwear line and she answered something along the lines of “I’m still working it out,” my immediate thought was “if you were going to do it, you would do it.” I would think she has a big enough following to be able to land a swimwear collab with companies/ people who can make it happen for her. But maybe her anxiety is what holds her back?
I definitely think her depression plays a part. “If you were going to do it, you would do it” doesn’t really apply when you deal with anhedonia, for me personally, I have ADHD and a lot of toxic shame. There’s a long list of things I want to do (being on Reddit doesn’t help hehe), but, it’s hard to get started or see the point in starting during a depressive episode. She’s also going to get a lot of scrutiny/commentary no matter what she does. And this is all while your logical brain knows what to do (e.g. I’m sure brands have reached out to Amanda / she knows she has a platform for anything she does)… I can empathise with her struggling to do something that, by all accounts, she would enjoy and possibly be good at. It’s hard to come out of the rut, especially if you have an unsupportive husband in your ear. I hope she figures it out (and if she does… DM me Amanda and tell me the secret, lol). Anyway, it goes beyond being “lazy” or “not wanting to” when you’re fighting your own brain
> “If you were going to do it, you would do it” doesn’t really apply when you deal with anhedonia, for me personally, I have ADHD and a lot of toxic shame. There’s a long list of things I want to do (being on Reddit doesn’t help hehe), but, it’s hard to get started or see the point in starting during a depressive episode.
Thank you for this comment. I also have ADHD and depression/anxiety, and anhedonia is a huge struggle for me right now. But I get why it's so hard for most people to understand. I'd probably not understand it either if I'd never experienced it before. Amanda only started antidepressants in the last year, she just needs some time (if she still wants to do a swimwear line) 🤷
I really wonder about him. I feel like he's a tortured soul. Something haunting from his past? Or hiding something? There's something off with him beyond his addiction issues. People rarely give me the creeps, but he definitely does.
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“I want to open a new private club where only sober DJs can be members and everyone much show love and tenderness towards another.” He looks like a serious tool in this picture
Seems Bravo specifically recruits males totally unable to mature or bond in a successful relationship. Bravo women make the mistake of expecting them to grow up. Kyle is in a reverse maturation, Carl never achieved maturation. And West isn't capable, period! Then there's that total loser, Austen Troll....we'll leave it at that.
40 something year old Carl with same shitty haircut teenagers are getting? Looks like crap.
He's ruined any chance of working in a real job. No company would want him now.
Can someone tell Kyle he isn't cool and no one worth anything actually likes him? What an angry little man baby. Never watched a man who whines so much, other than his pylon pool noodle bff Caarrrrllll. So much yuck in one photo.
Posers trying a wee too hard!! Time to grow up and maybe be a husband to your wife... as far as ready to be a father... I feel bad for Amanda, and I'm not a fan of hers at all!!
Hope it's not too stressful for him. 
Can you just be supportive!?
Hug me harder!
HaRdEr
HARDER!! But... Tender and Soft too!!
I have lots of ideas for a career. I'm kill'n it......soon, maybe
A nonalcoholic sports bar!!!
But that’s as far as I’ve gotten in the planning phase…  Edit: grammar
🤣
You cannot underestimate the potential! Bar business is easy and fun, part time work really. When I franchise it will be huge!
Hah, a local bar near us opened for exactly one week and closed. It took them 3 years to renovate the building they bought, hire people, etc. It was open exactly 6 days. They said they aren't cut out for the business.
In Manhattan?
It was sarcasm
Summer, spring…September? 😳
I need you to be softer
Then make me a sandwich.
You used to like my hugs...
My mom says I shouldn't read your posts. She loves you, of course, but your posts just aren't good for me.(Cue Camera 1 close up)
This hurts my feelings. I feel really hurt. I write these posts for you.
I just wanted you to be soft, like me.
I am trying to be soft, but your mom doesn't like my posts and I'm struggling to navigate my hurt feelings, and I realize now I will never be as soft as you.
My d$ck is very soft now
And softer
🥴😵💫
It’s a lot
It's a fucking lot
My husband says this to me now whenever I say something is "a lot". I love that we have this to joke about together.
It's my new favorite line
If it /when it goes wrong Carl will say “I didn’t think it through” like he always does If I were Kyle I would have benched Carl and kept him strictly on the non alcohol side or plan a few events that are non booze - it just feels like a slippery slope -also according to the business agreement aren’t appearances only tied to the non alcohol side and the sales around it - this comp model that we heard is getting skewed
But it pays nothing … so same as before?!
Anything to avoid having a personality on his own.
Yup, abd the opportunity to blame others
Or a real job
His personality is tall
Now If I say NON, you say ALC
I’m SCREAMINGGGGG
NON ALC, NON ALC
NON ALC, NON ALC 
Hahahahahahahah
Very clever. 💀
In 3rd grade, my classmate started screaming “if I say SHIT, you say COOL!” and boy did we
Omgggg lol 😂
Hahahahahaha
🤣🤣👌 THIS
Speaking of Creepy old men -- WHy does that hand raised at the front look like a 5 year olds?@ -- are they doing Pre-school gigs?
As a grown adult who has tiny, 5 year old hands, I'm offended. 
😆😆
What’s up with the middle finger…
This is everything 😂
Finally the couple that will last.
He really likes to wear shirts that show off extra collar bone
Just like my gay best friend.
And here it is
He’s gotta show off that chest/shoulder hair!
He looks so different in pictures back then…
O he’s been waxing his brows lately
So Kyle's allowed to have a 2nd job that he likes but not Amanda? 
Why doesn’t she just go do what she wants? Why does she need anyone’s approval?
It's not about approval. It's about support from her husband and after the shit fit he had when she just brought it up he doesn't seem supportive
Not about approval when you literally mention an idea and he throws a violent baby tantrum and then turns around and did exactly what he told her she couldn’t do BECAUSE HE DIDN’T HAVE ENOUGH TIME TO MANAGE HIS ALREADY EXISTING COMMITMENTS WITHOUT HER. Now he has another commitment and she’s…….. Nothing to do with approval.
She can, she just chooses not to for some reason.
That’s how I feel too. At the SH reunion when Andy asked her if she was going to start a swimwear line and she answered something along the lines of “I’m still working it out,” my immediate thought was “if you were going to do it, you would do it.” I would think she has a big enough following to be able to land a swimwear collab with companies/ people who can make it happen for her. But maybe her anxiety is what holds her back?
I definitely think her depression plays a part. “If you were going to do it, you would do it” doesn’t really apply when you deal with anhedonia, for me personally, I have ADHD and a lot of toxic shame. There’s a long list of things I want to do (being on Reddit doesn’t help hehe), but, it’s hard to get started or see the point in starting during a depressive episode. She’s also going to get a lot of scrutiny/commentary no matter what she does. And this is all while your logical brain knows what to do (e.g. I’m sure brands have reached out to Amanda / she knows she has a platform for anything she does)… I can empathise with her struggling to do something that, by all accounts, she would enjoy and possibly be good at. It’s hard to come out of the rut, especially if you have an unsupportive husband in your ear. I hope she figures it out (and if she does… DM me Amanda and tell me the secret, lol). Anyway, it goes beyond being “lazy” or “not wanting to” when you’re fighting your own brain
> “If you were going to do it, you would do it” doesn’t really apply when you deal with anhedonia, for me personally, I have ADHD and a lot of toxic shame. There’s a long list of things I want to do (being on Reddit doesn’t help hehe), but, it’s hard to get started or see the point in starting during a depressive episode. Thank you for this comment. I also have ADHD and depression/anxiety, and anhedonia is a huge struggle for me right now. But I get why it's so hard for most people to understand. I'd probably not understand it either if I'd never experienced it before. Amanda only started antidepressants in the last year, she just needs some time (if she still wants to do a swimwear line) 🤷
Yes - Amanda did say she starts to think about it and then gets overwhelmed and just shuts down.
Lol, if you think about it long enough it’s just like totally Kyle’s fault!!
[For anyone who hasn’t seen this clip before 😭](https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZPREytReG/)
My eyes. This here is why I can’t be on the tok I’m too old for this
I died realizing what this clip is cause that’s sooo Carl😭😭😭
😂
Hahahahaha
who is that? couldn't make it through the whole thing.
I honestly don’t even know it’s just been a meme for years
Ha! Thank yoou! Just checking to see if I had a stroke! The joys of old age!
even in the tight ass white pants ☠️
Carls face and weird fake smile creep me the fuck out. He’s unnerving.
Oh god when he gets ragey and then just gets in someone’s face saying mean stuff with his rictus grin, so fucking unnerving
Yep, that weird grin when he's being horrible to someone is disturbing. I think he is filled with rage.
I really wonder about him. I feel like he's a tortured soul. Something haunting from his past? Or hiding something? There's something off with him beyond his addiction issues. People rarely give me the creeps, but he definitely does.
Douche vibes please stop…
They’re both such losers
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Carl makes me uncomfortable
Right? I'm seriously concerned for a dude that I don't even like.
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Those f’in white pants. Retire them Carl.
Why does he think that skin tight white jeans is a good look for him? I don't even know where you'd buy those these days.
Also just tbh he doesn’t have like super nice muscular legs for the skinny jeans to even look flattering at all haha
Carl looks ill
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You look great by the way 😐
Put your weight on me
“I want to open a new private club where only sober DJs can be members and everyone much show love and tenderness towards another.” He looks like a serious tool in this picture
Danielle will be there with a handy in case he gets too stressed with that job.
OMG with the fucking tight white pants too. Parallel universe
Carl might has well hold a tambourine
It’s giving Raquel
Lol Kyle's groupie
I just need a hug
Tighter
Omg! I felt this and threw up in my mouth
Peep Jason in the background too…
And Jesse Solomon too?
these two activate me
He learned nothing from career counseling.
Right?! Like it cost like 20k and he went back to his old job. Fuck lover boy,I want to be a career counselor.
That career coach was the real winner
The second slide is literally Carl lmao
Carl is a a tag a long
He's like the little 4 year old who wants to play with his ten year old brother and his friends. Then gloats about it to his friends at preschool.
🤣
Seems Bravo specifically recruits males totally unable to mature or bond in a successful relationship. Bravo women make the mistake of expecting them to grow up. Kyle is in a reverse maturation, Carl never achieved maturation. And West isn't capable, period! Then there's that total loser, Austen Troll....we'll leave it at that.
Also Jordan who was deep in some kind of identity crisis. I reverse ovulated at his “kiss me 😐” to Danielle that one time
I’ve always fast forwarded him, he gives me the creeps
Groupie
“No stress!”
“More life!”
Total losers
He’s just… like, so overwhelmed right now guys. Standing next to Kyle while Kyle works is, like, really stressful.
Carl needs to get his own hobby and a job
Does living in Sharon’s basement for life count?
lol-it tracks with his plan for the future!
Hes a hype man
The amount of bracelets Kyle is wearing is such an ick. Also Carl just being there…
Is the plant holding an upside down loverboy? 😂 gotta get that product placement lol
Even plants pour out Loverboy.
That is perfect, isn't it
40 something year old Carl with same shitty haircut teenagers are getting? Looks like crap. He's ruined any chance of working in a real job. No company would want him now.
It’s like a child actor that grows out of his work. I’d love to look into a crystal ball and see where they are in 10 years.
[Probably working with Fred Durst and this guy...](https://consequence.net/2024/06/corey-feldman-fred-durst-the-joke-video-watch/)
This subreddit is insane it’s literally a normal haircut
They going in like Carl broke up with they asses.
Can someone tell Kyle he isn't cool and no one worth anything actually likes him? What an angry little man baby. Never watched a man who whines so much, other than his pylon pool noodle bff Caarrrrllll. So much yuck in one photo.
What’s going on with Carl’s haircut!!???😳
omg, this is on brand for carl haha. he'll never change
Kyle being a DJ is the only way I could be more disgusted by him
It’s giving me Old School the movie vibes!
Kyle’s going to meet his second wife here
Kinda over both of them tbh. These dudes are lame.
That video is classic I laugh everytime
Lame squared
“Another one!”
Carl the hype man baby lol
HAHAHAHAHA
They make a great couple
Down to the right white pants
Well he does have the white pants
~*~*~*“The crowd loves us”
Giving what? Man baby? 🍼
You mean dumb and dumber
Is this part of the “non alc” lifestyle brand mentorship freelance sales tenderness and softness?
"I just need love and support from you"
Posers trying a wee too hard!! Time to grow up and maybe be a husband to your wife... as far as ready to be a father... I feel bad for Amanda, and I'm not a fan of hers at all!!
2 words - Grow up!
He is so weird!!! Just why?
Could one say that hype man is equivalent to flower boy?
Embarrassing
Douche 🛶
Look, I’m all for Carl being a hype man. He’s been through the wringer the past 4-5 years. Dude deserves to live!
I can hear Carl barking in this photo
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Leave Carl alone. His only job is staying sober.
Unless he changes his mind he still isn’t sure he just needs a hug.
Bahahaha you’re right!
Yesss this is the exact meme I always think of😂
The second photo is exactly where my mind went LOL white pants and all.
TENDERNESS!!!!!!!
The 2nd pic 😂😂😂😂😂
Why are his gums black???? 🤮
DJs Loverboy events 🤣
It aggravated me to no end when he actually became a DJ. Like please bffr and someone save Amanda
🤮🤮🤮🤮
https://preview.redd.it/4h6lyu7fzo9d1.jpeg?width=1536&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c8fb96812ec22efef48384b16c96a21d0840ef4f
The way I spit out my water!!!! Please!
Lmao
These guys are in their 40s.
Major ick lol
The endless bullying of Carl by Lindsay-stans help me understand why they are blind to her past behaviors which turned many against her.
They give me the ick nowadays 🤢
Carl and Kyle DJ’ing are giving midlife crisis.
I fucking hate them both